#fucking grow up

[sereniv]

Oh the genocide of his tribe was partly the fault of cattle ranchers? oh thats so interesting and so suprising!!! who would have guessed that an industry built on exploitation, colonization, and money would ever participate in wiping out a people and their land as to continue exploiting and earning money!

i fucking hate everything

#we said this #we told you #not that this could have been avoided by this point #but tto have the audacity to fight against getting rid of this industry #to not believe the science to actively ignore thr science #and dare to claim you care about marginalized communities #fucking grow up #this couldnt have been avoided but to know that we constantly try and tell ppl the affects animal agriculture has #on everyone but especially originally native people #and to get blocked and ignored and harassed #from people trying to defend native ppl #it makes me so fucking angry #all we say is to try and you cant even agree with that let alone literal scientific proof of the harm AnAg does #i try and be gentle enough and understanding but yknow some stuff #like this just makes me so mad #bc ppl are going to be sad about this and move on. and then turn around and say they dont care about the thing that caused it #helped cause it* #also dont try with illegal cattle ranchers it doesn't matter. its catrle ranching that needs land for grazing. that is all cattle ranchers

[aperture-of-bullshit]

Actually when people remember that two things can be bad at the same time I think the world will finally implode

#two things can be bad at once two things can be bad at once!!! #when will people stop making jokes abt mao being based or whatever #to own ppl who fled a terrible situation and then bought into the American project #and like don’t get me wrong. I think the people in that nyp article are fucking clowns #but they’re wrong because they’re over exaggerating and overreacting to social programs saying anything #that attempts to redistribute wealth in any way #is the same as what mao did #and so you make fun of them by saying ‘🥺🥺🥺 promise’ #fucking grow up #sorry I’m feeling crazy #aa babbles

[obetrolncocktails]

If you send hate to someone in their inboxes, especially if you make fun of some heavy shit they may have felt brave enough to mention on their blog, I hope you know you are a miserable piece of shit.

#Anna’s thoughts #fucking grow up

[kimwexlers-brownhair]

I think I get sex repulsed because I don’t want to remember I'm a sentient being existing in time and space. Sex is apparently a real big reminder of that, so no thank you. I project my entire libido on to fictional characters instead. Hahaha I hate that I'm 35 and still on this site

#suspended animation yo #i've been clinically depressed since birth and i'm not saying that to be cute #it's really sad but i started euphoria and was all like i'm a rue mixed with kat #and then i cringed because i'm thirty-fucking-five #fucking grow up

[gibbearish]

love how literally every other r/offmychest post is someone going "my partner just asked about opening up the relationship, what do i do?" and the comments are "the relationship is dead, this is a horrible betrayal of your trust, break up with them you don't deserve this abuse"

#that is not hyperbole btw literally the most recent one's top comment called it abuse #and its like. if ur not into it ur allowed to say no. thats the whole point of asking. #and if they try to pressure you after then yeah theyre in the wrong if its a dealbreaker for them they should end the relationship there #or if they just bypass asking and go straight to cheating and try to spin it as 'well actually im poly so you have to let me' obv #thats shitty too #however them just. thinking it is not . something you should judge their morality on #like in a healthy relationship it goes 'hey wanna do an open relationship' 'hmmm no i like it better as just us' #'no problem just thought id ask' and then everyone moves on with their day #and by FUCKING god is it not ABUSE all on its own just to ASK if it's a possibility #and theyre always like 'its over.... my life is ending ....... she never loved me.................' and its like #oh my goddddd shut up that is not what happened #'she said she still loves me just as much as she did at the start of our relationship but obviously she's lying because #if she actually loved me the thought would never have even crossed her mind' man fuck off #someone being capable of maintaining multiple relationships doesnt suddenly negate everything you have together #fucking grow up

[thunderheadfred]

I’ve had to deal with more petulant, babbling white people in the last month than I thought possible. Look, I’m a white suburbanite too, that doesn’t give me free reign to stomp my feet and scream and throw tantrums over the dumbest fucking shit I stg

#husband is going to run for HOA board because only one poor beleaguered lady is on it right now #and while at our first meeting we watched her get cussed out by this insane entitled white man who didn’t want to pay a fine #coupled with the sperm-count obsessed incel and climate-denying octogenarian at our town hall #and I’m like #white people wtf is wrong with us #fucking grow up #the planet is on fire and I know toddlers more mature about it than you

[cyclocarbon]

anyone who thinks disco elysium is insincere or ingenuine is – among other things – clearly not aware of the gravity of proclaiming any sort of affinity for communism in the baltic states.

