#don’t do this to him or urself

[edalynn]

#toh #the owl house #toh shitpost #the owl house shitpost #toh hunter #hunter wittebane #toh gg #it’s not that I don’t LIKE the idea of hunter being in a relationship (obviously) nor do I see him as aroace but like #the story boarders make me nervous #Im sure Dana won’t do it like I trust Dana wholeheartedly I have ever ounce of faith in my body in her #especially since she never wanted to do romance rly in the first place #BUT I fear.jpeg #just don’t misunderstand the post please ppl lmao #bc I think everyone saying he shouldn’t be in a relationship because he’s too ‘traumatized’ are also fucked up in the head #the concept you can’t love someone else unless u love urself is royally borked but anyway- #it’s that I don’t want it to be for the purpose of healing him #also I don’t like any of the feasible possibilities for a ship in canon anyway 😔

[inkykeiji]

pours a lil mountain of cocaine onto my tongue then uses my tongue to rub it into dabi’s gums slow and hard and thorough <33 grinding the substance into his tissues and teeth until it’s entirely absorbed, consumed, seeping into the tangle of tiny capillaries and shooting through his blood, leaving his face tingling with little pinpricks of sweat and his pupils gaping with rapid exhilaration, veins cracking with white electricity <3

#okai okai okai now do me #i’m kidding literally everyone i know would kill me if i did coke #i am my father’s daughter. i know i am because when something stressful happens or i feel restless i think abt doing drugs #but tbh i would love to throw caution to the wind and get high with dabi JUST ONCE #JUST ONCEEEEEE #LIKE RLY FUCKED UP LMAO #i will never not push the headcanon that he’s a coke head i mean LOOK AT HIM #rae and i could write an encyclopedia on drug addict dabi but anyway #HAVE A GREAT FRIDAY EVERYONE <333 #don’t actuall do drugs!!!!! they’ll ruin ur life!!! #be kind to urself n drink water today! #clari chatters #inky.dabi

[bagelbucket]

bold take we aren’t ready for is that people think they’re trans just because they don’t align with society’s “ideal” gender roles when in fact it’s just their personality. or because of internalized biphobia.

#but we AINT ready for that conversation #you’ll say you don’t wanna wear dresses or paint ur nails once and oh damn you must be a transman #and not because of having a literal actual trans experience #<- not aligned with your !!biological!! gender #people will misread this but like. you can be a biological woman and call urself a girlie and use he/him pronouns I genuinely don’t care #literally I do not care what u do #but there is a thing in noticing!!! where kids or adults realize they don’t align with how the world views their gender #and people say they must be trans #or because they’re straight or gay but . Because they might be butch or flamboyant. they think they HAVE to be trans bc #god forbid they’re just a feminine man or androgynous woman or masculine woman or nb man or person or !!! #anyways. #gender is a spectrum along which anyone can reside #while also feeling in touch with biological gender #(biological gender = sex) #anyways. Hey #bagel talk time #queer discourse #ANOTHER BOLD TAKE: transgender doesn’t exist because GENDER is a spectrum of experience DIFFERENT from sex #you can’t be transGENDER because gender is already a fluid human experince #we’ve just…..put ‘man’ and ‘woman’ into boxes based on gender roles and expectations #you can be transexual tho because that’s literallyyyyy the entire thing. that’s what it is. #<- all said by a person who thought they were transexual because they were experiencing (and still do) behaviors and traits different from #what society expected and HUNDREDS of people told them they were trans #almost went on hormones and changed my body because I was convinced #and that wasn’t the case for me #I use he him they them pronouns because I’m comfortable with them and because I feel masculine and androgynous sometimes #is it apart of the ‘trans’ experience? sure yeah!! 100% #and not everyone feels that way of course. but like. I’m not actually trans. #I just experience fluxes in gender #I’ve had a trans experience through finding myself but I’m not gonna call myself trans because I haven’t changed my body

[pacificgasandelectric]

having some Thoughts N Feelings abt elrond & elros + the historical practice of rulers taking children from the families of their tributaries or even their (nominal) allies as hostages

primarily that (1) the Politics of the Fëanorions having the heirs of Fingolfin AND Thingol AND All Three of the Three Houses as their hostages is like… soooo overlooked and underutilized in the fanworks I’ve seen

and (2) i think it would be rlly funny and also fucked-up if most elves are Totally Scandalized And Horrified by this Weird Human Behavior of “hostage-taking” if/when they see it happening in the second & third ages as human settlements & societies in M-E grow & develop, while Elrond is just like, “this is Normal, what are you Talking about”

