#giving up your seat

[suiheisen]

you think YOU had a bad day at work?

bonus: sid shrieking "no!!!! NO!!!!!" loud enough to be heard in the stands and on camera

#this is now my FAVOURITE game i've watched in real life knocking the game misconduct one off the number one rank #he was so annoyed the entire game and so annoying about it :') #he kept shrieking away on the bench and i couldn't hear a word from where i was seated #but you could just hear this constant yipping away dhfsgfkjshgfsjf PLEASE it was so funny your 36-year-old babygirl was BARKING #drew kept sitting there like... is mom okay... i don't think mom's okay... #also extremely good for me (since he wasn't really hurt) was the whumpfest of it all oh my god what ancient gods did he anger......... #geno kept Hovering in concern #po kept giving him little shoulder pats the way a sweet brave babyboy would try his best to soothe a rabid little dog #ek of course kept trying to slide right inside him and also kept skating up to him and STARING him in the face in concern/lust/both #also guys this is my first time in canada ever!!!!!!!! i'm excited #anyway. very good game for me sorry for this post but you know i love a #long post #sidney crosby #evgeni malkin #pittsburgh penguins #also!!! to all who celebrate #ramadan kareem/eid mubarak #<333 staying with a friend here through the eid celebration and they've been cooking and everything smells so good

[andy-clutterbuck]

#EXCUSE ME BUT THE NOSE™ #Rick Grimes #The Ones Who Live #* #rg #bless all the lines on your forehead #they're beautiful and sacred #profile that'd make renaissance sculptors green with envy #michelangelo's just gonna throw david in the river and give up #then come haunt me for saying that #that face is the actual iron throne #excuse me is this seat taken #the most immaculate scruff ever #*ruffles his hair like the wind* #the things i could say about that nose would cause me to have to apologize to NBC News CBS News ABC News and CNN for good measure #*CASH REGISTER NOISE* #n e c k #oh there's bram stoker knocking #haven't heard from him in a while

[thedisablednaturalist]

It's awful when I'm on the job and an elderly person asks me for help bending over/picking something up especially when they ask so nicely.. I haven't been able to find a polite way to refuse. It's hard being the designated young person when you're invisibly disabled

#wrenfea.exe #bc i don't really use mobility aids in the field other than my walking sticks #and i didnt have them today #usually my coworker steps in but he wasnt here today #my back is still pretty fucked up and i cant really bend over or lift things quite yet #its also the same thing with having to give your seat up on the bus #even though you need it bc everyone around you assumes you dont #had an old lady just stand and glare at me and didnt even say anything when i asked if she wanted the seat #when i tried to explain i need to sit she just stepped closer and stared down at me it was fucking weird #like the homer simpson meme #chronic disability #chronic pain #spoonie #fibromyalgia #disability #from the field #working while disabled #invisible disability

[tasmanianstripes]

I'm gonna make an original post because I am not a discourse blog nor am I looking for a fight or, God forbid, for somebody to harass the OP or me over this. I am just a disabled person who's really fucking tired with how people treat accessibility features and I need to vent out my frustration

(As a disclaimer, idk if the OP of that post is disabled or mentally ill or anything, nor do I care. It genuienly doesn't matter. Being disabled or mentally ill or having any kind of disorder doesn't prevent you from being ableist. You can't hide behind "I'm disabled/have PTSD/whatever".)

But I saw some garbage take about trigger warnings today, that basically boiled down to that fanfic writers and artists don't need to use trigger warnings, that it's a fairly new thing and the standard for fiction was not using them for many years, and anything more than what the site requires is just a courtesy, but what ticked me off was these two ending points

(Image ID: A tumblr text post that reads "➡️ It is your responsibility to protect yourself and close a book, or hit the back button if you find something in fiction that you're reading that upsets you. ➡️ You are responsible for protecting yourself from fiction that causes you discomfort." End ID.)

Which I absolutely agree with, which is why it's so frustrating.

Because how can somebody protect themself if the author chooses not to disclose potentially triggering and dangerous content they're posting?

Is it a standard? Yeah. Does it mean it's a good standard and shouldn't be changed? Hell no.

Yeah it is within your right to refuse to trigger tag something, but it doesn't mean it's the moral choice nor that it doesn't make you an asshole. Like not giving up your seat on a transit for a person in need is within your rights and you nobody can stop you from not doing that, but you are being a prick.

