#for staying open minded and considering other viewpoints

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

AITA for how I tried to convince my RP partner that not all pwNPD are abusers?

The story is basically what the title says. I'm not giving out genders/ages for anonymity, but everyone involved here is an older teenager or young adult. Someone who I used to be friends with is incredibly biased against people with Cluster B personality disorders (antisocial personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, histrionic personality disorder, and narcissistic personality disorder). In the past, she has implied that all people with narcissistic personality disorder are abusers and that all people with antisocial personality disorder are serial killers. Her reasoning for this is that she was abused in the past by someone with NPD and therefore considers ALL people with a Cluster B disorder to be dangerous.

(to be fair, I don't know if she feels the same way about BPD or HPD, since she has never mentioned either before and I don't dare to lol)

Although I was and still am scared to directly confront her about her viewpoints, I tried challenging them through the roleplays we do together. I introduced a character who would've likely been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder if she was older (she's 17 in the RP). She was portrayed as kind and generous, so I purposefully introduced her to show my friend that people with personality disorders can be good people, even if some of them are abusers. I didn't directly tell her that the character was supposed to represent narcissistic personality disorder, as none of us list the diagnoses of characters.

This wasn't the first character with implied NPD that I had submitted. Rather, there was another character who existed at the time and was just reduced to "insecure villain," which made them rather offensive as "representation." I later removed this character, although I originally tried to "fix" the character by balancing them out with better representation. So, I definitely wasn't trying to claim that people with NPD can't be abusers, ever. Rather, I wanted to show that people with NPD have the potential to be good and bad people.

Eventually, I one day had a mental breakdown for unrelated reasons and "apologized" to my ex-friend, admitting that part of the reason I'd introduced the character was to change her mind. While I don't actually feel bad for introducing the character, I still think I'm an asshole for giving a fake apology for something I don't feel sorry about, as I apologized with the intent of pushing her away rather than showing remorse.

After that, we've kind of put up a fair bit of distance between each other. She's being nice to me because... well, I've convinced her that I'm open to her ableist viewpoints by being a total pushover (another AH move of mine, yippee /s), and I'm staying on good terms with her because I don't want the drama and hurt that comes with formally ending a friendship. I feel like this is an ESH situation, with my friend being an AH for having shitty views and me being an AH for not knowing how to use the block button, but I wanted to hear what others had to think.

What are these acronyms?

#aita #am i the asshole

[blues824]

So I saw your requests were open. Could you write something for a reader who believes humans are inherently flawed? Like they think people are born bad and don't change easy, and are easily swayed by selfish things? These ideas came from things that happened to them as they were growing up. (The reader is also human, and fully acknowledges this, and does there best to be nice to set them apart from the rest? Sorta like Rollo's hatred for magic, but toned down a notch.) Thank you if you decide to write this, and have a nice day!

It’s alright, Anon! I chose the Diasomnia crew because I love writing for Sebek and Malleus. @animusicnerd was so kind as to allow me to use her lore post

Gender-neutral reader.

Malleus Draconia

He learned about your belief when you both were on a walk through the night. He doesn’t quite recall what brought up the topic, but he was saddened to hear you say such things. He believes that everyone has flaws, but it’s one’s duty to either embrace them or reject them.

He understands where you’re coming from, since the things that you experienced weren’t the best example of his beliefs. Those humans were people that rejected their own flaws and projected their own insecurities on you. In fact, the faes back in the Briar Valley felt the same way as you do about humans.

However, his dream is to unite the two. If he can get you to see past the flaws that were bestowed upon humankind, then you both can come together (preferably in matrimony) and show everyone that faes and humans can get along. Not just that, but he could get you to see that you could help solve the problems that your people like to create.

Lilia Vanrouge

You told him about how you believed humankind was inherently flawed when you were learning about the war between humans and fae in Briar Valley, and he was helping you since he was a general in the war. Even though he saw the ferocity firsthand, he didn’t particularly agree on your viewpoint, but he saw where you get that ideology.

In the war against humans, he had seen and learned about the reasoning behind them attacking, and he agreed that their reasoning was absolutely horrible. However, their behavior did not set a precedent for other humans. He believed in Malleus’s dream to unite the two and increase the human population and half-fae population for more diversity.

He hopes that he can get you to see that not all humans are bad (for example, you), and that even though you had bad experiences with them that they aren’t the example you should base humanity as a whole off of. He will be patient since trauma doesn’t go as easy as dirt and grime does with a Mr. Clean Magic Eraser, but he will be there every step of the way to your emotional recovery.

Silver

You at first steered clear of him, and that made him chase you (think of that moment in Sleeping Beauty when Phillip sneaks up on Aurora). Your heart is conflicted because Silver has shown nothing but kindness to you, but your mind is telling you that you can’t trust him.

However, if there was any lesson that Lilia drilled into his son, it was to never give up on the people that you love. So, he begged you through letters (this man stayed up with Sebek so that the poet-in-denial could help the sleepy human write letters that could possibly make you swoon).

Silver is one of the few humans that reside in the Briar Valley, and he knows that he has one fatal flaw: his exhaustion. However, since he was chosen to be a knight of Malleus, he had to have the virtue of a knight to enter knighthood. With this reasoning, you grew closer to him. Now, the two of you can be seen in each other’s arms as he naps and you just bask in his company.

Sebek Zigvolt

You also steered clear of him, but you were also conflicted considering Malleus and Lilia gave you a good impression on faes but you had a bad impression of humankind. As the wise Bo Burnham once said, “a half-good-half-bad-half-boy”. 

He learned about your personal philosophy, and he too was conflicted. He also grew insecure of himself, and tried to lower his tone around you to try and give you a better impression. He tried to convince you that he rejected his human side constantly, but it seems as though it got in his way again.

It was through a poem that he wrote to you that contained a line from your favorite book that really got your attention. You realized that he tried to understand you and even tried to change himself for you, and you saw that maybe people can change. So, you went to him one day and placed a kiss on his cheek, which let him know that you returned his feelings.

#twst #twst x reader #disney twst #twst wonderland #disney twisted wonderland #twisted wonderland x reader #twisted wonderland #twst malleus #malleus x reader #malleus draconia #malleus draconia x reader #malleus #twst malleus draconia x reader #twst malleus x reader #twst malleus draconia #lilia #lilia vanrouge #twst lilia vanrouge #twst lilia #lilia x reader #twst lilia x reader #lilia vanrouge x reader #silver #silver x reader #silver vanrouge #silver vanrouge x reader #twst silver #twst silver x reader #diasomnia #diasomnia x reader

[miracles-and-butterflies]

For @ellipsis-dotdotdot, based on the prompt: “one of the Pedro Lives!Isabelas running away, if you please?”

I went with Fracture AU.

Isabela plans to run away. Thoughts of identity, change and freedom.

(As she’s kicked out anyways in Imperfect, her disappearance wouldn’t be noticed; and Luminous Isabela would be very open about it and that takes away the drama).

Comments are always appreciated.

~~~~~~

Perfect Practiced Poses

While flittering around Antonio’s party, one question pops into her mind.

She had passed a group of kids talking, describing each of the gifted Madrigals - their traits and abilities - only for Isabela to wonder the same thing.

Of course, living in the family and outside of it warrant very different viewpoints from herself and the kids. And then there’s the age and education differences too. But one thing remains the same:

Who is Isabela Madrigal?

She was never herself for more than two minutes.

She was everyone else on a daily basis. It was brief, it was harmless, it was helpful, it was fun. And she didn’t mind that.

She was the echo of her late Abuela. As far as appearance was considered. She was the only resemblance of her left - Isabela had destroyed the one portrait years ago.

Despite their strained relationship, Abuelo often had her painted or photographed. Just so he had something to remember his beloved Alma by.

At the same time, he had her shapeshifting as much as possible. Not only while working, but even just at home. Just so he didn’t have to have a reminder of what he’d lost. Just so he didn’t have to see her face of anger and hatred.

And she did mind that.

Not at first. No, she could understand. If she lost a loved one, it would be hard for her too. And she was a child, who didn’t look to much like her at that point.

But as she got older and her sympathy for such a terrible person wore incredibly thin, she really started to mind.

Why are the Madrigals always going to church with Señora Alonso?

How lucky for Señorita Martinez to be invited to dinner at La Casa Madrigal!

It is so considerate of Isabela to change her appearance for her poor Abuelo!

The whisperings of the townspeople didn’t help either. She knows they mean well. To an outsider, it must be strange or compassionate (that Pedro does not deserve).

She is so sick of it.

She’d do anything to put an end to it.

~~~~~~

It was a day like any other.

“Okay, everyone to the table. Now.” Abuelo called as he stepped outside. The family fell into line as usual. Or most of them, anyways. “I said now, Luisa.”

“Ah well, I was just—”

“Now means now.”

Luisa stopped talking and took her seat with the others.

“You aren’t still making stuff up about the cracks?” Camilo whispered, leaning up to his cousin. “Like it was a good joke and seeing Abuelo yell at Mirabel was utterly hilarious - highlight of the evening if you ask me - but it’s kinda dry now.”

