#don’t be rude

[crunchie-morris]

I saw a video of a bunch of people groaning every time they started singing in the new Mean Girls and like,,,,have y’all forgotten movie theater etiquette 😐.

#have you considered some people know it’s a musical and are excited for it #like no one’s gonna force you to like it but just walk out if you don’t want to watch it #don’t be rude #reeeeaaaaally hoping this doesn’t happen when I see it #mean girls #mean girls musical #mean girls 2024

[the-darkestminds]

Saying you don’t like Lucien and don’t want Elucien to happen because red heads are unattractive to you is so cold lmao why you gotta make it personal 😭💀

#red heads are people too #they deserve to be loved #they are beautiful #don’t be rude #Lucien #sarah j maas #sjm #acowar #acomaf #acotar #a court of wings and ruin #a court of mist and fury #a court of thorns and roses #lucien vanserra #pro lucien #I can think of a lot of beautiful red heads #Bryce #Gwyn #Eris #tharion #among others lol #a court of frost and starlight #a court of silver flames #elucien #pro elucien #Elain #Sansa

[coconutbabydoll]

ೀ- everytime (a.anderson)

pairing: abby anderson x fem!reader

warnings: idk ?? i don’t think there is any , please lmk if there is

summary: basically inspired by “everytime” by ari with a little changes, i recommend listening to this song before reading this if you haven’t already

a/n: first drabble or one shot!! i don’t really know what category it falls under, pleaseeeee be nice, i am working on my vocabulary and grammar also reblogs,like and comments are highly appreciated!!! enjoy :) also the ending is kinda rushed lol

you’re done with her, you swore you were done with her. you’ve been saying this forever and surely you finally felt like you meant it. you’re on and off relationship with abby was like an rollercoaster, just when you guys have been really good there was another argument. you’re needy and stubborn and you only want abby to yourself and to spend time with you only. you know that she’s a busy women with her basketball team and she can’t always suffice to your needs. you tried to plan small things to hangout with her like movie dates. she always said she would try to make it but she never did, you partly understood, but this time was the straw that broke the camels back.

a week ago was you and abby’s two year anniversary. this meant a lot to you, you could barely contain your excitement. you planned a dinner date at fancy restaurant that you’ve been on the waitlist for months. but of course you and abby had to get into another argument the night before your anniversary, and it was bad. it’s not like you guys broke up that night but she did end up leaving your house when she was supposed to stay for a week.

you woke up the morning of your anniversary expecting missed calls from abby, apology texts, and an a happy anniversary text but nothing, which was weird because she always apologizes after an argument (even thought it never her fault). you relaxed for the rest of the day until it hit 7:00 o clock. you put on makeup, curled your hair, and but on a sexy black dress, grabbed your purse and headed out.

9:27pm and you were still seated at your table on your third glass of champagne and had already order two appetizer. you swiveled your head to door everytime you heard it open, nope wasn’t her. maybe your read into this all wrong, maybe she broke up with you without actually breaking up with you during your argument last night, i mean she was pissed. she called you controlling. she is a busy women, she mention something about basketball practice today, but she said she’ll be here, it wasn’t an “i’ll try to,” she said she will! what did you expect , she didn’t even wish you an happy anniversary.

“can i get the check please?” you mumbled sheepishly to the waiter as she passed you by. you were embarrassed, this was embarrassing. getting up from your seat you contemplated texting her, calling her, cussing her out maybe? asking her what was her fucking problem. whatever, she obviously doesn’t want too speak to you if she missed out fucking anniversary.

a week since the anniversary has passed and you’re obviously not over her, you never went this long without talking to abby. all of your breakups with her never lasted longer than three days, and she was the one who always wanted to get back together. when your with your friends you tried to not show a change in you demeanor, but you couldn’t help it. abby brought out the best in you, she made you cheerful, tender, and amiable, you became a better person all around. but maybe you brought out the worst in abby, maybe she finally had enough and decided that she was done with you.

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it was like it was calling your name. the whole week was fulfilled with lonely nights, only acompanied with your second half full bottle of vodka. you leisurely walked over to your vanity desk and took big gulps finishing the rest of the bottle. familiar taste but it still burns.

*ringtone from your phone*

you walk over to your phone with the bottle of vodka it one hand. you squinted your eyes looking over the brightness of you screen.