I'm all for people controlling their own online experience, they shouldn't demand somebody not post something and instead learn to block and filter their own experience, but they can't feasibly do that if somebody chooses not to use warnings. Just because something is the standard or law or a policy doesn't mean it's a moral choice. AO3's "Creator chose not to use archive warnings" is a good compromise, it can keep the creator from spoilering their story while warning the readers that they're clicking on their own risk. But to post something with absolutely ZERO warning? Yeah, full offence, you're just a cunt.

Call me crazy but it's not "courtesy" when it's about accessibility and people's health and safety, it's the bare minimum you should do to avoid dangerous situations. It's not just about comfort for many people, posting something triggering without any warnings can be genuienly dangerous. If you genuienly think everyone can just click away from a fanfic like that and be only uncomfortable at most then you're naive and sheltered, a lot of people need these warnings, fandom spaces are hostile to disabled people as is. If you want people to protect themselves from fiction that causes them discomfort or worse then you need to give them the tools to do so, you can't just wash your hands off any responsibility and absolutely refuse to meet anyone half-way.

It seems that when some people say "you need to control your own online experience" don't genuienly mean it, because if they did they would understand it's a two way street. No, they just want an easy guilt-free way out to shooting down people who criticise them for posting uncensored, not warned about triggering content.

I swear to god, when people pull out "Well it's the standard!" when talking about accessibility features for disabled people it makes my blood boil. Well it SHOULDN'T be!

#thylacines are angry #ableism #can you NOT give up a seat for a person with a cane on a bus? yeah. thats within your rights if youre sitting in a regular seat. #Does that make you an inconsiderable asshole? ABSOLUTELY IT DOES. #i see trigger warnings the same way #just because you CAN do something doesn't mean it's the right or moral thing to do

[bisexualamy]

NYC govt and Mayor Adams hate unhoused people so much they’re willing to systematically undo the work that disability activists in this city have been doing since the 90s and earlier. When I was a kid there were so many places to sit in Grand Central. They’ve replaced all of them with standing tables. They’re removing benches from subway stations. They are making existing in public so much more difficult for anyone who isn’t able bodied, who’s old, or just needs to rest. Because they hate seeing unhoused people sleeping in public places that badly. They’re pouring all this money into more cops to police unhoused people instead of putting that money towards HOUSING THEM

#ren speaks #gd im so angry I’m so mad I’m not physically disabled #surgery just temporarily disabled me. I can’t stand for more than 10 min at a time #and now I’m forced to stand here in pain bc cops will badger you for SITTING ON THE FLOOR #they won’t even let you sit on the ground #I cannot imagine how awful it is for folks who are permanently disabled #they also know this is an issue bc each standing area has a sign asking you to give your seat up at the ONE table with chairs #to elderly and disabled people #there’s no way there will ever be more than two disabled or elderly people in one place at one time!!

[waters-and-the-wilde]

ya'll know the 'because I love you, you idiot!' trope? that one? consider a 'because I forgive you, asshole!' type of moment from juno when he and nureyev sort their shit out

i just think it would be neat

#idk i think 'i get why you left and why you had your reasons and i know it's not actually your fault what happened' #'but also it massively sucked and you weren't there and i'm actually getting a chance to process that now that i've seen you again' #'and we're having to deal with picking up the pieces of what happened to us and who we've become in that time apart' #seems like it would be consistent with the kind of emotional tone they'd go for #idk if it's Too Similar to what they're probably also vibing at with Arum and Damien or Same Hat of theme overlap they do sometimes? #but i think it could work for them #nureyev's clearly harboring deep-seated doubts about his place in juno's life and i could see him trying to resign himself to rejection #while juno's solidified into a place of 'no that wasn't okay but like hell am i giving up on this just to feel righteous about it' #the penumbra podcast #juno steel #peter nureyev

[theres-whump-in-that-nebula]

Just applied for a summer childcare position (like for a camp type thing) that pays 20–28 dollars an hour based on qualifications (I should be towards the end of that scale because I work in a school; and the only requirement the job lists is to be 16 and have experience with children). So hopefully they’ll consider me. That would be wonderful.