“Will you two shut up? I can’t hear.” Isabela, who was unfortunately sat on Camilo’s other side, grumbled.

“I wasn’t even talking!”

“LUISA!”

Her sister slowly turned around, eye-twitching under the confused and irritated gazes of the rest of the family from her outburst.

Abuelo sighed with disappointment. “Luisa, if you are struggling to act properly at the table, perhaps it is best you sit closer to the front, where I can keep an eye on you. Casita?”

Before Luisa could make an argument, Casita shifted her chair. The seating plan rearranging itself to leave her directly beside the patriarch.

“As I was saying,” he said. “Antonio’s gift could not have come at a more perfect time. But we should not take our miracle for granted, so today we will work twice as hard.”

“I couldn’t agree more,” offered an enthusiastic Luisa. “Isabela would benefit greatly from my—”

“In case it wasn’t clear for some of us, the non-gifted family members will be staying at home to complete their usual chores.”

With a hard glare, Luisa changed her focus onto drinking her coffee.

Pedro took a breath, standing up. “In other news, how goes our arrangement with the Guzmáns?”

Isabela opens her mouth, but doesn’t get the chance to answer herself.

“Dolores?” He inquired.

The woman paused. Her irises briefly flashed red. “I foresee that he is going to propose tonight, with a song on the piano that he has composed himself. And I see five cribs.”

Isabela felt her soul leave her body.

“Five new blessings? At least we’ll get some use out of Isabela. Thank you, Dolores. That will be all. There will be lots to prepare for tonight - Isabela, you’ve dropped your form. Control yourself. …Back to the point, Antonio, this is a wonderful opportunity to make the most out of your new gift. You can help your father with the decorations.”

“Okay, Abuelo!” Antonio beamed, orange flowers blossoming in hair in excitement.

“Our community is counting on us. ¡La familia Madrigal!”

“¡La familia Madrigal!”

Isabela doesn’t blame Mariano.

Not at all.

She blames her family.

She gets made to hold some random townsperson’s form at every meal - she isn’t allowed to be herself - and nobody has defended her or pointed out this unreasonable request of Abuelo’s.

She is getting made to marry and produce more little miracles because she isn’t useful at anything else, and nobody has thought to ask how she feels about it all.

Hell, Pedro has her valued like a donkey at market and nobody is even batting an eye!

The bitter irony is not lost on Isabela.

Her parents are always praised, both inside the family and out, by what great parents they are.

The greatest parents of all of Encanto… One daughter who is only useful as a wife and mother or when she’s anyone but herself. One daughter who has absolutely no worth at all. One daughter who barely associates herself as part of the family now.

This house is a fucking nightmare.

No wonder Bruno left.

~~~~~~

January 1940

“What do you think would happen if we left?”

The question takes her sister by shock.

The eight-year-old arched a brow. “You mean like… running away? Like Tío Bruno did?”

“Luisa, you aren’t suppose to say that!” Mirabel gasped in horror, replicating the shushing motion the adults often did by pressing a finger to Luisa’s lips.

“Yeah,” Isabela nodded. She looked up at the mountains. “When I’m suppose to be listening to the teacher, I think about it. What I’d take. How I’d do it. Where I’d go. …Don’t you ever think of just packing a bag and running away?”

“No! You can’t do that! You’d be in so much trouble!” Mirabel was completely appalled. Age four and her moral compass was already developed.

“You’d die, sis.” Chimes Luisa. “Nobody knows what’s out there - except bad people. That’s how Abuela died.”

“Not even just running away… what if we were just a normal family? Without gifts?”

Luisa shifted away.

“You’re asking the wrong people, Bela. I am normal and Mirabel doesn’t have a gift yet.”

The ten-year-old looked guilty. “Right. My bad. I forgot.”

“You forgot?” Luisa questions, hurt.

Nobody said anything.

“Say sorry, Isa,” Mirabel offers, helpfully, from where she’s sat in Luisa’s lap. “Sorry makes everything better. That’s what Mama says.”

“…Luisa, I’m—”

“No. I don’t wanna hear it.” Luisa grumbled.

Luisa stands up then, setting Mirabel aside.

“Where are you going?” Isabela asks, after a beat.

“Inside,” she huffs. “I got homework to do.” Isabela has a feeling that Luisa might be lying; just wants an excuse to leave.

Mirabel squeaked, “Can I come too? Can I help, Luisa?”

Luisa nods, holding out an open hand for Mirabel to take. They start walking.

Isabela pulls herself to her feet and runs after them. “I could help,” she suggests, as a way of an apology. And she’d like to think she is going to be more help than a kid who hasn’t yet started school. “I mean, I probably did it a few years ago, when I was your age.”

Her sister just growls at her. “Don’t you have magic stuff to be doing, princesa?”

With that, they were gone and Isabela was left alone.

She really doesn’t belong anywhere, does she?

~~~~~~

Screw it, Isabela thinks.

There’s nothing for her here.

And if Bruno managed to leave, why couldn’t she do the same?

She packs a bag - money, some clothes, some food and drinks. She won’t need much else.

She shifts into some random townsperson before leaving her (soundproof) room for the last time. The rest of the family are busy working, as usual.

And starts walking. She doesn’t know where she’s going, but anything would be better than here.

She barely makes it through one street before a man is already coming to greet her.

“Ah, Isabela! I was wondering if you could help me with my door again?” He asked. “It appears to have gotten stuck and I could use another me to help balance it.”

“I’m not Isabela.” She replied, waving him off.

“Uh… yes, you are?”

Isabela turned on her heel, ready to argue that she definitely was Señora Alonzo, but only caught that flash of indigo fabric and black hair as she did.

“What the fuck?” She questioned, looking down at her own hands.

She hadn’t changed back into her own form.

She headed up to the nearby bride, dropping her bag to the side for a moment. She leaned over and looking at her own rippled reflection in the water.

“What the fuck!?” She said again, louder this time.

She kept repeating the phrase as she tried concentrating on shifting but her reflection didn’t change once. It stayed perfectly the same.

She couldn’t even get rid of her mole.

Her outburst had clearly spooked off the man who had asked for her help, as she found herself alone. Carefully examining and prodding each part of her features, only for nothing to change.

Or she thought she was alone.

“Hey, Isabela! Am I glad I found you! I was just wondering if you maybe knew something about the magic last night?”

#encanto #encanto fracture au #isabela madrigal #luisa madrigal #pedro madrigal #camilo madrigal #dolores madrigal #antonio madrigal #bruno madrigal #mirabel madrigal #julieta madrigal #agustín madrigal #mariano guzmán #my writing

[aylacavebear]

Stockroom Antics - Chapter 12

Maria had changed jobs numerous times over the last five years, more to keep herself safe than anything else. Her mother had told her she was a fairy but she thought it was just her mom being weird. Honestly, though, she had no other way of explaining what had happened to her that stormy day before she'd gone into a coma for two weeks.

Please don't take my work. I'll post warnings for each chapter. Will probably be 18+ I haven't decided yet!

Word Count: 1828

Pairing eventually Dean Winchester x OC

Warnings: Angst

A/N: This one's written a little differently than my last one. Let me know what you think. It's the first time I've tried this type of writing. Chapters will alternate viewpoints as well. I also looked into an actual area so this one could feel more realistic. This one is taking on a life of it's own in a turn I hadn't anticipated, so adding a new tag.

----------------------------------------- Stockroom Antics Chapter 12

Sam had noticed that the books had been moved the moment he and his brother went out to the library and immediately suspected her.

They didn’t know much about her, only what Dean had learned during their “date” and what they had found online. It wasn’t much to go off of. She at least had seemed like a decent person. Sam’s other concern was what Crowley had said, that Dean had feelings for her, even if his brother had denied it.

When she came out and brought those two books with her, it surprised both brothers. Dean could only watch her. He had so many questions but didn’t want to cross that line. She was his case, not just some random girl he met on the street for some fun or anything else. He had to stay focused. 

Both of them could tell something was bothering her. Sam even tried to get her to talk, but she was staying somewhat quiet or keeping her answers short. When she asked them if she was just a case to them, he wanted to say something, but he didn’t have an answer for her. His brother's answer wasn’t any better.

And now Dean was mentally berating himself for the answer he’d given her, even if she didn’t seem upset by it. It wasn’t what he wanted to say to her. He wanted to tell her that he did feel something, something he couldn’t explain.

That even with the sigil drawn on him, he still felt a draw to her. All he could do was clench his jaw and grab one of the books she’d set down on the table. Sam had grabbed the other one, which talked about a Pari and its soulmate.

The three of them sat in silence for almost an hour before Dean got up and headed into the kitchen. He needed to do something physically, and she needed to eat, even if she hadn’t even brought up food. His mind was reeling with his thoughts, which only frustrated him further. Before realizing it, he’d made three sandwiches, cleaned up, and returned to the library.

