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cock-holliday · 7 months

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Sometimes wild attraction shit happens when you learn to separate masc/fem from man/woman. I’ve known queer women find the femininity in a man attractive. I’ve known gay men get so hot and bothered by the masculinity of a woman.

There was once a guy who was not really my type but then he did drag and was suddenly wildly attractive to me. And since I’m bisexual it doesn’t give me a crisis when someone is suddenly hot to me in an unconventional way. I used to think this was particularly a bi experience.

Then I’ve met plenty of gay men and lesbians who are also chill about that sort of thing. Sometimes life is like that “oops made out with a twink in Brighton who turned out to be a lesbian who thought I was a lesbian” and sometimes it’s like “hey, I’m not normally into men but this guy has got something hot going on.”

#and this of course leaves out androgyny in all its formss #or feminine masculinity and masculine feminity and so on #gender and sexuality are weird #don’t get too hung up on it #you don’t HAVE to like anyone #someone liking you doesnt mean you have to return it!#AND two people who you don’t think should fit together fitting together doesn’t affect you literally at all #LJsm

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undedkat · 1 year

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Body hair on women is totally normal and natural. A woman having chest hair is okay. Women can grow a beard or a mustache. Women can grow hair on their forearms. Women can grow body hair. Body hair on women is totally natural. Not just the hair on your legs and armpits but the hair everywhere.

#my sister has a mustache and I get a goatie. my mom gets chest hair. all of us as cis and all of that is NORMAL #cis women grow body hair!!! let cis girls be hairy! it’s okay!#this post is trans inclusive btw. trans femmes you don’t need to shave everything to fit in it’s okay #feminism #intersectional feminism #body positivity #unded rambles #kats popular posts

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ggs-trans-inspo · 2 months

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Everything else comes naturally! 😘

#mtf women #feminization captions #maletofemale #transisbeautiful #trans girl #androgynous #transsexual #ggstransinspo #goodgirl #trans fitness #crossdressing captions

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vaspider · 3 months

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Feisty Lady Anger and other things about me you hate

My mother prizes her anger, for all that she doesn't express it openly. I tell stories about her spiteful, steel-spined responses to people who told her, "You can't do that," and I point to them as Why I Am How I Am. Her father told her he wouldn't pay for her college because "women only go to earn the MRS degree," and she could "get married and have babies" without college. In response, Mom got her bachelor's in Mathematics in 1970 on her own dime, back in the days when in-state students didn't pay tuition at state schools (just another thing Reagan ruined). She worked and paid for her books and housing, got her degree, paid for her own wedding because he wouldn't do that either. Taught school, got her Master's, had three kids, started her Ph.D. with 3 under 6 and became a professor when the youngest was 5.

Tell me I can't, my mom told the world, and I'll show you that I can. I won't just do it, I'll become a department head and a Distinguished Professor and retire after 30 years of teaching other math teachers with a list of achievements as long as my arm.

There is an anger that runs deep in the women in my family. Tell me I can't, and I'll show you I can. Show me injustice and I'll tear at it with my teeth and hands, staring you down while I do. Backwards and in heels.

I can't tell you the moment I crossed out of Feisty Lady Anger in the eyes of the people close to me, but I can tell you the moment I noticed. Maybe it was when my voice started dropping or the growing muscles on my shoulders pulled my stance more square and upright. Maybe it was when I moved from they/them to he/they, and somehow I stepped from Diet Woman to Too Close To Man in their eyes.

It's a funny thing when all of a sudden your anger becomes real enough to be startling to people. Your anger is no longer feisty, charming, and attractive. This thing that people liked about you, that people who say they love you said they loved about you, suddenly becomes frightening, upsetting, and terrible. The way you didn't let people mow over you and fought back used to be a thing that people admired. It was actively attractive. It was one of your best qualities.

Now? It's ugly. It's disgusting. It's scary. The thing you were is gone, and now your anger is real to them.

It's in that moment that the blade cuts back towards you. You realize the reason your squared shoulders and set jaw drew people in couldn't be squared with the stubble on that jaw or the newfound strength in your arms. Feisty Lady Anger isn't real, not in the way a man's anger is real. Feisty Lady Anger is admirable, sure, but it is admirable because of its essential ineffectual nature. At most, Feisty Lady Anger fixes minor problems for the kids at school, gets the principal to back down from scolding your child when she politely asks the kid calling her a faggot on the bus if he knows what that really means, pushes a woman to achieve for her family, in appropriately neutered ways.

When you stop pretending to be a woman and become who you really are, when your anger becomes real, you realize both that the thing about you that people loved is gone and that this thing was attractive in the first place because of its ineffectiveness. Your anger wasn't scary because it wasn't real enough to be threatening.

Now you have Man Anger, and, you're told, you should apologize for that. It doesn't matter if it's the same anger you've always had, or that you're angry about the same things. It comes now in baritone, with belly hair and bellowing, and now it's both real and disgusting.

The worst part is watching it come from people you thought should know better, the people who should understand. You spent nearly 40 years being told to sit down and shut up because the men in your professional career were speaking, assured that if you just waited your turn, you'd be given a place to speak eventually, and now here you are being told within a community that claims to love and understand you, by people that claim to be in community with you and love who you are, that you actually don't have any real problems to speak about, also your Man Anger and Man Privilege (when do I get that, please?) are Scary and mean you should sit down and wait, and you'll be given a place to speak eventually.

