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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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maybe im missing something but why do you want to be financially dependent on a man? how is that a goal? this blog feels like genuinely one of the most anti-feminist blogs I’ve ever ever seen and it makes me really sad that so many girls are falling for this weird dated idea… i do not understand why you want to advise women to believe that just because we are women we deserve money from a man? why don’t we just make money for ourselves?
How to Depend on a Man for Money
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I’m absolutely an anti-feminist blog because the feminism movement seems to ignore forget black and trans women specifically and centers their focus around mistreated cis white women. Read “Hood Feminism” by Mikki Kendall for further insight.
You’re missing a few crumbs of common sense, clearly. Nowhere on my blog do I encourage anyone to depend on a man for money however now I will:
Ask for Emergencies, Not Responsibilities
DON’T - “I need my phone bill/rent/car note paid”
DO- “My laptop broke/My phone screen broke at the gym/My dog won’t poop and the vet quoted me 5K”
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Be Discreet About Your Income
DON’T- Be honest about your annual income, your pay rate, raises or outside income (from your parents, Financial Aid, etc.)
DO- “I make a comfortable amount/ Why?/ Not enough for this spoiled brat”
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Your Main Complaint: “I Need a Getaway”
DON’T- hesitate with planning trips and making excuses for even a weekend vacay/ spend your own money traveling
DO- ask for him to cover “girls trip” expenses (even if you don’t have one…you need to cover your part of the Airbnb & activities)/ sign up for reward points (I will never encourage anyone to open a credit card however if you want to open a travel one and have him cover the monthly bill or become an authorized user on his)
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Insist on Investments
DON’T- solely ask for shopping, gifts and overall frivolous shit.
DO- act like/insist that everything is an investment. Yourself. Your career. Your electronics. Everything is for the long term (and his benefit. For example, you want a boob job to feel more confident and take your confidence to a new level- including intimately).
When you do ask for gifts such as clothes, jewelry, shoes etc…make sure it’s for a reason such as getting good grades, completing a personal challenge (no smoking for example) or a miscellaneous treat yo’ self.
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Refuse to be Reimbursed
DON’T- take any action without money upfront. Whether it’s traveling to see them or going to the store for them and they’ll pay you back.
DO- not move an inch until you can feel, hear and confirm the cash in hand (or bank account)
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Make Your Self Care His Priority (Too)
DON’T- insist or directly ask for it. Stick to subtle hints. Activate your damsel in distress. Masculine figures naturally want to cater to you to rejuvenate yourself.
DO- become distant for a day or two and when they check on you “what’s wrong?/are you ok?/talk to me” communicate your need for self care time but struggling with detaching from your work/school responsibilities.
Pro Tip: Use keywords such as “overwhelmed” “stressed out” “burnt out”.
This is a perfect opportunity to throw in that you need a getaway…see above!
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Men do not, will never hesitate asking you for anything. Pussè, a meal, bail money. If you’re interested in entertaining a man, you better make that man pay in many ways.
The only ones complaining are the ones who will give a limb for a man to spoil them or the broke boys who are out of my eyesight and tax bracket.
Dropping this gem before I dip:
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rainbinni · 1 year
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Published books recommendations 📚
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Here are some of the best books I’ve read so far. I have a lot more to read so I’ll probably made other posts. Let me know your favorite books so I can read it ;)
!! All of those books content strong and mature language !!
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Off campus serie - Elle Kennedy [5 books] (Young adult)
The deal (Garett & Hannah) [400 pages] The mistake (Logan & Grace) [336 pages] The score (Dean & Ally) [384 pages] The goal (Tuck & Sabrina) [384 pages] The legacy (everyone) [337 pages]
Follow the stories of four hockey players roommates and their sex/love life. Each books are about one of the roommates except the last who reunited everyone.
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Briar university series - Elle Kennedy [4 books] (young adults)
The chase (Fitz & Summer) [368 pages] The risk (Brenna & Jake) [408 pages] The play (Hunter & Demi) [400 pages] The dare (Conor & Taylor) [336 pages]
This four books are the following stories of the off campus series. It’s about four roommates (2 girls 2 boys) who moved in the house of the off campus roommates (who leaved after graduation)
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Twisted serie - Ana Huang [4 books] (young adults)
Twisted love (Ava & Alex) [343 pages] Twisted game (Bridget & Rhys) [438 pages] Twisted hate (Jules & Josh) [504 pages] Twisted lies (Stella & Christian) [558 pages]
Those books follow the stories of four best friend and their love life. You can find tropes like e2l, s2l, best friend brother/ brother best friend, bodyguard…
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Devil’s night serie - Penelope Douglas [6 books] (Dark romance)
Corrupt (Micheal & Rika) [499 pages] Hideaway (Kai & Banks) [522 pages] Kill switch (Damon & Winter) [638 pages] Conclave [100 pages] Nightfall (Will & Emory) [727 pages] Fire night [95 pages]
30th October. Devil’s night. Their night. Every year the four horsemen put their masks on and pull the best prank on the city without fearing any consequences. Having rich family make them untouchable. Or at least that’s what they thought…
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A million kisses in your life time - Monica Murphy [554 pages] (young adults)
At Lancaster Prep, the girls love her. They all want to be her friend. Only Crew see Wren for who she really is. A repressed little virgin who keeps her feelings locked up so tight she’s probably close to bursting. She thinks she’s above us all. Even him. She’s not his type. Until they’re forced to work together in class and realize they might have more things in common than they originally thought. Soon enough he find himself completely obsessed. He will do anything for this girl to make her fall in love with him.