“Eat,” he told her, setting one of the plates down on the book in front of her. Then he gave his brother one. He sat down in his seat and forced himself to eat as well.

She looked over at him, mostly without expression, possibly some curiosity or even some confusion, but didn’t argue. Dean watched her out of his peripheral, making sure she ate. She moved the plate off the book but ate while she read, not looking up.

“Thanks,” she said, mostly quietly, without looking up from her book.

Dean tried to focus on the book in front of him. He’d even come across the chapter about unlocking her powers. If it wasn’t for the fact that Rowena was Crowley’s mother, he might have considered calling her to see if she could do one of the spells in the book. He finished the chapter about the same time he finished his sandwich.

“Sam, check this out,” he told his brother, somewhat gruffly, handing him the book that was opened to the chapter he’d just finished.

“Yeah, same. Trade me,” Sam agreed, handing him the book he’d been reading.

Neither of them noticed her glance at the two of them without fully looking up at either of them. She finished her sandwich, though, and then a cup of soda appeared on the table in front of her book. 

Dean traded books with his brother and started reading where it was open to. He barely kept a straight face when he read the part about the soulmate, then wondered if there was something in the bunker that could explain that further. He looked up at Sam and opened his mouth, then shut it quickly. 

He’d have to wait till she wasn’t around. If she’d read this information, he didn’t want her to think something weird about him. Dean already felt weird or like some creep with the thoughts that kept drifting into his mind when it came to her. None of them were even sexual thoughts. He just wanted to be close to her, hold her, and somehow comfort her through this. 

The brothers both noticed how she got up and went over to the bookshelves, scanning the titles. Neither was quite sure what she was looking for, though.

“Looking for something specific?” Sam asked, raising an eyebrow.

“Something about angel and demon powers,” she mumbled, focusing on the books.

Dean and Sam shared another unspoken conversation through a look, “We know lots of stuff about those. If you want, we could just tell you,” Sam offered, wondering if it had to do with her powers and what he’d just read.

“It would help to read it too, but sure,” she replied, seeming nonchalant about it.

Sam got up and went over to another bookshelf, pulling down around ten books, then set them all on the table near where she’d been sitting, “That’s the best place to start on angels and demons,” he told her.

She looked over at the stack, although she’d been watching him out of the corner of her eye, “Thanks.” They both returned to where they’d been sitting, and she opened the top book. Neither of them realized she was using her powers to find the information she was after, wanting to know what angel and demon powers consisted of.

Sam then proceeded to tell her what he knew of angels: how they possessed people but needed permission to do so, flying, immortality but that they could be killed, how they could locate someone who wasn’t warded against it, how they could heal themselves and others, time travel, how they could put someone to sleep, that they were strong. He even chuckled a little, remembering back to some of their interactions with Cas.

“Oh, and they can enter people’s dreams,” Dean piped in, remembering how Cas and other angels had done that to him on several occasions.

“Huh…” she mused, not looking up from the book.

Why does she have to look so adorable, Dean thought to himself as he noticed how a few strands of her hair fell just over her face as she read. She closed the book and looked at the stack, grabbing one from the middle carefully. He wanted to ask her why she went for that book in particular but couldn’t seem to get the question to pass his lips. He also really wanted to know what was going through her head.

“Demons are similar, just meaner about it,” Sam continued, deciding to switch topics. 

He noticed her nod, seeming to be listening to him. Sam explained that demons, too, could possess people but didn’t need permission. They could also fly, were immortal but could be killed, that they weren’t affected by something that would kill a person even if they were possessing someone; they were extremely strong, like angels; they weren’t required to eat or sleep, and they could throw someone across a room with just a wave of their hand.

“Hmm…” she mused, again not looking up from her book, then sipped the glass of what looked like soda.

“Where’d that come from?” Sam asked as she hadn’t gotten up, and neither of them had gotten her anything to drink.

“I just thought about wanting some soda,” she answered fairly nonchalantly again.

“Have you ever done that before?” Sam asked curiously.

“No. Figured I’d give it a try after I read that book earlier,” she replied casually, not looking up from her book.

They didn’t realize that she was putting the pieces together for herself. Their job was to somehow keep her safe and away from Crowley. The last thing they needed was for Crowley to have a Pari with its powers fully activated in his arsenal. To them, she didn’t seem like the kind of person who would help anyone do something mean or cruel, but again, they hardly knew her.

Near dinner time, Dean went into the kitchen again, starting with getting himself a beer. He needed it at this point. His mind hadn’t stopped. He wanted to talk to her, get to know her, entirely outside the case. Even with all that he had read, he still had no idea how to keep her from Crowley.

He let his mind wander as he cooked burgers for dinner. She was beautiful in a way he hadn’t seen before, and the pull to be near her tingled through his nerves again. When Sam finally joined him in the kitchen, he was almost relieved.

“What the hell is a soulmate?” Dean asked relatively quietly so that she couldn’t hear them.

“I’ve heard of that before. It explains why humans carry that Pari gene, too. I’ll have to go through the lore, see what I can find,” Sam answered, knowing exactly what his brother was curious about.

Neither of the brothers had ever looked into the soulmate thing. It had come up a couple of times, but they just brushed it off, not needing the information at the time. 

“Can you give me anything?” Dean almost pleaded as he flipped the burgers.

Sam sighed, “It has to do with being drawn to someone. I think soulmates can feel each other sometimes. Other times, it’s harder. One of them might not believe in it, and it blocks that connection. Other than that, I have no idea,” he explained, trying to remember back to the little he did know.

Dean furrowed his brows as he looked down at the cooking burgers. He’d never thought about a soulmate, primarily because of his job but also because it was something he never heard about growing up. He wondered if maybe it wasn’t a human thing or just something that wasn’t widely known.

“Let me know what you find out,” Deam mumbled, only partially wanting to know.

Sam just nodded a little, giving his brother an understanding smile before he headed back out to the library and got on his laptop. His main search, soulmates.

When Dean brought out dinner, he set a plate down for each of them, as well as a beer. She thanked him and even gave him a friendly smile, which he involuntarily returned before he sat down. It was frustrating to him that it felt like he had no control over certain things, like that smile he gave her. 

“This is really good,” she stated, sounding almost surprised.

“I can cook, Sweetheart,” he chuckled, unable to help himself.

He missed her rolling her eyes and quickly turned his attention back to not only his dinner but also to the book he currently had in front of him. This lack of control was seriously beginning to bother him. So, he ate in silence, doing everything he could to not even look at her out of the corner of his eye.

----------------------------------------- Chapter 13

Tag List: @djs8891

Link to the series Master List

A/N: If you'd like to be tagged in future chapters, leave me a comment, and I'll make sure to tag you.

#SPN #SPN FANDOM #spn fanfiction #spn fanfic #spnfandom #spn au #supernatural #soulmates #spn fic #supernatural series #supernatural fanfiction #Supernatural fanfic #supernatural fic #supernatural fandom #supernatural oc #supernatural fanfic series #supernatural au #dean fanfiction #dean winchester fic #dean winchester fanfic #dean winchester fanfiction #sam winchester fanfiction #sam winchester fic #dean winchester x oc #Dean Winchester x femaleOC #dean x female!reader #dean winchester x you #dean winchester x reader #dean x you #dean x reader

[investmentassistant]

How to learn to defend your opinion

Expressing and defending one's opinion is a vital skill in both personal and professional life. Whether you're engaging in a debate, negotiating with colleagues, or simply sharing your perspective in a conversation, the ability to articulate your viewpoint confidently and respectfully can greatly impact your relationships and influence. Here are some key strategies to help you master the art of asserting your opinion effectively:

Know your subject

Before expressing your opinion on any topic, ensure that you have a solid understanding of it. Research and gather relevant information to support your viewpoint. The more knowledgeable you are about the subject, the more credible and persuasive your argument will be.

Clarify your intentions

Be clear about why you're expressing your opinion. Are you seeking to persuade others, engage in a constructive discussion, or simply share your perspective? Understanding your intentions will help you tailor your approach accordingly and communicate more effectively.

Practice active listening

Effective communication is a two-way street. Listen attentively to others' viewpoints without interrupting or dismissing them. Acknowledge their perspectives and demonstrate empathy and understanding, even if you disagree. This not only fosters respectful dialogue but also encourages others to reciprocate the same level of respect.

Use assertive language

Choose your words carefully to convey your opinion assertively yet respectfully. Avoid language that is aggressive, passive, or confrontational. Instead, opt for phrases such as «I believe», «In my opinion», or «From my perspective» which assert your viewpoint without invalidating others'.

Provide evidence and examples

Support your opinion with evidence, facts, and real-life examples whenever possible. This adds credibility to your argument and helps others better understand your perspective. Be prepared to back up your assertions with concrete data or experiences.

Be open to feedback

Be open-minded and willing to consider alternative viewpoints. Constructive feedback can provide valuable insights and opportunities for growth. Even if you ultimately maintain your opinion, engaging with differing perspectives can enrich your understanding of the topic and strengthen your argument.