*CRASH*

abby. what the fuck, why was she calling you? it’s been a week, did she miss you? maybe it was an accident, maybe she was calling to apologize, all these thoughts and your the sound of your ringtone ended. but then she texted you.

abby: come over, i miss you

you pondered whether you should reply or not, but your drunk self got the best you.

y/n: fucj you

abby: are you drunk ?

y/n: are you ???!?

abby: stay where you are , i’m coming to get you

y/n: you dpnt even hsve my location

abby: baby you still have your location on

you were drunk and you missed her but you didn’t want to give in that easy, so you left your phone in your apartment and started walking out the door. to where ? you don’t even know you just didn’t wanna see her.

you didn’t even make it two blocks until you abby’s car pulled up on you. “what are you doing? get in the car,” prompted abby as she slowed down the speed of the car so it could match the pace of your walking. “leave me alone!” you yelled words obviously slurred. “i’m sorry baby, i made a mistake.” you stopped walking - fuck, why is she like this, why does she make your stomach go all crazy with only five words? you hesitated but you got in the car. why does god keeping bringing you back to her, everytime?

#Spotify #abby anderson #ariana grande #every time #abby x fem!reader #abby x reader #abby the last of us #the last of us #kinda rushed i’m sorry #⋆ ˚｡⋆୨୧˚ 𝓶𝓲𝓪 𝔀𝓻𝓲𝓽𝓮𝓼 ˚୨୧⋆｡˚ ⋆ #what else do i tag #i wish i wrote more than this #i spent like 3 days on this #please don’t be mean to me #don’t be rude #sweetener

[vineboom-sfx]

Teeheehee I made moreee

AZ Cuphead (Pup) belongs to @skylarsolaris, BBAATZA Cuphead belongs to @mandyoka, and Perish Au Cuphead (Perish) belongs to @rafeblogcabpa / @satorace-main

Please note that I asked to use Perish and Pup in Cupboard of love, and that the au creators (Rafe and Skylar) are no longer continuing these aus. Please don’t ask them about continuing them, as it would be plain rude. I cannot speak for Mandy and the au she owns, but I’d prefer if no one were to bother her on the matter of bbaatza. Thank you.

#cuphead #babqftim #babqftim au #qftim #please don’t bother any of them ab this unless they make it clear they’re okay with it #don’t be rude #cupboard of love

[atths--twice]

your fic is very unrealistic

Yikes. That wasn’t very kind at all. You could very easily have said nothing, but instead you chose to be rude. Hmm.

Thankfully, your anonymous opinion means absolutely nothing to me. ✌🏼

#choose kindness #don’t be rude #keep scrolling next time

[blueicequeen19]

Just a friendly reminder that if you don’t like something, you can simply keep scrolling. No need to leave shitty comments and get yourself blocked. I don’t need the negativity 🫶

#I said what I said #don’t be rude #blueicequeen19

[wyrm-with-a-why]

Quintaton after someone assumes Kiloton is his carrier for the thirteenth time:

#transformers #megatron #Kiloton #maccadam #Kilotron #Kilomegs #mention mechpreg #ship child #Quintaton like #um my carrier is the grey one #he carried me for nine months and fourteen days #then almost died #don’t be rude

[periwinkleaxolotl]

Ashlyn thinking that her standing up for gay rights is the same thing as her fighting for the right for males to invade women’s single sex spaces and for children to be given hormones to permanently change their bodies is the saddest thing…. We’re seeing more and more that the TRA’s is a violent, women hating community who want to silence women and it’s got nothing to do with gay rights. Rather the opposite. She’s shooting herself in the foot. It’s misdirected goodness.

bestie this was from the human rights campaign event. HUMAN RIGHTS campaign. if you don’t believe that trans people (specifically trans CHILDREN) are human and deserve rights… i think that says more about you than anything.

advicating for women’s rights and advocating for trans rights/LGBTQ+ rights in general are not mutually exclusive. how could you think that ashlyn pushing to stop all the anti-LGBTQ+ (mostly anti-trans youth) bills is in any way shooting herself in the foot as a gay woman? it is CRUCIAL for any member of the LGBTQ+ to stand up for our trans siblings in this moment, just as trans people have stood up for marriage equality, etc.

just because something doesn’t directly benefit you, doesn’t mean you can’t advocate for it

please keep your transphobia off my blog thank you

#ask #don’t be rude

[sunandsstars]

I don’t like Spider just bc I don’t. It’s like with Ross from Friends, I just don’t like him. Not all people dislike Spider bc he’s white with dreads (which I have no problem with btw) I just don’t like him. Simple. And not everyone have to, so why are you making it a big deal?

damn 😟 you almost sound like you’re coming for me, chill the f out ANONYMOUS

i’m simply explaining my reasonings on why people should give spider another chance. i’m aloud to have an opinion no? and plus it’s a huge topic of conversation, i’m just adding my points

there’s nothing wrong with disliking a character, but if you don’t like a character solely for no reason then it’s a bit odd, surely there’s some reason WHY you hate them, is it the way they speak? the acting? the character arc?

