#ex-radfem

[romijuli]

It’s kind of a shame that “Catholics worship the saints and Mary on the same level as god” is the prevalent thought among non-Catholics because “Catholics treat the saints and Mary as a divine call center” is both more true in my experience and INFINITELY funnier

EDIT okay look. Listen. I’m GOING to fucking block you if you start religious discourse on this fucking post. I’m not even Catholic anymore, I wrote this up thinking like two people would enjoy it. I do not care. Stop.

#source: ex Catholic #terfs and radfems fuck off 💖💖💖💖 #STOP FIGHTING ON MY POST GUYS.

[anti-terf-posts]

if you're an ex-radfem, I hope your bed is nice and warm tonight.

if you're a trans-supportive detransitioner, I hope you get your favourite meal today.

if you're an ex-conservative, I hope you wake up feeling refreshed and happy.

❤️

#scottie speaks #detransitioner #ex radfem #trans #transgender

[cock-holliday]

It’s not at all surprising that cisfeminists try to push people out of conversations about reproductive care but it’s bizarre as fuck for trans people to do it. Like, I do not know how to express to you that this topic affects like 99% of trans (and adjacent) people.

Obviously (apparently not obvious to many of you) trans and not-cis or not-dyadic people who have or had (at least some of) the organs that allow you to carry a pregnancy are affected by it. It’s YOUR parts. Everyone who can get pregnant is affected. Everyone who could have an abortion is affected. Everyone who has to worry about birth control for THEIR specific own protection is affected. Everyone who has to get a pap smear is affected. It’s regulation about THAT healthcare, about THOSE parts, about accessing care for YOUR body.

Likewise, the ability and responsibility to bear children is placed on ALL women. Every woman who cannot, will not, or won’t become pregnant has their womanhood challenged. It doesn’t matter if it’s a physical impossibility (infertility AND choice to remove ability AND never having the ability to begin with) or a personal choice despite the ability—if you identify with womanhood, a large piece of the narrative is equating that role with baby-carrier. Which exists both in larger misogynistic society and as a point of pride among cisfeminists.

It’s a feminist issue for how we need to destroy the way society forces a role, it’s a feminist issue on the grounds of bodily autonomy. So just about everyone, regardless of AGAB, is affected in some way.

It does no good to forget (accidentally or intentionally) the trans people whose bodies are being policed in medicine, nor pretend those whose bodies are being policed by societal role are “being brought up for no reason.”

Of all the genders; trans man, trans woman, cis woman, and identities adjacent and between—none escape this scrutiny and it is a topic that affects all of us.

The only role that it affects less is ‘cis man,’ and even then only so far. Either cis man is an identity that one may not hold permanently in which case the previously cis man is brought into the above categories, OR it’s a role that should be brought into the conversation more because of personal responsibility to the above groups. If we are to actually shift sole responsibility for pregnancy from the one who can get pregnant to also encompass those who can get people pregnant (expanding birth control responsibility, financial and parental responsibility, etc) we have to recognize that no body or identity is absent from this conversation, even if one identity is a silent presence over it all.

#LJsm #while I think cis man is a category most unlike the rest #I still don’t even think THAT identity should be in a total us vs them #both because of how cis men are not solely responsible for this bullshit #but also because of the potential essentialism #by isolating the identity away from the rest of us #it makes it hard for previously cis men to come over to our side as an ‘ex-enemy’ #but also reinforces either that cis men are biologically bad or socialized bad #and both create thought patterns that are used to police trans people within community #aka ‘cis men are the enemy’ isn’t less of a foundation of radfem bullshit than ‘men are the enemy’

[rf-times]

I remember seeing all these ex-radfems be like “getting to know men made me realise it’s not so black and white and that there’s NUANCE” and it’s like, ok it’s been a couple of years since I created this account and since then I have gotten to know and befriended a lot of men, I’ve seen a lot of complex, nuanced behaviour and beliefs from them. None of it has undermined my radical feminist ideology. Men can be kind and loving, women can be cruel and abusive, but that does not change that we live in a patriarchy created to benefit men through the exploitation of women. And when men have cruel interests, intentions and stakes, they are benefitted and encouraged in every way possible. Every institution is based on these structures, and ultimately every personal relationship is affected by these dynamics. All men have misogynistic tools at their disposal. This is real life, there are so many shades of people and behaviour, but none of this undermines radical feminism.

#radfem #radblr #radical feminism #ex radfem

[redditreceipts]

how about the men who are apparently weak enough to "stumble" when seeing an underage girl's developing breasts are just not fit for Christian heaven and by constantly accomodating them, you are actually getting in the way of God's plan to send only the righteous to heaven? Because a guy who puts his own comfort over the safety of another person isn't that righteous after all and won't get into heaven either way.