Stay calm and confident

Maintain composure and confidence when expressing your opinion, especially in challenging or contentious situations. Avoid becoming defensive or hostile, even if faced with opposition. A calm and confident demeanor not only enhances your credibility but also encourages others to engage with you constructively.

Choose the right time and place

Consider the context and environment before asserting your opinion. Choose appropriate moments and settings where your viewpoint is more likely to be heard and respected. Avoid discussing sensitive topics in heated or inappropriate situations where emotions may cloud judgment.

Practice assertiveness

Like any skill, assertiveness improves with practice. Take every opportunity to express your opinion respectfully and confidently, whether in casual conversations, meetings, or debates. The more you practice, the more natural and effortless it will become.

Be respectful

Above all, treat others with respect and dignity, regardless of differences in opinion. Avoid personal attacks or derogatory remarks, and focus on the substance of the discussion. Remember that everyone is entitled to their own opinions, and fostering a culture of mutual respect is essential for productive communication.

In conclusion, learning to assert your opinion effectively is a valuable skill that requires practice, patience, and empathy. By honing your communication abilities, remaining open to diverse perspectives, and advocating for your viewpoint with confidence and respect, you can become a more influential and persuasive communicator in all aspects of your life.

[ew87]

Political engagement

Title: The Power of Political Engagement: Your Voice, Your Impact

Political participation continues to be an essential way for people to express their thoughts, have an impact on decision-making, and change the direction of society in a world full of various viewpoints and complex concerns. It's simple to become overwhelmed or disillusioned with politics in this digital age, but realizing the value of political engagement and the variety of methods to get involved can restore our faith in the democratic system.

The Importance of Political Engagement

The conviction that every citizen's voice matters and that widespread participation is necessary for a healthy democracy lies at the core of political participation. When people actively participate in politics, they help to shape the rules, regulations, and systems of government that affect their daily lives. However, the importance of political participation goes beyond individual preferences. It covers social justice, equality, environmental protection, and the general health of a society or country. In essence, it serves as a catalyst for advancement and good change

Ways to Get Politically Engaged

There is no one method that works for all sorts of political activity. You can have a significant impact in the following ways:

1. Voting: Voting is your direct effect on the democratic process and is the cornerstone of political activity. Vote in local, state, and federal elections while keeping up with candidates and topics. eg country that uses voting: Singapore

2. Volunteering: Participate in political campaigns, neighborhood associations, or charitable causes that share your beliefs. Giving back to the community can be a potent strategy to promote change.

3. Communicating with Elected Representatives: Get in touch with your elected representatives to share your thoughts and concerns on a range of topics. Calls, emails, and letters can all be influential.

4. Participating in Public Forums: Attend town hall meetings, neighborhood get-togethers, and open forums to express your opinions. Discussions with elected leaders and other individuals can produce positive results.

5. Social Media and Advocacy: In the age of the internet, social media websites offer a potent forum for expressing your opinions, rallying support, and promoting change. Remember to fact-check and behave politely when speaking.

6. Educating Yourself: Knowledgeable citizens have more authority. Stay current on news and policy issues by reading books, articles, and reliable news sources.

Overcoming Barriers to Engagement

Despite the possibility of good change, obstacles to political participation frequently discourage people. These challenges could include a lack of knowledge, a fear of speaking up, or a sense of helplessness. But the first step in removing these obstacles is realizing that they exist. Consider starting or joining neighborhood discussion groups, taking part in civic education initiatives, and working with like-minded people to overcome these obstacles. You may become a more engaged citizen with the support and inspiration that these initiatives can offer.

The Role of Social Media Social media platforms have transformed political participation by democratizing information transmission and fostering cross-cultural dialogue. They are useful resources for creating campaigns, boosting voices, and increasing awareness. But immense power also entails great responsibility. It is crucial to engage in civic dialogue, critically assess information, and stop the spread of false information.

Local vs. National Engagement

Local engagement is important, despite the fact that national politics frequently dominate the news. Local decisions have a real impact on our daily lives, from local infrastructure plans to school board decisions. You may have a real impact on how your neighborhood develops by getting involved in local politics.

Civic Education

One needs to be aware of the complexities of the political system in order to participate successfully. Citizens are empowered by civic education through learning about governmental institutions, the function of elected officials, and their rights and obligations. Opportunities for civic education are provided via neighborhood community centers, local schools, and online resources.

Conclusion: Your Voice, Your Impact

Your voice is an essential thread in the vast tapestry of democracy. Political engagement is a dynamic force for change and advancement, not a passive activity. By voting, volunteering, or speaking up for change, you can actively engage in politics and strengthen democracy as a whole, ensuring that the government is still run by, for, and by the people. You can influence the world around you by realizing the value of political participation, choosing your own path to involvement, and overcoming obstacles. Never forget that you have the ability to bring about change. Accept your responsibility as an active citizen, and let's work to create a better future.

#MDA20009 #assignment #Youtube #week 5

[lingshanhermit]

Ling Shan Hermit: The Definition of Harm

When we talk about harm, our understanding is often too broad. The kinds of harm we can think of and observe are usually very specific physical harms, such as someone hitting your head with a cup, or someone on the internet saying you look like a sheepdog, and so on. As ordinary people, our understanding of cause, condition, and effect is very superficial, and generally, we can only observe a few very surface causes and conditions. Because we can only see those very shallow causes and conditions, we usually cannot see the impact of a concept on our hearts, let alone its significant influence on our future lives. If you are lacking in blessings, you might one day come across someone promoting a particular viewpoint while scrolling through videos. Unluckily, you think what they are saying is right, so you adopt it, and then, for the rest of your life, all your decisions are influenced by this viewpoint. At a critical moment, you make another wrong decision, and unlike in the past, this decision costs you your life. But usually, we do not define this kind of influence as harm. Because it is nearly untraceable. You might not even be aware of the existence of this influence. The judge will not investigate who influenced you to make this fatal decision; they will only pursue the one who stabbed you with a knife and put them in prison, rather than trouble the person who led you astray. Even though most of us don't consider this a form of harm, it is indeed harm, and very, very great harm at that. Most of us may never experience a nuclear explosion or die from a tiger bite in our lifetime, but every one of us can be harmed by wrong ideas. In this respect, no one is immune. It is more formidable than the most severe virus in the world, because most people have no defense against it. These years, I often see internet celebrities promoting stories of someone who remarried with children and received a hefty dowry. Videos like these can be seen almost every day. I can see them, others can see them, so many people watch them, imprint them in their minds, and they influence their speech, actions, and decisions. But essentially, no one will think that such videos are harming all women, but in reality, they are. Because many people may believe they can behave in the same way, just as you might see someone selling an old washing machine for a million and decide to follow suit. Over the past few years, we have seen women on the internet making a lot of money through marriage and again through divorce. We have seen people teaching online how to extract more money from men, how to manipulate boyfriends, how to play off several men against each other. When I see these things, I know that they are actually hurting all women — even those who don't harbor such thoughts are dragged into this. But most women aren't aware that this will hurt them. Because those who harm them are all under the guise of having their best interests at heart. They teach you how to get more benefits, how to protect your own rights, they believe they can control the situation without messing up. But the end result will be that no one wants to marry you, no one is willing to spend money on you, you will grow old alone, and the money you have swindled will not stay with you — this is just the best outcome. The worst-case scenario is that at a certain point, it will turn into physical harm, it will become harm by real knives and guns.

A few years ago, when a certain celebrity's wife exposed her husband's misdeeds, many women online cheered for her. They didn't realize that this lady's actions were actually hurting all of you. She was damaging your marriages, and everyone else's marriages, making every marriage fearful. Because your husband will also see this news. What would he think when he sees it? He might think: "I can't let her know about anything I do in the future." He would start to suspect you and wouldn't be as open with you as before. When he looks at you, he would think of that woman - the woman who exposed her ex-husband's many deeds after the divorce. He would wonder what you would do if you two broke up one day. Would you do the same? He would observe your attitude, to see which side you stand on. Of course, you are in strong support of the woman exposing the "scumbag" man — this makes him apprehensive and creates distance between you two. In fact, it's not just him who would think this way, but all husbands around the world. So, don't you think she is harming you? The harm defined by the law is often very superficial, and what most people understand as harm is like someone pushing your head against the wall — but harm is far more than that.

Many women learned a lot from this incident, and so did many men. Then, they acquired more weapons to harm each other. Although you've never met her, although she has never appeared in your life, and although you only saw her in the news, she can still harm you from thousands of miles away. She makes the person you love create a barrier against you, makes him wary of you, makes him think that you might do the same, and starts him on the path of guarding against you. Similarly, you also start collecting his information intentionally or unintentionally, stocking up more weapons for a possible war during a future divorce. The mutual trust between you begins to slowly leak away, cracks start to appear in your marriage, and this is how the devil sows discord in your relationship.

