#emotionally abusive

[mrsvoldemort]

I am so incredibly jealous when I see kids who grew up in happy and safe households, I grew up cowering in small spaces because I was scared my Father would hit me. Became a feminist because I could never imagine hating women like my mother. Made me realise how all your pick me behaviour would still never make them see you as their equal, so it would be better to never try. I would rather live my life alone than try to live it with a man like my father and surrounded by women like my mother. I don’t have it in me to be abused more than this. It’s not like the trauma of being called an ‘idiot’ or ‘shit’ or ‘characterless’ ever goes away. Neither does the fact that you grew up with so little love, and that too conditional, that you’ve never seen yourself as worthy. Of anything. You’ve never been hugged when you’ve made a mistake. You have never been calmed down after a traumatic event. You have never been seen as an individual with autonomy. You have never been hugged or kissed.

#mothers and daughters #mothers #daughters #fathers #daddy issues #mommy issues #abusive households #desi #emotionally abusive #verbally abusive #abuse #conditional love #physical affection #loneliness #alienation #yearning #yearning for love #elder daughter #elder desi daughter

[turtwig387]

I asked my mom 3 times yesterday (nicely) to put my laundry in the dryer yesterday and she said she would

She didn't wash it until today (annoying bc one of the things is my wrist brace and I wanted it back way before now because I'm in a lot of pain) and then hung everything on the line outside

And I said to her it's on the line but I asked you to put it in the dryer (thinking she forgot)

And she's like well there's no need to run the dryer because we have the lord's light

WHY DO WE HAVE A DRYER WE AREN'T ALLOWED TO USE

AND WHY DID SHE ALREADY TELL ME SHE WOULD THEN

And this seems petty I know, and I'm wondering myself why I'm so upset, like I literally want to break down in tears because she put my laundry on the line

(Side note, I'm disabled and the washer and dryer are downstairs so it's harder though not impossible for me to have done the laundry myself)

But. Yesterday she was a bitch for a good part of the day and she even went out of her way to say rude stuff about me several times (and she even called me a bitch yesterday lol)

And today my dad started on me this morning which ruined my mood for a WHILE

So sometimes it's not about the laundry

Sometimes it's just everything and the laundry was just too much

#emotional abuse #emotionally abusive #painful writer #my post

[spokenmind93]

Hey #rickandmorty fandom, you should know what you have in your midst. The person I'm mentioning in these tweets has been chased out of multiple fandoms for VERY good reasons.  - Har*ssment - Stealing - Fraudulency - Driving people to kys - Danger to minors

On tumblr he goes by @daintylop 

#rick and morty #rickandmorty #emotionally abusive #call out post #warning #block and report

[blake-is-probably-confused]

No you are not “doing well and forgetting about your ex,” you are looking at their tumblr and crying yourself to sleep every night because of it.

#Guys #like #stop- #“oh yeah I unfollowed them” #Great great #do you still stalk their tumblr??? #Yeah #that’s what i thought #Relationship #ex #ex partner #trauma #Abusive relationship #emotionally abusive #Chill okay? #Chill

[hi-imkaiya]

it’s the part where i have to let my older brother leave this house... like ive never been away from him in an environment like this... it becomes scary ya know... knowing that ill become the center of attention that she can nitpick on... in the end i know it’s for the best, so that he can start a life away from her, i just have to hold on three more years...

#toxic parents #mentally abusive parents #emotionally abusive #emotional abuse #mental abuse #borderline mother

[lostxbrokenxheart]

“You’ll always have a place here…but it will never be comfortable.”

-my parents

#depressed #broken #emotionally abusive #abusive parents #alone #empty

[the-mumbo]

Anyone have a mom who is just so blatantly in mature. They throw fits like a toddler, hurl insults instead of trying to fix problems, act like a victim (even though they have been emotional abusive your whole life), scream how you think their a bad mother(you’ve never insinuated that), cry that no one appreciates her and she “can’t do it anymore”, refuse to use your name or pronouns, get drunk every night and deny it, lie to school officials, think they know everything, and have to boundaries. That’s my life. My mother is not a mother, she is a toddler in the body of a 57 year old. Today I woke up puking with a fever, when I refused to get up and clean the floor for her. She started screaming for over an hour how I’m a “selfish bitch, little bitch, an asshole, she Dosent deserve this treatment, I have an attitude” also she claims she will cut me off. I’m a minor who cleans your whole class and Dosent get allowance, I’m not allowed to leave the house for anything besides school what are you city me off from? As for help there is none, people in the family don’t see her for what she is. I have never said she is a bad mother, but truly she is.