#I hate applying for jobs so much. Everyone uses a different website that makes you sign up for newsletters that clog your email #that you have to manually unsubscribe to #But yeah that’s way more than I get paid as a para lol #which is kind of sad because being a para or teacher is a lot more strenuous and complex than supervising kids during structured play #Because usually the kids enjoy stuff like rock climbing and swimming #so you don’t have to guide them through ten different layers of mental gymnastics to complete their work #or sometimes physically keep them from leaving the learning area after every problem they complete #(of course I do the last thing very gently; and I don’t like having to carry kids from under tables back to their seats #but they’re not going to learn anything if they stay underneath tables all day long… that kind of defeats the purpose of being in school. #I give a lot of verbal warnings before too. Some kids just refuse to learn all the time regardless of their mood because it’s funny to them #Anyway: Kids should not be playing video games past bedtime on a fucking Oculus Rift #Like seriously the tech withdrawal in some of these babies is palpable #Horrifying #Anyway this summer job will be a breeze if I get it #Hopefully no one will be begging me for chromebooks during rock climbing #(I know it sounds like I’m irritated with the kids; and I am. But it’s more irritation with their parents letting them become addicted #to iPads for the sake of convenience; and also frustration directed at capitalism that makes the parents so tired #that they let the iPad babysit their kids so they can rest. It’s the whole system man. It’s fucked.)

[xysidhequeen]

Be careful with these treats, or we'll have you pre-releasing the entire chapter bit by bit 😉

Speaking of, that last bit is suuuuuper cute! I think my favorite picture is Jason and Dani being chased. I can just imagine those two being chaos gremlins together 😆

I saw a thing that said the real joy of puns is not laughter but the pain of others, and I really couldn't deny the truth of it.

I've seen one or two Dick/Jazz on AO3, but I think that's about it. One I liked a lot was them meeting in the parenting section of a library (bookstore?) and then having coffee to talk about parenting their younger brothers (Dick had guardianship of Damien because Bruce was missing).

Just to add my name to the list, I've also re-read THAHRK an amount of times that I don't care to own up to. It's wonderful 💜

Hahaha alright I'll keep the rest under wraps. There's still a ton that's been hidden so plenty of surprises (also a lot more Dead On Main)

I was so happy writing the picture part. It made me feel so soft! Jason and Dani have a cute relationship, very much a sibling vibe (and Jason utterly adores being a big brother) I like throwing in hints of it here and there. They cause so much chaos together (and property damage)

That is so true. I love making people groan. One of the few things I miss about my old job is we had a chat and I managed to get my entire team into a pun battle. It was glorious. (We also did riddles. I got banned cause I kept answering them too fast)

I'm about to scour AO3 for those fics right now. The library one sounds so amazing! (Maybe when Red Knight is done, I'll write a little one shot of Dick and Jazz doing cute couple things) I love rare pairs. And also Batfam x Phanteam ships.

Ahsudhag WHY ARE YOU ALL CONSPIRING TODAY TO MAKE ME CRY?? I love all of you who read Red Knight you're so sweet. I still will never understand why people like my writing so much, but as long as it makes at least one person smile, I'm happy :)

#xy answers #tkahrk au #tkahrk #the king and his red knight au #the king and his red knight #danny phantom au #dp x dc crossover #dpxdc #dc x dp #danny phantom #dp x dc #in this you can see a writer getting as flustered as a schoolgirl learning her crush likes her back #it makes me all warm and fuzzy inside when i find out people like my writing #i love fandom especially the very niche dpxdc fandom because everyone is so so nice #youre all beautiful wonderful people and i do not deserve any of you but youre all mine now i love you #im literally stimming in my seat rn because im so happy and getting interaction #im hoping I can wrap up part 14 soon to give to all of you cause theres so much I havent shared that makes it a really fun chapter #also an emotional one #hah it has funnies and ouchies

[soldez]

