i hate whenever tobias and emilio interact because it's always
"am i a bad person"
"ur perfect"
"okay" get original. the fact that tobias is asking emilio to kiss him again after how messed up it made him the first time?? im not in his shoes but i KNOW he didnt wnjoy it. in tobias's OWN WORDS "I felt like he defiled me" Tobias was TERRIFIED to go to school JUST AT THE IDEA THAT EMILIO WOULD BE THERE. what Emilio did to Tobias is SEXUAL ASSAULT.
Here’s what else bothers me, I KNOW that Tobias wouldn’t know how to function in a relationship with Emilio. I just dont like the thought of tobias being manipulated like that, not always being able to understand that emilio's behavior is wrong. bc the way i see it, tobias does not understand the full issue with emilio's behavior, like he KNEW he didn’t enjoy but he didn’t fully understand the reason Emilio forcing himself on him was wrong. WHICH IS WHY whether intentional or not, emilio would end up putting tobias in bad situations, or indirectly manipulating him because tobias DOES NOT FULLY GET *WHY* EMILIO’S ACTIONS ARE WRONG!!!!
Do not put these two together, they’re both too messed up to have a healthy relationship with ANYONE without working their own stuff out first.
⬆️ this is NOT what you would see or hear from someone who was just “misunderstanding his feelings” none of this was positive, what Tobias felt was pure horror, violation, NOT excitement or love.
Don’t get me started on how unhealthy Emilio’s obsession with Tobias is, not to mention how CLEARLY uncomfortable Tobias is made by it.
So we’re just gonna disregard all of this CLEARLY UNHEALTHY behavior towards eachother on both ends, plus Tobias’s distaste for Emilio’s actions towards him, and flip it all on its head, what, for a ship? A ship that is clearly terrible for both characters? Okay!
There’s a lot more I could get into, BUT I’ll save that for another day, that’s all from me.