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thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra · 4 months

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Aromantic Flag History

With all the arophobes coming out of the woodworks, I want to share some aromantic history to hopefully brighten your day.

The first use of the term "aromantic" appeared in an AVEN thread in June of 2005. A couple years later, a flag was created by the National Coalition for Aromantic Visibility. It looked like this:

Green symbolized aromanticism, as green is the opposite of red, and red is sometimes seen as a symbol of romance. Yellow represented platonic love. Orange represented lithromanticism, and black represented anyone who fell under the greyromantic range.

At some point, the aromantic community decided it was time for a change, and thus came the second flag. Created by Cameron Whimsy, this one looks a lot more familiar to the one we see nowadays:

The two greens represent the spectrum of aromantic identities, yellow represents friendship, and grey and black represent the spectrum of sexual identities in the aromantic community.

While this flag wasn't as widely used as the first, it laid the groundwork for the one we'd come to know and love today. At some point, it was pointed out that the yellow stripe caused sensory issues for some individuals, and as such, it was changed to white.

And now we have the modern aromantic flag we all love! Thanks for reading!

#max squawks #aromantic #aromantism #arospec #lithromantic #akoiromantic #frayromantic #demiromantic #aro history #aspec history #aromantic history #aro pride #aromantic pride #arophobia #aro positivity #aromantic positivity

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joestarkisser · 4 months

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Arospec selfshippers are amazing!

Aromantic selfshippers?

Aroflux selfshippers?

Arospike selfshippers?

Arofluid selfshippers?

Loveless Aro selfshippers?

Frayromantic selfshippers?

Lithromantic selfshippers?

Bellusromantic selfshippers?

Acoromantic selfshippers?

Acriromantic selfshippers?

Amoraromantic selfshippers?

Autiaro selfshippers?

Cupioromantic selfshippers?

Cassromantic selfshippers?

And any other selfshippers with an arospec identity?

Your F/Os all respect you and your identity regardless of what it is!

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thermodynamic-comedian · 1 year

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reblog if you're aromantic and not soft or cute or fluffy. i feel like so many aromantic people feel like they need to make themself 'more human' by forcing these qualities onto themselves, and that's fucking sad. you are human. your aromanticism does not make you less human. you do not have to fucking 'redeem' yourself over being aromantic. your anger and your rage and your unapologetic lovelessness and heartlessness are also human. don't hide them in order to appeal to aphobes.

so yeah, reblog if you're aromantic and angry and intense and sharp around the edges and refuse to play the 'acceptable aro' game. i adore you.

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januscorner · 1 month

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Frayromantic Stimboard

👽🔪〰️ 🕊️🐦🧁 🦈💻🌊

#pride stim #queer #queer stim #2slgbtqia+#lgbtqia2s+#stimboard #stim board #stimboards #Frayromantic #Pride stim #Aro-spec pride #Aro-spec stim #aro spec #aromantic spectrum #aspec #aspec positivity #Janus’s Corner

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literallycreativelylit · 2 years

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Can AroSpecBlr help me out with something?

Scroll down for TLDR.

I know my gender and my sexual orientation--being genderfluid and pansexual both make sense to me. No qualms there. But I'm having trouble nailing down my romantic orientation.

I've tried taking online quizzes, but most of them are just like "do you like boys or girls or both." The genders of my crushes are of no frickin' importance--I'm just trying to find the name for my particular romantic orientation, because I sure as hell don't experience what everyone else seems to, and none of the terms and definitions on the LGBTQIA+ Wiki fit my experience.

Then today, I took another random quiz I found online, and it actually asked more in-depth questions. A few of them even discussed my particular "issue": I feel a strong romantic attraction to someone, but upon entering a relationship with them, my feelings fade after a short while. I'm talking, like, anywhere between a few weeks to six months. I actually started tearing up when I read that because I felt as if someone was finally seeing me--like I wasn't some crappy, horrible human being who fell in and out of love on a whim. It's not something I can control, and the number of good people I've had to break up with because I no longer felt anything romantic toward them was disheartening. It was actually affecting my mental health, and I swore off dating because of it, but I still want to know my romantic orientation.

Some romantic facts about me and my history:

I have had several crushes in my life, but only a few have lasted years before fading.