#emotionally abusive #bad parenting #bad mothers #abusive parents

[minecraft-fanfiction-house]

I have grabbed 3 random blocks to introduce myself with.

(TW Burn Wound, Cannibalism and Disease, Emotionally Abusive)

Ocs Based of Prompts and daydreams i already had in my head, that ended up fitting the generated blocks (Podzel was one where i just added the ideas that were in my saved pintrest box and instagrammed favirites. Like their parents and sweater dirtied by moss.)

You probably arnt able to read my handwriting. Yeah i couldve typed... and i shouldve, i really shouldve.

My rambling of information i will give is uneven as sand!

BeeKeeperer 'As much as merchant jobs are looked down upon, honey endeavours of illagers who want to keep bees and keep flowers are the exception... ' This profession among illager units is a lot more diverse when it comes to bees. As an example with BeeKeeperer housing Vulture bees to make honey jerky with cow blood. But never pigs blood! as cannibls use it as a substitute, seeing it as a bad omen and a path to unrighteousness. {Country unnamed but they live in an active political fued only personal to the council.} Their was an incident that happend during a winter storm, far less worse but destructive in flinging a whole tree- so yeah, less worse. Shattered glass and the rose dyed snow. Attracting a villager nearby, whos from the path of fox traps, {Whoever put those their}... They were pretty terrafied, and were so scared of being seen by the eyes of a cannibal from noted interviews of another more cooperative cannibalism of Pirana Village 'They love the nickname so much they kept it?' Which hat Illager, dragging a drunken BeeKeeperer. Turns out Ravager's blood has a lot more of a kick once they ingust alchol, or duchess can make alchol in her system like their Raveger {Illager Caretaker}

Plaguetor 'Their is a plauge in parts of villages and patrol unit's along with wild patrols. One may worry its of cannibles disease for it to have spread this long. It is slow, and theirs a pityful end to the animals' Their Faith is that of Elements and health. The sacredness of the elements of fire, air, water and earth. They help with burial practice and did research on the scavanger animals given to them from their diety's blessing on a marking on one of the vulture eggs. With omens of a sickness spreading among deer witn odd behaviours of canniblsm. The Silent Tower is... silent(Ill expand more on this another day)

… Jobless Teen {Vigliger} "Oh your parents are an illager and villager," "Yup" "Aww forbidden love"... "...Sure" 'An Arranged marriage that both of their parents agreed to instead of them.' Considering how cats can see our stripes and how podzel is grazingly burnt. i meshed those two into the skin. They do look a lot like their father, and their skinn shows their moms invisible stripe color pattern. I found this to be a cool idea when podzel was generated to me. Along with the metaphors ^^ I love the idea of wearing their dads trench coat, it made them blend in, if only for their clothing. They might be a more, grazed by presence if they werent good at being quite when they can. Others wouldnt notice that, they all assume Podzel show up into the room. They make their presence know with one sentance and they can immiditly leave, "You haven't stayed their for very long" Their mothers speach starts soft, and thats when they knew a crabs pincer would be better. As long as they dont have to get picnhed on sand, the smooth rocks that touchs the waters foam, is always so much better.

"Go, you arnt ruining the danm party planned by that scrubbed womens daughter. Just- Have Fun, or sit quitly in the corner without disturbing anyone." their mother wanted them to show face. Cant reason its because they dont want them here, it would be an annoying lie if id they proclaimed they did. (Chatgpt told me she isnt using coarse langouge lol, but it shows what i had in mind. I guess not so publicly near a party, she wouldnt want to be to loud.)