#mine #silm #like the story can’t Not be informed by that practice/history to some degree but it’s also a weird fucked-up edge case bc like #at the point when m&m have e&e it’s like. the Entirety of their close family is either dead or absent or absent and Presumably dead #so e&e are functioning less as incentive for their immediate family to act a certain way & more as an all-purpose deterrent #to aggression or retaliation against the fëanorians by any remaining sindarin or noldorin forces who take issue with all the Crimes. #anyways it’s Vital to me that elrond (and elros too) be a Little Bit Feral and have just the Slightest weirdness about him #in terms of his expectations for How Stuff Works—bc there’s no way he’s getting out of his Canonical Early Life w/out being a BIT fucked up #(elros is equally Weird ftr but the atani don’t care as much bc they’re more adaptable than elves and also elros is The Literal King #so there’s nobody of high enough rank to judge him overtly and also i think the numenoreans are like His Weirdness Is Our Weirdness #ALSO also i think early numenor should have a patronage/fosterage system within the nobility that isn’t Officially inspired by All That #but isn’t NOT inspired by it either. which is yet another thing that could come full circle and develop (back) into being #more traditional hostage-taking For Assurance Of Loyalty And Good Behavior as the years wear on and numenor gets corrupted. anyways) #for the record i fall in the middle on the hostage-taking reaction spectrum. i think it’s fucked up to a degree but i also Understand it #as a political tool and i think i’m more forgiving/accepting of it than ur average second- or third-age elf would be #so i think elrond’s blasé reaction (which i have made up) is like. indicative that he does still have some Issues in terms of like #conceptualizing personal relationships and family ones & recognizing that uh being removed from ur family and raised #by their political ‘enemies’ may in fact have Certain (Negative) Emotional Impacts on ppl. (possibly bc he doesn’t Want to think abt it) #(bc that would force him to do some certain Unplesant Introspection and life is hard enough for a half-elf without giving urself #further Emotional Damage by trying to unpack the Absolute Mess that was ur childhood and adolescence in the midst of an apocalypse) #but that’s neither here nor there and these tags are long enough already #oh wait i’m not done going back to (1) i know we all imagine maedhros being Fucked Up in the aftermath of the Nirnaeth + kinslayings BUT #do you genuinely want me to believe that maedhros—THEE political luminary of beleriand—was Not thinking abt The Politics #when maglor pulled these two fucking kids out of the wreckage of sirion and was like ‘i’ll be sad if we kill them :(‘ #imo it would have been IMPOSSIBLE to forget that they are the heirs of Absolutely Everyone and depending on his thoughts on the future #maedhros Must have had at least a couple of Plans for these kids ranging from ‘assure my people’s safety Whoever i have to kill for it’ to #‘protect two of the Extremely Few uncontroversial political leaders the elves have left & make sure theyre Competent for when they do lead’ #however Wrecked he was by It All i dont think that the politics part of his brain Ever turns off & it might have been kicking into overdriv #at that point in order to Not think about the Everything Else that was happening. ok NOW i’m done #sorry for tag rant it’s just that i have Thoughts and they are Correct but not organized enough to make it into the Actual Post

[starlooove]

Ok but Dana being like ‘you don’t get it you don’t get it you don’t get it’ and Jason can’t respond bc he DOES get it! And he reacted worse! Dana, if a bit irresponsible, is doing smth purely productive for her community. Despite her issues with her sister she’s not targeting her or being fueled purely by anger (eh..complicated but yknow) etc. Jason DOES get it and he doesn’t know how to approach Dana besides telling her to just relax bc for him he went 10000% and then hit rock bottom and THATS when he had to pause and step back. If he and dick had that convo when he was at HIS worse it would’ve ended in a fist fight at best. He gets what Dana’s going through but he doesn’t know how to approach her because she’s coping! She has her supportive loving community around her, there’s never a question of whether she’ll go to bat for her sister; unlike early RH Jason! He doesn’t know how to deal with her because she has that safety net and the worst part is that he knows she’s disregarding it to an extent bc she’s never been in that same position he’s been in; she can’t ever be because she’s good and he’s not and he needs her to keep that and if he has to hound her and be backup and the voice of reason; by god if he has to be the Batman to her red hood he will!