Most of my crushes were on people I knew, whether irl or met online. Distance/not seeing or hanging out with them for long periods of time did not diminish my few long-lasting crushes, and getting into relationships with other people only seemed to "set those crushes aside" until my feelings for the person I was with faded--which they inevitably did.

Most of my crushes on celebrities/influencers have faded very quickly or (in a few cases) transformed into squishes. Of the squishes, I chalk it up to me wanting to seek out more people like them, and have simply made an effort to interact a bit in their communities to find friends/moots.

I like romantic things: gestures, some traditions, stories, and some scenes in series and movies. I ship fictional characters with reckless abandon, and like to imagine myself in those scenarios, both as the person performing gestures and the one receiving them. In those imagined scenarios, my "partner" is faceless, unknown, because I currently have no romantic feelings toward anyone. If the aforementioned scenes in shows/movies take a sexual turn, it makes me uncomfortable. This is not the case for books, fan fiction, web comics, or videogames.

When people I know/know of are in a relationship, I root for their relationship's success and love seeing their romantic gestures toward one another that are shared online. However, if I see their affection irl, it usually makes me uncomfortable. Any irl affection between other people makes me uncomfortable, and my own PDA with my partner is limited to hand-holding, hugs where applicable (greetings/goodbyes and comforting someone), and short pecks (please don't try to make out with me in public it's so frickin' awkward dude).

I am not an affectionate person outside of relationships. When relatives (particularly my sisters or cousin) try to cuddle/snuggle with me, it makes me uncomfortable because I attribute those things to romantic relationships. My kids and my previous partners are the only ones who I've felt comfortable snuggling for short periods of time, with the exception of my fwb, but that's been long-standing so my comfort developed over time.

I am aware of the differences between platonic and romantic connections, as well as squishes and crushes. When I experience a squish, I will take the initiative in order to see if I have a platonic connection with this other person; when I have a crush, I tend to hold back and will wait until either the other person makes a move OR until I feel confident that they like me romantically (obvious flirting/interest, etc.)

My platonic bonds do not fade unless the other person has seriously hurt/wronged me, or revealed an interest or opinion that I find distasteful (like they say something racist/sexist and aren't open to learning more about how problematic it was). Meanwhile, my romantic bonds will fade over time as I lose interest. This kind of implies that my romantic bonds don't have a solid foundation, so one theory I have is that I don't actually choose the right partners or enter productive relationships.

Because I have been love-bombed/pressured in the past, most of my relationships developed very quickly. This is something I have been working to curb in recent years.

Most online quizzes tell me I am biromantic or panromantic, and while they kind of acknowledge aro peeps, aromantic alone doesn't define me. The quiz I took just a little bit ago (the one I mentioned earlier in this post) said that I am frayromantic (other terms include protoromantic and ignotaromantic). My main issue with this result is that I have experienced romantic attraction that did not fade over time, and even grew with getting to know the person. However, I can only think of two crushes that fall under that exception; the bonds I had with them were strong, but one person was toxic and took advantage of my feelings, while the other did not verbally reciprocate. Eventually, the latter person moved away and has a life elsewhere, and as their friend I'm supportive so my feelings have faded some. They sought me out over the years whenever they were in town, and there was one time where we spent most of a day in what honestly felt like a date (they picked me up, we had dinner, we hung out at the mall and at a bar, and we ended the night with ice cream. They insisted on paying for most of it, and there was romantic tension). The other has been cut out of my life for obvious reasons.

Before now, I called myself quoiromantic, or wtfromantic, because I just didn't know what to call myself. If I had to push myself to come up with a term, I guess I would say I'm sort of frayflux--but would that just be aroflux? Aroflux feels way too broad of a term, too vague to describe what I experience. And yes, I guess frayromantic is the closest to it, but it's still not entirely right... So would the term frayflux/protoflux be acceptable? Or is there another term that describes me better?

If you know any other terms regarding romantic orientation that may fit what I described, please share them and any links to their descriptions/definitions. If you think you know or follow a blog that might be able to help, feel free to tag them! I just need to know if I'm being dumb or if I genuinely need a term that fits outside those already established.