#disco elysium #thinking about that one vice review again #wah wah harry doesnt turn into a communist revolutionary at the end so this game doesnt actually believe in anything #fucking grow up

[wacear]

no i totally get the shit with there being the illusion of choice with a lot of things these days with "no" being replaced with "remind me later" and having to choose between two unethical/undesirable choices, i super get it and the tumblr live thing is bullshit and a bad business choice, but i HAVE to point out that your phone/computer/device will force you to restart it because it is a fucking WEAPON in your house if it doesn't get updated.

hospitals are one of the worst offenders for not updating their devices and people die because of it. Look up "deaths caused by ransomware in hospital" and it will become very clear to you. yes it fucking sucks. this problem is caused by the fact that device dependency has caused cyber-crime to because an extremely profitable venture. the root cause is economic inequity, but that's not my field of study. critical services depend on technology to function, so if you can hold that technology for ransom, you'll probably be paid whatever figure you ask.

in over 90% of successful malware attacks, the weak point was the human. They didn't update their device when prompted, or they clicked a bad link that was sent to them, or they disabled their antivirus because they felt bitter about having no choices.

the choice you have is this:

"i accept the conditions of convenient and safe technology" or "i will not use technology"

PLEASE commit this to memory i am so sick of hearing people cry about having no choice when it comes to updating devices. yes you have no choice because you dont know how dangerous the alternative is. i know. this is my field of study.

Please also note that cookies have always been there because they are necessary for a site to run. you're only mad about it now because they are required by law to inform you about them. Just reject all cookies but necessary ones and move on.

#this is the same as if people were whining about having no choices because they want to buy cars that have no brakes #or crying because traffic lights exist #fucking grow up #our society is fundamentally broken and reliant on certain conveniences that come with conditions for safe use #there is some level of informed acceptance you have to live with if you're not willing to become a hermit #rae rant

[soufre-de-paris]

woke up with day 15 or whatever of this migraine and the first fucking thing i see is a post and its accumulated notes saying

"people who take a woman with [backstory] and then ignore her in favor of pasting that backstory on some random man make me sick"

y'all really just wake up wanting someone to hate, don't you? y'all really wake up and choose to make the world a worse place, don't you?

we are literally engaging in make-believe, we are playing, we are having fun

y'all are those kids on the playground who have a whole fucking world of toys to play with but someone plays with a toy you don't even want and you throw a tantrum about it

grow up

#fucking grow up #irrationally angry at relatively minor unkindnesses again

[archaicbro]

I’ve been back on this website for 1 (one) minute

and I’m seeing fucking hateful shit about Sid and Kathy, and Nate and Cath? Fucking grow up, the lot of you. You don’t know these people personally, you can’t tell what their relationship is like, y’all are just making fun for your own amusement because you can’t find anything worthwhile in your pathetic lives.

Fucking disgusting

#fucking grow up #sidney crosby #nathan mackinnon #hockey #nhl

[aeonianarchives]

TW: mentions of Homophobia

I love how there is so much queerness in Mythology proving people in the past where very accepting of the LGBTQIA+ community, It is found in Norse and Greek Mythology but yet there are Homophobes .

I know the Ancient Greeks didn’t have the same concepts of gender and sexuality we do today.

Take the tale of Iphis, A man tells his wife they can’t afford to have a daughter, but then she has a daughter anyway, and raises the child as a boy. Iphis was a unisex name, so both the mother and father were happy with the choice.

At 13, Iphis is betrothed to her childhood friend Ianthe, and they both fall in love. Secretly, Iphis is afraid of what will happen once they are married and the truth is revealed, and with her mother’s help they delay the wedding as long as possible. When it can’t be put off any longer, they pray to the goddess Isis for help. Isis transforms Iphis’ sex to male, and as a man he marries Ianthe, and they live happily ever after.

or the fact Loki literally transformed into a Female Horse.

And where exactly in the bible does it say being gay or being trans is a sin, besides hate to break it to you that thing is outdated and has be translated so many times it's probably not accurate.

In the male-dominated world of piracy, homosexuality was common. A union such as matelotage may have acted as a manner of validating relationships that would otherwise have been considered against contemporary societal norms.

History shows people accepted homosexuality.

It's just sad their are homophobes now, like they have nothing better to do than judge a person on who they love or what gender they feel, homophobes.

