#gender feelings

[foldingfittedsheets]

If you saw the new Nimona movie and loved her like I did then you might like this shark design I made!

She's up here on Teepublic, Threadless, and Redbubble and sales go to support a queer art student!

#my art #art #nimona #nimona art #shark #not a girl #gender feelings #trans pride

[resaresa]

hi boys hi im a boy too hi im kissing you ok bye

#gender feelings

[myceliumcreature]

My secret is that no matter what I'm wearing, I'm always crossdressing

#gay #queer #transgender #genderfluid #gender feelings #nonbinary #bigender #genderqueer

[xray-vex]

find you a man who can do both

#taika waititi #no crumbs detected #gender feelings #met gala 2023

[genderqueerpositivity]

Past Life | Jules Paymer (they/them)

(Image description: four images in gradually darker shades of purple, each one has a line of song lyrics. Lyrics: She's so happy in pictures so that's where she'll stay, she only exists because you won't change, she's got places to go and people to be, you loved her so much until she was me.)

#different from what i usually post #but I've had this one on repeat #jules paymer #past life #lyrics #lyricsedit #op #genderqueerpositivity #gender feelings #i hope these images are the right size for tumblr and this doesn't look blurry #queer playlist

[alovelymoonbeam]

I feel kinda weird interacting with the genderfluid community sometimes despite being genderfluid myself, because it feels like there’s always so much focus on knowing exactly what gender you are at any given moment and dressing ‘appropriately’ for that gender, and being super dysphoric when you are stuck in ‘girl’ clothes on a guy day and vice versa.

And while I get that these are struggles that a lot of genderfluid people deal with (myself included), what really drew me to the label was the idea that I don’t have to figure it all out or just pick a gender. It feels very comfy and ambiguous to me in the same way queer is. It lets me experience my gender one way one minute and a completely different way the next. I also have a lot of fun coming up with new and unique ways to describe my gender.

But I honestly don’t see much point in trying to pin down exactly what my gender is at any given moment, and how masculine or feminine it is, and making sure I present exactly how I’m supposed to for that gender. It feels very stressful to me, and a lot more like I’m hopping between the boxes I escaped rather than letting myself be free to do whatever I want with my gender. Especially since it changes so much.

That isn’t to say that genderfluid people who like switching up their presentations depending on their genders, or figuring out what their gender is on any given day are wrong, of course. I’m just saying that there are many ways to be genderfluid, even if it’s not the ‘typical’ way, and all of them are wonderful.

#idk just some thoughts I had while looking through the genderfluid tag #shoutout to genderfluid folks who don’t change presentations or pronouns #or who don’t know what their gender is and don’t really feel like figuring it out #you’re still genderfluid and your experience is awesome! #genderfluid #nonbinary #gender feelings

[undervaluedagent]

I have a question for afab autistic ppl (especially trans and/or nonbinary ones) with "male-presenting" autism. Do any of y'all feel like y'all weren't socialized female 'cause of your autism, and you were just autistic and not really much of a girl? Sorry if that doesn't make much sense.

#undervalued files #autism #autistic #actuallyautistic #gender feelings #trans

[skittlepuppygirl]

Gender today is I am a dirty little slut.

#lesbian nsft #wlw nsft #lesbian #gender feelings #ahhhhhhh #I’ve been shaving my legs the past week or so and it triggered a wave of gender feelings #girl? #not girl? #femme? #maybe??? #ugh #at least I am confident that I am a lesbian #maybe my gender is just #being a lesbian

[likethewizard]

I am having Thoughts and Feelings about Kon-El and gender. I have started a comic. It’s mostly words.

#conner kent #kon el #superboy #gender feelings #I want his gender #trans of gender feelings #transgender #trans

[agave]

someone complimented my shirt at the market and I pitched up my voice and shrugged my jacket off and let her feel the material and told her where I got it and...

it just feels so nice to be a little feminine. I wish so badly I could dress as I wanted without my parents thinking I'm trying to "go back on" being trans. I'm a boy. I just want to dress pretty and wear cute things sometimes instead of stupid shirts and pants shirts and pants shirts and pants

I need the surgery and I need to get back on hormones and I don't know if I CAN with what ohio is doing but I so desperately need to be "male enough" that they never ever doubt that I'm a boy in a dress ever ever again

#vent i guess #gender feelings #i'd give anything to move out but it just isn't feasible without roommates and i don't have any friends that have space for that right now #not like i really know how to navigate asking someone about that anyway #plus i would have to navigate disability pay again and im so scared it won't pan out. it was so hard to get it in the first place #but i need out of here. i need out #it is crushing me

[hazel2468]

Y'all. I got a compression top.