TLDR: I've experienced romantic attraction with people I didn't know very well & after getting to know them/developing an emotional bond my feelings for them faded with a few exceptions, though I haven't been in a romantic relationship with the exceptions. I don't think frayromantic fits me & frayflux feels like a better fit but is that acceptable or should I use another term?

Thanks for reading. I'd appreciate any insight on this.

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convolutedblasphemy · 2 months

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Since it's Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week I want to thank the aro community for everything they taught me and everything they did for me even before I started to identify as frayromantic. I had so much amatonormativity to unlearn before I could arrive at this point, so this is my first aro week, but identifying as ace for years, I inevitably met a lot of aros online and saw a lot of aro positivity posts.

Truth be told, from age 14 - 19 I suffered a period of debilitating, very traumatizing emotional abuse that killed my entire social life and my abuser would make sure i couldn't form these bonds when i wanted to. As soon as I got out of that -> covid lockdown. When the pandemic restrictions were lifted I've spent 7 years at that point pretty much socially isolated aside from online contacts. And in the past 3 years I've been busy healing, studying, adulting and picking up the pieces.

It's been almost a decade now in which I didn't have a stable social life (aside from my relatives) and everyone else has always looked at me with this... weird pity for it. I had a lot of anxiety due to being ace as well; because i didn't feel like i could find that close committed relationship i wanted without engaging in sexual activity. People imagined the past decade in my life as me sitting on the couch all day wallowing in self-pity and loneliness, which honestly does such a disservice to all the places I visited, the ways in which i've grown, the art i made and the changes i made. People treated me like I had wasted 10 years of my life and constantly put pressure on me to be more social, to put myself into situations i wasn't comfortable with or to at least get a partner so I won't have to die alone. Dying alone was this terrible horror concept that was pushed onto me as my inevitable fate if i didn't get my shit together. And for the longest time I believed that. I hardly struggled with loneliness, I struggled with this internalized idea that I had failed at life - that i am a failure - if i don't have this many irl friends or a partner.

The aro community was THE FIRST SPACE that helped me dismantle this perspective of seeing the relationships in my life as an extension of myself. The first space that taught me that relationships of any kind aren't these things i have to collect to prove I've led a successful life. The first community that turned around and said "You are whole as you are. You are enough. And you don't need anyone else to complete you." And hearing that, to me, was such a wake-up call; it was such a novelty-realization in contrast to all the bullshit i had internalized, that I cried because damn, this was what I needed to hear.

Suddenly the value of my life wasn't defined by the kind of relationships and how many relationships I filled it with. Suddenly I realized that the committed relationship I wanted didn't have to be romantic (or sexual for that matter); hell, I didn't even want it to be. Suddenly I realized the biggest obstacle to enjoying life for me was all the people who told me i wasn't enjoying my life properly. The aro community taught me so much about love, self-worth and independence. And I haven't been active here for long but everyone has been so kind.

The aro community gave me all the hope and positivity that i needed to focus on myself and my life. I still want to form meaningful irl friendships and get a QPR in the future but the pressure is gone to get all of that asap or else my time on this earth is wasted. I have faith that these things will come when I'm ready and when it's the right time and even if they don't, it's not going to be the end of the world. My value as a person and the success of my life is not defined by the people in it and it never will be. Nor will yours. Nor will anyone's.

Some of y'all might be out here asking yourselves "I'm not aro, what does the aromantic community concern me?" So much. Amatonormativity and relationship hierarchy go so much deeper than just the assumption that everyone desires romantic love. The aromantic community can teach us so much and help us unlearn so many things that are ingrained into our system and into our way of thinking. We should be unlearning those things because doing so will take pressure away from all of us, no matter how we identify. The aromantic community should concern you because they're people with their own hopes and dreams who deserve to find happiness in whatever way feels right for them without the world constantly telling them they're doing it wrong.

The aromantic community has made me a more understanding, hopeful, positive and independent person and I can't thank them enough for that. Happy Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week.

