It would be really nice if, when people wrote “how to get started in historical costuming” posts they didn’t all automatically assume that only women will be reading it. (And even if only women did read it, some of them still might want to sew historical menswear!) I don’t expect people to suggest a bunch of resources for stuff they haven’t studied, but if it’s a post specifically geared towards women/people who want to sew feminine styles of costume they could at least specify in the title, and maybe say something like “hey I don’t know much about men’s costuming, but here are links to a few people who do”.

And it would also be really nice if they didn’t address large sewing community audiences with “Hello ladies!” when there are almost certainly men and nonbinary people reading/watching too.

I’m sure a large part of the reason so few men sew is because of growing up in a society with gender roles that discourage them from showing any interest in textiles or fancy clothes, but I think there’s also something to be said about the fact that stuff like this must be really discouraging for beginners looking to get into the hobby.

Gender is a performance, so when they told me my options were man or woman, I replied, "Yes, and..." and I've been improvising my way through this since. The audience is free to shout suggestions, but I'm going to ignore most of them anyway.

Things I am NOT:

A girl in a boy way

A boy in a girl way

Things that I am:

A girl in a not-girl way

A boy in a not-boy way

Hope that clears things up.

I'm not the first to make this joke and I won't be the last

it doesnt really matter if you “understand” someone’s identity what matters is that you respect it.

you dont have to “get it” to be kind and give it the respect it deserves.

Today's gender is- Absolutely feral and slightly rabid

oh to posses the gender from revenge era<3

toby fox, probably: people keep thinking my nonbinary character is “ambiguously gendered,” so in chapter 2 I’m going to be very clear to have a lot of characters who know them use their proper pronouns. also their dream bed literally has a trans pride flag on it

this clown: yeah but, uh, Kris’s brother, shares a room, so like, can’t be nonbinary, obviously, i am very intelligent and this has nothing to do with transphobia i swear-

allie, do you think fine line (the song) is about louis? or more like about harry dealing with industry or himself? what’s your thoughts?

I think it's about himself. I see a lot of parallels between Fine Line and She. It feels like he's reflecting on the line between two extremes, and how hard it is to figure this out without being open about it. IMO there's a great deal of discussion about gender in this, "she" being inside of him. This is the more mature song Harry has ever written in my opinion, it's so raw and vulnerable, and I really like how honest his frustration sounds. He's so fucking tired of the closeting, of hiding, tired of fighting, I had an anon the other day about the analogy in "My hand's at risk, I fold".

But it also surprises me that the most important message of this song perhaps is "we'll be alright", and I love how they play this song back to back with Sign of the Times on tour, because it makes me see a lot of parallels with that song too. It's such a joy listening to Harry play this song every night, it's so complex and so beautiful.

Questioning attraction culture is pushing away doubts about your gender because you are not mentally nor emotionally available to be unsure about this too. (maybe it could be vice versa to other people, idk)

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is it obvious where i stole my personality from

Opera ✨✨

Its them!! I love Opera so so much they're so gender. So so gender. The definition of gender.

Anyways, enjoy!! :D

I want Denji's gender

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Abandorotticorpse

Abandorotticorpse- gender related to, connected to, affected by, or feels like, a rotting corpse that was left inside a crumbling abandoned home that's being reclaimed by nature

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Gender critical, transmed, exclusionist, enby-skeptic, anti-neopronouns, anti-mspec gays & lesbians, anti-mogai, anti-acab, anti-BLM, autism speaks supporter, anti-anti, NSFW blog, map + no-map, zoo/zeta

have a question for my fellow trans (obv inc nb people here) persons about pre-transition references of the self. When you talk about yourself as a person pre-transition or even pre-coming-out do you use your assigned gender at birth or do you refer to yourself in terms of your current pronouns & self? Or another set of pronouns completely?

I Met You On LJ → Episode #051: Twitter Is Just 2014 Tumblr with Amanda Brennan (@continuants​)

The way that people relate to their identity today is through lenses that we didn’t have in the early 2000s. All of the work done by Millennials has allowed Gen Z to explore gender and queerness.

this is the most gender i’ve ever looked

why is red lipstick so gender

Hi, Allie, how are you? I really would like to know if you really think that Harry might be trans? I see a lot of people saying that but I can’t actually feel it, not that it matters to anyone how i feel 🙈 I just would like to know your opinion and please, I don’t know if it sounds rude or anything and I’m sorry in advance if it is. Sorry about my english.

Hi love. I think there’s a possibility he’s non-binary, sure. I don’t have a very strong opinion whether he’s this or that, even because I don’t think we have enough information about it. But he plays with gender a lot, there’s a lot of questioning implied on a lot of stuff coming from him. And this could be all there is, playing and questioning, or it could mean that he actually doesn’t identify as a cis man. He’s the only one who can say that, and if some day he feels like sharing about it, we will know. I think a non-binary person could talk about this better than me, but I don’t think you’re being rude at all. Nothing wrong with being curious about and asking, you can check my gender tag in case you want to know why a lot of people feel that way about it.

Susie Deltarune is so fucking gender™