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floralembarrassment · 1 year

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Problems... (1/4)

"Sirius I don't know how to tell them..." Regulus whispered into the dark of his brother's room.

"Reggie I promise you they are not going to care. Effie literally lobbied the PTA so a girl James didn't even know could play on the girls volleyball team. Volleyball Regulus not a single one of us even cares about volleyball! She wasn't even in our year," Sirius replied back.

He was trying to be reassuring but as he watched his brother worry his lip between his teeth he knew it wasn't working.

"James knows, yeah?" Sirius question.

"Yes," Regulus replied tentatively.

Sirius' eyes narrowed as he got side tracked and starred at Regulus in the dark, "are you two being safe?"

Regulus shoved Sirius and rolled his eyes so big he was sure they would fall out. "Oh my gosh Sirius I'm not talking to you about that!"

"Well you're talking about to me about needing tampons so how am I supposed to know what's off limits?" Sirius laughed lightening the mood.

"Ugggg" Regulus groaned and flopped back on the bed.

Sirius fell backwards to lay next to him. He let their pinkies join together like when they were kids. "Look, I can help you or James can or heck we both can. But I swear on Remus' life, Effie and Monty are not going to care that you are trans, but Effie will feel really bad if you ruin all of your pants for something she could've helped with." Sirius said, nudging Regulus who chuckled slightly at the last part.

After a few moments of silence Regulus took a deep breath. He gathered all his courage and got up from the bed, because he knew Sirius was right and because he did want Effie and Monty to know, he was just so afraid of the reaction going wrong.

"Okay. I can do this," he whispered to himself as he walked across the room.

Sirius got up and followed him.

"No no Sirius, it's okay. I want to do this on my own," Regulus said in his true fashion. He would find Sirius later, after he processed how it went to then dissect it with his brother.

"Oh I know, I'm going to have a little talk with James," Sirius said. "I'm not ready to be a uncle just yet," Sirius added firmly.

Regulus shoved him into the wall but let him keep walking towards James' room as Regulus slowly walked down the stairs to find Effie for his own little talk.

#jegulus #trans regulus #the struggle is absolutely real #ftm problems #starchaser #sunseeker #the black brothers #marauders #james x regulus #fanfic #lgbtq+#regulus black #sirius black #james potter #effie and monty #marauders era #marauders fandom

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everdrawing · 4 months

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It's 100/10 experience being transgender together with your best friend.

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donnieisaprettyboy · 8 days

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you are not a man.

you're a heterosexual female woman with artificially induced hormonal imbalance.

YWNBAM.

the sexual tension is palpable

#ftm #lgbtq #trans #trans man #transgender man #transgender #transmasc #trans pride #ftm problems #donnieisaprettyboy

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imkrisyoung · 5 months

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It sucks that I have chest dysphoria.

It sucks even more that because I have sensory issues and chronic pain I can't bind very often.

Often when I go out I'll usually just wear a sports bra and a baggy shirt over it.

#ftm problems #chest binding #binding #gender dysphoria #tw dysphoria #ftm #female to male #transmasc #transmasculine #trans masc #trans man #trans #transgender #autistic and trans #chronically ill and trans #chronically ill #autistic

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sharkboywrites · 1 month

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“Examine why terfs feel safe in your spaces” no I think YOU need to examine why that is. Why are terfs so confident to just come into our spaces and harass us? Why are terfs so confident that they can get away with it? Is it maybe because they know they’re not going to be the ones blamed? Because they know you’re going to blame us instead of helping? Because they know how much the community hates us and are taking advantage of that?

