Just had a lady come up to me and tell me that she lost her child but wanted to know if she could leave and come back for him later????
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Table came in and ate. Added food to their order and left without paying with the add-on on the table... And a pair of glasses. They just came back like "where's my food?" Bruh
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✨We’re Not Asking, We’re Telling✨
I just got back from a micro-vacation. I stayed at a hotel 5 hours away. The property was lovely. The staff was pleasant. I enjoyed it for the most part.
After I checked out, I sat in the lobby, enjoying my free breakfast. There was me, a couple other guests, and 3 employees behind the desk. It was relatively quiet, peaceful.
Suddenly, a lady and her middle school-aged son walked in, accompanied by a man carrying a large instrument in a case. The lady made an announcement:
We’re gonna use your lobby for about 10 minutes. You’re gonna hear some nice music!
The employees behind the desk SAID okay, but their faces had looks I was way too familiar with:
“Dang, no ‘good morning’ or nothing?”
“You not even gon ASK? We just making demands now?”
“It’s too gotdamn early for this!”
“Is this really happening right now?”
What was happening was that the mom was buying the instrument—a cello—from the man who came in with them. It was for her son, who has middle school-level experience, so we didn’t hear the “nice music” she promised. Everything was off key. Nice to see him interested, no doubt. But to force strangers to hear him so early in the morning was rude.
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A customer compared asylum seekers to invasive coyotes today making the analogy that to many coyotes ruin the ecosystem HE THEN SAID THAT EVEN COYOTES KNOW WHEN NOT TO REPRODUCE AND I WANTED TO STAB HIM IN THE NECK!!!! HOW FUCKING DISCONNECTED DO YOU HAVE TO BE TO RANK WILD ANIMALS ABOVE HUMAN BEINGS SEEKING HELP AND SAFTEY. And I couldn’t say a damn thing because he’s a paying customer and I need my job. Also this man manages a CONSTRUCTION COMPANY and has mostly MEXICAN laborers. How the fuck are you so painfully antagonistic toward the group of people WHO MAKE YOUR FUCKING MONEY.
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I think I've cracked why it makes me so irate when customers have this expectation that workers not only offer service to them but to Do It With a Smile.
It's this sense of entitlement that it isn't enough to have a service offered to you, but that it must never remind you why workers might not be chipper.
What people mistake is that this country is built off freedom that makes us All Happy. What they miss is that this country was built on façades and platitudes - the comfort of being shielded from any uncomfortable reality.
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idk man my feed is constantly full of people polling their readers to ask if it's "okay" to write about xyz or add abc to their ongoing fic. and maybe i'm just making distressed noises as a byproduct of my own role in a creative industry, a space in which professionals are rarely permitted to have true authority over their commercial work once a budget is opened. but i am really troubled by how quickly it has become so common for hobbyist writers to view hobby writing as an transactional public service and not as. idk. art.
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I have never once in my life, had a difficulty in understanding that if it is outside a store’s posted hours, *AND* there’s no open sign *AND* the lights are off inside, the store is not open.
Yes, I should have relocked the door after I came in for the morning, while I set up, but my brain keeps assuming PEOPLE CAN NOTICE THE LACK OF A GODDAMN OPEN SIGN!
What made that man even decide to try the door?
And then, AND THEN, when I tell him ‘we’re not open yet’, he slams the door, goes back to his car, and drives off, rather than wait 10 minutes.
IF HE’S IN SUCH A HURRY, WHY DID HE COME BEFORE WE OPEN ANYWAY! OUR HOURS ARE CLEAR ON THE DOOR AND ONLINE
WE
OPEN
AT
10!
(For that matter, everyone but the freaking breakfast cafe opens at 10 on main street, so even more wtf?)
WHAT
IS
WRONG
WITH
PEOPLE
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one thing i find really difficult about navigating the IF space is the direct line of contact between readers and authors. we share the same space, and i think that plays a big part in this weird blurred line we have in this community and overall lack of boundaries.
for a lot of people this is a fun hobby and while i personally try to keep it... semi-professional most of the time, it's easy to get wrapped up in having fun on tumblr (or the forums, or reddit, wherever it is that you mainly post/interact) and have a lot of personal interactions with both readers and authors alike - which is fun! i like it more often than not, but i also think that's why a lot of comments in this space can end up being really entitled, over-familiar, and inappropriate.
it's no secret that most authors get really weird messages on here, and while this is also a problem on social media at large and not just specific to IF tumblr, it is still definitely a big problem in this community.
and to be clear i'm not saying that you can't be friendly with authors or readers (i've become friends with a handful of readers myself) and i definitely don't mean to imply that there needs to be a huge divide between us; that's silly - again, most authors are readers, most readers are authors, we’re just people on the internet sharing the same space. but all of us deserve to have our boundaries respected. this is my story, and we are strangers. as a general rule of thumb: if you wouldn't say it out loud to someone you just met, you probably shouldn't be saying it to a stranger online. especially anonymously.
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yknow, one of the sad things retail has shown me is that the average middle aged/older person has no manners. when i say to customers at work "what can i do for you?" i get "i need" or "i want" or even straight up "give me". theres rarely any "may i" and god forbid they say please. its not hard to look a person in the eyes, say "can i please get ___" instead of barely acknowledging me and barking demands at me like i'm a robot. it's disrespectful. and it's really sad that the generations that taught us manners growing up seem to have forgotten theirs entirely.
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