Sorry for this pissy rant, actually no NO i'm fucking not, I don't have to say sorry to anyone about this.

People are complete and utter assholes sometimes, if you want to insult me or for me to value your opinion first I must care and if you are anyway against the LGBTQIA+ community in anyway, shape or form, I do not care, so don't come to me because you have had a bad day just so you can vent by trying to insult a stranger you don't even know, It is childish and pathetic.

Also don't Invade my Ask box with your childish and pathetic slurs, I don't give a fuck about you so you shouldn't even give a fuck about me or my sexuality or my gender, beside to the anon who did do that, I will never be a Girl or a Woman, I may of been born in the body of one but I will never be one and I never have been one.

I am actually disgusted by this behaviour.

I didn't include the ask because it had quite triggering things in it.

Besides did you really think I would go fucking kill myself because some stranger on the internet told me to.

What if I was suicidal, what if it actually made me snap and actually try it, WHAT THEN HUH, you disgust me.

To anyone of my followers or people who are reading this and is not a homophobe or against the community I am sorry, and I am really sad that I actually have to make a post about this, I'm also disappointed that I actually had to address this.

#wtf is wrong with people #fucking grow up #i'm sick and tired of this #you can't just say that #aeonian rants #rant #plz read

[thatrandomblogsays]

Annabeth: I, a child, had to earn Thalia’s love, that’s how the world works! I have to earn my moms love. Love is transactional, you gotta be worthy of it first silly :)

Percy, listening to this on the train

#STOP TRAUMATIZING THIS CHILD PLEASE #this is what it’s like when you were raised in a loving home and you find out your friend wasn’t #but they don’t know they weren’t #so you’re like um hey that’s fucked up and sometimes a crime? #you tell them parents are supposed to love you as is without earning it and they don’t believe you #you can hear the therapy bill racking up #annabeth chase #Percy jackson #percy jackson and the olympians #percy jackon and the olympians #pjo #pjo series #pjo tv show #mine #adding on to my tags because some people are debating if that’s how love works #love is meant to be a mutual exchange and something that grows over time between two people as their bond grows #whereas how Annabeth says it #in my opinion at least #she had to do XY and Z to be worthy of thalias love before receiving it #like with her mother #she has to be amazing before Athena is proud of her #vs Athena being proud of her just for being her daughter #that being said I’m not hating on a traumatized child having potentially negative and toxic patterns #more pointing out the comedy of the scene from Percy’s perspective who has a good grasp on healthy vs unhealthy relationships

[nemkero]

atla au but nothing changes except sokka is taller and zuko is shorter

#just wanted an excuse to draw zuko getting picked up #but also #the interactions. theyd be so funny #“why is a 12 year old chasing us” #“IM 16” #“YOURE OLDER THAN ME??????” #au where zuko peaks at 13 then never grows #he wears platformers probably #sokka: me and the oomfieee :33 #zuko: WHAT THJE FUCK IS AN OOMFIE #atla #avatar #avatar the last airbender #avatar fanart #atla fanart #atla zuko #atla sokka #atla zukka #zukka #(not drawn to be but ig u can interpret it as zukka)

[greelin]

it is literally called a “happy” trail for a reason.. If you feel any emotion other than joy upon seeing it you should be sent to live on a deserted island by yourself forever. or blow up. either way get out of my presence

#‘i hate hair on the human body where it grows’ like grow the FUCK UP!!!! god DAMN!!!! get TASTE!!!! #this is about all genders baby. Hair is good and normal and also soso sexy

[fefairys]

getting real fed up with my peers treating teenagers like shit. how did you forget so fucking quickly what it's like to be them. shame on you.

#this is about people my age getting into internet discourse with teenagers #and calling them stupid and overall belittling them and being a jerk to them #like. literally just block them if they are being a shithead #teenagers are shitheads sometimes #youre not going to change them #they need to grow up on their own #and an adult making fun of them isnt going to help #in fact it is going to hinder the process #if you want to try to help you need to be kind #if theyre not receptive to that and are still being an asshole then it is not worth it #and you need to go do something else with your time #you are a fucking adult

[inkskinned]

at some point it's just like. do they even fucking like the thing they're asking AI to make? "oh we'll just use AI for all the scripts" "we'll just use AI for art" "no worries AI can write this book" "oh, AI could easily design this"

like... it's so clear they've never stood in the middle of an art museum and felt like crying, looking at a piece that somehow cuts into your marrow even though the artist and you are separated by space and time. they've never looked at a poem - once, twice, three times - just because the words feel like a fired gun, something too-close, clanging behind your eyes. they've never gotten to the end of the movie and had to arrive, blinking, back into their body, laughing a little because they were holding their breath without realizing.