Also you should look up the definition of victim blaming. I don’t know about other transmascs, but I dont like being called a “trans identified female”, treated like a confused brainwashed child, and people trying to get me to detransition

#sharkboyrambles #trans #transmasc #trans ftm #trans man #ftm #ftm problems #transmasc problems

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cloudyblogss · 5 months

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thewoundedfallenangel · 4 months

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a vent post I guess?? srry I just gotta get some things out 😓

I kinda feel like coming out as trans was a bad idea in my family sometimes.. my dad supports me 100% all way. he got the habit of switching my pronouns and name done in a week, but my mom doesn't support me 100%. It's more like 60% on her part. she's supported the idea of me getting a binder, but that's about it. she actually pretty good at using my pronouns and name, but she only uses them when we're out in public, in front of people, but when we're alone, or at home, she doesn't use them... on purpose. this has caused arguments and she's really unreasonable. she doesn't believe I'm "fully trans" because I haven't completely transitioned, so I'm still just some girl who wants to be a boy in her eyes, until I fully become a boy or whatever... BUT I CAN'T AFFORD ANYTHING RIGHT NOW SO I AM TRANS LIKE WTF, ITS A PROCESS. but at the same time she doesn't really like the idea of me getting top and buttom surgery SO HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO BECOME "FULLY MAN ENOUGH" IF YOU DON'T EVEN REALLY WANT ME TO!???? she also says "do you really wanna be a boy, I mean, you're really into dresses??" but boys can wear dresses too!!! but what I mean by I think it was a bad idea coming out... is that it causes more arguments for my parents. my dad had argued with her before that guys can wear dresses, that my pronouns and name should be respected in any place, home or not, and she treats him like shit for using my preferred pronouns and name, says that "SHE'S NOT A BOY YET" AND I CAN'T STAND THEM ARGUING ABOUT IT. before I came out, they hardly argued, but when I came out, there's been more frequent arguments, and even arguments not about me being trans have become more frequent, AND SOMETIMES SHE BRINGS UP ME BEING TRANS IN THOSE ARGUMENTS TO HOLD IT AGAINST HIM OR SOMETHING????? I FUCKING HATE IT AND IT MAKES ME FEEL AWFUL FOR EVER COMING OUT!!! I love my dad and am so grateful he supports me, and I love my mom too, but I don't love her when she behaves this way, and invalidates me 😞

so yeah, that's all. I just needed to say that out loud

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its-not-she-its-he · 9 months

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So thankful that Hungarian doesn’t have he/she pronouns. We simply have Ő as a gender neutral pronoun (I don’t know if pronoun is the correct term for it). I think my life would be more miserable if I would constantly referred as a she.

#Hungarian #ftm #lgbt #queer #trans #transgender #gay #lgbtq #bi #ftm problems #they them #they/them #pronouns #gender neutral language

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floralembarrassment · 1 year

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So the people have SPOKEN (you know who you are @starman-o7 & @copeing-through-marauders) and because @softgaygothdude made me cry y'all are getting more!

Problems... (2/4)

Regulus took each step slowly, listening to see if he could hear Effie and Monty. He didn't want to eavesdrop, he just wanted to make sure he wasn't interrupting anything important. When he took the last few steps and became visible to the kitchen, he was addressed with a warmth he still wasn't used to.

"Regulus! Come down for a bedtime cuppa have you?" Monty asked as he set the kettle down from which he had just poured for himself.

He looked around the kitchen. Monty leaning against the counter as he fixed up his tea, and Effie was sitting at the table. "Umm, yeah I uh yes please. Thank you." Regulus stuttered quietly, out his eyes lingered on Euphemia.

"Well help yourself," Monty said clearly reading that he wasn't the one Regulus had come down to see. He kissed Effie on the head, "I'll just be heading up to bed darling, I'll see you up there."

Monty smiled at Regulus, who offered a small one back, and he walked up the stairs leaving Regulus alone with Effie. She stood and tipped her head to the kettle, "want me to make it for you, yeah?" She offered but had already started moving to do so.

"Oh you don't have to-"

"It's nothing dear, you have a seat." She said and Regulus did as he was told.

He sat quietly while she made two cups, and Regulus smiled when he watched her make his the way he liked it without even having to ask. When she sat back down, placing a cup each in front of the them, she titled her head and asked in her softest motherly voice, "something on your mind Regulus? Do you need anything?"

Regulus looked down into his tea, hands fiddling around the cup. "Umm, well now that you mention it, I um I'm really sorry but I need some some things for the bathroom..." he couldn't help stumbling over his words. His courage was gone and he was all nerves again.