Now to explain what these show about me! { Psychologically complicated, like all brains are. Consider I am a fixation-ate internet user and by that I mean I’m ADHD and I love calling my brain Dave. }

My love of learning history, about other cultures and religions like the Zoroastrianism faith and their funeral practice. Taking inspiration and interest in a lot of things. Learning things from diffrent sites, interviews and connecting t with other ideas like with vultures. From tumblr facts post and idea prompts on vultures being holy. I know, i know I have named the vultures but i haven't drawn them. But soon. They are bearded vultures ^^

My writing abilities for creating my characters, with care and understanding. Since I did just create them I haven't really had a chance to hurt them more than whatever job they already have to imply that.. Like death, or wearing a mask due to a traumatic incident along with letting bees sleep on you like cats and getting poisoned. I did this all in 4 days, i would've written it all up but i noticed i might get burn out so i risked another day where i might lose my hyper fixation, and all my ideas... You can i had a lot of fun rambling. But I wont put myself to a high expectations. Loved naming conventions, might rename or have to give my ocs names. Whiiich, i made my beekeeper name jerky and like illusinor jasper in the codes, both seemed uniqe proffesions of beast taming and the other of illusionist arts that its named after them! I like that idea a lot, And maybe it meets the way they handled their profession is uniqe, Blood and a Rock... Lol you i'm making this up as I go <3

I do hope to have a sona soon, but it’s fanfic, ie been writing Minecraft fanfic(also my splatoon tag). Never completed a story, I’m just writing it, even my oneshots taking to long.

Also box of unnecesary rambles that would fit into intos post... If i had the time to draw it [Attacking wolfs and zombie's unnatruly, seeming to only decay continuelly they come down to two seperate definitions. 'Zombie deer' from a zombie priest who helps them be docile and 'Chronic wasting Diseased Deer' CWDD. "Chemical Warefare Directinal Detecter?" Confusion scrunchs up the Vultures leatherd face, looking beside them to a sign into a facility, "...No, But i can decree why youd assume. I am formally of the mind of researching the the 'Chronic Wasting Disease Deer' odd behavours that dont quickly decompose their mouths to stop biting so aggresivly. Gladly they do tend to lack cordanation."]

#minecraft #illager #minecraft oc #minecraft illager #illager oc #villager oc #villager #minecraft villager #not my art #grammer mistakes #ramble #writing #character dialogue #Zombie Deer #Minecraft Zombie Priest mentioned #BeeKeeperer #Plagautor #Jobless Teen #Vigleger oc #Rambling Headcanon #rambling #headcanon #non organized what heacanon I made up #I have grabbed 3 random blocks #Burn Wound #Cannibalism #Disease #Emotionally Abusive #random generator #Vigliger

[greykolla-art]

Unstoppable villain, meet immovable agent of friendship!

I was wondering in what circumstances Charlie would just OFFER her soul to Al.

And he would short circuit as all his manipulation plans become unnecessary.

Cause Charlie cares about her friends and if they need help she won’t hesitate.

#grey art #fan art #hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel fanart #hazbin hotel comic #charlie morningstar #Alastor #hazbin alastor #the radio demon #he is so pathetic I don’t think he realises that #buddy you know what shows true strength??? #being vulnerable #you are emotionally weaker than a puppy! #I love him so dearly #also Charlie! #she cares and that’s not naïveté #she’s so strong and brave ! #if Alastor abuses her gift in this scenario then he’s a worm #god this show is good

[amu-says-hav-says]

I can’t believe I went through all of Season 2 assuming Nina was the stand-in for Crowley when you actually pay attention it’s so CLEAR that she’s Aziraphale. I was tricked by her spiky, sarcastic, cynical outer shell and lulled into a false sense of security by Maggie’s bubbly optimism and wholesome goodness, because on the surface they reflect the ineffable husbands perfectly, in their personalities, their aesthetics, even many of their actions and morals. but not, and this is the real key, when it comes to their “relationship”. but those first impressions really had me damn fooled. 