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#i have to say this somewhere or im gonna go crazy #so at a preschool. you HAVE to have one adult sitting at every table when kids are eating. and you also need a person in the hall #for kids getting their lunchboxes and going to the bathroom and shit ok. are you with me here. this makes sense #so today. my 2 coworkers had already taken the chairs bc i got caught up in the hall but i was so fucking hungry that i just ate standing u #which was fine. like i could just put my lunch down if someone needed my help and i Did that ok it was fine. no one was left alone #but later at SNACKTIME. it took me forever to get these 2 kids in the room and seated ready to eat & by the time i got in some kids were #already finished and ready to go to the playroom. so i was like ok i guess I'm not eating for the latter half of the day because they cant #be left alone. and my 2 coworkers at this point were sitting with the snackers and they looked fine so i looked after the Players #intermittently glancing to the snack tables to make sure everyone was fine mind you #So what happened here was. #There was a 20 second interval between the time i glanced up to see 2 adults at the snack table. And the time i glanced up to see #a completely unsupervised snack table. one kid STANDING UP ON THE TABLE blowing raspberries and pointing at the other kids #could not have been more than 20 or 30 seconds that i wasn't looking and NO ONE TOLD ME they were leaving the room #if i had been WARNED that they were leaving i would have prioritized the snackers and sat with them so no one choked and no one fucking #stood on the table #but they both just left for whatever reason without saying anything #and when i brought it up after school they were just like. well marty you were eating too much during lunch #next time you should eat before coming in to work so you can give the kids your full attention #??????? i already skipped a meal today for that exact reason?? how is it my fault that i don't want to starve? #am i actually in the wrong here because it's driving me FUCKING nuts. that was NOT a safe situation and it obviously can NOT happen again #but the issue was a lapse in communication not me wanting to eat food so i don't actually die #and those were two different times of day so they're not even relevant #obviously there are bigger issues in the world than this but i feel like throwing up over it. this was not my fault #I'm sorry that you guys can survive off of like 1 spoonful of granola and a single acai berry for the entire day but im not built like that

[mumblelard]

green man's grimace or a requiem for bunny

i told myself i would turn back at the end of the old farm road. i wanted to beat the rain home, but there i was nodding my head to that kuromy album and next i knew i was looking at the creek just this side of sandy springs. i had to run my errands all muddy with my hair wet and curled like forman's mom's worst perm

#pareidolia #bacchanalia #thalium #et alia #i saw a turtle in the wetlands #rambles #i knocked over your nightstand #back seats #i tried to find post modern oreos for finnie but there was a hole in the shelf where they maybe were supposed to have been #rivers #kuromy #bad dream #steal me sum candy #the top of the stairwell affords a view of an alley where day laborers swap stories drink and break beer bottles againsta stained brick wal #clouds #vandalism #river weed #fasts #fugue states #i'm going to try giving up herrs buffalo blue cheese curls and also despair #north fulton county #georgia

[ayrennaranaaldmeri]

people with their fave's extra hours of dialogue and double the romance scenes claiming the char in question wasn't l*rian's writers' pet... I can't this is a stupid fucking hill to die on and that is objectively provable there is a reddit thread where someone literally did the maths. You are just wrong and you need to shut up.

#tbd #(1) one character in bg3 got more romance content than eeeeveryone else by a pretty vast margin #a clown who works at l*rian literally admitted to the blatant favouritism what more do you need #a clown i might add who in their own words #was the narrative design LEAD who worked with individual character writers to plan and develop storylines :^) #and magically only had time for the (1) one character who you keep insisting isn't a writer's pet #as if writing all those extra interactions wasn't giving more work to everyone down that pipeline during crunch lmfao #which is even more irresponsible #but soo many people at l*rian just let that happen lmfao #i love how it's like 'BUT THE STATS SAID' #it's only proving the fucking point my dude #the stats in both early access and full release said a certain couple of chars were the most popular to romance #meanwhile both those characters only got half the potentially romantic scenes the writers' pet did #(1) character got preferential writing over ALL the others for the durge romance like jesus christ #'more talked about than your fave' my god shut up you cretins #like shut the fuck up and sit the fuck down #you can get a seat at the table of people who have every right to bitch when l*rian writes in more romance scenes so it's six for EVERYONE. #and all those fucking extra wittle durge interactions #EXIST FOR EVERYONE ELSE #and now i go back to my hiatus bc this site is bad for my blood pressure #fandom wank #bg3 critical

[andy-clutterbuck]

5x15 | Try

#whose bed have your boots been under #Rick Grimes #* #rg #S5 #ok linking it the other day made me want to gif it bigger so everyone's just gonna have to deal thank you #happy sinday babes #it's nice that you took up painting your jeans on richard #imagine rick controlling his cowboy daddy swagger #sounds fake #is this seat taken? #bout to refurbish my legs as a hula hoop #watching him walk is like when kaa does his snake hypno thing in the jungle book #put that tie to good use #look at his lil bowlegs #I'd wear his thighs like a scarf tbh #he's so well proportioned stab me with a rake #oh to just rest your head on his thigh and relax #Rick Give Me Head Til I'm Dead Grimes #...and whose heart did you steal i wonder

[cheeziswin]

not to be dramatic but I think this trend of people proudly refusing to give up their assigned seat on a plane so that family can sit together is a pretty perfect example of how individualized things have become and how happy people are to refuse to be even slightly kind to others.