🧡💛🤍🩵💙

#aromantic #aroace #aromantic spectrum #aro week #frayromantic #aromantism #aro #aromantic community

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secretlyhuntokar · 2 months

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im aroace and hit all your faves with the aro beam and ace beam guess what's happened now

aroace Crowley

aroace Aziraphale

demiromantic asexual (sex-neutral) Doctor

demiromantic asexual (sex-repulsed) Master

aromantic Sasha James

frayromantic Tim Stoker

asexual (sex-neutral) Martin Blackwood

aromantic Helen Distortion

aroace Michael Shelley/Distortion

asexual Jonny D'Ville

aromantic asexual (sex-positive) River Song

aroace Saiki K (honestly this one is canon but i see people ignoring it all the time so im adding it)

demiromantic, greyromantic Arthur Pendragon

demisexual, demiromantic Merlin

demisexual Gertrude Robinson

greysexual Agnes Montague

#i left out any that are stated in canon so no Jonathan Sims or Lilith Clawthorne in this list :3 #asexual #aromantic #aroace #aroace beam #doctor who #the mechanisms #good omens #bbc merlin #saiki k #the magnus archives #headcanons #this might be controversial #not sure how tumblr feels about aroaceness rn sobs

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caesthoffe · 1 year

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HAPPY FUCKING ARO AWARENESS WEEK!!!!!!!

i love being aromantic, i love being non-partnering, i love being aroallo.

i love all of my arospec brethren.

i love aros,

I love cupios,

i love frayromantics and demiromantics,

i love arospikes and arofluxes,

i love aroaces and aroallos,

i love aros in QPRs and FWBs,

i love non-partnering aros and loveless aros,

aegos and quois and apothis

i love romance-repulsed aros and romance-positive aros and everyone in-between

i am tired of this narrative that arospec people hate being aro. i love being aro and i bet many of you do as well.

i urge you to spread aromantic joy this week, and every week after. we are not going anywhere, after all.

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paperstarwriters · 9 months

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Thinking about Aspec Muriel & reader.

Personally I am a demisexual & demiromantic but I feel like I fluctuate sometimes, and I've kinda been thinking about Muriel and his place anywhere under Aspec umbrella (including both the asexual spectrum and aromantic spectrum)

Note: This is largely based on me projecting from my own experiences lol. I know For Certain that this won't apply to all aspec people, so if you are of a differing position on the spectrum feel free to discuss about this with me!! I'd love to hear your perspective— also, the links provided are to the LGBTQIA wiki, so if they're inaccurate, feel free to correct me!

also this is largely me just throwing hypotheticals at the wall and rambling so warning for late-night nonsense

anyways it's just —

Because I don't really see Murel as being Fraysexual or Frayromantic (although don't get me wrong, that is a possibility) I can't help but worry at how he felt being desired and admired while in the Colloseum, as let's be honest, there are bound to be a handful of horny people who absolutely loved his show of strength and power right? But practically being at the beck and call of Lucio, I can't help but wonder at how or if Muriel might've felt if he was ever confronted by some of those fans who just... did not know him.

Or I imagine some people trying to egg him on and see how many people "the beast" has slept with and he just feels revolted at the thought—not necessarily because he sees sex as something inherently disgusting, but simply because he can't see himself wanting or doing that, or he hates imagining his own body in that vulnerable position.

And it just places him in a position where people are so confused and dejected at his disinterest romantically or sexually, because "oooh here's this absolute hunk of a man why won't he fall in love/have sex ever? Isn't he human? isn't it ''natural'' to want a sexual/romantic relationship??"

and it all just ends up further othering him. as if he were some sort of Golem driven by blood and hatred, incapable of feeling love or emotion, as if he did not love and care for what few friends he had left, as if he did not love and care for Asra.

And then eventually MC comes around, and whether or not you're Aspec, you at the very least respect his boundaries, and it's a sad and sorry thing, but as a character of entertainment for Vesuvia, I can't help but expect that many rich influential nobles that could bribe their way through the guards around him did not respect that, and maybe they couldn't actually reach him, but they tried, and that's scary enough. Or maybe some rabid fan, oblivious to social expectations, or just incapable of seeing him as anything other than an animal, trying to get to him as well.

Or maybe not even any of that, maybe just the threat of it, ever hanging on his shoulders when people loudly discuss him as if he did not have keen ears, or as if the hallways did not echo, or as if he were not just a few feet away from them.

don't get me wrong, being sexualized when you don't wanna be sexualized is horrible, but the lack of being able to reciprocate or even understand any of it—how people can so easily desire someone else sexually or romantically just by looking at them—and hearing how people regard it as a "natural human experience" that feels awful.

