Oh, can we call it a night?
What’s the most played song on your iPod?
I don’t iPod anymore these days, but theres a site that will aggregate your Spotify listening, and the song I’ve listened to the most all time on Spotify is In Your Atmosphere by John Mayer.
What is one quality you admire most in others?
People who know what they want to do with themselves.
What would you do with a million dollars?
Invest it, maybe? Buy a new car. Start a non-profit that will save the world. Or just a small part of it.
What’s your favorite song to dance to?
All of them.
What would your ideal birthday party be like?
No idea.This year I went to my favorite pizza place with a couple of friends, my mom and husband. Was pretty good.
If you could be reincarnated into anything you wanted, what would it be?
I’m not sure I believe in any of that.
What talent would you like to have?
I wish I was ABSOLUTELY FANTASTIC at something. I’m good at most things, and can get by, but I’m not outstanding at any singular thing.
Are you ticklish?
What’s the longest you’ve gone without sleep?
3 days or so. I basically had the flu and felt like I was dying. Not like the real flu either, theres this illness you get when your body hasn’t slept in too long.
What New Year’s resolutions did you make?
What are three songs that mean the most to you?
Mayonaise by the Smashing Pumpkins, Wonderful Tonight by Eric Clapton and Bornand Raised by John Mayer. Someone else used these italics and I’m just running with it.
Who is the one person you miss the most?
What do you think of your parents?
They are flawed people. I make the best out of my relationship with my mom, but I’m just not sure I want to bother with my dad.
What is one thing you would do to make the world better?
Instill a sense of community. People would be so much better off if we all gave a shit about the other people we are on this planet with.
What is your favorite kind of sandwich?
Hot, cheesy, some kind of sauce. Other than that, I’m flexible.
If you had a puppy, what would you name it?
I got a puppy 2 years ago and his name is Finn. We wanted a Star Wars name and Supreme Leader was the runner up name.
If you could be invisible for a day, what would you do?
I can’t think of anything I’d wanna see. What people do behind closed doors is their business lol.
How much cash do you have on you right now?
None. I’m in pjs, but beyond that, I rarely use cash.
What do you think makes you attractive to other people?
Humor or personality?
Would more money make you happier?
I don’t know. We have a comfortable amount now, minus paying for healthcare. Steve may have a job offer that would cover the healthcare, but would I be happy not working? Would I just turn into a loser slug?
What is one of your favorite memories as a child?
I really don’t know. My parents pretty much screamed and threw things all the time until my dad moved out. Then they played horrible games with me in the middle. There’s a lot of stuff I don’t even remember about being a child. I’d say the good stuff started happening when I was a teen and could seek refuge in my friends and their stable houses. I had one friend in particular, Andrew, whose mom and dad were super nice and he had a fun little sister- every time I was over there, which was VERY often, it was like a slice of the good life.
What’s the hardest thing you’ve ever had to do in your life?
This was on another survey and I didn’t know how to answer it. I think once it’s done I just move on, I’m really a dweller.
How do you measure intelligence?
Unsure. I guess you just get a feeling for someones intelligence as you’re interacting with them.
What cartoons do you watch?
None at the moment. I did just get Disney+, so that may change, but there aren’t really any cartoons I’m planning on watching.
Have you ever used drugs?
If you were a Skittle, what flavor would it be?
The purple one. Sleeper hit.
How would you describe your style?
Hmmm. Casual indie bohemian with a side of lazy fat person.
If you had to spend $1,000 in one hour, how would you spend it?
The internet. Generally, my money goes to clothes or Halloween decorations. I really wanna buy some regular decor for the house though, so maybe that.
What’s your favorite smell and why?
I don’t have one. Something not flowery or overbearing. Something fresh and natural.
Where do you buy your clothes?
Anthropologie, ModCloth, Target, Gap, Old Navy, Loft.
What’s your favorite kind of cake?
Birthday cake? Funfetti?
Does intelligent life exist elsewhere in the universe?
I have absolutely no idea. I used to think that it was just statistically impossible that there wasn’t, but fuck I don’t even know how any of this got here, so I no longer have an opinion.
If you could eat anything right now, what would it be?
MilkBar birthday cake.
Are you into tattoos?
I guess so? I like the art of them, I follow a lot of tattoo people on instagram and keep up with their work. I just got my first tattoo a week ago and I’m 35, so it’s not like something I do a lot, ha ha.
Do you like photography?
I do. I have illusions that I’m a photographer sometimes. I should be currently editing a wedding right now, but here I am. I’m just not sure I’ll ever be the kind of photographer I’d like to be, so I don’t know what I wanna do with it going forward.
