#friendship breakups

[lelif]

a bittersweet ending

audrey emmett// caitlyn siehl// quote: these unforgettable things, s. l. gray ,edit: ?// carissa potter carlson// closure, taylor swift// sue zhao// nineteen minutes, jodi picoult// closure, taylor swift// the letters of sylvia plath volume I: 1940–1956// ?// extremely loud and incredibly close, jonathan safran foer// ?// ?// cough it out, the front bottoms

#I know it's for the better #but I'll miss you #breakup #friendship breakups #web weaving #web weave #quotes #parallels #taylor swift #compilation #the front bottoms #sylvia plath #sue zhao

[lovely-abeille]

on the damage of losing friends

the laughing man, st. vincent // anne & diane, anne with an e // us against you, fredrik backman // stand by me (1986) // daisy jones & the six // champagne problems, taylor swift

#trying my hand at web weaving for the first time bc i'm feeling super angsty at the moment #i'm just trying to cope #web weaving #web weave #childhood friends #childhood #losing friends #friendship #friendship breakups #growing up #growing old #on friendship #anne with an e #awae #daisy jones and the six #djats #taylor swift lyrics #quotes #literature #on friends

[frosted-glass-closet]

And I don’t even know what she looks like anymore. Yet the thought of her 14 year old face still makes my stomach turn in a way nothing else can

#friendship breakup #friendship breakups #breakup #breakups #old friends #ex friends #queer #homoerotic friendship #female friendship #trauma

[bifrostedgalaxy]

No one really talks about friendship breakups. They can be the saddest most heart-wrenching, gut-wrenching thing you’ve ever felt. One of the saddest parts about them is that you never really get over friendship breakups, but it does get better over time. It gets easier to deal with. You will eventually come to realize that it all happened for the best. It’s a really eye opening experience too because you realize your worth. You realize those people were hurting you or holding you back. You see where they were wrong and you may see your faults and where you were wrong. You’ll realize A LOT, you will grow and then you’ll be able to recognize the real people in your life, and that’s the best part

#anyway if you’ve been through this I see you #and it’s gonna be okay #just hang in there #friendship breakup #friendship breakups #healing #moving on #seeing what’s right in front of you #never looking back #if enough time has passed… #sometimes you can reach out and forgive or be forgiven but not always and if was too toxic I don’t recommend it #sometimes you gotta cut your losses

[jobackmanhorsesworld]

how can you be so unphased by my absence in your life?

was i nothing to you from the start? was losing me like shedding excess hair, painless and freeing?

why are you okay without me? why am i the only one suffering?

#bpd #bpd things #borderline things #quiet borderline #abandoned #bpd friends #friendship breakups #actually borderline #friends hate me #alone again

[petrichor-moss-and-lightning]

ex best friends are like. i found texts from you in my phone from 2014 and i didn’t stop crying for half an hour. your mother passed me in the grocery store the other day and i couldn’t meet her gaze [does she still make upside down pineapple cake for your birthday?]. i write all my “y”s with a loop at the bottom; the same way you always signed the notes we passed in class [“love you!”]. i’m full up with rage and i don’t know how to uproot the fury from my chest. from under my fingernails. i adore you more than you’ll ever know. hating you has become second nature.

#words words words #poetry #ex best friend #ex friends #friendship breakups

[lunarrmoonss]

I don’t think you understand how much you meant to me. I never thought there would come a day where I couldn't text you and tell you about the funny thing that just happened. or call you because I missed you. you don't understand how you were so intertwined into my soul. I miss you so much.

#heartbreak #sad quotes #sad words #sad thoughts #i miss her #i miss us #friendship breakups #relationship breakup

[ellesjournalexcerpts]

i’ve never felt so loved or seen or understood by another person before. before i met her, i never knew what it was like to have someone pay attention to every detail about me. to remember what i said in passing. to keep a running list of my likes in the back of her mind. do you know what it’s like when you can communicate volumes from a glance across the room? when someone knows your tells; verbal, physical, or otherwise to the point that no matter how much you try to hide, she already knows because you already let yourself be known and to be seen? do you know what its like to fully believe with every bit of your being when she says ‘i love you’ that she means it in the only way that she can love you? 

i guess that’s why i don’t understand how our texts became so sparse, our conversations nonexistent. why it feels like i’m reaching to the void every time my thumbs hover above your name when i know you’re not going to respond. i guess i’m struggling to reconcile all those mundane moments in our living room, those silly ‘what-if’ conversations, or those moments late at night when we could only rely on each other with the ‘forwarded to voicemail’s. it hurts wondering if i even cross your mind at all, if letting go of me was as easy as you made it seem. 

i’ve stopped reaching out since then, but baby, how could i just forget someone who turned my burning red into a sunrise orange when i became close to you?