"Oh of course sweetheart," Effie said. "We can get you anything you need. James mentioned you liked a certain shampoo but I bet we guessed wrong didn't we?"

She was all smiles and ready to solve any problem Regulus had. He couldn't believe it nor did he believe he deserved it. But remembering Sirius' words that she would feel bad if she couldn't take care of him, and while it might be missing the point that he was still going to act in a way to please a maternal figure, he was doing his best.

"No no you did guess correctly. No everything has been great really, it's just that um I was wondering if you had any um any..." and lowering his voice to whisper and leaning in he finished, "any tampons?"

After getting it out, he took a deep breath and looked up at Effie who had a slightly confused looked on her face. "We absolutely can get you some," she said a bit slowly, but still willing to give Regulus anything.

"Don't you want to know why?" Regulus said in shock.

"Only if you want to tell me dear," she said her smile and her eyes were soft, and Regulus couldn't help the tears that slid down his cheeks because he finally found a nice place to land.

Effie opened her arms in a question, and normally Regulus would shy away but right now he was happy to be comforted in a way he didn't know he could ever need.

"So you know that I'm trans?" Regulus whispered into Euphemia's shoulder.

She pulled back and looked at Regulus in the eyes. "I know you as Regulus, a wonderfully smart and thoughtful young man who is much kinder than he believes himself to be," Effie replied.

"So you don't care?" Regulus asked, again allowing his shock to be his courage.

"I only care that you are being taken care off and aren't doing anything dangerous," she explained sitting back down.

Regulus peered at her. He wasn't sure what she meant.

"Regulus I want you to listen to me, if there are things you want help with so you can be who you are, Monty and I will help you get the right care, okay?" She said, somehow simultaneously stern and supportive.

Regulus nodded, and realized he actually believed her. She patted his hand.

"Now, we are going to get you whatever products you need. There's a shop just up the street we can go together so you can tell me which ones you like, alright?" She said, and Regulus smiled.

"Thank you Effie, honestly." Regulus replied.

"Oh sweetheart this is nothing to thank me over. Actually I should be thanking you, because we are also going to get some treats and I have been dying for some chocolates," she said as she grabbed her keys and they walked out to the car.

#to be continued #jegulus #trans regulus #ftm problems #starchaser #fanfic #lgbtq+#marauders #regulus black #effie and monty #james potter #sirius black #the black brothers #marauders fandom #marauders era

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everdrawing · 4 months

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Period nightmares hit differently after you've been medically transitioning and haven't gotten one for months.

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bl00perss · 5 months

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kind of niche but:

>transmasc

>looking for good fanfiction

>finally find one

>it's only ever going to be fem reader x character or cismale reader x character

#originally a message but i thought it would make a banger post for ftms to relate to #transmasc #ftm #fanfiction #maybe nsft?#fanfic problems #ftm problems

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donnieisaprettyboy · 8 days

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can we stop pretending like blue states are a safe haven for trans people? just bc trans people can access healthcare somewhere doesn’t mean there aren’t people living there who actively want us dead

#ftm #lgbtq #trans #trans man #transgender man #transgender #transmasc #trans pride #ftm problems #donnieisaprettyboy

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bitemarksplusbruises · 2 years

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I can't even begin to describe how badly I want a dick that I can just... switch out whenever I want.

No. Not a strap. I have those. I want a fully functioning dick. That I can just... oh today I'm going to wear a dick. Oh today I want to fuck my boyfriend with MY dick.

Oh today this dick is inconvenient, it can go back in my drawer.

Why can't this be a thing.

#trans #transmasc thoughts #transmasc #dysphoria #mlm #mlnb #nblm #ftm #ftm problems #give me an interchangeable dick please

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sweetface-the-dollbaby · 11 months

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I hate my uterus and IT HATES MEEEEE

#like bitch calm down I’m not even having sex yet I’m not gonna put a fucking fetus in you 💀#vent ish #ftm problems #hhhhhh

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