#guys can you tell I’m losing my mind #btw for everyone who forgot there’s a point in time where Jason was JUST villain #like his future was Gotham rogue not whatever the fuck he is now #that���s how u got ooc ass titans tower #but also shit I enjoy like him getting locked up and deciding to take every nigga out in that jail too 😭 #his beef with Dick was so unnecessary at that time like it came from NOTHING #anyways #i really like that jason is clearly seeing himself in Dana #but he doesn’t go to extreme measure not just bc she’s not going to methods as extreme #but bc he also knows what he would’ve wanted and hated #WHICH THATS SMTH I DIDNT MENTION #jason basically going ‘i hear u but please take care of urself’ is NOT what he would’ve wanted to hear #he would’ve wanted someone ten toes down behind him #and he’s kinda half providing that but what he knows he NEEDED in hindsight is that voice of reason and space to be comfortable and sad #and he HATES that he has to provide bc he knows exactly how it’s causing a tiny bubble of resentment or how it’s coming off as condescendin #he KNOWS it’s pissing her of but he KNOWS that’s the best he can do and what she needs #ugh u don’t get ittt #also the way jason exploded outwards in a way that intentionally hurt others #but Dana is running herself ragged and unintentionally hurting those closest to her in the process #smth smth white mens emotional expression vs how black women are allowed to express the very same emotions #but more like how they’re socialized to do so #but thats a diff story #guys I’m loving it #Dana Harlowe #IM COMING MY BABY <3 #and #jason Todd #too. ig. hi.

[lazyspeedy]

like i genuinely feel bad for women with shitty bfs but also, why r u airing (video recording) out ur dirty laundry for the world to see 🧍

#aka we should all know less abt each other 😭 #jfjdkek that fucking orange peel test or whatever #like ig sucks ur bf can’t do u a simple favor im sorry babe #but ig u don’t have intentions of leaving him whyyyy r u making a video to show us the world abt it ? #like couldn’t u complain to ur friends abt this 😭 #i don’t understand filming urself being neglected babe i don’t 😭 #bc those gfs then r defending their incompetent bfs in the comments #like i don’t understand the performance of it all #ohmygod and a few weeks ago #ppl were like #get urself a boy who will peel u a pomegranate ❤️ #sorry but pomegranate poetry imagery is for tumblr only okay bc y’all else made it corny im sorry 😭 #^^

[vcrnons]

the vernon mistreatment intervention letter i saw on twt this morning certainly is…………….. something

#shut up j #i cba to get into the nitty gritty of it but every day i grow closer to deactivating my twitter accounts i stg #do i think the companies give vernon his flowers even nearly enough? sure dont #do i think writing to whine about his ‘styling’ and how letting him grow his hair out long will help with his fan retention is — #on Any Planet — useful? equally no. personally. i do not? 😭💀 #don’t get me started on the pfw vlog. remember the member ur dealing with and ask urself if vernon front lines of the idgaf war is gonna #walk around vlogging his trip to a country he’s never been to before instead of actually just chilling and exploring a bit. come on now dpmo #anyway maybe i woke up anxious and grumpy today What About It #🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe it’s just me but I don’t feel like he’s a solo promotions / solo vlogging kinda guy. if we wanna riot about anything beg them t #stop making him wax his fucking legs maybe 😭😭😭😭😭 the thing he’s already said out loud he hates doing😭😭😭😭😭😭

[robbyykeene]

The writers, talking about the show: what robby did to miguel was a terrible, tragic accident with extremely severe consequences

The writers, writing the show: so it was……maybe an accident? Maybe on purpose? We don’t know and we don’t care LOL also robby doesn’t feel bad and the jury’s out on whether he even should! I mean it’s like, not even that big of a deal anyway right?

#ck negativity #like. im sorry what exactly is the audience impression supposed to be here #they are writing robby like a bit if a sociopath tbh accident or not smth like that SHOULD make you feel guilt #and yes even if miguel started the fight!!! even if miguel was literally the worst person on earth a normal human reaction would be to feel #guilt about kicking him over a railing #i just don’t UNDERSTAND what theyre going for here #bc they clearly do want us to root for robby too so like. i just dont GET it #what are they going for!!!!! #they had him feeling rmorse in s3 so are we supposed to believe that ck just hardwired his brain to be unable to feel any empathy??? #like. i just want to understand #hurwtiz explain urself

[unfried-mouth-wheat]

How long it took for Cain to stop biting anyone?