I'm not talking niche situations either, I'm not going to bring up all the reasons it could be necessary for parents to NEED to sit next to their children - though those are obviously also important and even more reason to be kind. I'm also not going to mention how shady airlines are with how they can fuck up assigned seats or charge more for seats beside each other. I'm just talking plain families or couples wanting to sit together. it's not entitled for them to ask. they'd be entitled if they started throwing a fit if you say no.

I'd argue that the person refusing to give up their seat comes across much more entitled than anyone else in the situation - especially when they go on twitter to brag about it. "but wahhh it woulda been a middle seat" okay? you're incapable of sucking it up for a few hours so someone can sit beside their loved one? more power to you, jackass. everyone's so proud of you that you can't stand to slightly inconvenience yourself just to do something nice for someone else.

and, because this is the internet, and I suspect some dumbass will probably waltz in here with their obscure little justification for them not moving as some kinda gotcha - I'm saying this in advance; this isn't about you. move on.

#i dont understand why this is something I'm seeing so often? #you're such an inconsiderate pussy that you can't sit somewhere else for a few hours to make someone else happy? and you're PROUD of that? #no no one is making you give up the seat. you don't have to. you bought the ticket so that's your seat. #im not saying that people HAVE to give up their seat when someone asks #im just saying - if a family wants to sit together and your ONLY reason for saying no is 'butidunwanna' then I think less of you as a perso #it's Absolutely pissing me off lmfao #anywayyyssss #knick they knacks

[krash-8]

this girl in front of me won’t stop humming and i don’t wanna ask her to cuz i think it’s a neurodivergent thing but i swear if she doesn’t stop on her own my neurodivergent thing is about to be killing

#accidentally bumped her chair with my skateboard #and ironically enough she hates it #hypocrite ugh i was stimming too :/ #guess SHES not afraid to be an asshole #well guess who hates your bitch ass humming every day of the week #and she fucking sits with me everywhere #she doesn’t even know me she’s just #placed there???? coincidentally #and does not. stop. humming. it’s not even a songit’s #mmmmfmfmmsmsmfmfmmmmmfmfmdmmmhmmhmhmhmmmmhhhh #she probably can’t help it but she can stop occasionally #and idk how to ask #and i really want her to ugh i just don’t want her to flip out on me? cuz she’s the type #i am going to kill everyone in this room #i kept tapping her seat with my board so when she asked me to stop it would be then appropriate for me to ask her to stop as well #but idk if that’s mean or not #i just want her to shut tf up #she just moved and went STOP 😡 #won’t even give me a chance #also accidentally glared at her whoops #after she did that #i’m pissed #autism vs autism

[cave-monkey]

Monkey King 2009 Episode 3

Them having Stone Monkey (apparently purely on instinct) constantly scratching while being introduced to the troop was pretty cool, since that's a legitimate deescalation behavior in monkeys. Something about how revealing stress acts as a bonding behavior and makes it less likely they'll be attacked. Humans do it too, kind of, when they rub at their hands or shoulders or neck (etc. etc.) when nervous or overwhelmed. ("Empathize with me! I am very stressed!").

Also something-something instinctive behaviors aside Stone Monkey being excited/overwhelmed/maybe a little overstimulated and choosing "ESCALATION!!!" as his response to all of that. He thinks the troop being scared of him is hilarious. He's scratching the fur off his arms but he's also going to get right up in your face anyway. Cautiously join him in admiring his cool new rock? He is going to play-lunge and also scream. Absolutely amazing. The troop has no idea what to do with these mixed signals. This kid is a menace and I love him.

Six Ears even gets in on the scratching behavior occasionally in the background, which might be because Stone Monkey actively terrorizing literally everyone trying to be playful (because he has the social skills of a literal, actual rock) is stressing Six Ears right out or it could be an attempt to deescalate on Stone Monkey's behalf. Monkey version of following in his new friend's wake throwing apologetic grimace-smiles at everyone. Possibly it's both. Point is: They included these behaviors and it's very fun.

