#foot fetishist

[craycraybluejay]

You know how a pretty obvious majority of kinksters are submissives? You want to know a big part of the reason why it's hard to find a dom that's into the same hard kink you are?

Ask a hardcore masochist what they think of being whipped.

Then ask a hard sadist what they think of whipping someone.

Do you notice that the sadist/dom will often either dance around an answer or try to use soothing language/euphemism not unlike the way how in many places people are still expected to discuss sex if at all. Gentle, calculated language.

The issue is, especially with a new surge of purity culture overtaking so-called "leftist" online circles, is that fantasy becomes a moral judgement.

Sub with a noncon kink: "I want to be raped" (cnc but like. People can talk ab it how they want don't cancel me fr.)

Response from Normies: "well that's weird and kinda dark but ok"

Dom with a noncon kink: "I want to rape"

Response from Normies: "I'm calling the police and you should kys and you're also a sexual abuser and even though you haven't said anything about kids you're also also a pedophile :)"

Not only does the attitude of murderous hatred against doms/tops with hard kinks/fetishes/paraphilias make it difficult for them to practice those kinks (safely and ethically) out of fear of social backlash if it's ever found out even if both they and their partner[s] had a great time and are fine-- but, it actively puts innocent people in danger by equating thoughts and attractions of ANY KIND to the act of hurting others against their will. It equates fantasy, which can oftentimes be played out safely if in a modified way with real harmful actions.

Also, kink is still illegal in many places, so don't "its illegal" me about harder kinks. Law is not morality, none of us are free until all of us are free, etc. You get the gist.

You want to see more doms? Meet someone who can indulge your "scary badwrong" sexy feelings? Then maybe don't actively promote a culture where you put ANY kind of attraction or kink under fire. It doesn't matter if it'd be unethical to act out in real life. Some of the most common kinks worldwide are unethical as fuck to act out irl, including rape. That's why we have cnc, come on, guys.

You know what? In fact, you SHOULD actively shun people who shame others for their sexual feelings. EVEN if you think it's gross. EVEN if it wouldn't be ethical to act on irl. Let these types know that their puritan ideals are NOT accepted here. Let them know that if they want to go to church they can do that but not in your space, not forcing other (non consenting!) people to listen to their hateful and repressive ideology.

Like, hey, I'm not into ABDL, for example. But I will defend to the death other people's right to be into that. To think and feel whatever they think and feel. You think diapers are sexy? Great! I don't personally see the appeal, but you do you boo. There is no Correct Way to be sex/kink negative. Either you believe in thought crime or you don't.

And yes, this post includes "harmful" paraphilias (I put it in quotes because they're only harmful if acted on), sadomasochism, mutilation fetishism, etc etc. Every "gross" or "evil" kink, fetish, para you can possibly imagine. The stuff that makes you horny is just stuff that makes you horny, and being horny is normal. Being "weird horny" is also normal. No one deserves to experience shame, let alone public harassment or hate over feelings they most of the time don't Choose to have. Be mindful of puritan rhetoric and strike it down when you see it.

#important #psa #hard kink #nsft topic #pro para #pro kink #the 'dom shortage' #obv there are other factors but this is just a connection I'm pointing out #purity culture #purity wank #puritans #sex and sexuality #tw r@pe mention #p3d0 panic/the trend of calling everyone you don't like a p43d0phi13 despite that that's as i said before #NOT the same thing as csa or ANYTHING like that and simply an experienced attraction #attraction is not r@pe; foot fetishists r not going to randomly hump ur foot and same w ever other kink #thought crime #puritanism #the purity culture wave #discourse #except if you disagree pls block me this is a pro kink blog forever and ever #thoughts are thoughts #anti para people scare me bc if u think someone cant help but have sex with someone/something theyre attracted to... #what EXACTLY are you going to do if someone romantically rejects you???????????? #turning the argument around here. if this is your belief then i do not trust you around me and my loved ones #because if attraction is action then i am scared for the people you are attracted to #because it isn't. and the fact that you think it is says more about you than anyone you hate for their attractions

[hometoursandotherstuff]

#feetfinder #foot fetishists #other stuff

[ashleyloob]

hey how are you liking one piece????

i am past episode 750. my main conclusion is that pre timeskip robin was way hotter

#her fits went so much harder also her hair was cuter #post timeskip robin also def caters to the foot fetishists

[poppythetoppy]

I know there's a looot of negativity out there for foot fetishists (including in media). Like any fetish, there are weirdos & creeps who people think represent the whole community.