(I don't really believe in Christianity btw, I am just trying to follow the argument of not cause men to "stumble" instead of teaching them how to be a righteous person. in my opinion, the latter would get them into heaven at a much higher rate than just making girls vulnerable to car accidents)

#ex fundamentalist #misogyny #feminism #christianity #religious trauma #religion #fundamentalism #fundamentalist christianity #women's rights #radfem #radfem safe #radical feminism #feminist #women's safety #women's liberation #women's lib #radblr #radical feminists do interact #radical feminists please touch

[jodistorian]

they match <3

#my moid ex classmates used to say female detected opinion rejected so heres the misandrist version #jj stuff #radfems do interact #radfems do touch #radblr #terf memes #radfem memes #radfem safe #radfems please interact

[feminist-bitches-only]

Hey @ trans inclusive radical feminists, how do y’all beat the terf accusations while also talking about sex based oppression as a form of misogyny? I literally highlight my support of trans people in my bio and my pinned post and just got hit with a terf accusation :/

#I’m thinking maybe it’s because I will reblog posts that discuss good feminist concepts without checking to see if the op is a terf??? #or is this just not possible to do at all if you talk about sex based oppression as a major player in misogyny? #like I don’t wanna stop posting or reblogging posts that happen to discuss some issues between trans tumblr and feminist tumblr #ex like claiming the Billie eilish must be trans since she dresses in a gnc way #because like that’s a terribly misogynistic way of thinking and needs to be brought to peoples attention #but I literally never imply that trans people on the whole are the issue like there are gonna be misogynists and bad apples in any group #no matter their identity #so like what do ya do to not have people mistake you for a terf? #is it just bc people knee jerk react when they see radfem inspired non transphobic feminist takes because they have experience with seeing #radfem informed posts that are transphobic? #tirf #trans inclusive feminism #trans inclusive radical feminism #trans inclusive radical feminist

[gothicroses]

jk rowling liked this:

this is not feminism considering the taliban hates women. jk rowling is not a feminist and im so sick of terfs acting like she is. then again terfs and radfems aren't feminists 😘✌

also that women made this tweet as well:

jk rowling really needs to research better

#ex radfem #anti terf #former radfem #anti radfem #radfems dni #anti jkr #anti jk rowling #radfem #radfem critical #radfem safe

[cannibalspyre]

women & "feminists" who shut down discussions on how unregulated immigration of *males* from islamic countries *do* pose an additional threat to the safety and freedom of local women & girls are simply spineless.

this is not a "our males vs their males" comparison, which is unnecessary, considering all men harm all women around the world.

this is about opposing the import of potential rapists, which would only add to the existing population of them. they are men who disproportionately leave their women and children behind when immigrating to other countries.

women from islamic countries are aware of how men view the "western woman". we know about their rape fantasies. i will never prioritize my nationality or the comfort of foreign/familiar men over my loyalty to the protection of women & girls.

#radical feminism #radfem #radfem safe #ex muslim #immigration #anti islam #anti religion #.txt

[rad-claid-plaid]

I think that most men who are "financially clueless" and just go "oopsie sorry I know we had rent to pay but I just dropped $1500 on a new toy I wanted. It's your job to figure it out" aren't really financially illiterate. They seem to do that knowing fully that they don't have the financial means to do it, but then just demand the woman in their life fixes it.

He's saying, "I made a decision. I expect you to fix this by suffering yourself." So the woman goes without healthcare or food for herself and her children to try to fix the finances. If she complains, then it's *her* fault for not budgeting better or making sure he is aware of the finances (spoiler alert, he's well aware, he just doesn't care). She's expected to sell her jewelry or her car to keep the house, just because he wanted a toy. It's another shade of financial control.

#radblr #radfems please interact #radfem #radfems do touch #plaid.txt #radfems interact #i jad an ex that spent like $2k getting a tattoo sleeve commissioned and started when he had no money #i was paying for his rent at this point. he owed me like 3k. his mommy was paying his rent and he blew his mommys money too #he was jealous that i got a $150 flash from that artist who was a pretty woman. so the next day he went out and blew $2k on the depositx #and also the time he bought a new computer when he was broke and owed me rent money. fucking asshole. #my dad does this shit too. paycheck to paycheck? WELL I NEED BIGGER COOLER TIRES FOR MY TRUCK fuck the bills.

[womenaremypriority]

Is it really hard to believe that internalized misogyny could be why so many young girls want to be men, or at least, non-women? Is it really hard to believe this could be common? Is it hard to believe that affirming this belief could make it become stronger? Is it really that hard to believe that we should consider this without calling it conversion therapy?

