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c0l0re · 19 days
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I love you trans people, I love you transsexuals, I love you FTMs, I love you MTFs, I love you trannies, I love you transgenders, I love you trans men, I love you trans women, I love you nonbinary people, I love you genderfluid people, I love you multigender people, I love you people with no gender at all, I love you genderqueer people, happy trans day of visibility to each and every one of you, I hope you have an amazing day and are safe and happy and proud of who you are <3333
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lemon-penguinn · 3 months
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I'm nonbinary. People, in general, do not tend to see me as a trans person, even though I identify as one.
Everyone usually thinks of me as a girl. A cis girl who has decided to pass herself off as a nonbinary person, or a trans boy, simply because she thinks it's "trendy". A cis girl who wants to be part of a community because she feels lonely. And that's because, by many people's standards, I just "don't look trans", whatever that means. I guess it's simply because my gender expression is not rigid. It changes.
Deep down, I feel like a stereotype: a teenager with a female body who claims to be a boy but occasionally wears dresses and skirts comfortably. In the eyes of others, perhaps, I am nothing more than a cis girl infiltrating trans spaces. I'll be honest: I've cried over this very situation many times, because, what am I to do about it?
Do I have to change and stick to the gender role that is expected of someone like me? Do I really have to change the way I show myself just because I'm not a girl, but I also don't perceive myself fully as a boy?
I think that's ridiculous.
In the end, saying that "if you are nonbinary you have to be androgynous" is something that perpetuates stereotypes and gender roles. It's like telling a trans girl that, to be a real girl, she has to wear a skirt - it makes no sense. Do all girls only ever wear skirts and dresses? Do all boys only ever wear black, loose tank tops?
Of course they don't.
My expression, my tastes, my clothes, my voice, and the way I act do NOT determine my gender identity at all, just like my private parts. Because I believe that gender is a part of us. Not a part of our body, our clothes or our personality. It's true, though, that our gender identity can influence those other things. I think that's why certain actions or concepts make us dysphoric or euphoric: because our gender influences whether we perceive positively or negatively those things that affect us.
But, until the day most of society can understand that gender isn't a rigid set of rules, nonbinary people will remain generally perceived as no more than "girls who want attention" (if we live in a female body) and "weird boys" (if we live in a male body). We do not exist. Breaking out of binarism is seen as a phase that will end once we grow up. Because, apparently, many people think that being nonbinary is something that doesn't exist in the adult world.
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oro-junestar · 2 months
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why do people gatekeep queer identies?? like,, isn't the whole point of the queer community that we're sick of being told who we are and aren't allowed to be?? stop shunning queer people for being queer in ways you don't like
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v-tired-queer · 27 days
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When I was younger I thought I wanted to be That Girl with long dark hair, bold red lips, and lashes for days who wore all black and could do anything in a killer pair of heels, but actually it turns out that I just really, really wanna kiss women like that
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artichao · 19 days
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Happy Transgender Visibility and Awareness Day <33
I'm proud of you. And I'm proud of myself. <3
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paperwaterfalls · 10 months
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After 83374482284488 days of feeling like the ugliest bitch, here’s me feeling cute. Hi (say it back).
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raedalumity · 11 months
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Things Avi said in their livestream today
- Raine's palisman's official name is Fiddlesticks
- Raine would wear a double breasted suit to Grom
- Raine's favorite breakfast food is waffles
- Raine's favorite ice cream is mint chocolate chip
- Raine has top surgery scars ❤️
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smolbeanie1221 · 2 months
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yorufi · 10 months
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i like venti a very normal amount,,
he means a world to me and i can write a lengthy essay on how important he’s to the story lore, his overall story, how he impacted every aspect of my life and-
anyways, happy b-day to Venti!!
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wooshofficial · 1 year
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I love you non-binary people that aren’t androgynous I love you trans people that don’t look like the gender they are I love you people who just change their pronouns I love you fem and masc presenting non-binary people I love you trans women with big muscles and beards I love you trans men with boobs and curves I love you trans people who don’t “look” trans I love you
Reminder you don’t have to change yourself for others if you don’t want to. You’re just as valid as the next nonbinary person if you stay feminine or masculine rather than androgynous. You are valid and I love you.
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transenbyconfessions · 10 months
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One of my favorite ways in fiction to make someone's chosen name valid is tying magic to their name. Things like fae not having power over someone because they know their deadname, and that isn't their true name. There's a new superhero comic where the mom tries to keep them in place with talismen that work based on name, and it doesn't do shit because "this is written for *unreadable scribbles*. That's not me. It never was"
Magic, even if evil, still thinks you're valid. That's nice <3
Submitted June 26, 2023
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prettiestslutboy · 3 months
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If you've gotta cum you can use this hole I suppose
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felixschaoticstuff · 1 year
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You've been visited by Raine! Since they're in your dashboard from now on they'll fight anyone that disrespects our pronouns!!
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pickle-the-lad · 1 month
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Okay, this isn't a positive post, but I've been liking a bunch of trans women timelines. Now Tumblr is showing me pictures of trans women exposing themselves who forget to put #nudity, #nsft, or mark it as mature, just using the trans hashtag... Please remember that there is youth on this website, and you could get banned, especially if it has nudity. There's also sexual repulse individuals like myself. So please tag your stuff properly! Current events are not an excuse to fill the tags with inappropriate content.
Be proud of your body but tag! Please!!
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samijami · 8 months
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Youre pressing g gender conformity yet not sticking true to it. If you were to conform with being "nonbinary", you wouldn't have pigtails, or much of what you show. Being nonbinary is literally saying that since you don't conform by gender roles then you simply don't belong in them, which is wrong. You're still a girl, just nonconforming
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A picture of me holding up a note that says, 'You: 'I don't like gender conformity.'
Also you: 'No shlong, no dong? Hah, you fucking FEMALE'.
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blinkpen · 3 months
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oh look! another nickle! i didn't even plan this one it just happened like this but tbf it only slipped me by because of how totally different they feel in practice, it's pretty superficial otherwise
still funny to take as many steps back until it accommodates The Bit(TM) tho. also wehat if i ever calmed down.
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