Hey bestie, I know you’re cold so let’s cuddle under my fuzzy blanket and platonically share a kiss? I mean we don’t have to kiss, but your lips look cold, too.
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H E L P P L E A S E
What do I do if I fall in love with my best friend of roughly six years?
I feel like I should preface this by saying that I am in a very open, polyamorous relationship with two other people and said best friend knows I am polyam.
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So, I met this girl in 7th grade and she originally thought I was this goody-two-shoes, teacher’s pet who never made trouble.
Then, one day, I asked her for a squishy toy in science and that’s the moment we became friends.
Fast forward five years and we’re the best of friends.
We’ve seen each other cry, laugh, etc.
We’ve been with each other through thick and thin.
We’ve seen each other go through heartbreak, excitement, anger, anxiety, depression, you name it.
We’ve seen each other naked, we have flirted with each other (Which, for the record, I flirt with LITERALLY all of my friends. So, yeah-), we’ve cuddled, we’ve fallen asleep with each other, etc, etc.
We’re EXTREMELY close with each other.
So, it’s probably no wonder I’ve fallen in love with her….
Right….?
I guess what I’m asking is, I would be devastated if I lost her as a friend…
I also tend to misread my feelings for people and date them only to find that I don’t love them the way I thought I did…
I’ve lost friends over shit like this…
What do I…?
I want to tell her how I feel but at the same time, I CAN’T lose her…
I don’t know what to do….
Any suggestions are welcome and appreciated…
Thanks for reading… 😅😅😅
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I’m in love with my bestfriend… help
That’s tough! Thoughts on telling them? Hear me out…
If you don’t, it’s unlikely your feelings with just vanish, which means they likely will only get stronger, and that’s going to cause issues with your friendship. It’s going to hurt when they date other people, prioritize other people, and ultimately you are loving someone who doesn’t know you love them, which leave room for sooo much hurt.
If you do tell them, there is still room for hurt, they might not feel the same way, it could cause you to lose them, but there is also the chance that they might feel the same way…
You’ve gotta decide which one sounds better to you🤍
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I need your comfort, your smile, your laugh, your jokes...but only when we're alone. When no-one else can see your smile, understand you're jokes and see you're smile.
I thought I was fine with being friends then I saw your smile and all I could think of was you, you, you, YOU
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I don't think I'll ever love anyone as much as I loved you. you were my other half. the only one that really gets me. my soulmate. you say those same words but you don't mean them the same way that I do. the way that I need. I'll still be in your life forever, as you will be in mine, but never in the way that I wish it could be.
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My childhood best friend who showed me the rocky horror picture show just posted that she was watching it again on her Insta story. I was totally in love with her and we used to watch it all the time and song sweet transvestite in the playground at school. Now we don’t even talk. Wtf is my life?
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Mike Likes Cute Things
Dustin, Lucas, Steve, Max, and Robin all use the word “hot” to describe people that they’re attracted to in S3.
For Dustin, Lucas, and Steve, it’s in reference to Phoebe Cates, who Dustin compares Suzie to.
Dustin: “Think Phoebe Cates, only hotter.”
Lucas: “She’s a genius and she’s hotter than Phoebe Cates? No girl is that perfect!”
Steve: “No no. No way. Hotter than Phoebe Cates? No.”
It’s implied that they all view Phoebe Cates as the pinnacle of hotness - a common opinion at the time as a result of her role in Fast Times.
Similarly, Max uses the word hot to describe Ralph Macchio. Another actor that was popular at the time as a result of his looks.
Max: “Yeah he’s the Karate Kid. […] He’s so hot right?”
Finally, Robin uses the word hot in reference to girls when she tries to convince Keith to give Steve a job at Family Video. She bribes him by talking about all the ladies he’ll bring in.
Robin: “And these ladies… These ladies are hot. They’re so very hot.”
This is all to say that most teenagers are attracted to people that they consider “hot.”
When Mike finds out about Suzie though, he doesn’t ask Dustin if she’s hot. Mike asks…
“Is she cute?”
Mike is the only one to use this word. He’s the only one who is primarily concerned with cuteness rather than hotness, and his word choice is so telling. Unlike many teenagers, Mike is drawn to cute things still.
Things like the little teddy bear with the bow tie at the mall…
…and, ya know, his best friend, who happens to be strategically placed right behind him throughout the entire shot…
… in bright red shorts…
… as if he’s Mike’s version of a certain someone.
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I miss you.
I miss you .
F*ck, I miss you.
I need you.
I need you.
F*uck, I need you.
I don't want them.
I just want you
To do things I always wanted you to do.
But how do I tell you?
I just don't know.
I want to tell you
The things you already know.
-Unknown
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