#especially during pride month

[sleepyandwitchy]

what do u mean i actually have to write my fanfic?? it can’t just appear in front of me the moment i think about it?? pretty homophobic tbh

#especially during pride month #steddie #steveddie #dancing in the dark #ditd #libby shouts into the void #stranger things

[crmnlgy]

people with vaginas. not just women.

#i know this isn’t the focus but we can work on this at the same time #gender inclusive language please #especially during PRIDE month #abortion #roe v wade #supreme court #those bitchasses #lgbt #transgender #nonbinary #genderfluid #intersex

[tiger-moran]

You know something else I am still so tired of is people basically trying to erase/deny/invalidate/talk over any aroace people who still have/want romantic/sexual relationships. 

This acting like we don’t exist at all. 

Or acting like we do exist but that people like that are SO rare you can just ridicule and shit on them (us) without that mattering. 

Or trying to assert that any aroace who wants a romantic/sexual relationship must not be a “””real”””” aroace, they’re mostly or all actually grey/demi romantic/sexual, and trying to foist these labels on to other people despite these labels not actually fitting many of those people (and seriously, how many times have we got to go through the concept that actions or relationship status are not orientation? That idea is not just an aphobic concept it’s also a hugely biphobic one and very often a homophobic one too but it’s still being perpetuated). 

Or outright mocking the idea of aroaces ever having a ‘relationship’ of that kind. It doesn’t even matter that often this is in response to people who are not ace and not aro taking a character who is either canonically aroace or that a lot of people perceive to be aroace and shipping them and justifying this by stating that some aroace people still have romantic/sexual relationships (which is, however much some people may not like that, a completely true statement!). It still hurts many real actual aroace people to ridicule that idea (meanwhile the allo people they were trying to criticise probably don’t give a shit about their criticism; they are not the ones hurt by it). This whole damned sarcastic ‘sOmE aRoAcE pEoPlE sTiLl HaVe SeX’ shit in response to someone stating that some aroace people do still have sex/romantic relationships is still mocking the idea or denying that that ever happens, or treating it like it’s so rare (which by the way I don’t even believe for a moment it actually is) it doesn’t matter if you hurt those people. 

And this trying to assert that only aspec people who are actually grey/demi can have or desire sexual/romantic relationships is still talking over those real actual aroace people who are neither grey or demi and still have/want that. And did you know you can criticise allo people doing something shitty with the very limited aroace representation we have without mocking and demeaning and hurting the real aroace people who do exactly what those allo people are pointing out that some aroace people do! Or without making it sound as if aroace people themselves writing this kind of thing are terrible people. And this is bad enough when it is coming from people who aren’t asexual or aromantic but much of this is coming from within the aroace ‘community’, so is it any wonder people like me have never felt a part of that community or any connection with it (or the broader asexual and aromantic ‘communities’ either)? That we’re left feeling invalidated and ridiculed by and excluded and isolated from what is meant to be our community or communities too?

(And this happened over and over and over again already with that whole oriented aroace mess, people erasing aroaces who are ‘just’ aroace who still have or want romantic/sexual relationships or who experience any other kind of attraction; denying us a useful microlabel of our own; trying to foist the grey/demi terms onto any/every aroace who experiences any other kind of attraction or has/wants a sexual/romantic relationship. Grey and demi sexual/romantic people are great and completely valid too but just because those people exist doesn’t mean every or almost every aroace who has or wants sex/romance isn’t actually what they say they are and is really grey/demi. And aroace people who don’t ever want any kind of romantic/sexual relationship are great and valid also and I am sorry, I am, that often people are so awful about that kind of aroace person, but their experiences and attitudes aren’t the only ‘valid’ ones and just because sometimes people can be really shitty about the idea of some people never wanting any of that kind of intimacy or relationship, that doesn’t mean they’re not hurting other aroace people with some of the things they themselves come out with or that they’re not contributing to overall aphobic ideas which do hurt other subsets of aroace people and I think also by the way this often does tie in with the other issue that older aspec people are regularly being ignored and erased and invalidated and god I just really am so so fucking tired of going through all of this shit over and over again.)

#aroace #asexuality #aromanticism #and I'm sorry for the negativity #especially during Pride month #but it's hard to feel any kind of 'pride' #when this stuff keeps on happening

[catgirlcrisis]

Not a user of that flag, but you really should take a step back and reevaluate some things if seeing colors on a screen makes you legitimately angry...

paypal.me/couchcrasher your first ask is only $10 but for every additional bout of lesbiphobia the price will increase. your next ask would be $20, but we're doing a pride month special on my blog, so its $25 actually.

#get this lesbiphobia off my fucking blog k please thx #every pride month yall always wanna talk over lesbians and start shit with us #not today #you gotta pay me now you financially OWE ME now if you wanna start shit #ESPECIALLY during pride month

[daintylovers]

being alive is scary and hard most of the time. but im trying to find the good in it. these early mornings eat away at me. why can’t i just be normal? not feel guilty for existing, does everyone feel this sense of melancholy on tuesdays? or is it just me, like it always is?

#signed dainty 💌 #i want to make a playlist describing this feeling #but i don’t know if i should #kinda hungry tbh #i have a feeling i will be incredibly unproductive today #pretty annoying that no one has kissed me yet #especially during pride month

[girlbossdean]

i just put together an ikea shelf in like 20 minutes who wants me?

