④ Childhood of Enneagram types:
» type 4 : the individualist
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the E4 child couldn't relate with their parents or caregiver, they felt they were very very different from their caregivers and weren't seen for who they are, not being able to see themselves in their caregivers the E4 child came to believe that there was something fundamentally wrong with them, that they lack things others around them do not. The child started to cope with the feeling of lack by viewing the lack in themselves as something that makes them different and unique & started to develop their identity around it. The child also felt if they aren't like who they are supposed to be like (their caregivers ) then who they are truly? and that's how their quest for finding themselves began. Often times they are the lost child of their family. In others, adult E4s tend to look for the caregivers they wish they had as a child.
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Hii! Honestly thank you for all your works!, they’re so good and feel so accurate, you embody the characters so well😫‼️.
I dont know if ur taking requests right now but i was wondering if you could do a karma x enfp reader head-cannons? I saw you did an isfp one, idk if you’ve done any other, but Thats alright if not of course!
Reader is really bubbly and loud, she makes alotta dirty and crude jokes with Rio and similarly, she has good grades she just doesnt try. She’s girly (loves being feminine) but that doesnt stop her from getting dirty, Shes very much a hopeless romantic and goes feral for some loving.
— 𝐊𝐀𝐑𝐌𝐀 𝐗 𝐄𝐍𝐅𝐏 𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐃𝐄𝐑 ⊹
desc. karma x enfp!fem!reader, who's loud, playful, and talkative, yet stubborn, smart, and romantic.
notes. i'm preeeetty sure i'm an enfp (or infp), so a lot of these traits reminded me of myself!! so, this one was pretty easy to write, and i hope you like it!!
he's drawn to you from the beginning.
you're funny and joke about everything with him. oh, someone fell out of a tree? oops, you guys are literally on the floor.
you guys never have a dull moment. you always have something to talk about, and your conversations usually end up lasting hours.
physical touch is biggg for you guys. it's rare to see you guys not hugging or being close in some way.
he loves your outfits. no matter what you wear, though, he will be completely infatuated by you but he does like seeing you in dresses.
he picks you up a lot. piggy-back rides, carrying you bridal style, over the shoulder... any way that your feet aren't touching the ground.
you guys bounce around a lot. like, people mistake you as children for how energetic you guys are—you're constantly running around places.
you guys are constantly texting. it's kind of funny how much battery is wasted, even though you two are in the same room.
you guys also play gamepigeon a lot together. you've both gotten really good at the word games, and you're constantly competing. your screen is lit up like a christmas tree because of just how much you guys play together.
karma and you are both stubborn, and so you guys are like a rainbow brick wall with bubble guns at the top. it's the most accurate description of your personalities together that i can give.
when it comes to school, you guys are one and the same. you've got good grades and stuff, but you do not pay attention.
you will have an assignment that was given at the beginning of the week, and you're finishing it literally morning of. and then you get a perfect score.
you guys spend a lot of time outside together. whether that's looking for cats in sidewalks, going to playgrounds and parks, or finding a lake and skipping rocks together. you guys definitely feed the ducks, too.
you kiss him a lot. he definitely doesn't mind—he welcomes it. while, of course, throwing in a few teasing phrases.
you guys make a lot of dirty jokes together. it's crazy you guys haven't been reported to the police for the amounts of looks you guys have gotten.
you guys collect stuff for each other. you collect stamps and he collects rocks, so you guys trade each other stuff. if someone doesn't have enough to trade, you pay in affection.
you guys climb on stuff a lot. it's a normal occurrence to see you guys on the roof or hanging off a window of a 6-floor tall apartment building.
notes: every time i write these i get reminded of my nonexistent social life 🫶
also i'm so sorry for taking so long ☹️ been feeling v unmotivated to write but i did see the spider-man movie so i'm feeling much better (and in love w miles oh m y god)
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ENFP : What are you reading, INTP ? Another boooring book, without romance or love stories?
INTP : Well... yes, but actually, no. I'm reading "The Biology of Emotions" : one of the chapters is called "neurobiology of natural and artificial pleasures", so I guess this is the closer thing to a love story I've ever read...