In the nineties, I first saw the blessing to the bride at their wedding in a Japanese TV drama: "You must be happy." I felt very strange at the time. Today, this phrase has become a common blessing exchanged between female friends. What puzzles me is, don't they know that marriage is the antonym of happiness? I know this phrase has harmed many people. Because it makes you feel that marriage itself should be happy, it makes you feel that other people are all living happily, and only you are unhappy. How can you possibly find happiness when you approach marriage with such misconceptions? If someone had informed you beforehand that marriage is like this – it's unbearable, it's tedious, he will get drunk, pee on the toilet seat, crawl into your best friend's bed, infuriate you countless times, make you want to strangle him in his sleep – if you knew that this is what marriage entails, you would be much happier.

Fairy tales suggest that when you desire nothing, you gain everything. But those who covet all, those who wish to monopolize and calculate every gain or loss, even when they sleep, they end up with nothing and attract a host of troubles. This holds true for both spiritual cultivation and life itself. Of course, you might dismiss this as just a fairy tale. But fairy tales often mirror the true reality; it's just that you might be too naive to recognize it.

Written by Ling Shan Ju Shi on May 15, 2023, first published on May 17, 2023.

All rights reserved, no infringement intended. All articles of the Ling Shan Hermit, in both Simplified and Traditional Chinese, English and other languages, are copyrighted to the natural person who owns "Ling Shan Hermit". Please respect copyright laws. Any media or individual (including but not limited to Internet media, websites, personal spaces, blogs, WeChat public accounts, print media) wishing to use this content must first obtain authorization from Ling Shan Hermit. No modifications to the article are permitted (including the author's name, title, body of the text, and punctuation). We reserve all legal rights.

灵山居士：伤害的定义

当我们说到伤害的时候，通常我们的理解都过于粗泛。我们能想到的能观察到的伤害都是那种非常具体的物理性伤害，例如某人用杯子砸了你的头某人在网上说你长得像一只牧羊犬之类。作为凡夫，我们对于因缘果的了解非常粗浅，一般来说我们只能观察到几个非常表面的因缘。因为我们只能看到那些非常肤浅的因缘，所以通常我们看不到一个观念对我们的心的影响，更看不到它对我们之后人生的重大影响。如果你缺乏福报的话，你可能在某天刷视频的时候看到某人在宣传某个观点，很不幸的是你觉得她说的对，然后你就学会了，然后在你之后的人生里，你所有的决定都受这个观点左右。在某个重要时刻，你又做出一个错误的决定，和以往不同的是，这次的这个决定要了你的命。但是通常我们不把这种影响定义为伤害。因为它几乎无迹可寻。你甚至根本不知道这种影响的存在。法官也不会追溯你是受谁影响作出这个令你丧命的决定，他只会追究那个拿刀子捅你的人把他关进监狱而不会去找那个教坏你的人的麻烦。虽然我们大多数人都不认为这是一种伤害，但这就是伤害，而且是非常非常巨大的伤害。我们大部分人可能一辈子也不会遭遇核爆炸，不会死于虎吻，但是我们每个人都会被被错误的观念伤害，在这方面，没有人可以幸免。它比世界上最厉害的病毒还要厉害，因为大部分人对它毫无防范。

这些年我经常看到有网红在宣传某人二婚带着孩子嫁的非常好还得了天价财礼，这样的视频几乎每天都能看到。我能看到，别人也能看到，所以它就被很多人看到眼里，印在心里，影响他们说话做事、做决定。但是基本上不会有人认为这种视频是在伤害所有的女人，但其实它就是在伤害所有的女人，因为很多人会觉得自己也可以那样，这就像是你看到某人把一个旧洗衣机卖到一百万块然后你打算学样一样。这几年我们能在网上看到有的女人以结婚的方式挣了很多钱又以离婚的方式挣了很多钱，能看到有人在网上传授如何从男人那里弄到更多的钱如何勒掯男朋友如何在几个男人之间周旋，当我看到这些事情的时候，我知道这其实是在伤害所有的女人——那些没有这种想法的女人也会被牵扯进去。但是大部分女人根本意识不到这会伤害到自己。因为这些伤害她们的人全都是打着为她好的名义，她们在教你如何得到更多的好处，如何维护自己的权益，她们觉得自己能把控局面不会玩砸，但是最后的结果就会是没有人想和你结婚，没有人愿意为你花钱，你会孤独终老，你骗来的钱也留不住——这还只是最好的结果。最坏的结果是发展到某个程度它会变成物理性伤害，会变成真刀真枪的伤害。

几年之前，当某明星的老婆爆出自己丈夫的那些事的时候，很多女人在网上为其摇旗呐喊。她们不知道，那位女士的做法其实是在伤害你们所有人，她在伤害你的婚姻，也在伤害所有人的婚姻，她让所有人的婚姻都提心吊胆。因为你老公也会看到这条新闻，当他看到这条新闻的时候他会怎么想？他会想：以后我做的事可不能让她知道。他会对你心生疑忌，他不会像过去那样对你毫无保留。当他看着你的时候，他会想到那个女人——那个离了婚之后曝光自己前夫种种的女人。他会想假如有一天你们分手了你会做些什么？你是不是也会那么做？他会观察你的态度，看你会站在哪一方，你当然是力挺女方曝光渣男的那一方——这让他心生畏惧，让你们产生距离。其实不止他会想，天下所有当老公的都会这么想，所以，你觉的她没有在伤害你吗？法律上定义的伤害通常非常浅陋，大部分人能理解的伤害是摁着你的头撞墙——但伤害远不止这些。

很多女人因为这件事学到很多东西，很多男人因为这件事也学到很多东西。然后他们就拥有了更多可以伤害对方的武器。虽然你和她素未谋面，虽然她从来没有出现在你的生活里，虽然你只是在新闻上看到她，她一样可以隔着几千里伤害你。让你爱的人对你心生隔阂，让他对你望而生畏，让他觉得你也可能会这样，让他开始防着你。同样的，你也会开始有意无意搜集他的信息，为以后离婚的时候可能发生的战争储备更多的武器。你们之间的互信开始慢慢流失，你们的婚姻出现裂痕，魔鬼就是这样离间你们的关系。

九十年代我第一次从日本电视剧里看到他们结婚时对新娘的祝福：“一定要幸福啊。”我当时的感觉很怪异。在今天，这句话已经成了女性朋友之间互致祝福的常用语。我奇怪的是难道她们不知道婚姻本身就是幸福的反义词吗？我知道这句话害了很多人。因为它会让你觉得婚姻本身就应该是幸福的，会让你觉得其他人都过的很幸福，只有你一个人不幸福。当你带着这样的认知去结婚，你怎么可能幸福？假如有人事先告诉你婚姻就是这样，就是这样不堪，就是这样繁琐，他会喝醉酒，会尿在马桶圈，会爬上你闺蜜的床，会无数次令你炸毛，会令你想要在他酣睡的时候掐死他，如果你事先知道这就是婚姻，你会幸福很多。

童话里说，当你什么都不想要的时候，你会得到一切；那些什么都想要、什么都想独占、什么都算计到、连睡觉都在打算盘的人，最后什么也得不到，还会惹得一身骚。无论是修行还是生活都是如此。当然，你会说那是童话。但是童话讲的就是真正的现实，只是你太天真了不知道而已。

灵山居士写于2023年5月15，首发于2023年5月17

[bysumex]

Exploring Petra, Jordan: Travel Tips and Photography Insights 👉 https://bysumex.com/exploring-petra-jordan-travel-tips-and-photography-insights/

Petra, one of the New Seven Wonders of the World, is a stunning archaeological site in southern Jordan. Known as the "Rose City" for its distinctive red and pink stone architecture, Petra was once a thriving trading center and the capital of the Nabatean Kingdom. If you're planning a visit to this iconic location, here's what you need to know, along with some tips for photographers to make the most of your journey.

Travel Tips for Visiting Petra

Plan Your Visit: The best times to visit Petra are during the cooler months, from March to May and September to November. Summer can be extremely hot, while winter can bring occasional rain.

Get There Early: Petra opens at 6 AM, and arriving early allows you to explore before the crowds and the midday heat. The Siq, the narrow canyon leading to the Treasury, is especially magical in the morning light.

Wear Comfortable Clothing and Footwear: You'll be walking a lot, so sturdy shoes are a must. Lightweight, breathable clothing is recommended, along with a hat and sunscreen for protection.

Stay Hydrated: Bring a refillable water bottle, as you'll need to stay hydrated throughout the day. There are a few spots to refill your bottle within Petra.

Purchase a Jordan Pass: The Jordan Pass is a great value, covering your visa fee and entry to Petra, as well as many other sites in Jordan. It also includes a digital guidebook.

Explore Beyond the Treasury: While the Treasury is Petra's most iconic site, there's much more to see. Be sure to explore the Monastery, the Royal Tombs, the High Place of Sacrifice, and the Roman Theater.

Consider a Guided Tour: A knowledgeable guide can enrich your experience by providing historical context and insider insights.

Tips for Photographers in Petra

Capture the Treasury Early or Late: The Treasury (Al-Khazneh) is best photographed in the early morning or late afternoon when the light is soft and warm. Arrive early to avoid crowds, or stay until closing time for a more tranquil scene.

