#emotionally detached

[anatidephobia]

whole life convincing yourself that you’re emotionless, cold and unbothered only to realise many years later that you created that version of yourself because in reality you couldn’t bare the thought of being vulnerable in any way

and when you finally realise that it’s not something to be proud of you also realise that it’s too late to re-learn everything

you feel great shame because you finally see that you weren’t actually strong - all of it was a weakness. the thing you hated the most. you couldn’t embrace it

and worst of all - you realise that you’ve become exactly like the person who hurt you in the beginning

#psychology #childhood trauma #emotionally unavailable #emotionally immature parents #actually bpd #actually ptsd #coping with trauma #realisation #trauma #traumatized child #coping mechanism #pretending #emotionally detached #adult children of emotionally immature parents #living with borderline

[foreverfitnesspositivity]

#positive mental attitude #positive #positive thoughts #bemindful #mindfulness #choices #emotionally detached #detachment #patience

[dumblr]

Detaching myself from someone I used to go crazy for >>>

#quotes #feelings #emotions #love #green flags #positive thoughts #good vibes #romantic quotes #love quotes #wise words #feeling myself #emotionally detached #dumblr

[r-wn]

I miss crying, that's when I used to feel something

#numb #emotionally detached #emotionally unavailable #mentally drained #emotionally drained #emotional numbness

[catmint1]

Marianne had the sense that her real life was happening somewhere very far away, happening without her, and she didn't know if she would ever find out where it was or become part of it.

Sally Rooney, Normal People

#quotes #sally rooney #normal people #real life #unreal #emotionally detached #disconnect #text

[petef-my-life]

This one always knows how to find me when I feel at my most emotionally detached

#cats of tumblr #cats #emotionally detached

[dilamo]

Is it just me or Have anyone faked a sad scenario to feel sad and to cry out loud?

Not because you miss being sad, but you're emotionally too detached that you're unable to cry (or forget to cry) in real life situations and in order to express your feelings you have to imagine a really super sad scenario to invoke the sad feeling within you, to let out your real world frustrations.

Can anyone relate to this?

Am I the only one?

#new to tumblr #first time expressing my problems here #tumblr #emotionally detached #vent #letting it out #is anyone out there #speaking to the void

[shiutsu]

I don't get why being nice,kind, empathetic and approachable is better than being distant, angry and emotionally limited.

Like I was possessing those positive emotions over like 4-5 years ago and it was the worst shit I've ever done in my life.

#dealing with anger #anger problems #anger issues #negative emotions #low empathy #fuck ableists #tw: trauma #actually traumatized #trauma coping #emotionally detached #emotionally damaged #emotionally devastated #emotionally fucked #emotionally abused #fuck humans #emotional flashbacks

[hajar-diamond]

It's really not a big deal if he cheats. He was never really that important to begin with.

🤍🤍

#dollette #black coquette #black femininity #dollette aesthetic #femme fatale #feminine beauty #coquette dollete #dolletecore #black girl luxury #soft life #emotionally detached #relationship #love #light academia #dark academia #dark aesthetic #dark femininity #dark feminine energy #dark feminine aesthetic #dark feminine moodboard #dark feminine #dark femenine #unbothered #detached #self love #self care #love yourself #rich girl #mindset #quotes

[depressedvibe]

Dear mother, dear father,

Love isn't supposed to hurt

#this is depressing #dead inside #sorry for being depressing #tw depressing stuff #all of us are dead #i hate my existence #anxiété #mindless and empty #tw depressing thoughts #depressing shit #emotionally detached #emotional neglect #tw abuse #tw sui attempt #tw sui implied #suizigedanken #suicudal #tw death #i wish i were dead #kinda depressing #depressing poem #depressing quotes #mother #father #deep shit #skinnnny

[lifeofafreckledredhead]

I watched you ruin what was left

The absolute last crumb I had left to give

You stomped on it and looked at me for more

But I have no more to give

You ruined every single piece all the way to the crumbs

A.Val

#poet #sad thoughts #lost my mind #mental health #emotional abuse #narcissistic abuse #living with ptsd #ptsd recovery #abuse survivor #abuse victim #depression #tw depressing thoughts #emotionally detached #emotions #no thoughts head empty #sadnees

[can-i-make-you-some-tea]

disconnected

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7- art by kaisamuelsdavis

#web weaving #collage #mood board #moodboard #quotes #words #disconnected #dissociation #thinking #detached #emotionally detached #cold

[heartthyst]

People are always so in awe about how composed I am when misfortune happens. I'm not. I suppress my feelings and let it simmer in the background until it catches on fire.

#i don't sort out my feelings or problems #everything just gets suppressed and forgotten #I especially hate it when people shake it out; it takes awhile to sweep it all under the rug again #emotionally detached #istp female #may gemini

[mental-health-advice]

What should I do when I feel understimulated and restless? I feel chronically bored and lonely. I try to reach out to friends but it's so hard to organise a day to catch up with them because everyone's schedule is different. I see one friend more than others but even when I hang out with her I feel emotionally detached. It feels like the same conversations over again. Like I am just living the same days on repeat. I hate this feeling. Even sometimes, I try new things and still feel empty.

Hey there,

It can be really hard when our schedules are so different to that of our friends, but there are some things you could possibly do to still keep in touch or reach out to them even if you cannot always catch up with them in a face-to-face context. For example, things such as texting or emailing or using other social media platforms can be ways to stay in contact with others. I know it’s not the same as face-to face communication but on the plus side it does give you and your friends the opportunity to reply when they have some free time and are not so busy with their own things. In regards to feeling emotionally detached though, can you bring this up with your friends and maybe even have more meaningful conversations with them? Like perhaps, speaking about what you are both passionate about, ask questions to find out more about them or even things like what your goals are for 2023 – as it is the new year and all! This can be really good to feel more involved in conversations instead of the same old conversations of asking how each of you are. Don’t get me wrong though, asking how others are is important, but after doing this try to expand the conversation out to other things, things that you haven’t previously spoken about if at all possible.

In regards to what you could do when you are feeling under stimulated or restless, have you tried to keep yourself busy with things such as fidget toys? These can be really useful and especially when you are feeling restless or need to focus on something other than what is going on at the time. More specifically though, is it possible for you to do short courses online of things that interest you? This can help to challenge you and especially if you are feeling bored or feel like the days are on repeat.

I myself have started doing short courses online and am finding it really good as it gets me out of my own head, gives me something else to focus on and also allows me to learn new things that I otherwise would never have known!

I really hope that this has helped a bit and please do let us know if we can help to support you in any other way!

I’m thinking of you and hope that you are going well!

Take care,

Lauren  

#mha-lauren #advice #advice blog #mental health advice #anonymous #restlessness #under stimulated #bored #emotionally detached

[catmint1]

I felt a tremendous distance between me and everything real.

Hunter S. Thompson, The Rum Diary

#quotes #hunter s. thompson #the rum diary #emotionally detached #distance #reality #text

[missysippiiiee]

When your whole world is falling apart, I got you. And when my entire universe is turning upside down, I guess I got me too.

#numb #one sided relationships #i got me #self support #always alone #unimportant #i dont matter #emotionally detached #wtf is this #marriage #for?