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worldvhs · 2 days
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tell me y’all see the vision
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starbaby-7 · 4 months
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Sometimes I get weird about labeling my gender then I remember Crowley exists and I’m like omg gender doesn’t even fucking matter I can go through life as Crowley would and then I’m fine again
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androgynealienfemme · 11 months
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"Faggy butch was good. It accurately described my pink button-down shirts, my giggles, the fact that I talked with my hands. I once saw a tape of myself in which I made a gesture that looked more like it belonged in A Chorus Line than in the middle of an interview. Faggy butch was like genderqueer -- not quite this or that, a little of both, maybe. A friend once said to me, "I access my femininity through my masculinity."
I feel lucky to have grown up in a world with butch pioneers, and I feel lucky that I had an idea about what being butch might have meant. But instead of making me feel part of the community, these constructions of what butch was -- stereotypes really-- pushed me away from the word and identity. Instead I chose a newer term, genderqueer, which had yet to be defined; it was in flux, it was a new frontier. I may not have been butch "enough", but genderqueer was all mine to rewrite and redefine.
I still like the word "genderqueer," still claim it and own it and love the way it makes room for me, in all my complexities. But I'm coming back around to butch. Maybe its because the years of pink prom dresses are further and further behind me, maybe its because i'm learning from butch elders who talk in terms that make room for me, giggles and all. Maybe its because the people i know have no idea (unless I tell them) that i was never a tomboy. They only know me -- my short hair tightly bound chest, and button down shirts.
I think that every new generation feels the need to reject their elders, reject what came before them, and feel that they are knew gender rebels. We invent terms, we create new spaces, and sometimes, we come back to where our big brothers started -- home."
“PERSISTENCE: All Ways Butch and Femme, Coming Back Around to Butch” Miriam Zoila Pérez, On Butch and Femme: Compiled Readings, (edited by I.M. Epstein) (2017)
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cursedluver · 3 months
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GENDER FUCKER sticker here
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this-is-me19 · 7 months
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Found this on Facebook the other day and thought I’d share:
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[ID: A friendly reminder that you don’t need to fully understand the nuances of gender identity to know that each individual person knows who they are better than you ever will.]
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my-castles-crumbling · 5 months
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MEN IN SKIRTS
The gender envy!
The attractiveness!
The ahdjsnavsusbskajbdnakznx!
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thesnakethatmarches · 10 months
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Nimona said here’s this little girl who just wants to be herself in every form, who just wants to belong. Here’s her giving an apple to her only friend, nervous and desperate for acceptance. Here’s her friend accepting her up until peer pressure changes her mind. Here’s this small little girl, who just wanted to be herself and have someone love her and accept her as she is, in every form she is, seeing the one person whom she thought was ok and accepting turn on her, rejecting her. Here’s this bitter girl who’s whole experience has been rejection, has been villainized by people because she is different because she is herself. Here’s an institution that focuses on differences and how bad and monstrous they can be, that instills hate and fear into the citizens it swears to protect and yet will tear them down to get to whatever it wants to destroy. Here is someone who grew up in this institution, was molded by it and then turned away, villainized by the people he swore to protect, the people he loved. Here are these two people who are so different, who come from different backgrounds, have different motives, and yet they are the same, but not quite. Here are two similar individuals but one is not quite a monster, one does not have to chose between being themself or fitting in.
Nimona is so many things but it is a trans story through and through. It is so unapologetically queer, so unapologetically trans, so very important especially for today’s society. I’m so happy to see this iteration get the love it deserves <3
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sweaty-confetti · 7 months
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okay half thought out post time ! i struggle with words sometimes so i hope this makes sense
okay look. i know what you guys are trying to do when you say “if you’re not trans, you’re cis.” you’re referring to all those shitty people who think cis is a slur for some reason or “i’m not cis, i’m a REAL WOMAN” and that shit. and the intent is right obviously ! there’s nothing wrong with the word cisgender, and the only reason assholes say that it’s a slur is because they use the word trans as a slur.
but here’s the thing: you’re wrong.
“if you’re not trans, you’re cis” does nothing but reinvent a binary: the binary of trans/cis. and that’s not helpful. there are gender-fluid folks who might say “well, i’m a girl today so i’m trans, but yesterday i was a boy, so cis.” i’ve met multiple people who say things like “yeah i’m cis-ish, but still funky in the gender” or “technically my identity falls under the trans umbrella, but i don’t use the label trans. i’m not cis though.”
like, binaries are good for no one. and there’s a VAST difference between someone saying “i’m multigender and don’t feel like either of those labels define me accurately” and someone else saying “i’m not CIS! how dare you call me a CISGENDER ! i am a NATURAL REAL MALE !” it’s all about whether it’s in good faith or not.
so just like, be aware that when you say that stuff, it can be weird or isolating or uncomfortable who folks who don’t think either of those labels work for them, or don’t use labels at all, or who exist somewhere in between cis and trans, or whose genders fluctuate from day to know. rambling thoughts over - have a good day!
this is not a discourse post. TERFS and transphobes are not allowed to debate me about the validity of trans identity, you will be blocked.
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k-wame · 5 months
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he ate
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jell-o-mel · 10 months
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I’ve been seeing a lot of Nimona stuff but nothing about Nimona being so fucking genderfluid coded. This is the genderfluid experience put in film, you cannot prove me wrong. Please discuss this genderfluid icon with me.
I will die on this hill
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weedstop · 3 months
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oops 🎀 hehe 💞 cashapp venmo kofi
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krasytoonz · 10 months
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Suit and Tie! 🌸
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Me at about age 13 pre transition
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Me probably age 15 ish just starting to transition (ftm - he/him)
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Me in high school like 16-17 (transmasc - he/they)
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Me today! I’m currently 20 and happier than I’ve ever been. (Agender/Genderfluid - they/them)
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gnc-culture-is · 25 days
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I'm afab genderfluid, and when I'm feeling fem I don't really care about having small boobs. But when I'm feeling masc I want my boobs to SHOW. those are the only days I wear a proper bra with pads, and also the only days I think about getting a boob job, I want to be a boy with Big Boobs™
(also a few days ago I was seeing the people I follow and unfollowing inactive blogs, and I noticed that this one is one the few queer culture is blogs that stay active, so thank you very much for staying here <3 hope you're doing well)
Gender is a fuck. Best of luck with your boob journey
. And thank you… We are doing our best. Not as active as we used to be, admittedly.
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iceeericeee · 5 months
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Me: I'm so glad i finally figured out my identity! it took a while, but i can finally say with confidence that i am aroace
my gender: ...
me: don't even FUCKING think about it
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thewhitemaletm · 18 days
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Reblog if you think trans people and anyone under that umbrella deserve love, accessible care, and respect, aroace spec people are valid and lovely, or if you like pretty rocks.
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