It is the Transmasculine Catch-22: if you become Man Enough to no longer fit into Almost Lady, your anger becomes Real, which makes you realize that your anger wasn't Real before, but because it's Real now, you're not allowed to have it. And by the way, you're not allowed to be neither Man or Lady - now you're Man Enough, and that makes it all the more clear how you were simply Kirkland Signature Lady right up until the point you weren't.

There will be a few people who Fucking Get It, who don't see you as either a Failed Lady or a Broken Man, and you'll love those people all the more for their rarity. It won't take the sting out of realizing that the things people you love loved about you before now disgust and repel them, but it'll make it enough to keep going.

You couldn't stop, anyway. You've never felt more yourself, and the people who don't love you, the actual you, the real you... the loss of that hurts, but not nearly as much as the idea of pretending to be something else did.

#transmasc #transmascs #transmasculine #transmasc issues #transandrophobia #personal #before someone says it #yes i recognize that this experience is very much a white experience with anger #this is a deeply personal essay #and if you come at me for it not fitting your personal experience as well #we will not talk #i will just block you #it not being fully universal doesn't mean it's not real or not deeply painful #this has taken me years to write #terfs fuck off #radical feminism has done more to neuter the ability of women to be meaningfully angry than any other 'feminist' movement #so just don't

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almadebeatriz · 2 months

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There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to look and feel like her.

You are a transgender woman and that is beautiful!🏳️‍⚧️🌈🫦🔥🍑💕🫶🏻💓🏳️‍⚧️

#lingerie sexy #fashion #women s clothing #trans community #so hot 🔥🔥🔥#body #fitness #trans #transgender #transgiri #mtf hrt #mtf girl #mtf trans #i want to be a girl #i want to be a woman #feminization captions

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kaijukat-art · 9 months

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i need to be institutionalized🤠

#these are so messyyyyyy but idc he looks girlypop #chat chose his fits i had no say in the matter aight #this is a pro boyslut-akaza space #anyways. he’s breedable #kny #kimetsu no yaiba #demon slayer #akaza #my art #I AM FORCIBLY FEMINIZING YOU #with love <3

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prettyassbitches · 2 months

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Who wants to join me in my bed 😋🤤🍑

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transmascpetewentz · 7 months

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"It's just transphobia" and "it's just misogyny:" two sides of the transandrophobic coin that tries to force trans men into binaries that we do not belong in

#wentz.txt #transandrophobia #intersectional feminism #<- transandrophobia = intersection of transphobia and misogyny against transmascs #if it was just transphobia then it wouldn't share all these characteristics with misogyny to #and if it was just misogyny then cis women wouldn't have systemic power over transmascs which they do lmao #radfems say 'it's just misogyny' and neo radfems say 'it's just transphobia'#both are reducing a complex form of oppression and shared experiences to fit into a neat little box and shut down actual discussion

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tinyfrog51 · 1 year

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I’ve been getting into weightlifting recently (I’m certainly not a gym rat and never really took exercise seriously) and when I tell you what they have been HIDING from us!!!!

Lifting heavy weights makes you feel so physically GOOD. I feel strong, I feel balanced, I feel powerful and capable. The mental and physical health benefits of weight lifting are nearly infinite, and I’m getting these benefits within two weeks of starting! I can already see changes in my body and in my mind.

Women are discouraged from heavy weightlifting because society demands we are dainty, small, and submissive, so many women do weight loss-type workouts like Pilates and cardio. (Nothing wrong with these either! But perhaps analyze if you are doing these things to make yourself healthier or to make yourself look better for men).

Please please please do not be intimidated by weightlifting. Please find a beginners program online and start lifting heavy! You will never regret it, and it’s much easier than it looks!

#radfem #terfs please touch #radical feminism #feminism #radfem safe #weight lifting #fitness #radical feminist safe #radical feminists please touch #radfem do touch #radfems please touch #radfems interact

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papershipghosts · 6 months

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the suit stays ON during sex idc idc

oh my GOD i need him so bad

#this is the superior suit #tan suit blue shirt superior fit #Holland march #the nice guys #ryan gosling #i need him #i need him in a way that concerns feminism

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queerism1969 · 2 years

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ggs-trans-inspo · 3 months

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Dress inspiration #2

#mtf women #feminization captions #maletofemale #transisbeautiful #trans girl #androgynous #transsexual #ggstransinspo #goodgirl #trans fitness #crossdressing captions

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boobookiss · 13 days

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hey so

*Femmes your darkiplier*

#darkiplier #i wanna be very clear this is not celine!dark #this is damien dark he is just feminized now #not that feminized... this isnt as funny or silly as i wanted it to be but i was like god i cant not make him butch. im sorry #he would take inspo from celine w the black lipstick if he did go girlmode tho #myposts #i think i made them also just too hot. this is rlly lacking the prototypical darkiplier sillyness of this era #but this is the image they would WANT to portray so its fine it fits #also he obviously still has the ill fitted suit. of course. it can never be changed #dark having ill fitted suit is a canon event #this ask is silly jklghkfhf #thank you for it #markiplier egos

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knight-king-ler69 · 8 months

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Idk I think they’re just helping him get ready for his model shoot. Giving him a workout, massaging his muscles, and putting him in a good mood. Wow is can get really stressful, I’m glad he has them in his corner ☺️🫶🏽

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sissygirl-27 · 3 months

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Fixing my window blinds while getting ready to go out 😅

#cross dressing #bigdix #feminine sissy #transfem #trans #transgirl #faggot sissy #transisbeautiful #perfect butt #smooth ass #fit beauty #trans woman #transgender #sissi femboi #femme #feminism

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prettynpnkk · 3 months

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this song + ino = 😮‍💨😮‍💨

IM LITERALLY COOKIN BRO WHAT??

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