#friendship breakups #friendship breakup #we blurred the line between platonic and romantic #and now we're here #wlw #bc this feels like a fucking #break up

[mandalhoerian]

I hate you for what you did, but I miss you like a little kid: CLAIRE REDFIELD & LEON KENNEDY. a study on friendship loss.

#claire redfield #leon kennedy #leon s. kennedy #leon s kennedy #this can work both platonic and romantic #they just hurt me okay #cleon #web weaving #leon kennedy x claire redfield #leon x claire #cleonedit #resident evil #residenteviledit #i cant get over their fallout #the dedication for this post goes to deunan #userjillvalcntines #claire x leon #friendship breakups #infinite darkness #resident evil infinite darkness

[satan-wishes-he-was-me]

daddy issues/the neighborhood/betrayal/kendra hirons//moving in place/shauna dean cokeland//salma deera//nelson vs murdock/daredevil//wish i never met you/the wrecks//unknown//the goldfinch//unknown

#friendship breakups #web weave #web weaving #the neighborhood #daredevil #mattfoggy #<- kinda #the wrecks #the goldfinch

[thehoneyvoice]

the urge to not become like the people that hurt you the most

#dark acadamia quotes #love poetry #love quotes #poetry #books and literature #bookish #dead poets aesthetic #poetsandwriters #spilled poetry #poetscommunity #poets corner #poets on tumblr #friendship love #friendship breakups #recovery

[whatgurlreads]

No one tells you how hard friendship breakups are. No one can. It's a feeling that can't be described.

When you have something to share and realise you can't text them. When you think of a funny joke but have no you can tell it to. When you are going through a rough time and miss their shoulder to cry on...

But most of all, the hardest part is when you lose an entire friend group. When they're all together but now you're looking at them from the outside. It feels.. devastating... You start to doubt yourself, every little thing you do. Where you went wrong. Was it when you made too many jokes? Was it when they didn't like your advice? Or how you whined too much about things?

And yes, it's very common that people move on, they grow, friendships change, but you'd never think that it'd happen to you now right?

#just some random thoughts #friendship #heartbreak #friendship breakups #my writing #might delete later

[just-two-blokes]

Sometimes you have to let go of something or someone to realize it was the thing that held you back all this time.

#poetry #friendships #friendship breakups #in the beginning it felt like hell #but now I am so much happier #self discovery

[fairydrowning]

RUSTED FRIENDSHIPS|

Friendship breakups hurts more then any other thing. You wish them successful life but you can't be in their life. With each passing day you distancing with each other but you both can't do anything about that. We both are strangers to each other now but we know every single detail or secrets of each other. We both always carry a part of each other with ourselves. I still have your number and I miss you but I won't call you. Seeing you happy without me hurts but it heals me too. I hope I meet you and I hope we never meet again. I don't listen to our favorite songs because it hurts but when someone plays it I never turns it off. I hate you but I love you too.

#i literally cry while writing this #i hope she's in good hands #dailyquotes #dark academia #light academia #cottage core #dark acadamia aesthetic #dark fantasy #excerpts #fragments #poetry #books & libraries #friendships #friendship breakups #classic aesthetic #classic lit #classic literature #classic academia #chaotic academia #spilled ink #spilled love #spilled words #spilled thoughts #words #dark poetry #dark academia literature #text posts #literature quotes #quotes #writings

[jobackmanhorsesworld]

and in the end, you became what i cried about instead of who i cried to.

#bpd #bpd things #friendship breakups #breakup #long term relationship #i miss you #i miss us #if i could go back in time #i would be better for u #you killed my spirit #i should hate you #but i just #want you to love me #i want to be loved #please love me

[addictings]

It is so disappointing when you believe someone is going to be with you for the rest of your life, then all of a sudden they aren’t there for you anymore. I’ll always admire and support them from afar, but I wish I could be close to them again.

— strangers with memories (2022)

#mine #unsent texts #drunk texts #mentally done #sometimes we need to move on from what is not for us #excerpt from my life #excerpt from a letter i'll never send #excerpt from a story i'll never finish #excerpt from my diary #excerpt from a book i'll never write #writers on tumblr #female writers #bad friends #unsupportive friends #miss you #friendship breakups #breakup #heartbreak