If you were a holiday, which one would you be?
Do you have any siblings?
If you were to get a tattoo, what would it be of?
I just got one. It’s a bat pusheen. I really wanted a bat of some sort and pusheen is my favorite so I just went for it. I always thought my bat tattoo would be a little more dark, but it is what it is lol.
What’s the biggest celebrity you’ve ever seen in real life?
I hid behind a dumpster when I was like 14 and 3 of the Backstreet Noys walked right by me, ha ha. I have some photos with me and the guys from Good Charlotte from when I was a wee teenybopper.
How many pushups can you do?
What person in history do you admire most?
None? I don’t think I admire anyone. These surveys are quickly informing me that I don’t believe in anything or look up to anyone. Am I inert?
Who is your favorite actor?
I don’t have one. Ha ha, see above. I like most of the stuff Chris Pratt is in. Robery Downey Jr as Iron Man is iconic, but I’ve never seen any of his other movies. I like Adam Driver in Girls and Star Wars.
What is the most daring thing that you have done in public?
Have you ever lied about your age?
I don’t think I’ve ever had cause to.
Have you ever cried while watching a movie? If so, what movie?
For sure. Everything makes me tear up in my old age. Last movie was probably Endgame, though.
Are you afraid of anything that most people are not afraid of?
Not like huge, life changing fears, but I’m always afraid a bug will get caught in my hair and I can’t touch drains because they freak me out.
Where do you see yourself five years from now?
I’ve never been one to make plans. Hopefully happy with more direction.
What is your favorite candy?
Fun Dip, Nerds, Starburst.
Have you ever watched someone struggle with addiction?
Not someone suer close, but there are lots of auxillary people I know that have and do.
Who do you look up to for your style?
No one in particular. I see things on the internet I like and try to incorporate that, but its always varied sources.
Who is your favorite sports team?
I don’t follow sports.
How often do you drink alcohol?
Once every two weeks? Even then, its usually just one drink with dinner. I don’t much care about drinking. It seems like a lot of work to fill myself up with something I don’t really like the taste of just so I can potentially feel bad later.
What is your life in three words?
Evolving yet bland.
If you could be anything in the world, what would you be?
I knew that, I’d be working towards it.
Would you have a pet dragon? If so what color would it be?
Sure. Whatever color dragon is fine with me.
What’s your favorite sport?
The only one I even kind of pretend to care about is baseball.
Do you believe that homeless people are dangerous?
If you could be skinny and miserable or fat and happy, which would you be?
I’d always pick happy.
If your life flashed before you, what do you wish you would have done?
Hmmm, I don’t know. I don’t have like any huge regret at the moment so probably just wish I’d have enjoyed myself more.
If you were to invent something, what would it be?
Hopefully something that makes the world better. Some kind of climate change related thing?
Who would you like to get to know better?
This wholesaler real estate guy that has been selling us properties. Maybe if we knew him better, he would give us better deals, lol.
Have you ever had a near-death experience?
Near drowning when I was seven.
Do you fear death?
What is the strangest food you ever ate?
Hmmm. I like food with interesting combinations. Like smelly cheese or beet pesto or something, but I’m not on board with weird meat and I don’t eat seafood.
Do you think you’re cool?
What reality show would you like to be on?
None. I don’t watch any of them. The only show like that I ever watched was the Osbournes, ah aha.
What’s your favorite thing to order at a Chinese food restaurant?
Whatever is gluten free. Ususally no choices for me at most chinese places. PF Changs has pad thai and general tsos I can have and another place nearby has general tsos too, but thats about it.
I loved lo mein and crab rangoon in my former life, though.
Are you happy with your life?
For the most part.
If you could name your own planet, what would you call it?
I’d need some plantary details before coming up with a name.
If you could live another 200 years. What would you hope to see?
People learning that we need to work together.
Would you rather be hot or cold?
Well, I’m cold like 90% of the time and that sucks, but at least you can do something about it and layer up and get blankets and such- if you’re hot, you’re just stuck.
How would you rate yourself?
What am I rating here? I’m like a 0 at makeup skills, but like an 11 if you need someone to pick you up in an emergency. 10 at playlist making. 1 at doing the dishes.
Would you ever move to a different country in an attempt to start over?
Maybe not to “start over”, but I would definitely consider a dream job in another country if all the details worked out.
If you could be a character from any book, who would you be?
No idea. I read a lot of Stephen King and none of those characters are alright.
Do you prefer taking baths or showers?
