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If you have time, can you make a post about which kinds of groups you think a person should join?

Three things: Find groups for interests you have. Do your research. Take the first step

If you live in a patriotic country, your first hobbies should be your national sport, playing your national instrument and whatever other things that are national. People eat that right up. A lot of the people who have been rich for a very long time really value traditions, so you want to be able to have that advantage. I do believe that even if you are not patriotic it is still important to know the ins and outs of your culture. Learn about your history, the arts and the land of where you live. Find out if your museums and galleries have memberships or clubs that you have be part of. This is one of the ways to get invited to the galas and dinner, galleries host. If you have extra money, becoming a patron of your theatres is also a really great way to meet people. Art of all forms is highly respected in the upper society. I would really think about picking up something artistic.

Joining a sports club is a great way of keeping healthy and making those connections. If you are in uni or college (especially a Russel Group one), join a sports club.  The sports I recommend for people in the UK is hockey, tennis, golf, cricket, lacrosse, and rowing. It doesn’t exclusively have to be this, do your own research into what is happening is popular among the rich of your city and sign up.  You have to do your own research. This is so important. Google your city, search what kind of money crowd you have, create your own city guide. I am in the process of making a guide for my home city and I wish I had done it sooner.

However, it is important to stay true to your own likes and dislikes. It is so boring when you force yourself to do something you don’t want to do or try to fit in that way. People are very good at sussing out whether you are a fraud or not and once they do, they are not fond of second chances. You want to make sure that you are having fun in your journey and life in general. One of my tips is whatever you do, do it in the nicer part of the city. The chances of you meeting the ‘correct’ people is dependent on whether if you are in the right place. Let’s be honest, are your trust fund babies going to be hanging out for longer than to make their tiktoks in the shady part of town? No. You have to be prepared to travel and put effort in if you want to get what you want. That pottery class filled with potential benefactors, future bridesmaids and future in laws will an extra 3-6 miles away, do it.  The thing I have noticed about rich people is that they value the word of mouth. Once you start mingling and integrating with their people , word gets around and suddenly your now invited to things you didn’t even happened.

I feel like a lot of people who will read this won’t even take the first step. You need to get out and make yourself known. Like I said once you start appearing more in society, you will find it much easier to be noticed. I have horrible anxiety and I look like a pirate walking the plank in a cartoon whenever I am around new people but you just have to do it. Arm yourself with your coping mechnisms and starting expanding your comfort zone. 

Much love,

Daphne xox

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