He was pretty good about not biting people unprompted after the first two weeks of training, but as for if you agitate or excite him too much… yeah he’s still a bit of a work in progress

#like you know how if you bug a well trained animal enough they will still bite? #same thing #like the mask helps keep him from doing it too much but uhhh he can very easily move it out of the way if he wants to #keep ur fingers to urself is what I’m saying #twin brothers! AU #tb! cain #the owl house #the owl house au #Don’t worry he doesn’t break skin too often

[aemiron-main]

me 🤝 mike

trying to make ourselves like girls

#ih and internalized transphobia has an unusually strong grip on me the past few days I’ll be normal soon #anyway working on my current analysis…. the butterfly imagery around Mike makes me INSANE #the duffers really said ‘we are going to show that Mike is trying to make himself like girls & that other people are trying to make him like #girls by paralleling it to some stuff in one of the most horrifying ways possible’ like they rlly. did that #cannot wait to elaborate on this in the analysis because……. now that I Know what the butterflies mean for Mike…… head in hands #LIKE THE DUFFERS JUST COULDNT HAVE DONE IT ANY OTHER WAY HUH??? like it makes sense and it’s lowkey brilliant but. Jesus Christ that’s dark #I’ll explain the full thing in the analysis so this probably doesn’t make sense without the contex but just like. damn #like yes 99% of the time I love being gay but also…. we rlly do live in society…. and then medical transitioning is stressful #like I’m doing it but like. time. money. fear of surgery yk #don’t mind me ranting but like. the ‘trying to make urself’ like girls thing with Mike hits me like a brick every time bc while I Know #lesbians do Not have it easy & im not saying they do but growing up I knew that with where I lived etc while being a lesbian would’ve been #looked down on compared to being straight it wouldn’t have been seen as nearly as ‘bad’ as being trans yk #like that’s just the case for my circumstances and just. even trying to force myself to be bi and feeling like I Had to be into girls bc no #guy would ever take me seriously as a guy and that dudes were supposed to be into girls and if I wasn’t then I was just actually a straight #woman/not queer at all and just. a whole fucking mess like seriously I spent so long Trying to be into girls both as a girl and as a guy

[cowboysmp3]

figuring out u cannot simply bully urself into not being scared of challenging things and actually u get more out of support urself and going omg yes that IS so so so scary but good thing we are also really brave and able to tackle scary things !!!! is earth shattering

#ik this is literally just repressing emotions vs allowing urself to experience them #but literally going OUGH SCARY!!! it’s okay though !! is so much more helpful #than going actually NOT scary simply don’t be scared #this comes to u from me who is staying in my older brothers home for the night #and we aren’t super close and i struggle to sleep over in other peoples homes #(no routine + scared of interrupting other ppls routine + no time to decompress) #and like actually YES it IS scary to reconnect with him and do this!!! #but i’m capable of tackling it!!! i’m brave and strong !!! #it may not go perfectly but literally all i can do is try my best

[hemipteran]

I call this one : “the great lizard dance”

#æ #alice’s adventures in wonderland #doodles #they drop david icke like crazy like damn chill out ur kind of spoiling it for urself #can’t rly be afraid of him bc u hate him if u also hate me for no reason #super funny #doesn’t make sense! #somethin isn’t addin up! #hehehe #here is my opinion on david icke : ahead of his time and illuminated #however I believe his constant sense of fear leads him astray with the basics #ie. i do not think the moon is hollowed out #and I wouldn’t portray them as other dimensional it makes them seem like gods #which they are not #the gods made them that way for a reason #omg which btw saw a comment today describing satan described as reptilian in genesis #LOL #like nooo my friend david . they don’t have superpowers #god put a big sign on em saying ‘WUHOH’ #so silly #I understand why he thinks that tho #hard to piece things out when ur scared #wonder why we all feel so scared #so weird #just bizarre #anywho my lovely lizard men : I think you can de skinwalker yourselves if you rly put ur heart into it #or don’t #if u like the lizard suit u can enjoy the lizard suit idk #*bigshrug*

[willowfey]

ignore this i just wanna ramble in the tags for a sec i’ll probably delete it in a bit 🤪