I doubt many people would be talking about the possibility of people just not having those feelings, and it being a normal experience around Muriel and he just ends up left there, feeling so much like some sort of attraction in a cage, inhuman, abnormal and so, so wretched.

And when his only close friend, his only remaining reassurance that he was some part human, leaves for a romantic relationship, Muriel feels more disjointed and broken apart than ever.

And then eventually MC comes around, and whether or not MC is aspec, they respect Muriel's boundaries, and are willing and happy to keep the relationship platonic, or just not have sex if that's what Muriel wants.

and if MC is aspec, the both of you end up diving down into that wormhole of everyone else expressing that automatic or lasting feeling of sexual or romantic attraction to others, and how you both lack that, and most importantly, how you both continue to see each other as normal and human despite that. Regardless of what others say, and regardless what you each think of yourself, you can't bear to call each other inhuman, so you don't. You insist upon each other's humanity and you support each other like that.

Just, regardless of however your sexual or romantic orientation shifts and changes, you both find solace and trust in each other, because you both understand and you both know. And of course, most important overall, you both respect each other's boundaries, and you trust each other enough that, even if one of you realize that maybe sometimes you crave that romantic relationship, or maybe sometimes you crave that sexual relationship, you both trust each other to discuss it beforehand, rather than demand it, and you both trust that, whatever happens after, whether you accept or reject that offer or that possibility, you're still going to be friends.

and ugh the queerplatonic relationship of living together with Muriel in the forest, Sleeping over, and giving each other breakfast in bed as you both work through your chores, as you both make sure you're taking care of each other. Loving each other in that quiet, silly, tender, gentle, human way that friends love each other, that way that friends have always loved each other.

#it's late right now I'll ramble on about this more tomorrow lol #Asexuality #aspec #aromanticism #the arcana #x reader #muriel #muriel the hermit #muriel of the kokhuri #the arcana muriel #muriel the arcana #just thinking

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flip-flopping-frede · 1 year

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My attempt at Lithromantic Positivity

I want to preface this by saying I am ~in general~ not a fan of positivity. Trying to “force positivity” is quickly a slippery slope to toxic positivity and superficially. Nonetheless, I feel like I could have realized some lithromantic positivity, and thought it was necessary to share rather than keep it to myself.

It is ok that there’s nothing good about being lithro. It is ok if there are no benefits that we can exploit from ourselves and take advantage of ourselves (or our relationships) with. Lithromantics not necessarily having *any* positives to being lithro (besides our dope flag) means that those of us that have accepted ourselves, are some of the most compassionate, kind, strong, and resilient souls. The amount of self-compassion one has to develop before they can radically accept themselves as lithromantic, is so much higher than essentially any other queer identity.

In a world that has yet to be educated on aromanticsm, aromantics and cupioromantics are scared to date alloromantics, due to alloromantics behaving like it is a “dealbreaker” or “end of the world” if their [romantic] partner is not “in love” [essentially experiencing romo attrac] towards them. It’s valid for both aros and cupioros to be scared to date alloros because of this arophobic mindset they have, tho.

Anyways, a lithromantic might “seem” more appealing to an uneducated alloromantic, since we do experience the romo attrac, or what alloros mistake for “love”. At the same time, once an alloro experiences and returns that romo attrac towards the lithro, the lithro’s romo attrac fades. Not necessarily fades, but flees and turns into romance repulsion (for most lithros). Uneducated, insecure, and/or unaccepting alloros might feel very hurt for the lithros sudden change. Simultaneously, the lithro may also be hurting for not being able to “keep” or “hold on” to the romo attrac. It feels like, being lithro leaves everyone worse off (and is potentially traumatizing for the lithro). This is why lithros who have accepted themselves have learned how to be compassionate and kind to themselves to an extent that most other queer identities never have to go to before they can accept their queer identity, due to there being more external support, education, and acceptance for their queer identities (including for aros).