Use a Wide-Angle Lens: The grandeur of Petra's structures is best captured with a wide-angle lens. This allows you to capture the scale and intricate details of the architecture.

Experiment with Perspectives: To get unique shots, play with different angles and viewpoints. For example, photograph the Treasury from the cliff above (the "Secret Viewpoint") for a breathtaking view.

Bring a Tripod: A tripod can be useful for low-light conditions, especially in the Siq or during Petra at Night (a candle-lit event). It also helps with capturing long exposures for dramatic effects.

Be Respectful and Avoid Flash Photography: Petra is a UNESCO World Heritage site with cultural and historical significance. Be mindful of your surroundings, and avoid using flash, as it can disturb other visitors and harm the ancient stonework.

Capture the Details: In addition to the grand architecture, focus on smaller details like carvings, textures, and patterns. These shots can add depth and variety to your photo collection.

Consider a Drone with Permission: Drone photography is sometimes allowed in Petra, but you need to obtain permission beforehand. Make sure to check the local regulations and follow all guidelines to ensure a safe and respectful experience.

Petra is an awe-inspiring destination that offers endless opportunities for exploration and photography. With these tips, you'll be well-equipped to make the most of your visit and capture unforgettable memories. Enjoy your journey to the "Rose City"!

#petrajordan #tipsphotography #travelling

#jordan #petra #bysumex #photo #world #travieling

[taneeshadunias]

Exploring the Way: B.Tech CSE or B.Tech IT?

Within the advanced age, where innovation penetrates each viewpoint of our lives, the request for gifted technologists is ever-growing. For trying understudies looking to embark on a journey within the domain of innovation, choosing between Single man of Innovation (B.Tech) in Computer Science and Building (CSE) or Data Innovation (IT) can be a confusing choice. Both roads guarantee energizing career prospects and openings for development, but each has its particular center and applications. So, let's explore through the paths of B.Tech CSE and B.Tech IT to assist you make an educated choice.

B.Tech CSE: Unveiling the World of Computing

B.Tech CSE dives into the basic standards of computer science, including both equipment and program angles. It's a domain where calculations, information structures, programming languages, and computer engineering shape the building pieces of development. Understudies in CSE programs set out on a journey to get the theoretical underpinnings of computing and investigate its down to earth applications.

Within the domain of B.Tech CSE, students submerge themselves in a world of coding challenges, algorithmic perplexes, and program designing ventures. They learn to analyze complex problems, plan productive calculations, and create strong software arrangements. From building web applications to exploring the domains of manufactured insights and information science, CSE offers a tremendous scene of openings for trying technologists.

B.Tech IT: Bridging Innovation and Trade

On the other hand, B.Tech IT focuses on leveraging innovation to address real-world commerce challenges. It's a mix of innovation and administration standards pointed at optimizing information frameworks and improving organizational productivity. Students in B.Tech IT programs learn around database administration, data frameworks, web advances, and cybersecurity.

B.Tech IT understudies are prepared to end up IT specialists, frameworks examiners, or extend directors who can bridge the crevice between innovation and commerce. They pick up bits of knowledge into understanding commerce requirements, planning IT arrangements, and actualizing them viably. From planning secure IT infrastructures to sending undertaking frameworks, B.Tech IT opens entryways to a domain where innovation meets organizational needs.

Choosing the Proper Way

So, how do you select between B.Tech CSE and B.Tech IT? Here are many considerations to assist you explore the way:

Intrigued and Energy: Consider your interests and interests. Are you more slanted towards diving into the theoretical viewpoints of computing, or do you see yourself applying innovation to unravel real-world trade challenges?

Career Goals: Think around your career earnings. Do you imagine yourself as a program engineer, information researcher, or cybersecurity investigator? Or are you drawn towards parts that include counseling, framework investigation, or extended management?

Educational programs and Specializations: Assess the educational programs and specializations advertised in each program. Do you reverberate more with courses centered on calculations, information structures, and computer program building (CSE)? Or are you charmed by subjects related to database management, cybersecurity, and IT counseling (IT)?

Industry Patterns and Demand: Stay abreast of industry trends and requests. Inquire about the work showcase to get it the request for experts in both areas. Consider variables such as rising innovations, industry divisions, and geological areas.

Personal Qualities and Inclination: Reflect on your individual qualities and inclination. Are you normally slanted towards problem-solving, coherent thinking, and explanatory consideration (CSE)? Or do you exceed expectations in communication, cooperation, and venture administration (IT)?

Embracing the Travel

Eventually, whether you select B.Tech CSE or B.Tech IT, keep in mind that it's not fair about the goal but the travel itself. Both ways offer interesting openings for development, learning, and investigation within the dynamic world of innovation. Grasp the travel with an open intellect, a thirst for information, and an energy for development.

As you set out on this transformative travel, keep in mind that your choice of program is fair at the start. The genuine quintessence lies in your devotion, diligence, and eagerness to adjust to the ever-evolving scene of innovation. Whether you're coding calculations or planning IT arrangements, each step you take brings you closer to realizing your dreams and making an important effect within the world.

So, select your way wisely, grasp the challenges, and set out on a journey filled with perpetual conceivable outcomes. Whether you find yourself submerged in lines of code or exploring the complexities of IT arrangements, know that you're shaping the end of technology and clearing the way for a world driven by development.

#B.Tech fees in India #B.Tech in India #B.Tech in CS #B.Tech in IT

[sociomi]

HOW TO WIN AT SLOTS | TIPS FOR ONLINE SLOT MACHINES

While this tip won't be ensured to help you with winning, it'll help your viewpoint. Consistently put down a moment limit for your gaming gatherings on spaces. This prevents extreme wagering and losing all your open money. Getting a charge out of standard respites is another obliging way to deal with managing your gaming, as it can help with clearing your mind and utilize savvy instinct.

Last Contemplations That was our intensive helper on the most effective way to prevail at spaces. Remember that while betting machines offer the enthusiasm of potentially stashing a gold mine, your predetermination will ceaselessly be in the ownership of the RNG divine creatures. The outcomes rely upon amazingly great karma, and no proportion of skill or strategy can influence your results. May the possibilities be on the side of yourself, whether you're playing on our electronic betting clubs or elsewhere.

FAQS ABOUT HOW TO Prevail AT Openings

How to prevail at openings? The best method for winning spaces is to meddle with your betting strategy by extending or decreasing your bet. Constantly keep a clear head while putting down your bets with online openings, and set a serious monetary arrangement for your spending.

Is there a trick to winning openings? The best method for prevailing at openings is to pick a low-insecurity gaming machine with an excellent respect Player (RTP) rate. Hold back nothing higher to grow your conceivable outcomes scoring a triumph.

How do additional games on space games work? There's no reliable technique for setting off a prize round or free curves during space play. This is because additional features rely upon development considering an unpredictable number generator (RNG), which is standard for most electronic openings. Check out link rans303.

How to do whatever it takes not to lose with online openings? While there is no dependable technique for prevailing at openings, you can expect control over your incidents by wagering competently and setting a serious spending plan for yourself. Conclude the size of each betting total for each bend from your available spending plan, and stay moderate. Remember without fail to live it up playing on the web spaces, and don't set your suppositions unnecessarily high.

Is it better to play one betting machine or endeavor different ones? Playing on a web based gaming machine can simplify it to get disheartened with the shortfall of wins. If that happens, feel free to change to an other opening game.

[tasmiyakrish]

Mastering the Art of Engaging with Blogs: A Guide to Effective Commenting

In the vast digital landscape of today, blogs have emerged as a powerful medium for sharing ideas, experiences, and knowledge. A crucial aspect that makes blogs truly interactive and engaging is the ability for readers to leave comments. Blog commenting provides a unique opportunity to connect with authors and fellow readers, express opinions, seek clarification, and contribute valuable insights. In this article, we will delve into the art of blog commenting and provide you with a comprehensive guide on how to effectively participate in these online conversations.

Embracing digital marketing capabilities becomes even more accessible and impactful with Digital Marketing Course in Bangalore.

Step-By-Step Guide on How to Do Blog Commenting:

Discovering Relevant Blogs: To embark on your blog commenting journey, it is essential to identify blogs that align with your interests or are relevant to your niche. There are various avenues you can explore, such as search engines, blog directories, and social media platforms, to find blogs that resonate with your passion and expertise. Take the time to explore diverse blogs and pinpoint those that captivate your attention.

Absorbing and Understanding the Blog Post: Before leaving a comment, it is crucial to thoroughly read and comprehend the blog post. Familiarize yourself with the author's main ideas, arguments, and perspectives. By gaining a comprehensive understanding, you can contribute a thoughtful and relevant comment that adds value to the ongoing discussion.