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Icebreaker - Hanna Grace [414 pages] (young adults)
Anastasia Allen is a competitive figure skater since she was five years old, a full college scholarship thanks to her place on the Maple Hills skating team, and a schedule that would make even the most driven person weep, Stassie comes to win. No exceptions. Nathan Hawkins has never had a problem he couldn’t solve. As captain of the Maple Hills Titans, he knows the responsibility of keeping the hockey team on the ice rests on his shoulders. When a misunderstanding results in the two teams sharing a rink, and Anastasia’s partner gets hurt in the aftermath, Nate finds himself swapping his stick for tights, and one scary coach for an even scarier one. The pair find themselves stuck together in more ways than one, but it’s fine, because Anastasia doesn’t even like hockey players…right?
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waifukathh · 4 days
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Write a caption for me 🙃💕
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babybunnyx0x0x0 · 11 months
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so horny can’t even i want to be fingered i love being fingered i love attention i love being a girl i love having holes i love getting fucked i love having sex i love my clit being rubbed who wants to do this smiley face emoji
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bitrashteddy · 2 years
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Harley: Shuri, wouldn't it be really fucking stupid if, hypothetically, I started catching feelings after going on a rant about not wanting anything to do with romantic relationships ever again
Shuri, intrigued: hypothetically?
Harley: I- What am I supposed to do?
Shuri: So you met Peter and you're what?
Harley, defeated: Friends with benefits
Shuri: That's rough buddy
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jessesajoke · 3 months
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fwb, or qpr. who knows
boy i love you like a friend and that's exactly what you wanted to hear boy ill hold you til the end because that's what we both needed this year the way you look at me is like an inside joke or story you just had to be there for i said i don't do romance you said "ok me neither" and we fell apart in the back of pickup trucks worshiping each other so i fell asleep last month in your arms boy theres nothing innocent about this and i thank god for that
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Our lips tangle together as the moonlight illuminates our conjoined faces
The soft, sweet feel of your mouth on mine is enough to have me itching for more
But I make sure to go slow;
To savor every moment, to savor all of you.
But also, I’m secretly hanging on to the possibility that those three words we’d promised to never say will fall from your mouth into mine.
I know you feel them.
You must because I do, too.
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secretlykiny3 · 9 months
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Me and my bestfriend(boy) haven’t fucked yet. He’s taking a temporary break from sex:/(bad breakup). But we’ve been sexting and it’s so fucking hot.
It’s kinda great that we can talk and get so fucking nasty and horny, then immediately after cumming, joke about it and back to best friends.
I’ve been dying to suck his cock! When we had our 3 some with our other close best friend(girl), she got to suck his cock and I didn’t. So I told him It’s gonna be my turn lol to make it fair. Except, she doesn’t know we talk like that 😶. As far as she knows, me and her agreed to not do the threesome again. But I never said I wouldn’t get with him on my own.
Tbh. After the 3 some, the vibe sorta changed. The two of them were flirting constantly, and he used to only flirt with me. So I just felt like I wasn’t getting as much attention as her. So I guess I kinda took things into my own hands lol.
She’s always been extremely possessive over him. But now me and him have a little naughty secret. And i kinda love it.
I want him to choke me and shove his cock down my throat. I want him to just be aggressive and take control over me.
