Men always talk about us being "gold diggers" for only wanting to settle with someone who is financially stable and can afford to live comfortably and yet, why aren't we using the same term for them? They're the ones who look for women to do tons of free EMOTIONAL & PHYSICAL labor for them.
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Just a reminder that you can be one person's "I don't know what I want." and another's "I knew as soon as we met."
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Some of y'all are really settling for less than the bare minimum, not even the bare minimum. Damn. Eventually you gotta be like what am I even doing? And LEAVE!
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"Good morning, today is a new day.. one of unlimited possibilities, so don't sell yourself short."
You can do anything that you set your mind to, you just have to make up your mind, and then do it - eUë
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Does mod have any suggestions for online or dating through an app?
It's quite simple! And it allows anyone to filter to a volume of candidates quickly! Don't just consider this for dating, it's a great way to filter the huge number of potential friends online too! I've found many of my internet friends by adhering to this method! And I know they are here for the long haul!
The initial criteria to determine is in messages. If after 90 messages you are still unsure or don't get the right vibes, move on to the next candidate.
The secondary criteria is on the first date (or shared activity). If after 90 minutes you are still unsure or don't get the right vibes, move on to the next candidate.
The third criteria is after you start dating (or regularly hang out as friends). If after 90 days you are still unsure or don't get the right vibes, move on to the next candidate.
I would say this holds true in 90 percent of all scenarios. Trust how you feel. Be sure to be honest with yourself, and ask how the other person is feeling too! You both need to like each other for any of this to work! If it's one sided, move on to the next candidate! It's not going to get better past any of these 90s because people tend to stop being on their best behavior and they get comfortable!
Thanks for joining me on my TED talk.
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