Crafting Your Comment: When you are ready to express your thoughts, navigate to the comment section of the blog post. Typically, you will find a comment form where you can enter your name, email address, website (if desired), and your comment. Initiate your comment by addressing the author or other readers, if appropriate. Articulate your opinions, insights, and experiences related to the blog post's content. Pose insightful questions, provide constructive feedback, or share additional information that enriches the conversation. Ensure that your comment contributes meaningfully to the discourse.

Cultivating Respectful and Polished Communication: While sharing your perspective, it is of utmost importance to maintain a respectful and professional tone. Avoid using offensive language, engaging in personal attacks, or promoting spammy content. Remember that blog commenting serves as a platform for fostering meaningful conversations and cultivating relationships within the blogging community. Be courteous, open-minded, and considerate of differing viewpoints.

Reviewing Your Comment: Before submitting your comment, dedicate a moment to review and edit it for any potential spelling or grammatical errors. A well-crafted comment enhances your credibility and demonstrates the thoughtfulness of your response. A polished comment also facilitates comprehension and encourages others to engage with your ideas.

What works today may not necessarily yield the same results tomorrow, necessitating a willingness to experiment, iterate, and innovate in response to changing trends and challenges. Explore Digital Marketing Online Training for Essential Blog Commenting Skills.

Submitting Your Comment: Once you are satisfied with your comment, submit it using the designated comment form. Depending on the blog's settings, you may need to complete a captcha or undergo a moderation process before your comment becomes visible to the public. Exercise patience and respect the blog owner's guidelines for comment approval.

Engaging in Follow-Up: If the blog permits, consider subscribing to notifications for follow-up comments. This allows you to stay actively engaged in the discussion and respond to other readers or the author if they reply to your comment. By consistently participating in the conversation, you can foster connections, gain fresh perspectives, and contribute to a vibrant and thriving blogging community.

Mastering the art of engaging with blogs through commenting offers a unique avenue for meaningful online conversations. By discovering relevant blogs, absorbing and understanding blog posts, crafting thoughtful comments, cultivating respectful communication, reviewing your contributions, and actively following up, you can become an esteemed and valuable participant in the blogosphere.

Embrace this opportunity to share your insights, seek knowledge, and connect with authors and fellow readers. Remember, blog commenting is not merely about self-promotion; it is about building relationships and nurturing enriching discussions within the blogging community.

[joelcriley]

Joel C Riley | Labor Relations Mastery Insights from an Experienced HR Executive

The art of labor relations demands not just a keen understanding of the law and policies, but also the ability to empathize, negotiate, and build trusting relationships. It is through this delicate balance that I, Joel Riley CT, have managed to navigate the intricacies of labor relations. To be effective, one must remain flexible, patient, and open-minded, always prepared to adapt to the changing dynamics of the workplace. It's an ever-evolving dance that requires deft moves, and a deep understanding of the rhythm that keeps an organization ticking harmoniously.

Building a Foundation of Trust and Open Communication

In the face of dispute resolution, it is essential to stay focused on the ultimate goal - a harmonious workplace environment that fosters growth and productivity. As Joel C Riley can attest, negotiation abilities are crucial in these situations, requiring tact, diplomacy, and respect for others' viewpoints. This allows for a constructive conversation where both parties feel valued and considered.

It's not just about coming to an agreement, but about nurturing relationships that can withstand the test of time, contributing to a positive work culture. This approach, coupled with a sound understanding of labor laws and regulations, creates a robust framework for managing labor relations effectively.

Preparation and Knowledge are Key

A fundamental element of labor relations mastery is preparation. Adequate preparation helps in developing a comprehensive understanding of the issues at hand and allows for better decision-making. This involves gathering and analyzing data, understanding labor laws and regulations, and staying informed about industry trends and benchmarks. It's the HR executive's responsibility to ensure that the organization is well-versed in labor laws and adheres to them.

Moreover, staying updated on labor market dynamics, such as wage trends and labor shortages, is essential for making informed decisions. This knowledge enables the organization to anticipate and address potential issues before they escalate. Preparedness also extends to having clear and fair workplace policies in place, as well as well-defined grievance and dispute resolution mechanisms.

In labor relations, negotiation skills are paramount. HR executives should be adept at negotiating collective bargaining agreements that are fair and balanced. Negotiation involves not only understanding the legal framework but also having a deep comprehension of the needs and desires of both employees and management. Negotiating a win-win agreement often requires creative problem-solving and the ability to think outside the box.

Balancing Employee Welfare and Organizational Interests

Training and continuous learning play a significant role in mastering labor relations, and it is a journey that I, Joel Riley CT, thoroughly believe in. Navigating the ever-changing landscape of HR laws and regulations requires a commitment to lifelong learning. Skills like negotiation and conflict resolution can be honed over time, but to stay abreast of the latest trends and advancements in the field, one must engage in consistent learning and professional development.

This could be in the form of attending seminars, earning professional certifications, or even engaging in peer mentoring and networking. Such immersive learning experiences not only enrich your knowledge base but also provide valuable insights into the practical challenges and successful strategies of labor relations. Remember, in labor relations and indeed in all aspects of human resources, complacency is the enemy of success. So, stay curious, stay informed, and never stop learning.

Conflict Resolution and Dispute Management

In such instances, an HR executive must take on the role of mediator, working diligently to restore harmony within the organization and resolve disputes in a way that respects all parties involved. It's a role I  have found to be both challenging and rewarding, a test of patience, empathy, and negotiation skills. But, when done correctly, effective conflict resolution can result in stronger relationships, improved communication, and a more cohesive work environment.

One key aspect of conflict resolution is ensuring that the organization has clear and fair grievance procedures in place. Employees need to know how to raise concerns, and they must have confidence in the process. HR executives should also be skilled at mediating conflicts and facilitating discussions between opposing parties to find common ground.

When conflicts escalate to the point of labor disputes, having a well-defined crisis management plan is crucial. It's essential to know how to respond to strikes, work stoppages, or other forms of collective action while adhering to labor laws and regulations. Maintaining open lines of communication with employees and labor unions is key during these times, as it can help prevent situations from escalating further.

Adapting to Change and Evolving Labor Dynamics

In the rapidly-evolving landscape of labor relations, successful HR executives like Joel Riley CT must possess a versatile skill set. Not only must they be adept at conflict resolution and negotiation, but they also need to understand and interpret complex labor laws. Moreover, they must have a deep understanding of organizational dynamics and employee psychology. To navigate these manifold challenges, continuous learning and adaptability are vital. Embracing new technologies and innovative methods of workforce engagement can help HR executives stay ahead of the curve and effectively manage labor relations in the modern workplace.

Conclusion

In conclusion, the field of labor relations is a highly complex and dynamic one, requiring a unique blend of knowledge, skills, and attributes. Mastery in this area is about much more than understanding labor laws and negotiating contracts; it's about building strong relationships, fostering open communication, resolving conflicts effectively, and creating a positive work environment where employees feel valued and heard.

No one knows this better than someone like me, Joel Riley CT, with my extensive experience in HR management roles. The path to mastery may be challenging, with constantly evolving labor dynamics and the need for continuous learning. However, the outcomes, which include a harmonious and productive workplace, make all efforts worthwhile. The journey towards mastery is an ongoing process, a commitment to lifelong learning and adaptability, and a pledge to always put people first.

[extremely-moderate]

Revolutionary Moderation: Embracing Gateleg Without Upsetting the Balance

"🎩💼 The Founding Father's guide to staying politically moderate on the controversial topic of gateleg: Embrace open dialogue, weigh pros & cons, seek common ground! Let's fold together without folding apart! 🤝🔀 #FoundingFatherWisdom #GatelegEtiquette" In a world of polarizing politics, where opinions clash like waves against the rocks, it can be a challenge to find common ground. Yet, I, as a Founding Father of the United States, stand before you today to shed light on the art of being extremely politically moderate about gateleg. Now, you might be wondering 'What in the name of King George is gateleg?' Well, dear reader, it refers to that delicate balance between supporting and opposing certain policies or beliefs. Much like the gateleg table that can be folded or extended, political moderation requires us to navigate these issues with finesse and equilibrium. As a discerning Founding Father, I have witnessed firsthand the perils of extreme ideologies. It was clear to us that moderation was the key to maintaining harmony and fostering compromise. So, let's dive into the depths of this art, shall we? Firstly, and perhaps most importantly, keep an open mind. Being moderate means being receptive to different viewpoints and, at times, challenging your own preconceived notions. Engage in thoughtful conversations, listen attentively, and consider various perspectives before forming a conclusion. Secondly, embrace empathy. Understanding others' experiences and motivations enables us to bridge divides and find commonalities. Remember, my fellow citizens, we are all bound by the pursuit of life, liberty, and happiness. Let empathy be our guiding light towards moderation. Next, cultivate critical thinking. Don't accept ideas blindly, but question and scrutinize them. Moderation requires intellectual independence and the ability to discern facts from fiction. Arm yourself with knowledge, for it is the sword that cuts through extremism. Furthermore, resist the allure of tribalism. It is tempting to fall into partisan camps, but true moderation lies outside the confines of rigid labels. Seek collaboration, seek unity - for the greatest achievements in our nation's history were born from compromise. Lastly, always remember the power of civil discourse. A respectful exchange of ideas paves the way for progress, while insults and hostility only breed division. Let your words be guided by reason and respect, for a moderate voice carries weight beyond measure. So, my fellow citizens of the present day, let us embrace gateleg with the wisdom of the Founding Fathers. Let us strive for moderation, for it is the path towards unity and progress. May our nation find strength in its diversity, and may the spirit of compromise guide us towards a brighter future.