It's like, somewhere between a binder and a sports bra (which is what I mostly wear, except for the rare Tits Out Day, which I do still enjoy).

And I'm wearing it.

And it's uh... It's...

GENDER FEELINGS!

#gender feelings #transgender #genderqueer #queer #also like from a practical standpoint #will men's shirts fit me better with one of these??? #like it DOES bring down the boobage a lot #smaller men's shirts that fit in the shoulders never fit in the chest but uh #maybe with one of these on they will? #also apparently these are safe for extended wear #cuz they're not binders so they're not as like #tight #it feels like a really supportive sports bra so #i'm so down #bleah thing is that I'm still waiting on my T #i heard that the patch has actually been discontinued so #if they don't have it in stock by like noon on Monday I'll shoot my doc a message about it #and if they have the gel fuck it i'll do the gel

[raraeavesmoriendi]

I keep coming back to the scene where Barbie is crying after her run in with modern high schoolers

and the part of me that’s been Goth since I was thirteen has this mad urge to hug “my” Barbie from when I was little, to tell her that she wasn’t what drove me away from liking pink and being frilly and feminine, she was a lovely friend and companion who made my little playtimes by myself less lonely. I just didn’t think I could be that girl anymore when it turned out I

a. wasn’t a girl, and

b. the only femininity I ever felt comfortable expressing was something that made it clear that I didn’t want people to touch me, especially after I spent the last part of my pink sanrio years being harassed by a boy in my school, but who could I tell? who would believe me, when I was undiagnosed for multiple things and already starting to fail at being appropriately “little girl” by cis standards? and

c. even when I got older, people wanted to push that kind of outward femininity on me because it’s what girls were supposed to be, who would eventually become wives and Helpmeets, so saith some evangelical, and what else could I hope to be?

I want to tell “my” Barbie that our playtime is not what made me cringe away from shades of pink and ruffles and heart shapes. it’s the people who wanted to insist that’s what I had to be, and would still rather see me be that and miserable than be happy and myself. that I don’t blame her at all, and I thank her for the time we had together, even if I don’t think I could go back to Barbieland anymore.

and in the real world, I give a nod and raise a glass to all the candy pink glittery high femmes who cross my path, because I know what it’s like to love how a color makes you feel so much that it fills up your whole wardrobe 🖤

#and then rarae says #thinking too hard about glorified commercials etc. #gender feelings #non-binary #genderqueer #slight religious trauma #all my theys who grew like protective thorned bushes around wounded little girls to the front #vampire gender #(yeah this technically goes in this tag)

[the-gayest-dovah]

I'm like if a girl was a kinda pathetic guy

#gender feelings

[clementineskesh]

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im NOT trans so this is really kind of pointless but im having complicated feelings about that post that's like "cis ppl don't wonder if they're trans" bc while i understand that it is about reassuring trans people of their identity, idk that its accurate or healthy?

like i did wonder if i was trans. and i ended up being like yeah im pretty sure im a cis woman but my relationship w my gender is at the point where i want to use any pronouns and call myself a guy because of my relationship w masculinity and alienation from heteropatriarchal womanhood.

so like. i do consider myself cis, but differently than like, my conservative christian married at 18 sister is cis. you know? so like i think its reductive to say cis ppl never question their gender i think cis ppl SHOULD question and consider their gender and many do and that doesnt make trans ppl less valid or secure

#gender feelings #idk that this is clear in any way i just. #idk. again i am cis so like all of this is probably unwarranted anyway i just. have feelings about my gender

[that-one-scared-gay]

me having everyone in my family except for 1 (one) cousin blocked from seeing my whatsapp status, posting about gender: i like to live dangerously

#do i know if this cousin is queer friendly? i do not #do i know if she’s telling other family members about me being trans? i do not #have i spoken to her since christmas? i have not #anyways #gender #gender feelings #trans #transgender #gender fuckery

[teethingtbutch]

an old drawing, inspired by a post I saw on Instagram but I can't remember by who— if anyone knows, let me know!

#trans #art #butch #gender #genderfluid #bigender #trans masc #trans art #butch art #gender feelings #mine #drawing