I missed the blatantness of Nina’s “we’re just friends. actually we’re not friends. we barely know each other.” the same thing Aziraphale said in season 1.  the way he still struggles to quantify their friendship when Nina asks. Nina’s sarcasm when Crowley asks about rain and awnings because it worked for him (we all know it LMAO). hell, that whole convo the girls have in the rain is so AziraCrow (“I know. I’m not your type” “...You have no idea” hits so much harder the second time, help meeeee.) “Lindsay” maybe being symbolic of Heaven and Aziraphale’s toxic relationship with them and their abuse? (the handwritten text messages in red pen make me think of angry notes on paperwork, anyone else?) because Crowley has never actually cared about what Hell thinks of him, just not getting into trouble (or him or Aziraphale getting hurt). Maggie is always chasing Nina. NINA NEVER GOES IN THE RECORD STORE. Just like Crowley always goes to the bookstore, to Aziraphale, Zira NEVER WENT TO THE FLAT (apart from The Swap but that doesn’t count imo). Crowley has always chased Zira, not the other way around. Always there to rescue him, always going to him for company, always relying on their shared connection, always US. OUR SIDE. All through season one, he comes to Zira every time to work together, never trying to work alongside Hell in any way that isn’t to save their skins or Earth, while Zira hides things from Crowley because he STILL thinks Heaven is ultimately good and will do the right thing if he can just show them. fix it from the inside. 

Maggie working up the courage to finally say something, to put herself out there, while Nina is utterly oblivious and then when she does realise Maggie has feelings, becoming standoffish, putting up that barrier, fighting it, denying it, ITS SO CROWLEY AND AZIRAPHALE IN THAT ORDER. the way I was fooled into thinking Nina’s trust issues are Crowley because he does have trust issues ofc he does BUT Crowley has ALWAYS TRUSTED AZIRAPHALE. has always relied on him. has always been hurt when Aziraphale doesn’t immediately reciprocate the way he expects (the holy water request, the bandstand, the “off in the stars” etc). he’s always the one putting himself forward. Aziraphale has always been the one to second guess everything, to fight their connection, their similarities, their friendship. the girls really made me think it was going to be okay when they sat Crowley down, even as my inner sirens were going haywire about Metatron interfering, they were telling Crowley he just needs to open up and it’ll all work out BUT HE’S ALREADY AT THAT POINT. he may not say it, and by gosh is that part of their damn problem, but he’s always SHOWN IT. he’s not Nina who needs time to heal and recover from her broken trust, he’s always been Maggie believing it doesn’t matter, they’ll end up together in the end anyway AND I WALKED RIGHT INTO THE TRAP THAT THIS MEANT THEY WERE GOING TO BE OKAYYYYYYYYYYY

#good omens #good omens spoilers #good omens season 2 #good omens 2 #GO2 #GO2 spoilers #ineffable husbands #not me going to my basically unused sideblog that isn't GO related because I NEED TO YELL THIS SOMEWHERE #I mean outside of the relationship thing there are so many ways #that Nina and Crowley line up and Zira and Maggie #but the girls story isn't about them as people #it's about this relationship the boys are tryna push on them and what that relationship reflects about the boys #anyway I'm on my first rewatch for all the clue I missed #so I imagine I'll only spot more clues to berate myself about as I go #HOW DID I FALL FOR ITTTTTT #I can't believe I was so blind #OFC the Disaster Puppy Lesbian was Crowley #and OFC the Emotionally Abused Tortoise was Aziraphale

[turtwig387]

"Stop being angry at me"

I can't. I literally can't. You caused this... I can't.

#emotional abuse #emotionally abusive #like that tiktok WHY CANT YOU JUST FORGIVE ME ALREADY!!!!! #uhm bc it's your fault bye lol #painful writer #my post #negative

[proudfreakmetarusonniku]

but also like. guys you don’t need to leave the minecraft youtube community bc one person is bad to clarify. like. shelby is a minecraft youtuber. a lot of her friends are minecraft youtubers. those friends are supportive and as far as we know all believe her. the vast majority of minecraft youtubers are like. fine. this shit is something that Happens because Abusers are Manipulative, going to another hobby will Not shield you from anything and you’re not immoral for liking something bad people also liked. which is. one of the biggest video games ever. like in this situation no one was knowingly harbouring an abuser and it seems everyone was supportive. this is just a case of some people being shit, not anything to do with mcyt. hell, the guy hasn’t been on minecraft in like a year lmao.