#did an escape room with the fam on my sister’s birthday two days ago and my brother made me feel stupid the entire time #wouldn’t listen to me wouldn’t share or let me help and then act like i wasn’t helping (??? let me then) #and because he’s Loud my whole family was following his lead and ignoring me #but in the end i was the reason we won bc i was the only one who immediately understood the word riddles AND the one who wrote down #all the numbers he said we wouldn’t need. i was the only one who could connect the past information with the current problem #the only one who listened fully to the cd and decided to write down the locations without it being relevant yet #the only one who thought the tiny details might be relevant and the only one who automatically fixed his mistakes bc i noticed a pattern #and in the end still got no credit for anything (except from my mom) even tho if they had listened to me from the beginning they would’ve #been less stressed and finished sooner #then at the restaurant he didn’t listen to me again and we ordered too much even tho i told him we wouldn’t need it #THEN after dinner my grandma started texting me all frustrated telling me i need to keep my aunt updated on what’s happening thru the day #so she doesn’t feel left out. bc she’s having a rough time lately. bc it’s my job to make everyone feel better #FIRST of all this woman ignored me for years when her ex husband decided i wasn’t worth it #and now suddenly it’s my job to keep u informed on my every move so u don’t feel left out?? text me urself. ask what i’m doing. #ask HOW i’m doing??? do u even care beyond a ‘what colour is your sturdiness today namaste’ #every time my aunt complains about the tiniest thing and starts crying about it it my grandma blames everyone else #no one even knows or cares if i’m having a rough time #she came to ‘help’ when my mom was sick and i did everything for her instead. and then she threw a fit when i wouldn’t eat her salad #when i was too exhausted from staying up all night with my mother to go on a run with her the next day #my mom finally got mad at her for implying i’m lazy all the time and told her i’m ‘neurodiverse’ and do things my own way and she didn’t #even know what that meant so my mom was like ‘on the spectrum ‘ and my aunt just got mad that she had never told her #would it have made a difference at all? would u have expected different from me? #meanwhile i’ve done so much for my cousin… including taking care of luca the entire time she stayed with us. i had him all the time #i didn’t mind. i love that kid more than anything. but everyone expects everything from me like it’s just a given #i talked her through every problem every breakdown walked on eggshells to keep her happy and then what does she do when she leaves? #ignores me. doesn’t come back when she said she would. complains that i don’t include her in things #bc sometimes i have quiet conversations with my sister so i don’t bother everyone #and then gg wants to know why i won’t come see her? why i won’t drop everything to fly there? my aunt wants to know why i don’t call? #because despite loving me u have made me feel inadequate my whole life. some of u more than others #and i’m tired. and it’s time for me to Be me For me without justifying it to everyone else.

[oceanatydes]

oh my lord y’all are such haters if u don’t like Jungwoo stop whining about it no one wants to hear your opinion

#I love him and I’m excited to see what they do #also u don’t like jungwoo and u call urself an nctzen? I have to laugh lmao #jungwoo #jaehyun #doyoung #nct #dojaejung

[6ebe]

had an entire mental breakdown during a piece on a rowing machine today and I kept thinking wow I’m rly having a Charles leclerc moment rn 😭

#if I see anyone calling him a bottler again I will be asking them for their athletic credentials #and if they have none then they need to shut up 🤨 #like I feel this way abt sooo many differnt things and fan criticisms ig bc of my own experience even it I’m a yknow . #student athlete with high aspirations but obvs nothing abt national level #like being an athlete who takes urself seriously.. currently rowing is the thing in my life that’s taking up the most time and even #well whatever but it’s just so frustrating seeing people online who clearly have zero idea abt what it takes #talking shit abt mentality or whatever else like. I’m sorry but you don’t get it #one second of overthinking during a race (or for me also erg pieces) drastically messes up your rhythm and your pace and can very easily #lead to (in my case) issues like crabs which can completely destroy your race or yknow crashes #addendum overthinking as well completely takes you out of the mindset. the second you loose that you’re fucked and it’s so hard to get back #and then so so easy to spiral bc it’s a reallt fragile mentality you force yourself into ! you just don’t get it ! #like it just makes me mad I know people are getting paid but that only makes the stakes and stress higher lol #i probably make no sense but like things are just frustrating me atm and I’m seeing too much of myself #in some of these people + seeing too much criticism online if things I as an athlete struggle with #bc we all do..