"oh AI can mimic style" "AI can mimic emotion" "AI can mimic you and your job is almost gone, kid."

... how do i explain to you - you can make AI that does a perfect job of imitating me. you could disseminate it through the entire world and make so much money, using my works and my ideas and my everything.

and i'd still keep writing.

i don't know there's a word for it. in high school, we become aware that the way we feel about our artform is a cliche - it's like breathing. over and over, artists all feel the same thing. "i write because i need to" and "my music is how i speak" and "i make art because it's either that or i stop existing." it is such a common experience, the violence and immediacy we mean behind it is like breathing to me - comes out like a useless understatement. it's a cliche because we all feel it, not because the experience isn't actually persistent. so many of us have this ... fluttering urgency behind our ribs.

i'm not doing it for the money. for a star on the ground in some city i've never visited. i am doing it because when i was seven i started taking notebooks with me on walks. i am doing it because in second grade i wrote a poem and stood up in front of my whole class to read it out while i shook with nerves. i am doing it because i spent high school scribbling all my feelings down. i am doing it for the 16 year old me and the 18 year old me and the today-me, how we can never put the pen down. you can take me down to a subatomic layer, eviscerate me - and never find the source of it; it is of me. when i was 19 i named this blog inkskinned because i was dramatic and lonely and it felt like the only thing that was actually permanently-true about me was that this is what is inside of me, that the words come up over everything, coat everything, bloom their little twilight arias into every nook and corner and alley

"we're gonna replace you". that is okay. you think that i am writing to fill a space. that someone said JOB OPENING: Writer Needed, and i wrote to answer. you think one raindrop replaces another, and i think they're both just falling. you think art has a place, that is simply arrives on walls when it is needed, that is only ever on demand, perfect, easily requested. you see "audience spending" and "marketability" and "multi-line merch opportunity"

and i see a kid drowning. i am writing to make her a boat. i am writing because what used to be a river raft has long become a fully-rigged ship. i am writing because you can fucking rip this out of my cold dead clammy hands and i will still come back as a ghost and i will still be penning poems about it.

it isn't even love. the word we use the most i think is "passion". devotion, obsession, necessity. my favorite little fact about the magic of artists - "abracadabra" means i create as i speak. we make because it sluices out of us. because we look down and our hands are somehow already busy. because it was the first thing we knew and it is our backbone and heartbreak and everything. because we have given up well-paying jobs and a "real life" and the approval of our parents. we create because - the cliche again. it's like breathing. we create because we must.

you create because you're greedy.

#every time someones like ''AI will replace u" im like. u will have to fucking KILL ME #there is no replacement here bc i am not filling a position. i am just writing #and the writing is what i need to be doing #writeblr #this probably doesn't make sense bc its sooo frustrating i rarely speak it the way i want to #edited for the typo wrote it and then was late to a meeting lol #i love u people who mention my typos genuinely bc i don't always catch them!!!! :) it is doing me a genuine favor!!! #my friend says i should tell you ''thank you beta editors'' but i don't know what that means #i made her promise it isn't a wolf fanfiction thing. so if it IS a wolf thing she is DEAD to me (just kidding i love her) #hey PS PS PS ??? if ur reading this thinking what it's saying is ''i am financially capable of losing this'' ur reading it wrong #i write for free. i always have. i have worked 5-7 jobs at once to make ends meet. #i did not grow up with access or money. i did not grow up with connections or like some kind of excuse #i grew up and worked my fucking ASS OFF. and i STILL!!! wrote!!! on the side!!! because i didn't know how not to!!! #i do not write for money!!!! i write because i fuckken NEED TO #i could be in the fucking desert i could be in the fuckken tundra i could be in total darkness #and i would still be writing pretentious angsty poetry about it #im not in any way saying it's a good thing. i'm not in any way implying that they're NOT tryna kill us #i'm saying. you could take away our jobs and we could go hungry and we could suffer #and from that suffering (if i know us) we'd still fuckin make art. #i would LOVE to be able to make money doing this! i never have been able to. but i don't NEED to. i will find a way to make my life work #even if it means being miserable #but i will not give up this thing. for the whole world.