ENFP : Hmmm... your book seems interresting but... isn't it a bit risky to overthink about emotions ? Won't it affect them in a wrong way ? Make you emotionaly insensitive ?
INTP : Nah, don't worry !
ENFP : Wow, what an argument !
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Understanding Type 7
An intro to enneagram 7
Alex Russo (WOWP) ESTP 7w8 sp/sx
Core Desire (Fullfilment)- They crave joy and happiness. They love the idea of a truly satisfied life.
Vice (Gluttony)- Will look to ignore reality in order to find more pleasurable outcomes in which pain isnt a possibility.
Fixation (Exploration)- They are interested in looking for multiple ways to find enjoyment in their life.
Wings
7w6 (The Pathfinder)- Due to the 6 wing this type 7 will focus in interpersonal side of joy. They will look for comfort and joy in the company of others. They are Enthusiastic and kind. They can be seen as goofy or childish. Maybe be a bit anxious compared to the 7w8. Since their wing is 6 they will focus on being more likable and approachable to others.
7w8 (The Opportunist) - The 7w8 finds joy on its own power and ambition. They are less jovial than the 7w6 and more grounded in reality and focused on the reality of things rather than distracting themselves with interpersonal connections. Due to the wing 8 they can be seen as uncaring and uninterested in anything concerning themselves.
Triads- Head (5-6-7)
While E5 distracts themselves with knowledge and the E6 district themselves through interpersonal journey the E7 runs away in from orders in order to find joy and fun.
Harmonic Triad- Positive (2-7-9)
Will create situations to distract themselves from the bad things In life even if it is self sabotaging.
Hornevian Triad- Assertive (3-7-8)
They have a demand to have fun and can be seen as entitled to get what they want in this demand.
Object Relations- Frustration (1-4-7)
Will have shallow experiences in life in the look for true emotional satisfaction.
Subtypes
Social (so)- Since this is the counter type of 7 this subtypes will not focus on the look for joy and happiness through their selfish wants but rather will focus on acts of virtue and service in order to help others. Due to being a Soc type they will focus on the outer world in which they can create a world where everyone can expirience joy and happiness equally. This subtype will counter the 7s vice (gluttony) through acts of service and due to this they may look like E2.
Ex- Elizabeth Bennet (Pride and Prejudice) ENFP 7w6 so/sp, Buffy Summers (BTVS) ESFP 7w6 so/sx and Dani Clayton (THOBM) ENFP 7w6 so/sx
Sexual (sx)- This subtype will focus on the look for an interpersonal relationship that can make them forget the world away. They want to find joy through an ideal relationship. Their view of the world tends to be more empathic and kind that it actually is. Often will ignore the bad of situations and others due to this. This subtype isnt interested in subverting their gluttony but finding it through interpersonal connections. They want to attract others with this idea of the world as a Utopia. They can look like E8 or E9.
Theodore “Laurie” Laurence (Little Woman) ISFP 7w6 sx/sp , Maya Ishi-Peters (PEN15) ESFP 7w8 sx/so and Jules Vaugh (Euphoria) ENFP 7w6 sx/sp
Self-Preservation (sp)- The self-preservation 7 will over indulge in their own needs and will often only associate who agree with these needs. Due to this they are good at social networking and will often be surrounded by allot of friends. They often prioritize social networking and they find joy in the distraction of their own social needs and they tend to be the one that indulges in their gluttony the most. They can often look like E3 (but without the interest in status or goals) or E6 (Without the anxiety and paranoia).
Ex- Fleabag ENTP 7w8 sp/sx , Ava Coleman (Abbott Elementary) ESTP 7w8 sp/sx and Hailey Dunphy (Modern Family) ESTP 7w8 sp/sx
Moves (Positive and Negative)
Moves to 5
Positive- They learn to become more objective and will be more careful with their habits. Will present a more mature and composed exterior.
Negative- They'll become aggressive and avoidant of any responsibility
Moves to 1
Positive- Gains a lot of more discipline and control over their actions.
Negative- Frigid and uninterested in anything other than being nitpicky and stingy.
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