This is a positive post for foot fetishists. You aren't weird, you aren't "wrong" for being into feet, and you're definitely appreciated in the tickle community! It's like a win/win when a foot fetishist meets up with a tickle fetishist who doesn't mind (or actively enjoys) their feet played with.

#been with a foot fetishist for 4 1/2 years and its been great!!!!!

[pancakeke]

lets have the opposite of the "wearing shoes in the house" debate:

#foot fetishists keep it to yourself this aint about that #polls #ill get the mail without shoes if the weather is nice #sidewalk rocks fuck me up though

[nerdpoe]

gonna get a TV to replace my projector, cuz i use it so much i'm fuckin burning out LEDs, but like. guys. what do i do with the dismembered feet?

I've only got one pair, and i don't really have anywhere else to put the but the TV stand, which is where the TV is gonna go.

#i tried to sell out to foot fetishists at one point using fake feet #the bastards know their feet tho #caught on real fuckin quick #so now i have a pair of hyper-realistic dismembered feet

[essektheylyss]

I love that Marisha definitely had SOME idea of what was coming, because she looked SO apprehensive BEFORE THE FEET CAME OUT

#critical role #cr spoilers #big night for the foot fetishists in the fandom ig

[barnbridges]

"donna tartt did not give bunny a single redeeming quality" charles literally beats his sister what do you MEAN

#if you cannot empathize with bunny that's literally fine i am not going to say this man is like #either likeable or a hero in the narrative in any meaningful way #but they're all fucking disgusting that's the point #all of these men are dirt at the bottom of your shoe #and are frankly unfriendly and creepy #pretending that's solely a bunny issue is like #on what planet are you on #how is richard reedemable when he's literally a foot fetishist i dont

[ncwhereman]

john lennon and tony king filming commercial for the promo of mind games in lost weekend: a love story (2022)

#john lennon #tony king #lost weekend #lost weekend a love story #the famous foot fetishist is at it again! #films #john #m

[gretchensinister]

I've seen too many discourse posts about what people should be allowed to wear in public that are super boring. Come up with more fun examples. Is Morticia Addams allowed to speak French in public when Gomez is with her?

#rambling #I hope the secret foot fetishists enjoy my flip flops IDGAF

[f-imaginings]

I am a bit tired and sad. Family stuff just gets raw (not RAWR XD lmao) when you go to therapy to recognise the patterns and learn to feel emotions better. Can't fall back on tried and true repression and ignoring behaviour patterns and my feelings now I acknowledge how dysfunctional it really is, and now I just feel sad when these things happen instead of busy or inspired to write escapism or blindly optimistic to the point of denial. I feel so flat and discouraged and irrelevant when this is usually the time of year where my friends make me feel cherished and recognised and I'm struggling to muster the positivity I usually have in the face of bullshit.

#where did my coping mechanisms go #they were probably called out for being coping mechanisms and now im veering away from them #wheres some good old fashioned maladaptive daydreaming when you need it #or even throwing yourself into superficial work that makes you feel objectified and shitty but gleans a few nice compliments #guess im not doing that now but what do i do instead to cope #what do healthy people do #and why is it so hard #would just like a big hug from my friends and to be seen and valued a bit #as i felt abjectly disrespected and unvalued at this family thing and was told i ruined Christmas by standing up for myself #and being a doormat only appeals to the foot fetishists #that aint my bag baby

[clowndensation]

yall ever tried to draw shoes. that shits insane.

#days that make me wish i was a foot fetishist

[and-so-he-rambled]

Rise may have more varied character design but 2012 has the best foot design and I will not take criticism

Very turtle like, 10/10

#not a foot fetishist I promise #I hate feet #but paws and turtle peets are peak design #rottmnt #tmnt #tmnt 2012