I need to see other butches. I need to see other butches unapologetically masculine and shirtless and relaxed in nature. I need to see other butches on TV and in my books and in my shop and bar. I need butches whose masculinity is not apologised for by feminine or otherwise mainstreamly redeeming qualifiers, like whiteness, thinness, able bodied-ness, attractiveness, feminine faces, earrings, women's jeans and shoes. These things are all okay, but I need to see a butch character who's not been shaped to be acceptable for all audiences with reservations about queerness. I need a butch who's fat, hairy, deep voiced, who's older, who wear shirts and ripped jeans and boots instead of dapper suits. Butches who are on T, or have PCOS, butches who also identify as ftm, or as a woman no matter how they're seen. I need trans fem butches who are fucking ACCEPTED for however they show up in their bodies and clothes.
We need butches not sterilised and redeemed by cis/het normative bounds of expression.
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Wayhaught Gender Fics
It's been a minute but alas, I make my return to Tumblr. Today's random topic is Wayhaught Gender Fics. Now, if you've been a follower of my own AO3 account, then you may have noticed that a lot of my fics are mainly Wayhaught written in not, cisgender fashion. I've got a trans Nicole fic, a non-binary Waverly fic, and an intersex non-binary Nicole fic (WIP). I love the fics that push the boundaries of canon and don't just write Wayhaught in random scenarios like one of them being in the military or being a teacher, photographer, tattoo artist, etc. But people go out of their way to write non-binary, trans-man, trans-women, or gender non-conforming fics.
I typically enjoy these the most because I'm non-binary myself and I love the representation and gender euphoria that these kind of fics bring. There's 2 authors I would just love to shoutout for being such huge advocates for writing gender-inclusive Wayhaught fics and that's BlueJayBoi whose written one of my absolute favorites series on the site, everything you need to know and odaatlover who wrote a beautiful fic that centered Waverly as a trans-woman called The Truth About Being Transparent
Although I have a couple of cisgender Wayhaught fics in the works, I make it my main mission to write lots of non cisgender Wayhaught fics just because I have met so many enby and trans Earpers in the fandom that I feel it's so important that if they one day find themselves on AO3 like I randomly did, they can find fics that represent a version of Wayhaught that they can better see themselves in. Alright, that's my ramble for today. Hope everyone's been well lately!
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every stereotypical girl thing i ever did felt gender non conforming in a way i didnt fully understand until i realised im a trans guy
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[ID: A redbubble design preview showing a dark purple mug, with pale four-pointed stars scattered over it, and the words "Cis tears", with each letter outlined in black, and the middle of the letter in the colors of a different pride flag.
The flags are, in order, trans, nonbinary, agender, genderqueer, gendernonconforming, queer, autigender, and xenogender.
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you can also request a design like this with just one flag, two, or different flags.
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These are no longer available on Redbubble since they’re just straight up stealing from artists, but you are encouraged to download these to use as icons, headers, moodboards, whatever you want :)
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Made this, because quotes from Donnie Darko are awesomely remixable to make into any kind of memes. 👏NON BINARY SPECTRUM PEOPLE EXIST TOO👏 - - 🏳️🌈❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤🤎🏳️🌈 🏳️⚧️💙💗🤍💗💙🏳️⚧️ - - #pride #lgbtqa #lgbtq #lgbtqa #gay #queer #gendernonconforming #androgynous #nonbinary #transrights #nonbinaryrights #transgender #trans #transgenderman #transman #ftm #ftmtransgender #ftmtrans #transgenderwoman #transwoman #mtf #mtftransgender #mtftrans #transgenderperson #transgenderpeople #transgenderrights #originalmeme #meme #donniedarkomemes #lgbtqmemes #donniedarko (at Las Vegas, Nevada) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cib7vULOTlo/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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I drew someone from a band I saw at a festival, The Idiot Kids, a long time ago.
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Finally cold enough to take the scarves out.
[he/him] // [links]
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Rocky Horror Picture Show tonight, with audience interactions. Really fun, singing along & lot of laughter. 👗👗👠👠 #munich #rockyhorrorpictureshow #genderblender #maninheels #manindress #maninskirt #fashionfreedom #meninheels #menindress #meninskirt #maningown #meningown #boysinheels #BreakingStereotypes #ClothesHaveNoGender #daretobedifferent #DiversityAndInclusion #DiversityInFashion #Genderbendingfashion #gendernonconforming #genderstereotypes #IWillWearWhatILike #Nonbinaryfashion #Ownyourlife #Phluid #degenderfashion (v místě Munich, Germany) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cd1xjy5Ixcu/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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I can't decide if I prefer the term gender nonconforming or gender noncompliant when describing myself. I think I like the idea of aggressively refusing to present as any particular gender. That is all
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Decided to treat myself to some drinks and poetry for my bday. Asked the bartender for a drink that was not too sweet. He made an elote, which is a mexican candy made to taste like sweetened corn and covered in chile. They indeed delivered. :) #gay #latinx #latine #latino #queer #me #myself #i #transfemme #nonbinary #twospirit #gendernonconforming #genderqueer #drinks #elote #ultra #michelob #wildhemp #poetry #bday #birthday #happyday #cheers https://www.instagram.com/p/CoOuejDM0v-/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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I will make this as short, simple, and sweet as possible.
