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I feel the same way about this; it's almost never not fetishistic. Not even that it's always sexualized, but it's objectified into something for their own personal enjoyment that has nothing to do with actually transsexual people, and more often than not actively dehumanizes them. It's been perverted, in the original sense of the word, as in corrupted, distorted.
It's drama-porn. Emotional torture porn. Or it's about treating transsexual people as little more than extreme crossdressers. It's exploitative. It's got fuck-all to do with "representation" or "activism" and in my personal experience, the only people claiming to make this to represent themselves are the non-dysphoric not-actually-transsexual crowd.
Basically, you've got a crowd that points out how cisgender people can have similar scars, appearances or treatment/surgical needs as transsexual people, and how invisible and insignificant the differences between cisgender people and transitioned transsexual people can be; and you've got a crowd that actively emphasizes the differences, frames transsexual men as "men with female parts" and transsexual women as "women with male parts" and outright fetishizes, glorifies or just fucking memes the shit out of that. These are not the same.
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catgirl-catboy · 2 years
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You cannot tell if someone is fetishizing a group based off how they see them in a sexual context.
Fetishizing is entirely about how you see that group in your non-sexual day to day life. If you treat the group respectfully outside the bedroom, you are not the problem.
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extravagrant · 1 year
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People who like a certain MLM ship (canon or not doesn't matter) and then proceed to make one of them the "manlier" one (typically the poc one because...somehow they're racist too) and the other one "feminine", and then go out of their way to LITERALLY HATE ANY FEMALE CHARACTER WHO IS TYPICALLY SHIPPED WITH EITHER OF THOSE MEN JUST BECAUSE THEY "get in the way of my otp!!!" need to fucking slit their throats, pour gasoline inside said cut, then glue their fucking head back together and swallow some lit fireworks. How tf can you fetishize gay ppl, be heteronormative, racist AND misogynistic at SAME TIME????
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bonelessenthusiast · 1 year
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i hate when people sexualize autistic traits and act like it’s autism acceptance
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ithappensoffstage · 1 month
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I am genuinely so worried for all the young horny dykes going into adulthood thinking there's something "problematic" / "wrong" with them for being horny because fucking tiktok lesbians think any horny dyke content is "male gaze fetishitic"
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miraclemaya · 2 months
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this is problematic of me (joke) but i really enjoy the splashing of french into english speech or writing. just adds a pizzazz
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pocket-deer-boy · 5 months
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“Umm it’s really obvious you have a fetish for fat people” okay i think that’s fine actually. I would prefer to be open about being attracted to fat people rather than tell other people not to be so openly attracted to fatness, something which people do to me with a strange amount of frequency
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Oh ok yeah
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People have gotten way too comfortable with meme'ing transsexualism and gender dysphoria. "I'm just treating it as normal, I fully support it!" no you've blurred the lines between the "tucute" flavor of transphobia and actually transsexual people to the point you can't tell the difference between them anymore. People reblogging posts about "girl dick", "boy pussy", "boys with tits", jokes about gender being men wearing dresses, treating dysphoria like some sort of meme. Pretty sure this was still considered offensive some 5-10 years ago, now every "supportive" person's blog is filled with it. What the fuck happened.
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ashleyloob · 10 days
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every time I see non Asians go by Asian names online I get whiplash bc I'm like o shit another one of me!! then I find out they are a white weeb from Arkansas going by Haru that can't name more than 3 countries in Asia
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wombywoo · 3 months
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under the weather 😔
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redheadedfailgirl · 5 months
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This is high key a based take. Boymoders must be feminized by any means necessary.
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