#gateleg #Politics #Moderation

[princessmia-tarot]

Mia, I really continue to appreciate you making time for us in between your jobs and your own life. May I please ask my higher self why communication is so tough with my co-worker/assigned “mentor” (ish) Jacqui? It’s like no one listens or understands when I speak, esp. her and I don’t know what to do - and I have tried a number of things.

Thank you, AK

Helloooo love,

I really get how frustrating and disheartening it can be when communication becomes a challenge, especially with someone meant to guide and support you. Sometimes it's clashing personalities.

Your higher self indicates that the root of this challenge might lie in a mismatch of perspectives and priorities. It's possible that Jacqui's approach may be different from yours, leading to misunderstandings. Remember to remain patient and open-minded, and consider approaching her with a fresh perspective. Acknowledge her viewpoints and show empathy towards her position. Establishing common ground might be a key step towards fostering a more open and productive dialogue.

Continue to be proactive in finding ways to improve communication. This might involve seeking common interests or finding shared goals that can bridge the gap. Trust that with patience and perseverance, you can gradually improve this situation. Stay true to yourself and your values, and let your sincerity and dedication guide you through this challenging phase.

Don't change yourself for others, it is possible this situation will not change and at that point it has nothing to do with you and all to do with Jacqui.

Take care,

xx

Mia💗

- - - - - - - - - 

★ To see status of free readings click here

★ I have a new feedback link: https://forms.gle/Md4e5V9Cqq15Ns629 

★ LOVE how much information is in these free readings? Check out my ETSY to get even more information, clarification and messages. USE CODE TUMBLR20 FOR 20% OFF 

★ Interested in spells and chakras? Check out my spells on offer 

★ If you feel called, please follow and share my blog and/or Etsy so more people have the opportunity for guidance ❤️

#tarot #tarot cards #tarot readings #cartomancy #card reading #major arcana #minor arcana #intuitive #witchcraft #witchcore #real witches #tumblr witches #witches of tumblr #divination #australian witches #witchblr #oracle card #oracle cards #oracle reading #free reading #free tarot reading #small business #etsy #etsy shop #australian #australian business #australian witch

[bonanzatour]

Bonanza Tour: Luxury Tours and Travelling Website.

The Bonanza Tour

Bonanza Tour is a prominent travel service that provides a variety of tour packages for India holidays, visit India, India trip, luxury India tours, tour packages, tours & travels, IRCTC tour packages, Dubai trip package, and other destinations. We specialise in designing itineraries that are tailored to our clients' individual needs and interests.

Contact Bonanza Tours today to plan your next trip to India or Dubai!

Why Should You Travel?

Traveling is one of life's most rewarding experiences. It gives us the opportunity to travel to new locations, learn about different cultures, and meet new people. It can also be a wonderful way to Tours and travels unwind and de-stress from our daily lives.

Other Reasons to Travel

Here are a few more reasons why you should travel, in addition to the ones given above:

To study a new language. Traveling is an excellent approach to pick up a new language. By surrounding yourself with native speakers, you may immerse yourself in the language.

To experiment with new foods. Traveling is an excellent way to try new dishes and learn about different cuisines. You can learn about the local ingredients and cooking processes, and even try your hand at making some of the meals.

Here are just a few of the many reasons to travel:

To broaden your horizons. Traveling introduces us to other cultures and viewpoints. It can assist us in better understanding our surroundings and become more open-minded and accepting.

To learn about various civilizations. One of the most rewarding aspects of Tour packages is getting to know different cultures firsthand. Experiencing new meals, learning about local customs and traditions, and visiting historical and religious places can all be part of this.

To make new friends. Traveling allows you to meet people from all around the world. This can be an excellent way to meet new people, learn about different cultures, and improve your foreign language skills.

To unwind and de-stress. Traveling can be a wonderful way to relax and de-stress from the stresses of everyday life. Spending time in nature, discovering new locations, and trying new things can all aid in stress reduction and overall well-being.

To make long-lasting memories. Traveling is an excellent approach to make long-lasting memories with our loved ones. For years to come, we'll recall the great places we've been, the excellent cuisine we've eaten, and the interesting people we've met.

India Luxury Tours

India is a huge and diversified country with a long and illustrious history and culture. From its breathtaking natural beauty to its historic temples and forts, India has something for everyone.

Consider arranging a Luxury India tours if you want a genuinely premium vacation experience. Luxury India excursions usually include the following:

Staying in five-star hotels and resorts

Private luxury car transportation

Tours of popular tourist destinations as well as hidden gems

Exclusive activities such as private dinners and cultural performances are available.

Dubai Vacation Packages

Dubai is a vibrant and multicultural city with something for everyone. Dubai is a city that never sleeps, from its world-class shopping and restaurants to its breathtaking architecture and fun parks.

Consider reserving a Dubai trip package if you are planning a trip to Dubai. Dubai vacation packages often include the following:

Accommodation is available at a variety of hotels and resorts.

Return flights from select cities Airport transfers

Popular tourist places sightseeing tours

Exclusive experiences such as desert safaris and dhow cruises are available.

How to Select the Best Tour Package

There are a few factors to consider while selecting a tour package:

Your financial situation. Tour packages can range in price from inexpensive to extravagant. It is critical to select a travel package that is within your budget.

Your preferences. Tour packages for various interests are available, including cultural tours, religious tours, adventure tours, and family excursions. Choose a travel plan that covers the activities and sights that interest you the most.

Your vacation dates. Certain tour packages are only available on specific dates. Make your tour package reservations well in advance, especially if you are traveling during high season.

#india vacations #visit india #india trip #luxury india tours #tour packages #tours and travels #irctc tour packages #dubai trip package

[briefinfluencernacho]

How to Reject Modernity, Reject Tradition, and Embrace the Transvaluation of Values

In a rapidly changing world, some individuals seek to challenge established norms and reevaluate their values. This guide explores two concepts: rejecting modernity and tradition, and embracing the transvaluation of values. It aims to provide insights into how to approach these transformations.

Section 1: Rejecting Modernity and Tradition

• Understand Modernity and Tradition: Research and gain a clear understanding of what modernity and tradition mean in your context. Recognize their influence on your life and society. • Question Assumptions: Reflect on the assumptions and beliefs associated with modernity and tradition. Ask yourself why you hold certain values and whether they align with your true principles. • Engage in Critical Thinking: Challenge societal norms and practices that don't align with your values. Use critical thinking to assess whether these norms serve your well-being and the greater good. • Explore Alternative Lifestyles: Investigate alternative lifestyles and cultures that reject or reinterpret modernity and tradition. Learn from others who have embraced different value systems. • Gradual Transition: Understand that rejecting modernity and tradition doesn't mean immediate, radical change. It can be a gradual process. Make changes at a pace that feels right for you.

Section 2: Embracing the Transvaluation of Values

• Study Transvaluation of Values: Familiarize yourself with the concept of transvaluation of values, which involves reevaluating and potentially reversing the meaning and significance of your values. • Reflect on Core Values: Identify your core values and beliefs. Consider what truly matters to you in life and what you aspire to achieve. • Challenge Existing Values: Question your current values and their origins. Are they authentic to you, or are they a result of societal expectations? Identify areas where you feel the need for change. • Explore New Perspectives: Engage with literature, philosophy, and conversations that challenge your existing values. Seek out diverse viewpoints and ideas to broaden your perspective. • Experiment and Adapt: Experiment with changes in your lifestyle and behaviors that align with your evolving values. Be open to adapting as you learn and grow.

Section 3: How to Do It

• Self-Reflection: Regularly engage in self-reflection to assess your progress in rejecting modernity, tradition, and embracing transvaluation. Journaling or meditation can help. • Seek Support: Connect with like-minded individuals or support groups who share your goals. Discussing your journey with others can provide valuable insights and encouragement. • Embrace Uncertainty: Understand that this process can be challenging and may involve uncertainty. Embrace the discomfort as part of your growth and transformation. • Practice Empathy: Be empathetic towards others who may not share your values or have different perspectives. Respect diversity while staying true to your own path. • Iterate and Evolve: Recognize that values can evolve over time. Periodically revisit and adjust your values to ensure they remain aligned with your true self. In summary, rejecting modernity, rejecting tradition, and embracing the transvaluation of values involve self-awareness, critical thinking, and a willingness to adapt. It's a deeply personal journey that can lead to a more authentic and meaningful life in a rapidly changing world.

#PersonalGrowth #TransvaluationOfValues 🚀 #Rejectingtradition #Rejectingmodernity #Transvaluationofvalues