If you are a cisgender (someone who identifies with the gender they were assigned at birth) woman and you are only attracted to other cisgender women, then you're a lesbian.
If you are a cisgender man and you are only attracted to other cisgender men, then you are gay.
However, there's plenty of other people who are Gender Non-Conforming and who are Trans that can also be gay/lesbian.
If a person is a gender non-conforming assigned female at birth or a trans woman and they are only attracted to others that have the same or similar gender identity as them, then they are also considered lesbians.
If a person is a gender non-conforming assigned male at birth or a trans man and they are only attracted to others that have the same or similar identity as them, then they are also considered gay.
To misgender them and to call them homophobes for being who they are is transphobia. They are not a threat to your sexuality. If anything you're a threat to them for gatekeeping that only cis women can be lesbians or only cis men can be gay.
If you only understood how there's no such thing as a sex binary as well as gender being a social construct, then you would also understand how your transphobia towards them are unnecessary.
They're going through the same oppression and hate that y'all are going through which is why this community is called LGBTQIA+. So for you to show hate in a community that is supposed to be about love is hypocritical because you're no better than cisgender heterosexual people.
This is exactly why the most updated flags for lesbians and gays are more inclusive to trans/gender non-conforming people. You don't have to be with a trans/gender non-conforming person, everyone has preferences and no one is saying that you should nor making you to, but you can at least respect and accept them for who they are.
You're valid and they are valid as well. Leave the hate to the people who aren't in this community. We have enough hate in the world as it is and hating each other is not going to make it any better.
So with that being said, love is love and it is for all. Happy Pride.
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The term Two-Spirit initially emerged into contemporary vernacular in the 1990s when Indigenous people began actively resisting colonial values and processes and are working towards the reclamation of Two-Spirit identities. Indigenous LGBTT2QQIA groups rejected the Western anthropological definitions of Indigenous homosexual and transgender people and determined that the mainstream lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender identities did not include their Indigenous cultural understandings of gender and sexuality.3 Two-Spirit is a self-descriptor used by all gender and sexual variant Indigenous people in Canada and the United States that honours our ancestral past and reclaims our Indigenous identity. * * * * #twospirit #nativeart #2slgbtqiaplus #genderidentity #genderexpression #tomboy #androgynous #lesbian #genderfluid #reclaimyourpower #strongresilientindigenous #lgbtqia #lgbtqia2s #indigenous #indigenousart #haudenosaunee #drag #itsthelgbt #genderfluid #indigenousqueer #gendernonconforming #genderqueer #lgbtqyouth #indigiqueer #queeraf #nonbinarygender #enby (at Akwesasne Mohawk Territory) https://www.instagram.com/p/CjTL-LGLPxt/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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Question for Wynonna Earp fanfic readers. What are you interested in reading? My main focus has been to write Wayhaught in different gender variations and sexual preferences. ie; non-binary, transgender, gender non-conforming or pansexual (lesbian/bisexual which is their preferences in cannon). Is there any specific way you’d like to see Wayhaught written? Even if it’s written as a cisgender pairing. What prompts are you interested in reading? Trying to get an idea of some ideas for when I wrap up the fic that’s currently being written and published. Your input would be much appreciated if you have any!
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Human/Nature
I lay the same way I did in my room
When my mind was encompassed by foul grit and gloom
“People have paved forked roads of tradition
Where I could never utter my truest rendition”
But now as I lounge in the sweet summer air
What a difference it makes when I strip my thoughts bare
And lay them where sturdy ground meets delicate green laces
Where you will find neither man nor woman in these holiest places
For I am the furthest poles of the Earth and the sky
No reasons to be wrestled from nature and I
What doubts filled my mind as I tried to dissect
Have found peace in what Nature gives us to expect
For when one so proud creates and then randomly ruins
I see the source spectacle of
Human.
Human.
Human.
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it's so ridiculous when people claim cis men are "celebrated" for being gender-nonconforming and then you look at who's doing the supporting of these cis men and it's.....
oh. right. Other Queer people. Who are also supporting trans people and other people who are gender-nonconforming. But somehow the fact that they also support GNC cis men is somehow a bad thing, and the fact that these Queer people know what the word "solidarity" means somehow means that everyone else in society praises and celebrates these GNC cis men while oppressing the rest of the Queer people, so somehow these GNC men are privieleged and oppressing trans people just by existing as GNC cis men????????????????????????
Can you people stop trying to drag everyone else under the fucking bus and stop blaming other Queer people for queermisia existing for five gods damned seconds?
Stop fucking pretending cis men are not just as punished and demonized for gender nonconformity as trans people or any other Queer people. Just stop. it's 2023. You are not allowed to fucking lie about basic shit like this again.
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