#to be fair it was really straightforward and didn't even require any cool tools #but i still looked hot doing it and i deserve a pretty woman to fawn over me for it #especially during pride month #girlblogging

[miwtual]

voices synthwave really hits different

#kai.txt #especially during pride month #like voices always hits different during pride month but

[luckypupsmama]

Can someone date me?

#being single sucks #especially during pride month

[solace-stars]

reasons i’m qualified to be here:

-i have 6 taylor swift cds in my car and three different ones in my room i need to put in my car

-i hate jkr and every vile disgusting thing she’s said

-i’m sad

#this is a joke but also all of these things are true #this was created because i wanted to make sure people know i hate jkr #especially during pride month #also please talk taylor swift with me even if i forget song title names because i only listen to them in my car #so i’m more likely to know them by track number #fuck jkr

[dr-drea]

OH MY GOD, I fear kieutou is going to get the Winterberg treatment and if that happens I am going to RIOT.

#druck #druck s8 #druck mailin #kieutou #i am serious #i am going to destroy something #this is literally a crime #especially during pride month

[seraphdreams]

ser ur so sweet!!! ur so nice all the time u deserve the sloppiest top ❤❤

awww fank you🥺 i do, don’t i?

#especially during pride month #seraph.replies!

[quinnfebrey]

it’s honestly really embarrassing seeing so many people suddenly go quiet after campaigning to hell and back for every other social justice cause under the sun lol. especially the black, brown, and lgbt community. i see who isn’t saying anything despite being vocal about everything else, and i have no words for y’all besides grow up and grow a pair

#ESPECIALLY after what the palestinian community did during ferguson #* #free palestine #black lives matter #pride month #bipoc #stop asian hate

[herebecritters]

Happy pride, here’s a reminder that non-binary Flaky is incredibly important to me

#happy tree friends #htf #htf flaky #I’ve been seeing a weird amount of non-binary flaky erasure lately #which is weird especially during pride month???? #I know it’s mostly harmless so don’t attack folks over it #but I will never write flaky as cis #I saw a post calling my otp a cishet couple and it got a little under my skin #I also know their gender is open to interpretation though so no shade is directed at anyone on how they personally see flaky #but on this blog know they are always non-binary #sorry for the ramblings #nonbinary rep is important to me for personal reasons

[queerwelsh]

Cafodd cerflun o Cranogwen ei dadorchuddio penwythnos yma yn Llangrannog!

This statue of Cranogwen was unveiled in Llangrannog over the weekend!

Read about the Queer Life of Cranogwen here.

(Image source 1) (Image source 2)

#cranogwen #wales #welsh #cymru #cymraeg #sarah jane rees #queer history #welsh history #history #m #I posted more thoughts on Twitter and may post more #I started this blog because of Cranogwen and how her queerness was being left out of her history then! #a lot has changed since then especially as this was unveiled during Pride Month

[bubblinelovechild]

defending a company halfassing pride month by saying people will call them out for the very recent scandal involving the mistreatment of a queer employee is genuinely insane. how can you say that seriously and not realise how fucking terrible terrible they are?

#you people are insane #any backlash they get will be deserved #a company that has had repeated queer phobia scandals shouldn’t get to post about pride month in peace #what happened with kdin was awful #they deserve to never have a day of peace again #especially during pride #rwde

[antique-traveler]

ok i need to go on a quick rant about x reader fics

so i like x reader. i've written a few x reader fics. i think it's fun and creative and a worthwhile artistic endeavor. but y'all have got to start properly labeling your x reader work.

i've read far too many fics that label themselves as "gender neutral reader", only to have the reader be called girlfriend/wife/wear a dress etc., or fics where the author doesn't mention the reader's gender at all in the description, only for the second paragraph to hit me with more she's and her's than i can count.*

if you want to write x f!reader, cool, all the more power to you, but tell the audience that it's going to be f!reader.

i am not even the littlest bit a woman, so if i start a fic that defaults to she/her pronouns and feminine titles without letting me know, that automatically excludes me (and a lot of other people) from the fic (not to mention makes me wildly dysphoric).

again, write all the x f!reader fic you want, write enough f!reader to fill libraries, but label it correctly.

*i know that none of these things are strictly "female" or "for women", and that neither clothes nor pronouns need to strictly adhere to someone's gender (hell, i'm a nonbinary person that exclusively uses he/him irl and dresses fairly masc), but to automatically choose descriptions that are most commonly associated with femininity and label them as "gender neutral" is, i think, transphobic. nonbinary people aren't "women lite". if you insist that these descriptions/terms are gender neutral, then i should be seeing just as many supposed gn!reader fics that default to having the reader wear suits and cologne.

#bucky speaks #sorry i had to get that off my chest lol #cause it's fucking annoying #also to all my dear mewchies who only write f!reader: #this isn't about you i love you because you PROPERLY LABEL IT #i'm talking about the bitches who clog up the gn!reader tags with their explicitly f!reader fics #especially during pride month if y'all are saying you support trans people but still doing this shit #i don't trust you any farther than i can throw you #that being said i will always clearly specify my x reader fic's gender and default to gn!reader for requests #and you know i'm MORE than happy to write male reader (cis or transmasc) #daredevil #matt murdock #star trek #mattfoggy #the witcher #x reader #gender neutral reader #daredevil x reader