#gay borders

[wyrmscraft]

It’s not Halloween or even close to it, but I’ve had this cut and ready to sew together for a few months. I had a free afternoon and decided to get it off my wip pile.

(Now it’s in my to-be-quilted pile lol)

#gay crafting #quilting #patchwork #quilt #wip #quilttop #lap blanket #teal #black #white #skulls #skeleton #r.i.p. #tombstones #haunted house #halloween #elegant borders

[rouge-the-bat]

since the no fly list was leaked by a bi lesbian with a pic of sprigatito, i think the sprigatito line should be the bi lesbian and bi gay mascots :3 bi lesbian do crime & bi gay do crime

btw pls credit me if u use these pics!

#bi lesbian #bi gay #sprigatito #floragato #meowscarada #pokemon #icons #btw i edited out the white border on floragato and meowscarada (the sprigatito pic didnt have the border) #i found a surprisingly SUPER quick and perfect way to edit them out on any official pokemon art :D #no fly list #bingle #holy fucking bingle #i love. holy fucking bingle. fjzkhfjsj

[anistarrose]

I think when a lot of queer people who aspire to marriage, and remember (rightly) fighting for the right to marriage, see queer people who don't want marriage, talking about not entering or even reforming or abolishing marriage, there's an assumption I can't fault anyone for having — because it's an assumption borne of trauma — that queers who aren't big on marriage are inadvertently or purposefully going to either foolishly deprive themselves of rights, or dangerously deprive everyone of the rights associated with marriage. But that's markedly untrue. We only want rights to stop being locked behind marriages. We want an end to discrimination against the unmarried.

We want a multitude of rights for polyamorous relationships. We want ways to fully recognize and extend rights to non-romantic and/or non-sexual unions, including but not limited to QPRs, in a setting distinct from the one that (modern) history has spent so long conflating with romance and sex in a way that makes many of us so deeply uncomfortable. And many of us are also disabled queers who are furious about marriage stripping the disabled of all benefits.

We want options to co-parent, and retain legal rights to see children, that extends to more than two people, and by necessity, to non-biological parents (which, by the way, hasn't always automatically followed from same-gender marriage equality even in places where said equality nominally exists. Our struggles are not as different as you think). We would like for (found or biological) family members and siblings to co-habitate as equal members of a household, perhaps even with pooled finances or engaging in aforementioned co-parenting, without anyone trying to fit the dynamic into a "marriage-shaped box" and assume it's incestuous. We want options to leave either marriages, or alternative agreements, that are less onerous than divorce proceedings have historically been.

I can't speak for every person who does not want to marry, but on average, spurning marriage is not a choice we make lightly. We are deeply, deeply aware of the benefits that only marriage can currently provide. And we do not take that information lightly. We demand better.

Now, talking about the benefits of marriage in respective countries' current legal frameworks, so that all people can make choices from an informed place, is all well and good — but is not an appropriate response to someone saying they are uncomfortable with marriage. There are people for whom entering a marriage, with all its associated norms, expectations, and baggage, would feel like a betrayal of one's self and authenticity that would shake them to their core — and every day, I struggle to unpack if I'm one of them or not. If I want to marry for tax benefits, or not. If that's worth the risk of losing disability benefits, in the (very plausible) possibility that I have to apply for them later in life. If that's worth the emotional burden of having to explain over and over, to both well-meaning and deeply conservative family members, that this relationship is not one of romance or sex. (Because, god, trying just to explain aromanticism or asexuality in a world that broadly thinks they're "fake" is emotional labor enough.)

Marriage is a fundamental alteration to who I am, to what rights an ableist government grants me, and to how I am perceived. I don't criticize the institution just because I enjoy a "free spirit" aesthetic or think the wedding industry is annoying, or whatever.

#to claim “gay marriage is assimilationist” is of course bullshit and ahistorical #but to claim “gay marriage is the last marriage reform we need” is even more bullshit. in the vein of “fuck you; i got mine” #amatonormativity #marriage #there's also something idk if i'm that qualified to articulate as a culturally christian person (even if nonreligious) #but concepts of marriage (or lack thereof) vary across the globe and across cultures #yet legal marriage - which crosses borders via presence in immigration law (in addition to obvious colonialism) #can impose extremely eurocentric norms onto countless people #which is a strong argument for separating spiritual/religious marriage from legal benefits tbh #they're *supposedly* separated in the US but you know obergerfell wouldn't have taken until 2015 if that was fully true

[bunnymothmartyr]

CANIDAE

#art #digital art #furry #furry community #furry art #gay #furry fandom #character design #digital illustration #fursona #furries #dog furry #fox #furry fox #wolf furry #dobermann #border collie #marble fox #grey wolf #furry character #transmasc #transgender #trans #queer furry #polyamourous #anthro furry #furry oc #sfw furry #furry anthro #nonbinary

[meirimerens]

can you come dance with me dude. are you man enough to fucking come dance with me. are you too much of a coward to hold my hand.

slow-danceable OST of my mind

#blanked on them tags for 5 minutes because i couldn't. rember. we back #notkhan #khotkin #<- i rember anon calling it that... is it widely in use... i don't think either are but ykwim #notkin #khan kain #ok. everyone behave. i'm getting back to what i was doing. (peterstakhing in french) #was thinking about the concept of prom (which we don't have here) #and the baffling opportunities it brings to cringefail teenagers. why would you put adolescents through this... #anyways. it's like. prom x commonfolk private dances where you meet in basements or barns and dance to the fiddle #my art #my dumbass almost forgot: #pathologic #pathologic 2 #you ever been 15 & gay & closeted/repressed and having a weird friendship bordering on romantic with someone you couldn't #gauge your closeness to. you ever wanted to dance with them. don't answer and don't make me think about it i'm goig to be sent back in time