It is so easy for lithromantics, especially lithros that have chosen to remain closeted, to drown in a sea of their own self-hatred and shame of being an arospec identity that leaves the alloromantics that reciprocated the romo attrac angry and confused. In a world where alloromantics have all the privilege and amatonormativity is everywhere, lithros are so strong, brave, and resilient for existing as our lithromantic identity in a world that refuses to see us, acknowledge us, validate us, support us, accept us, or understand us.

This is where the lithromantic positivity comes in: lithromantics can relate to everyone. Lithromantics know what it feels like to experience romantic attraction; and we know what it feels like to have a romantic relationship look you dead in the face and not want it. We are also romance ambivalent! We understand what it means to have more than one attitude towards romance. We can understand both apothiros and cupioros. We can relate to another largely unknown arospec identity—frayromantism, since frayros also experience involuntary, primary romantic attraction, just like lithros do. We can even relate to alloros in terms of experiencing romantic attraction involuntarily and getting crushes. And finally, we can relate to aros with struggling to desire romantic relationships in the same way an alloromantic does.

There are so many other identities lithromantic is similar to, like aegoromantic, bellusromantic, and frayromantic. Lithros belong in arospec spaces, and lithros’ voices are so valuable to the arospec community. Lithros are essential in terms of helping to bridge the distance and alienation that is only growing between aromantics and alloromantics.

At the same time, lithros need support. Unfortunately, a lot of lithos hate their identity, and feel no pride for it. We don’t feel seen or validated, and a lot of us feel a lot of shame for being lithromantic. I personally didn’t really see any actual lithros celebrating their lithromanticsm during this year’s arospec awareness week, which is sad. We need the arospec community to affirm that are voices are valuable and that our experiences are valid, especially as we are struggling to accept ourselves.

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losergendered · 9 months

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Philip J. Fry from Futurama is a bipan, nonbinary man with autism and ADHD along with PTSD that uses he/they.

His girlfriend is Leela, a transgender, intersex, aceflux woman that uses she/her and xe/xem. She has autism, ADHD, anxiety and PTSD.

Philip's nephew, Professor Hubert J. Farnsworth, is a bisexual man with synthesia and is neurodivergent. Philip is his 30-times great uncle.

Philip's best friend is Bender, a bisexual robot with autism, NPD, HPD, and depression that is okay being addressed he/him.

Amy Wong is a straight demigirl who is autistic, has an eating disorder, and is hypersexual. She goes by zi/her.

Her boyfriend is Kif, a genderfae, paraboy, aliengender, asexual, bi straight, ply straight alien with anxiety, PTSD, and autism. Kif goes by any neutral-based masculine pronouns.

Hermes Conrad is an omni straight, omniflux man with OCD and anxiety.

He is married to LaBarbara, an intersex, nonbinary woman who is straight and a sex-positive asexual. She is also polyamorous.

Their son is Dwight Conrad, who is a trans boy that is gay and questioning his romantic orientation. He is best friends with Hubert's son, Cubert, who is a pansexual boy.

Hubert is close friends with John F. Zoidberg, an abrosexual, omnipan, straight, AMAB, transmasc Decapodian that is autistic and has OCD, depression and ADHD.

Calculon is a heteroflexible, quoiflux, bifluid manbot that is neurodivergent.

Linda van Schoonhoven is a butch-femme, trans lesboy that uses she/xi/he and is autistic with depression. Xi is friends with Morbo, an aroace, bi turian, aplatonic alien with bipolar disorder.

Randy Munchnik is a femme, trans gay man with autism.

Hubert's rival, Professor Ogden Wernstrom, is a polysexual man with synthesia.

Hurbert ex-lover, Carol Miller who also goes by "Mom," is a frayromantic, asexual woman with NPD and bipolar disorder. Her eldest son, Walt, is trans and gay. Walt's young brother, Larry, is agender and uranic. And their younger maternal half-brother, Igner, is xenogender and marsic. All three brothers are autistic.

Leela's parents, Turanga Morris and Munda, are both intersex, genderless, t4t mutants.

Yivo is an agender, genderless, abrosexual, polyamorous being. Shklee's sexuality is fluid between omnipan, omnisexual, pansexual, omniflux, panflux, pan gaybian, omni gaybian, mesque, and violenatian. Yivo's pronouns are shklee/shkler.

