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kana-go · 7 months

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The illustration is made for the fanfic Немного о социализации собак by nebezkota (AO3)

#fanart #major grom #мгчд #igor grom #oleg volkov #sergey razumovsky #dima dubin #shapeshifter #samoyeds #kana go art

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mikeywayarchive · 9 months

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michaeldubin: A few days at SDCC

[Jul 22, 2023]

#mikey way #michael dubin #ig #2023 #jul 2023 #7/22/23 #7/20/23 #san diego #sdcc #sdcc 2023 #photo #originals

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gatheringbones · 5 months

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[“In addition to the gender imbalance of societal perceptions of anger, dads partnered to women also need to consider that because they are not usually the primary parent, the cultural expectations for them are drastically lower than they are for mothers.

Motherhood is touted as the top of the mountain for women, “the best job in the world.” With that kind of pressure to not only become mothers, but to love it and do it right (or at least perform the role of happy, perfect mom to continue the scam of Motherhood), raging at our families feels like the ultimate taboo. It is the opposite of what we were taught mothers are supposed to be like. Raging is not gentle, not kind, not nurturing, not affectionate, and not supportive. In essence, raging is anti-Mother. But raging is not anti-father. In Western culture, fathers get to be anything they want. They can be kind or domineering (or both!) because fathers aren’t wholly defined by their fatherhood. It is not considered their highest calling. Fatherhood is a side gig. Dads are not in the midst of the greatest identity battle of their lives, disoriented and flailing as they become new selves. Fathers get to stay who they are when they have kids, whereas moms are just Mother.

So, if raging is anti-Mother, and Mother is all we are, then all we are is bad.

Under the patriarchal institution of motherhood, all the visible and invisible labor mothers do (picking the kids up from school, meal planning, researching summer camps, scheduling the dad’s next colonoscopy) is in service to the interests of men. Each one is a tiny gift of freedom the mother grants the father. Because she has done the labor, he doesn’t have to. While fathers may have their own laundry lists of personal gripes, their entire lives have not been usurped to serve the interests of women. If dads could take in these nuances, and understand that mom rage is an experience rooted in misogyny and the disempowering gender dynamics of patriarchy, they would see that mom rage is much more complicated than moms getting “too mad.” And, hopefully, this understanding can expand dads’ compassion for the mothers they love, minimizing the distance between them. A father who gets it might even reach for the mother’s spinning body, pull her from the shame spiral, and rock her gently, his body a safe mother place.”]

minna dubin, from mom rage: the everyday crisis of modern motherhood, 2023

#minna dubin #bi literature #brainspace #currently reading

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killthefuhkinglights · 11 months

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screenshots from the test live stream just now with michael dubin

looks like there’s gonna be a livestream tomorrow, so keep your eyes peeled!

#frank iero #mcr #my chemical romance #ls dunes #michael dubin

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current-mcr-news · 2 years

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instagram story by michaeldubin

[Sep 20, 2022]

#michael dubin #my chemical romance #prudential center #mcr newark

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meri-l · 23 days

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A new poster for "Major Grom: The Game"

#major grom #major thunder #igor grom #tikhon zhiznevsky #sergei razumovsky #sergei goroshko #sergey razumovsky #sergey goroshko #fedor prokopenko #julia pchelkina #lubov aksenova #yulia pchelkina #dmitry dubin #alexander siteikin #august van der holt #matvei lukov

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tyforthevnm · 1 year

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michaeldubin: 4.9.23

[April 11, 2023]

#frank iero #anthony green #tim payne #tucker rule #travis stever #ls dunes #lsdunes1720 #rica.archive #april 11 2023 #april 2023 #2023 #frank's tongue #jean jacket #michael dubin #cherry and lily's haircut

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jjanguri · 11 months

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cutie 2binz at kcon ♡~

ft. gyuvin teasing hanbin ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶

#zb1edit #zb1net #zb1work #kpopccc #kpopco #zb1 #zerobaseone #mine: gifs #my dubins theyre soooo cute and sweet #every day i think about the person who tweeted #'hanbin is to gyuvin as gyuvin is to yujin'#and i cry cos its true #my binniiiieeeessss #sung hanbin #hanbin #gyuvin #kim gyuvin

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franthonyofficial · 11 months

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#oh come ONNNNNNNN N #this is so cute #anthony green #tucker rule #ls dunes #ag #tucker #from dubin’s ig story btw

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ag-updates-and-archives · 21 days

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michaeldubin Anthony Green - “Numb, But I Still Feel It” (Title Fight) - 4.2.24

posted april 3, 2024

#anthony green #michael dubin #pics just dropped #boom. done. tour

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mikeywayarchive · 9 months

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Instagram story by michaeldubin

[Jul 20, 2023]

#mikey way #michael dubin #ig #ig story #2023 #jul 2023 #7/20/23 #san diego #sdcc #sdcc 2023 #photo #originals

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gatheringbones · 5 months

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[“It can be difficult for people raised as girls to express rage when we’ve been taught from very early on that it is in our best interest to suppress our anger. It is culturally acceptable for women to be sad, not angry. In one study on gender, anger, and the workplace, the participants conferred higher status to sad female employees than to angry ones. For men the opposite was true. Men, particularly white men, are rewarded and forgiven for their anger, while women are penalized and blamed.

Ceci, the mestiza paralegal, now lives in Los Angeles with her husband, five-year-old son, and twenty-two-year-old stepdaughter. She described herself using the exact language of a woman who was taught by the culture not to value or express her anger: “I’m a people pleaser. I don’t rock the boat. I go along with everything, do what people tell me.” This is the path of being a good girl, a good woman, and eventually a good mother. Lifelong gendered learning teaches people raised to be women to push down anger and any feelings in the “sub-anger” ballpark, such as annoyance, irritation, and frustration. I imagine this emotional push-down like the carnival game whack-a-mole. Each time an uncomfortable or unpleasant anger-related feeling pops up—whack!—women automatically bang it with a big-headed mallet, sending it back beneath the surface.

Like the rage itself, this game of anger whack-a-mole is an international phenomenon for women. In Korea, there is a culture-related anger syndrome called hwa-byung. It translates literally to “illness of fire” and mostly affects working-class middle-aged housewives, who have chronically suppressed anger stemming from strict gender roles, gender-based inequality, and patriarchal family structures. In traditional Latin American folk medicine, it is believed that holding onto certain emotions can cause physical illness. In Northeast Brazil, the term engolir sapos translates to “swallowing frogs,” and is mostly used by women to refer to the suppression of anger and irritation, and the pressure to tolerate unfair treatment without complaint.

Cheryl, the Black civil rights lawyer who internalizes her mom rage, is practiced at playing whack-a-mole with her anger: “I’m good at repressing things. So, a little problem, I repress it, and it gets packed on top of all the other things that make me mad, until there’s no way to untangle it. It’s just this huge tangle of anger that I’m trying to disassociate from all the time.” In our present-day culture of busy, intensive motherhood, stuffing down unpleasant emotions can be a matter of practicality. Minutes are a precious resource, and airing every frustration is a time expense that modern mothers cannot afford. Emails must be sent, dinner needs to get into bellies, and bodies need to snuggle under covers. But the perceived time-saver of the Emotional Whack-a-Mole phase is a mirage. Every time a mom suppresses her angry feelings, as she’s been taught to do her entire life, she is pushing them onto an ever-growing pile of anger inside her. Eventually, the pile will topple.”]

minna dubin, from mom rage: the everyday crisis of modern motherhood, 2023

#minna dubin #bi literature #gender stuff #currently reading #brainspace

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lsdunesarchive · 8 months

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