gay shit ive done that i thought was 100% straight before i realized: a biography

tried to explain to my straight friends that girls are just objectively more attractive than guys. like objectively.

and being convinced that they were lying to me when they disagreed and said they were attracted to men

didn’t understand why breakups were such a big deal. “if he doesn’t give you enough attention just leave him.” “well at least now you have more time for yourself!” “well you still have me :)”

avoided watching lingerie or swimsuit commercials and had my eyes glued to the floor in locker rooms because obviously i’m not gay. like look at how not gay i am

“yeah sometimes i want people to look at me and wonder wtf i am”

got happy chemicals when people thought i was with my female friend

thought that bi girls and lesbians were the coolest fuckin people ever

female characters who didn’t want a relationship with a man and had their own independent storylines were my favorites

stopped watching shows if the characters randomly got paired up in het relationships

got super excited “for no reason” whenever i read a book with gay rep

“i want to look goth and lethal and have a sword but i also want to be a fairy and look like the embodiment of a claire’s store”

“i wish i was a boy because girls are so pretty and i don’t want to have to be with a boy”

never wanted to get married or have kids

felt super uncomfortable whenever a man would show any interest in me

“obviously ⏳ is more attractive than🚪”

but all sizes and shapes of girls are cute

sweaters, flannels, boots and beanies are not seasonal, they are year-long clothing items for all weather. even if it’s 108 degrees and humid

handpicked boys to have a crush on

“these are the men i’m attracted to” (insert queer-coded fictional character with feminine characteristics)

“who do you have a crush on?” “no one” “aw are you embarrassed to tell us?” 😐

any man who has ever been nice to me i must have a crush on now. that’s the rules.

i think i like him but i have to convince myself really hard that i do and the second he reciprocates fondness i no longer like him. i’m probably just picky

“he’s sweet, he’s funny, his face is symmetrical, and he’s smart but not in a show-off way… why don’t i like him?”

“look at all these other girls being boy-crazy. SOO GLAD i’m not like that :P”

other gays/queer people feel free to add on (although this is primarily for sapphics (and aspecs))

TERF Spotting 101: The Bio

This topic will be triggering to some transgender and nonbinary individuals, please do not read if you do not feel like you are able to. If you can read this, please do.

Disclaimer: This is meant to be used as a way to be able to keep yourself safe, do not go witch-hunting for TERFs because they aren't worth it, this is meant to make it easier to know who to block.

Common Words Used In Bios

TERF (obviously but still putting it here)

SWERF (they are always interconnected)

♀️(the Venus sign, which to them is considered the female sign, this is not enough proof in itself)

Radfem/Radical Feminist/Radical Feminism

Gender Critical/Gender Critic

Rad/Radical (sometimes a play on words, or just alone)

XX (a reference to female people having two X chromosomes)

Rad Leaning

TradFem (associated with 1950s gender roles which is not inclusive of transgender people or people who break the binary)

FebFem (radical feminist term to describe bisexual women who exclusively date "females")

Gyn (radical feminist term for women, used because afab people need to go to gynecologists)

Gender-Free (not in a nonbinary way, but in a way that reduces people to their sex.)

Anti-Prostitution (this is another way to say Anti-Sex Work, another hallmark of someone being a TERF is hating sex workers, for some reason, aka SWERFs)

LGB (purposefully does not use the T)

Drop the T

Biological Woman

Woman (no pronouns - use discretion with this however some people may not know to add pronouns)

Male exclusionary

No males allowed

"Males DNI"

Actual Woman

Pro-Misandry

"I will not expose you for following me" (considered a TERF code of conduct)

"Woman is not a feeling."

"Same-Sex attraction"

Gender abolistionist (not in a nonbinary way, but in a way that reduces people to their sex.)

Womyn/Womxn (used to disassociate with men, however also used to include all AFAB people no matter their identity ie Transmen and Nonbinary people)

Hi friends. I made this comic last month, and it’s deeply personal, but may resonate with some of you as well.

Thanks for taking a peek at my soul. More art & soul are at @shophoneybeeknees on Instagram. 💚

supercorp endgame?

the red means i love you

I demand you do follow my onlyfans link in bio!!!!

Support Black LGBTQ+ Fundraiser called The Toyin Project: #DoSomethingForMe

Please support this fundraiser for 6 Black LGBTQ+ individuals. By donating if you can, the money is for anyone in need: homeless, medical bills, transition goals, mental health treatment, food, escaping abuse, etc. If you can’t donate, sharing helps! Please spread the word as much as possible because the more exposure, the better. 

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Application

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Dig A Pony 💯

Love is LOVE

This one is late or early for Pride Month, but I've been wanting to share it with you guys since June. I love Dez.

"All strung up" - www.princeofrubber.com

● Ha'Wea & Jackson Hyde ● Aquaman: The Becoming #5 variant cover by Khary Randolph

school hallway kisses

Halloween is just pride but spooky style.

making my small addition to the squid game fandom

Remus: James, can I talk to you for a second?

James: Yeah, what’s up? Lemme guess. You and Sirius are having problems and you want me to teach you how to kiss?

Remus: What? No, stop that. I know how to kiss. I’ve read books.