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starlit-mansion · 8 months
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I've decided that i want to disrupt the strightsized/midsized thriftblogger industrial complex for my fellow actually fat people. I havent been as small as a size 18 since senior year of highschool and my waistline is sitting comfortably at around 50 inches these days and i thrift but it's frequently humiliating. Here are my tips.
one: there isn't nothing. It might be slim pickings. It might be a single rack in a 2 story shop. It might be only 2 pairs of pants in the whole place. But you've been on the street and in the grocery store. You know there are other people your size in the world and their stuff ends up a thrift store too.
two: avoid trendy areas like the plague. do you live in a smaller town? do you have reason to go to one? go to a thrift store there. if you know there are more people your size in an area, then that's a good sign for your chances. you aren't looking for designer pieces at a steal; you are looking for some gently used lane bryant and this is where it lives.
three: it isnt all or nothing. you can get some things thrifted and some things you're probably going to have to buy at a plus sized store. Getting a few nice blouses for cheap can free up your budget for a pair of new pants from a plus sized retailer. For instance, I really cant thrift a pair of shoes for shit because i have extra wide feet and cankles for days, but my partner who is a similar weight has regular sized feet and could thrift shoes easily, and that's a lot of money that could be saved there.
four: if it only almost fits, put it back. if you're anything like me, the fact that you can button or zip it is going to feel like a miracle, but if it hurts or digs in any way, it'll sit in your closet for weeks while the things that don't hurt get worn many times in a row. we don't always have the luxury of everything in our wardrobes sparking joy but it can at least not spark pain.
five: be honest. if you aren't going to fix it or take it out, don't waste your money on a project piece that's going to sit around for the next 2 years and go back to the thrift store from whence it came.
five point five: be a little adventurous though. especially with shirts and dresses. maybe you've never tried that color before but it looks good in the store. this is a low stakes way to expand your style. you can always get rid of it if you decide against it, either within a return window, or donating it back. If your thrift store gives coupons for donating, taking a small grocery bag with a few pieces will get you the same discount as a car full of old furniture, so donate small amounts and often.
six: if you're thrifting online, thrift the brand you trust. like i hinted above, i trust lane bryant. i also trust torrid because i'm tall and torrid is for me and the transfems. search on shopgoodwill or depop or whatever by the brand you know the sizing of. hell, you can also seach the box store brand like time and tru or ava viv on there if you miss that one piece from a year or two ago that was cute and fit you perfectly. Speaking of...
seven: goodwill gets target overstock. you can find new overstock stuff from last season on the racks. i've seen many a thing go from clearance at my local target to on the shelves at the goodwill. keep it in mind if you're broke but used clothes yuck you out. you can find new with tag stuff in plus sizes, either from stores directly or people who just aren't fussed about money.
eight: you have to go a lot to find stuff. that's how the bloggers do it; they made it their side hustle in some way. i don't suggest doing it if you have no interest in it, but if you can put aside a half hour once a week or twice a month to check while you're running your errands, you can start finding stuff. Keep your trips and your budget small, and start looking for stuff for the next season months ahead of time to keep the pressure down.
nine: save a treat. either literally go for a treat afterward for being a big brave bestie and confronting the fact that you have a corporeal form and it needs clothes, or look through the fun thing that relaxes you. Looking for silly mugs? trying to find fine leather purses? want to look at ugly figurines and take pictures of them to text your friend and say "it's you'? Do that. Every time you go to the thrift store, add in the fun thing. If looking for work clothes can't motivate you, maybe looking through the children's paperbacks to try to rebuild your collection of animorphs books that you got rid of in 2005 will.
lastly: cut out the middle man. if you have a friend or relative of similar size to you: TRADE the pieces you're pruning from your wardrobe with each other before you donate them. It will give you the spark of newness that you both are looking for. Also you can reference the "those shoes... look familiar..." vine when you see them wearing something you gave them.
tl;dr: thrift often and in small doses, make it fun for yourself if you can, and also i just heard a tip where if you want to check a waistband size without trying it on, have the waistband fully closed and hold it to your hip. if the ends of the waistband reach your spine and bellybutton, it'll probably fit. So that's pretty handy.
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filthelder · 11 months
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Admin reveal
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0ntheplusside · 1 year
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thingamagob · 4 months
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i was a bear today
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volup2 · 2 years
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Raise your hands if you approve of our new C O V E R ! Such an immense pleasure to work with my muses @annie_mc4 and @zozonicoco as well as reunite with my right hand WOman Rachel | Pro Hair & Makeup Artist | London] LINK IN BIO to see the entire editorial And chevk out their interview too in Volup2's Article section. Photographer Velvet d'Amour Clothing @asos H/MU Rachel | Pro Hair & Makeup Artist | London] H/MU Assistant @linaviktorine
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plumptactician · 2 years
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[[Scarlet Devil Fatsion.]]
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weekdayslay · 4 years
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Spooky vibes for a Monday morning (which I am thoroughly unprepared for). Everything is from Taking Shape in size XL/24. I'm still loving this jumpsuit trend and this one is super comfortable.
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teaodore · 4 years
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I bought a wig so I could live out my kawaii fantasies
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aubameyauntie · 4 years
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I do it for the girls and the theys that's it xx
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versatilecorset · 4 years
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Some curvy goodness for your Saturday morning pleasure.... ⠀
Shop: www.VersatileCorsets.com ⠀
#weekendvibes #sluttysaturday #sexysaturday #saturdaymorninggoodness #corsetmaker #womenownedbusiness #womenrunbusiness #bespokelingerie #altfashion #fetishfashion #fetishstyle #plussizefashion #fatshion #curvygoodness #curvygoddess #plussizemodel
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0ntheplusside · 1 year
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Gabriella Lascano
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invisiblemelanin · 5 years
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Representation is important and @adornedbychi is a trailblazer in the manga community
A light cosplay I did of my twin Kelechi 🖤
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weekdayslay · 4 years
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Love the colours and the pleating in this top. I bought it during a black out, but black out me has good taste. The shirt is from My Size in size XL, with my have palazzo pants from Love Yours.
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hmasfatty · 5 years
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So fance 
https://www.instagram.com/p/B10r7rIghAi/?igshid=1o7jz2a3uf6o4
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