I’d love to take a bath, but I’m a little big for the tub.
Do you still collect toys from Happy Meals?
Nope. I never ate happy meals even as a kid, so I never did.
What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?
I drove two states over for a sandwich once. It was like a 15 hour round trip.
In your opinion what is the greatest challenge the world faces today?
People being willing to fuck over every one else if they think it will benefit them in any tiny, miniscule way. You are destroying everything by being an asshole and letting the people that really have all the money get away with it.
Do you like dogs or cats better?
I was 100% cat until I got a dog 2 years ago. I’m mostly dog at this point. Don’t tell my cat.
What have you achieved that you once thought was impossible?
Hmm, I don’t know. I’m a lot better off than my parents were. I just kind of thought the constant worrying about the car breaking down or the bills being paid was grown up life, so its nice to get here and know that I worked hard to not have those problems.
If an ex texted you out of the blue, how would you respond?
I don’t think I would. I’ve been with Steven for a decade, so theres def nothing that needs to be said to anyone that far back.
Do you have a favorite poet?
I don’t. I really like some poems I’ve read randomly in my internet travels, but I’ve never really been able to sit down and read a book of poetry.
What have you tried to quit, but weren’t able to?
Eating too much food?
Would you rather go on a shopping spree with $200 or put it in the bank?
I’d rather go shopping. I might save it, though.
What was the last rumor that you heard?
No idea. I don’t really have rumors around me at this point in my life. My friends aren’t like that and I’m not working anywhere at the moment.
What country star would you most like to meet and why?
I don’t really know who any of them are.
Have you ever been in a car accident?
Yes. One of them happened when I was like 15 and it pinched a nerve in my neck and half of my left hand went numb. My mom didn’t believe me for a really long time that there was something wrong until she watched me try to pick up a glass of milk with my left hand and it just fell to the floor.
Are you an organ donor?
What is the most dangerous thing you have ever done?
Unsure. I’m fairly adventurous, but I don’t do super dangerous things. I guess just trespassing in old abandoned buildings when I was younger could have been dangerous.
What is the meaning of life?
Moments of joy. For you and others.
What word do you like the sound of?
Nothing in particular jumps out to me. Isn’t Cellar Door supposed to be lovely?
What’s your favorite ice cream flavor?
Hmmm. I don’t know. Its more about the brand I think. I usually get Jeni’s or the other fancy ice cream brand when I get the chance.
I always get the cake flavored froyo, though.
Do you prefer cupcakes or muffins?
Are you an athlete?
Ha ha, no.
What did the last text message on your phone say?
From my brother in law. He’s doing the work on the house we just bought, getting it ready for a renter. He wants more money, lol.
What is the funniest movie you’ve seen in your whole entire lifetime?
Man, I don’t know. I think maybe Grandma’s Boy was the funniest I had seen at the time. I usually don’t even like movies like that.
What’s the worst nightmare you’ve ever had?
I had this dream when I was a kid that I left the scissors out and they flew up and cut my moms fingers off and the whole dream was dark and black and white because it was night, but at the end, she picked up the phone (landline, because cell phones weren’t a thing then) and the only color was the green light coming from the phone that illuminated the numbers and she was trying to dial 911 with her fingers that weren’t there.
I probably had that dream close to 30 years ago now and it’s still clear in my mind.
What do you know how to cook?
Lots of things. I’m especially good at carbonara or alfredo.
What’s the worst injury you’ve ever had, and what was it from?
I fell down the stairs and broke several bones, severely sprained both ankles and ended up getting surgery to fix the cartilage in one ankle.
What’s your favorite amusement park ride?
Any that my fat ass can fit on.
What do you wish you were doing right now?
Well i’m doing this instead of things I should be doing.
Who are your musical influences?
I don’t play music, so I’m not really influenced?
What was your favorite band or musician when you were 12?
The Smashing Pumpkins, Bush, Nine Inch Nails, Marilyn Manson and the Back Street Boys, ha ha.
What’s the best pick-up line that’s ever been tried on you?
I don’t think anyone has ever given me one.
How many drinks can you handle?
I don’t really know at this point. Getting older changes things. I know that if I have one drink and then stop, I get a headache, lol.
What was the longest phone conversation you’ve ever had?
Hours and hours. Like 7 or 8 probably? Back in my day you could only talk to boys on the phone because we didn’t have cell phones or text messaging and you only had dial up internet.
What’s your favorite candle scent?
I got one from Anthropologie called Riviera that was my favorite candle scent ever. I bought two, but they are sold out now and I am very sad.
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