#My post #This is not from an ex-trans person btw #Gender critical #radical feminism #radfem #radical feminists do interact #radblr #radical feminist safe

[annabelle--cane]

not saying that people who got out of hate groups are, like, cursed to have evil corrupted souls forever, but if that's you then maybe you Shouldn't to be the one to try and make "balanced" takes about problems within the group/community you used to be in a hate movement against

#all real things I've seen: #'the problem with ace communities is-' -> has 'was an exclus until 2019 but have left that behind' in their bio #'I just think transfem circles are too-' -> has 'ex terf; 0 tolerance for radfem bs' in their bio #'if nonbinary people want to be more accepted-' -> has 'used to be a transmed but those posts no longer reflect my views' in their bio #just like Hey Man. glad you're trying to be better! that's a hard yet worthwhile thing to do! but maybe be quiet on certain topics. #marina marvels at life

[myyouthtragedy]

and now middle eastern Muslim women are so in denial that their religion is just shitty they start listening to those western muslims

#radfem #radblr #radfems do touch #ex muslim #feminist #terf safe #terfblr

[lettucedloophole]

i think it's easier to agree with terfism in concept, that a woman is just an Adult Human Female and this is actually liberatory rather than regressive & confining.

but in practice, in terf spaces you'll find:

cis women sexually harassing each other (some even talked about wanting to rape women, but since they weren't Male it was a-ok. certainly not as much of a biggie as a trans woman peacefully existing online, anyway.) there is also so much shaming of formerly prostituted women, rf or not, & rape/dv victims.

weird racism and nazi shit! much like the rapey people mentioned above, while some terfs wouldn't outright support racism, they'd tolerate it and follow "white supremacist feminists" or "radical feminists" making anti-semitic jokes (cough cough. radfem hitler) some terfs thought they were weird privately but there was no move to push them out of terf spaces like there was with Transfem Lesbians Existing.

this is also racism & nazi shit... when women's march changed their logo, there was a huge backlash in terf spaces about how this silhouette–

–was male, or meant to be a trans woman. of course, a lot of people were like "that's racist because some woc have that nose type." i saw two responses to that argument-- 1), it was actually the brow bone which was male, so it wasn't racist, and 2) women's march did this on purpose to make terfs look bad (and? it worked lmfao.) i was shocked at just how openly, insanely regressive this was, and it illustrated a point to me about terfs-- they will throw women under the bus who look masculine (like, any woman who could've had that silhouette) to keep the trans moral panic fueled.

more on throwing masc (cis) & other women under the bus-- i saw terfs who'd spent time in those spaces for a while began to question if muscular women in wrestling were "real women" or if they were "a man pretending to be a woman." trans women were made fun of for their "male" features, which of course, weren't male specific. they mocked vaginoplasty & dilation to get to trans women, thereby also insulting the cis women who did those things (which, they seemed to either not know about or just didn't care.) at one point, a cis tirf was talking about her experience getting harassed as trans in the bathroom and a bunch of terfs ganged up on her to call her a liar. so, believe women until it goes against your political agenda i guess? and, for that bbc article on cis lesbians feeling pressured to sleep with trans women, they literally interviewed a cis lesbian who'd been accused of rape multiple times, including in bathrooms. but trans women are the actual rapists, right?

one thing that's very sad is how woc in these spaces will see things like, nazis coming to terf events and being Allowed to stay there and plead for the movement to change, as if... anyone cares about woc here? terfs don't care about masc or non-white women considering how their rhetoric negatively impacts both.

crazy amounts of terfs claiming they just care about trans people and don't want them to hurt themselves, thennn calling trans people mutilated freaks & posting pictures without consent, even of minors, of surgery results good and bad.

and concerning the last point, this is just some contradictory things i've seen in terf spaces concerning cis women & afab people, but really the transmisogyny should be enough to stop your support of it. even if terfs managed to liberate all afab people somehow, trans women's well-being is important by itself. i just think these contradictions i've seen personally work nicely to poke holes in terf ideology.

#radical feminism #trans inclusive radical feminism #ex-terf #ex terf #tirf #trans inclusive radfem #tw misogyny #tw transmisogyny #tw transphobia

[paperlunamoth]

I can't believe that some people still need to hear this: Islam is not compatible with feminism. Islam is not compatible with LGBT+ rights. Islam is not compatible with any component of any form of liberal or leftist ideology. The founding "prophet" of Islam was literally a child molester, slave owner, warlord, and all around absolutely shit human being. The hijab, niqab and burkha are blatant and profound symbols of female oppression. You cannot complain about rape culture and then claim that there is nothing wrong with how Islam expects women to present themselves and why. The reason for Islamic modesty is literally the explicit belief that women are responsible for how they are sexualized by men and that women are responsible for men's actions. As in, this explanation is part of the religion's scriptural canon.

Stop defending a religion that passionately despises you, people like you, and people you care about.

#islam #anti religion #atheism #ex muslim #feminism #radical feminism #radfem #radblr #luna's

[cyne-v]

Any arab/ex-muslim or third world radfem server ?

Im an ex muslim radfem who live in north africa , and I would love to be in a server with women who I quite share the same background with .It would be great to reblog this post , so it can reach more women and also potientialy help women who seek the same thing .thanks for your attention ♥

#radfem #radfems please interact #ex muslim #radblr #patriarchy #gender critical #apostate #radfems do interact #radical feminists do touch #radfems #radfem server #arab radfem #terfsafe #radical feminst #atheist