Roberto is a demiboy, masculine, demisexual, trans manbot who is gay and uses he/it. Roberto has psychosis, is schizospec, PTSD, autistic and has ADHD.

The Donbot is a mafiacoric, libramasculine straight manbot.

The Donbot's wife, Fanny, is a sex-ambivert, high femme, asexual heteroromantic fembot.

Their daughter, Bella, is a nonbinary, femme, dyke, straightbian, lesboy who uses feminine and neutral pronouns.

Joey Mousepad is a demisexual, genderqueer, fag, gay manbot who is dyslexic and had ADHD and uses he/xe/they. His colleague/friend is Francis X. "Clamps" Clampazzo, who is nonbinary, an azurenby, butch, masculine, toric, and gay (blue/green), he is auDHD, bipolar and has PTSD who uses they/he/xe/she pronouns.

The Robot Devil is a transmascfem, trans/ftm, transsexual, GNC, genderfluid, aroacespec, ambiamorous, femme, masculine, turigirl, gay man. He is pronounfluid depending on what his gender is and goes by the name "Bee" that is short for Beelzebot. He uses he/him for when masc presenting, she/her for fem presenting, they/them for neutral presenting, no pronouns for no gender presenting, they/he for masc/neu presenting, they/she for fem/nue presenting, he/she for masc/fem presenting, and all pronouns for masc/fem/neu/non-gender presentation. He has autism, BPD, anxiety, and PTSD.

"hello! I forgot a few things for at LEAST two of the characters in my futurama request. Could you add frayromantic, greyromantic, nebaeromantic, and demisexual to robot devil after aroacespec and add hypersexual to him? Along with adding dyslexia to Francis after auDHD?"

"sorry, more addition to the futurama request, can you add demit4t to robot devil?"

posted!

#asks #long asks

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your-safespace · 3 years

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Wishing anyone who is asexual, aromantic, aroace, demisexual, graysexual, lithosexual, frayromantic, cupiosexual, and everyone else on the ace spectrum a lovely day 💜

#asexual positivity #aroace positivity #demisexual positivity #graysexual positivity #lithosexual positivity #frayromantic positivity #cupiosexual positivity #ace spectrum

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freethelgbtqia · 4 years

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[Image description: A fray pride flag shaped like a peace sign on a gray background]

Fray: someone who experiences attraction that fades when they get to know someone

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mx-t4t0 · 4 years

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Aromantics are amazing! 💕

Demiromantics are wonderful! ❤

Grayromantics are astonishing! 💖

Apothiromantics are marvelous! 💝

Aegoromantics/Autochorisromantics are beautiful! 💞

Frayromantics are priceless! 💗

Abroromantics are gorgeous! 💓

Akoiromantics/Lithromantics/Aproromantics are priceless! 💘

Quoiromantics/WTFromantics are perfect! 🧡

Cupioromantics are loveable! 💛

Placioromantics are wondrous! 💚

Reciproromantics are fabulous! 💙

Nebularomantics are legendary! 💜

AroAllos are incredible! ❣

AroAces are brilliant! 🤍

Oriented aroaces are charming! ⭐

Romance favorable aros are enchanting! ✨

Romance neutral aros are fantastic! 🎆

Romance repulsed aros are phenomenal! 🌟

Literally all arospecs are gifts to this world!! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

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wish-ful-thinking513 · 5 years

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Hey Fraysexuals and Frayromantics

Y’all are wonderful and valid as fuck.

Never forget that.

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thegyusorcerer · 2 years

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you know what? I haven't seen this around so I'll do it myself! 👏💚

shoutout to the arospecs who experience romantic attraction: yes you heard well. BECAUSE AROMANTICISM IS A SPECTRUM. 🎉

Little to no romantic attraction. To those that experience romantic attraction: infrequently, rarely, under certain circumstances, fading, when not reciprocated & many more ways. 🥂

Your experience with romantic feelings is valid and you are aromantic enough! Our spectrum is big and there's a whole grey area to it that should be acknowledged. 🤌🥺

#aro #aromantic #arospec #aromantic spectrum #aro pride #positivity #💚🤍🖤#greyromantic #demiromantic #frayromantic #lithromantic #cupioromantic #etc etc 💘

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