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bigdaddywoowoo85 · 2 months
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I eat pussi like I’m on death row and it’s my last meal… Feed me #OralGod #MakeYouSquirt
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ftmguyonhere2920 · 2 months
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I'm a short, thin, somewhat hairy ftm guy on T, I'm 5 foot 1 and 100 pounds. I'm looking for an fwb. Any sex/gender is fine, as long as you're trans. Any body type is fine. Nobody over 25 please. Preferably trans peeps since me and one of my current FWBs who wants to dom me with someone else are. I'm happy with the amount of cis FWBs I have, I don't need more. No strings attached, no money exchanges, just a good time. I'm a full time student, so please understand if I can't get back to you right away. That, and I shake violently when aroused, so it takes time for me to take pics and vids sometimes. I live on the East side of Canada. Only DM if you're interested and want to exchange pics (no faces) or possibly meet up if you're close. Do not be afraid to set boundaries or tell me if you lose interest/can't continue the FWB relationship and please remain respectful (I promise you I will be). I'm a full switch. If you wanna exchange vids, let me know and we can move to Snapchat or Instagram. I strongly prefer if you're not flighty and tell me if/when you need to leave. I'm also neurodivergent, so I don't always get social cues, please tell me if I don't get it at first and be patient. I already have three FWBs at the moment, but they are online only, so if you actually wanna fuck, we can, as long as we get to cuddle too. Also one of my FWBs is interested in us making a group chat where the two of you can dominate me together ❤️ I call her Mommy, if you want me to call you anything, let me know ;3 Mommy and I are the same age. My Daddies are 22 and 23
Kinks: being seen, omorashi, mainly pee stuff, but also breeding (although I don't actually want kids at this stage in my life), lots of dirty talk, having a possessive and obsessive partner/friend, mirrors and cameras apparently, being humiliated, but mildly, ass play, being touched tenderly. If you only wanna do some kinks and not all of them, that's ok too, just let me know which ones
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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hii <3
i hope you get this.. i have been talking to this guy about over a year ago now and we have just been going with the flow. this is something new to me and i haven’t found it an issue as such because it’s less pressure with how to get to know someone
however i feel as though this going with a flow does not have an end to it and my feelings have been growing overtime. we have exchanged i love yous and things do look like their growing romantically but i want things to be clear and i will want to know what direction i am going with someone.
how do i go about making it known that i want things to be official with us in a feminine way?
Hello! Thanks for this ask.
Let’s stop wanting tips for “ways” to be feminine and make the decision to become feminine, which would naturally lead you to make feminine choices. Which leads me directly into #2:
You have made mainly non-feminine choices in this…thing already therefore you will have no success with whatever feminine way you can find to use. Femininity is a frequency. You cannot pick and choose when you want to be feminine. You have a lot of backtracking to do.
To be blunt: men-masculine men of value & maturity do not lallygag to make things official. They don’t need help. They don’t need hints. They don’t need your direction. If they don’t ask especially after over a year….they don’t want to. They find no reason to. You may very well hurt your own feelings when he refuses to make things official.
If he wanted things official….9/10 he would’ve asked by now. I’m assuming y’all are having intercourse (based off the “I love you’s” and “growing romantically”) therefore you really gave him 0 reason to make things official with you. For what?
I do not say any of this with a harsh tone though I say it sternly: You’re a placeholder…
I mean I guess you can bat your lashes, cross your legs and wear red lipstick and a robe while telling him you want something official…and he may very well make it official. The question is for how long? The question is how masculine is he if he needed your cue for something serious? How feminine are you if you need to guide him giving you a title? Be realistic babes.
I’m not going to give you the advice you want, I’m going to give you the advice you need:
There’s an issue that you were ok with “going with the flow” because you didn’t want the pressure responsibility of getting to know someone. That’s not good, that’s not strategic, that’s not safe. If you’re too intimidated by the “pressure” of getting to know someone, then you have no business dating nor falling in the illusion of love. If you can’t take the heat, get out the kitchen because that’s how you get burned. Your “growing feelings” can be burned. Your self esteem can be burned and many times your genitals can begin to burn.
Work on becoming feminine as a person and not just enough to get a man & his temporary attention. If you have trouble communicating your needs with someone you’re in “love” with (lol girl?) then I’m positive you have trouble communicating in many other aspects of your life “in a feminine way”.
Oh and before I go, that man is most likely chasing the girl who isn’t in “love” with him because it’s a masculine’s instinct is to chase. If he’s not chasing you, then most likely he’s content for his benefit or to pass time. It’s time for you to add more men to the roster and begin rotational dating, something I breakdown in this post. Start reading the books I’ve read and recommended previously as well. Get to work and worry less about…this thing.
Hope this helps (and hope you and others actually reevaluate your dating habits. Stop letting these men put you on standby) 🧿🕯🥂
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michelledaniel235 · 1 year
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parkermonroesweat · 11 months
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What I'm enjoying most about my FWB situation is that unlike every other "romantic" partner I've had in the past, my FWB has continued to be a FRIEND since we started having the "benefits." When we hang out, we talk about our lives, separate things we're pursuing, new ideas to try together, etc. In past relationships it was like once we decided to make it official everything flattened down. We were no longer deeply intrigued with one another. Feelings of curiosity and hopefulness were replaced with a sense of insecurity and possession, needing to be the most important person in one another's lives, yet ceasing to see each other as complex and multifaceted people. Why does that happen? Is it just me and my experience? Why is romance weirdly dehumanizing while casual sex with a friend feels so wholesome?
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mpicollaannpoetry · 5 months
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