That’s like me saying I shouldn’t like you just because 🤷🏻‍♀️. But that’s fucking stupid. If i have a reason to not like you then i won’t like you, but if there’s no solid reason then i’m neutral

#don’t be rude #spider socorro #avatar the way of water #atwow #just spreading my opinion

[imyourbratzdoll]

hello, so I think I managed to turn my comments off successfully unless you are someone I follow. I didn’t want to, but I continued to get “part 2’s” all the time, sometimes it was a little nicer, but this one pushed me over the edge and no matter how many nice people I have commenting (which I do apologise that you probably cannot do that, I still don’t know if they are turned off??) but this was rude. I won’t show the story or call out the person, but I do not get paid for writing, I am not entitled to give you part 2’s or even a fic to read in general. I do it for me, and I happen to gain others who enjoy it. Just because you like the fic, does not give you leeway to be an arsehole.

I don’t know when I’ll be able to post another story again as I have no clue where I have gone, but comments like these will only delay it further.

I have an idea for the fic in question. It won’t exactly be a part 2, but I also don’t have to write it if I don’t want to.

alright, have a good day/night.

#imyourbratzdollasks #don’t be rude

[hedonists]

of course, the two biggest offenders of manspreading sitting smack in the middle. Folio has given up on it and Ruffilo is just side eyeing the amount of space Noah is able to hog just by letting his legs fall open.

#nemesestext #ignore me #close your legs Sebastian #don’t be rude

[drowntowns]

am i the only one who thinks transmasc ≠ ftm and transfem ≠ mtf

(Look in the tags!)

#Trans #do not argue in comments #Do not argue #No rude comments #Don’t be rude

[cherryskeletoncake]

Ah women❤️

Someone said fem techno and Dream and I said yes thank you.

The first two pictures are office fem! dreamnoblade (the second picture is just techno daydreaming and simping)

The last is hulder (a type of Norwegian fay) techno in a bunad (traditional norwegian outfit)

#my art #fanart #dreamnoblade #female version #shiping art #don’t be rude #colored pencil

[coffeedrgn87]

I woke up this morning to several unread emails. Two of those emails were comments left on a story that I’d written back in 2018. Large chunks of it were written while holidaying in Europe (I lived in China at the time) and I learnt that typing a long fic on a plane will lead to very sore thumbs. I’d taken a 6+ year long hiatus from writing and fandom in general and that story was the first fanfic I’d written in over half a decade.

It’s a work I am mighty proud of and that I worked very hard on. I also had an incredibly patient beta for the fic who supported me every step of the way.

As a writer, I always get excited when I find a comment email in my inbox. No matter the length of the comment. It could be a single word, keyboard smashes, emojis. Anything. I feel the same about kudos. And I wager many if not all of my writer friends will agree with my statements in this paragraph.

Now, when the comment is in response to an older story of mine, I get extra excited because it means that a reader either took the time to look at my stories and pick one of that resonated with them based on the tags and the summary, or they received a recommendation. Either feeling is amazing, with the recommendation being just slightly more exciting.

When seeing an unread comment email notification from AO3 in my inbox, the last thing I will think about is hate. This morning, I was proven wrong. And without going into too much detail or revealing the reader’s identity, the comment contained all manner of accusations, including several personal attacks. It was offensive, not at all in line with DLDR (don’t like, don’t read), and quite frankly very upsetting. I (and perhaps a mistake of mine) engaged and respectfully shared my feelings on the matter.

I’m tired of people thinking hate like that is okay. I’m tired of people ignoring the fact that writers are real people with real feelings and real lives. I don’t get paid for my fanfic writing. I invest countless of hours of my time into writing, editing, and researching. I do it because it brings me joy. And when the result is a thoughtless, hurtful rant of something that’s so far removed from constructive criticism that it can only be called abusive, I get upset. Anyone would.

I will not stand for hate. Or unwanted opinions. Or abusive shrouded in “but it was just my thoughts about your story”. No it wasn’t. It was your choice to engage in a disrespectful and rude manner. And there is no excuse for that. I am (mostly) happy to accept constructive feedback but I do want to be asked first. I am a person with real life problems that I need to prioritise and I don’t always have the spoons to discuss the finer plot points of my stories. But I will generally engage if asked respectfully and with consideration for me as a real person.

This is me standing up for hate. This is me reclaiming my mental health by saying actions like these are not okay.

Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

Love,

CoffeeDragon ☕️🐉

#writing #commenting #constructive criticism #abuse #hate #stand up #say no to hate #DLDR #SALS #YKINMY #kinktomato #stand up for hate #no hate #no abuse #these comments are not okay #don’t be rude #got nothing nice to say? #say nothing then