i fully understand why the content might be uncomfortable to you guys now but like, please don’t self flagellate and cut yourself off from an entire genre of media because of one guy again. i saw that happen after the dream stuff and a lot of people ended up losing important things because they made rash decisions and felt like they Had to leave. but please. take one deep fucking breath. this has happened before. this has happened so much before, and in ways far worse than this. because abusers, unfortunately, exist. you should not feel guilty for being manipulated by a manipulative abuser, don’t blame yourself. do what you have to, but please, please keep in mind that the majority of minecraft youtube is fine. it is fine to continue engaging with it. it’s fine to be manipulated by an abuser and it’s not your fault. please don’t make rash decisions and end up losing things you care deeply about and being unable to get them back. distance yourself all you want, but please be careful to not do so out of emotional self harm from the guilt. that’s something this fandom encourages far too much- even outside of this- and it’s unhealthy and anyone expecting it of you is cruel.

#mcyt #abuse tw #i guess this is discourse idk but like #this happened two years ago and the amount of people who realised cutting themselves off from All mcyt was self harm and came back #only to have lost a lot of content they created and valued because they wanted to punish themselves for trusting a predator #and like. you’re victim blaming yourself. obviously you are not anywhere near as much a victim as The victim #but being manipulated into supporting abusers is still something that is an action they take to harm others #Being used as a tool to silence others unknowingly is a cruel thing and can be traumatic to go through #its honestly really concerning as someone working on their own emotional self harm to see it. like this isn’t about anyone in specific but #guys. emotionally self harming isn’t helping. you don’t need punishment. breathe and think through things.

[witchyykitten]

#why my family don't love me? #family issues #dysfunctional family #toxic family #strict mommy #toxic mom #mommy issues #mom issues #mommyissues #emotionally unstable mother #narcissistic mother #toxic mother #mother issues #childhood trauma #child abuse #dysfunctional household #dysfunctional parents #trauma #actually traumatized #emotional abuse #mental abuse #narcissistic abuse #parental abuse

[family-trauma]

Sadly I can check off alot of items from this list. Time and self education are the only things that will help reclaim life back once you lose yourself with emotional abuse.

#absurd #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mental abuse #mental wellbeing #mental health #mentally drained #emotionally drained #emotional abuse #emotional trauma #toxic #toxic family #dysfunctional family #toxicity #toxic people #self help #selfhelp #self improvement #self therapy #therapy #family-trauma

[ofswordsandpens]

"the Gabe and Sally dynamic in the show is abusive" and "the way they've portrayed Gabe in the show is distinctly different from his book counterpart and fans can criticize that" are two discussions that can coexist

#I understand that this is hard topic to navigate #but me saying that /they've changed Gabe and that's consequently altered the dynamic he has with Sally in way I don't like/ #is NOT me saying I don't think what they've portrayed onscreen is non-abusive #or that I WANT to see him abuse her??? #its just the guy in the show while clearly controlling and abusive (emotionally and financially so far) #...I don't believe he's the guy who's presence was so horrid and disgusting MONSTERS avoided him #I wouldn't call him /Smelly/ #in the book his abuse (all forms) is much more overt #(and just to be painstakingly clear: abuse doesn't have to be overt to be abuse) #but the guy in the show does not have the same presence as the guy in the book #book Gabe is menacing #he growls and he threatens and both Sally and Percy have developed very specific responses to deal with it #I've seen one take saying that people can't recognize the abuse in the show because its not physical (yet?) #but even disregarding the physical abuse entirely #if you compare the book scene and TV show scene of Percy arriving home and he and Sally readying for Montauk #there is a pretty stark difference in tone #and in how both Sally and Percy interact with Gabe #in the book Sally goes out of her way to avoid /provoking/ Gabe and asks Percy to do the same until they can leave for Montauk #and Gabe is just itching for any excuse to keep them home #and imo if Book Sally had said the things that show Sally did to Gabe #Gabe wouldn't have let them gone! #and again im not saying that the show's depiction is nonabusive #or unrealistic #im saying its simply /different/ than the book #and im upset that it doesn't feel like dynamic depicted the book #and no book sally is no simpering wilting flower #but she's also not what they depicted in the show either #pjo adaptation #sally jackson #pjo