[emilylprentiss]

Criminal Minds: Beyond Borders | 2.10

Emily Prentiss & Clara Seger

#this was the cutest shit shut UP #criminal minds beyond borders #criminal minds #emily prentiss #clara seger #criminalmindsedit #beyond borders #userkayjay #usercats #userjean #gothprentiss #cm gifs #PLAY THAT FUNKY MUSIC WHIIITE GIIIIIRLS #im too gay for this #also simmons being like oh i didnt know you guys went that far back #emily and clara looking at each other like deer in headlights #lmao GAY #*mine

[barkbrained]

#my art #furry #furry art #furry community #ink drawing #border collie #gay furry #queer artist #traditional illustration #furry fandom #character art #anthro #furry sfw

[ercticisms]

i'm high.. but this has to make a little sense

#european gun wielders with their evil japanese counterparts? #idk im actually so fucking stoned #this NEEDS to make sense #they both border on hate love #gay people even???? caressing each other?????? #fowdo #yumikel #blue eye samurai #hellsing #hellsing ultimate #bes #yumie takagi #heinkel wolfe #abijah fowler #heiji shindo

[paws-draws]

ART COMMISSIONS ARE OPEN!!!

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[wyrmscraft]

Dramatic black and white dead tree (well. not dead-dead, winter hibernating-dead) lap quilt.

Like I said, I am obsessed with this Elegant Borders pattern.

And I love how sharp the black sashing on this is, wow.

At first I thought: Halloween quilt. Then I realised it could be a general winter quilt for a goth.

#gay crafting #quilting #wip #patchwork #quilt #quilttop #winter quilt #tree #stained glass look #elegant borders #black and white #dramatic

[etrevil]

Fyodor looks so surprised while Nikolai's just throwing him those heart-eyes.

I'm just thinking about how it's canon Nikolai was supposed to die, so Fyodor must have known this, and seeing Nikolai in front of him again might have been a great shock (or relief idk heh o^o) and now I wanna learn about his thought process during their reunion.

#my hyperfixation on them is bordering on skk levels now #also I'm just thinking fyodor screaming in his head like 'how is he alive- hey! handle me with care!' #bungou stray dogs #bsd #bsd anime #bsd season 5 #bsd season five #bungou stray dogs season five #bsd fyolai #fyolai #bungou gay dogs #fyodor dostoevsky #bsd fyodor #nikolai gogol #bsd nikolai

[renaultmograine]

my problem with anduin's new look isn't the grime or the hair or the beard, i agree it makes sense for him to have those, it's that it has zero connection to his old cinematics model 😭😭 like..... if you compare the two carefully his eyebrows are completely different, his cheeks are less pronounced, his button nose is gone, his hair is darker for no reason etc. idk he used to have a more stylized and unique look to him and now he just looks like every male action protagonist ever

I don't know how to explain this to you and I don't want to be mean about this, I'm trying really hard not to come off that way, but both time and stress ages a person. Anduin was absent for three years having horrific PTSD from when he was dominated and was roughing it on his own. Eyebrows grow, he's probably dehydrated from being in a desert wasteland, he never even had a button nose to begin with, and hair darkens naturally overtime.

The complaint that he looks like "every male action protagonist ever" is so bizarre to me, and one said by a lot of people. As it turns out, white boys tend to grow up and look like white men, and when the bar for looking like a white man is "short hair and a beard," you trip over that easily.

Did you expect him to never age at all ever? Or is this a case of you guys being trapped in your "progressive" gender stereotypes that the moment a guy that isn't traditionally masculine doesn't shave for a week it means he's a completely different person now?

#i haven't forgotten everyone calling anduin a fruit like it wasn't still a slur towards gay men #some people in the tag are a little too possessive of their image of a stereotypical gay man anduin is #he isnt a twink hes a broad shouldered man who canonically likes curvy women and has liked them since he was 13 #its all fun and memes but the amount of genuine mourning i see from some now that they cant reductively call him a twink anymore #is wild and bordering on vaguely homophobic #twink is a word with meaning and at a certain point youre using it as a reductive insult #anyway #i said i wasnt going to be mean and i tried not to. however i Am heated over this #warcraft #ask #anonymous #anduin #anduin wrynn

[grimlins-chaos]

Elves!

#sin'dorei #Kal'dorei #night elf #blood elf #world of warcraft #warcraft #wow #art #my art #these two are best friends #bordering on gay

[queermedievalist]

i am so close to finishing this godforsaken linework. why did i choose to model this after the tres belles heures (it’s because it is, as the name suggest, tres belle)

#every day i open it up for like twenty minutes and finish one of the vines and then immediately close it #coloring it is going to be such a pain also but at least the borders are only gold blue and red #wip #pentiment #(posting this here instead of on gay pirates main bc it’s not gay pirates)

[nakibistan]

Queer Muslim Pride Babes !

#Gay Halal #Love is not Haram #Queer and Halal #queer muslim #Queer Muslimah #lesbianmuslim #lesbian muslim #trans muslimah #love has no labels #Love has no borders #Love wins over hate #queerummah

[der3ality]

#weirdcore #weirdcore aesthetic #strangecore #oddcore #aesthetic #school #hallway #classes #blue #stickmen #love? #communication #gay #lgbtqia #dated #fade #border #drop shadow #paint.net #not queued #mine