You can also tell it worked because in just the journey to the cave you watch the four generals' views on Stone Monkey go from "uncanny valley horror entity lurking in the forest probably to kill us all" to "what a rude little kid >:| Emphasis on RUDE."

And, okay, I admit, I have softened my stance on the four generals. Somewhat. They seem to actually be taking their jobs seriously now. Maybe Episode 1 was a wake-up call and they won't utterly fail to notice an incursion until it's in the heart of their territory again. I don't want to go too crazy, but maybe they'll even be able to even muster a coherent response! Good for them.

Should probably still not be managing children, though.

Speaking of, Six Ears's increasing despair watching the train wreck in motion that was the four generals fumbling hard in giving Stone Monkey his very first etiquette lesson after he finally settled down and seemed willing to hear them out is also very relatable and hilarious. He knows they failed the test. Stone Monkey is definitely never going to listen to them again. They blew it. RIP Flower Fruit Mountain.

Stone Monkey does check in with Six Ears when he decides the generals are useless about explaining though, and that's pretty cute. He trusts his friend :) He also definitely internalizes that thing about having to ask to leave the presence of the king, so at least they managed to teach him some manners. ONE manners. A single manner. (Spoiler: They immediately regret this.)

But hey! This time Six Ears is left entirely to his own devices and still manages to get caught smack in the middle of enemy action. Not the Generals' fault for once! Six Ears just attracts this kind of thing, I guess.

3/3 Six Ears is Damsel-ed, but only 2/3 it's the adults' fault. The tally develops.

#also not gonna lie I first thought stone monkey might have hella fleas. he still might to be honest. someone check up on that. #mhw09 personal #squinting at old monkey king pretending to be asleep this episode #my guy you were definitely ACTUALLY out of it in episode 1 don't you be acting like you weren't #you passed out in the middle of an invasion and almost got your kid killed #the fact you managed to make it to your seat BEFORE you passed out so you could pretend you were just too cool for the LITERAL INVASION #doesn't mean a dang thing. you're not fooling me. #also. stop that. you are giving the troop SEVERELY mixed signals #I am easing up a liiiittle more on the generals since it seems the old monkey king is actively hiding and obfuscating the severity of his #condition from the very people who are presumably meant to help him shoulder the burden of leading the troop #no wonder they don't take him fretting about his age seriously: he's turning it into a joke himself #considering episode 1 and then here and also how much more energetic he seemed in episode 2 #I'm headcanoning (if this isn't just straight up canon) that old monkey king has good days and bad days #but you can't tell which he's having because he uses his good days to turn all his bad day low energy behaviors #into games. it's all DELIBERATE guys. he's keeping you on your TOES. he isn't LITERALLY DYING- #hiding his weakness makes perfect sense on the *whole* in keeping his troop from panic and insecurity. maybe. #but it's not smart that he's even letting his generals believe it #they're still not off the hook for throwing a kid out to face the horror movie monster they were convinced was living in the woods though! #and it's no excuse for being THAT negligent in their duties and then their straight-up professional incompetence in episode 1 #they let themselves get rusty and put everyone in danger and that's on them #but not being as much of a help to their king as they should be maybe isn't so much their fault #if they're being lied to about how much the old monkey king can actually handle. BY the old monkey king. #I GUESS #dang this troop is a total mess. I love it.

[andthebeanstalk]

i love that you are still here on this earth. i am relieved that we've both made it this far. and i am so, so happy to be here on this planet with you. thank you for that.

#original #this is bc i wrote a super long post about mental health and ableism and saved it to my drafts after finishing it bc it is #intense enough to give it a breather and a second look before posting it #it started as an angry thing about suicide and ableism but ended in a long beautiful monologue that basically can be summed up w this post #which is. ya know. actually a really good sign for my overall mental health. just... considering how those topics used to spiral me #like send me into a downward mental spiral to a dangerous degree. this is way way better. (if almost as time-consuming lol) #but also i may have literally just been repeating another post i've made so #idk #but anyway thank you for being here. please stay alive bc in 20 years i am going to have a party and you are invited #i am saving you a seat just like all the other kind folks you could meet in that time if you don't run into me specifically #but you need to be alive to be able to go bc I don't think ghosts exist and i definitely can't see them if they do #so you gotta try your best okay? just like you've been doing. hold on. be brave. and i'll try to do the same. #because baby i'm going to that fucking party. #and it is going to RULE but it will be so much better if you're there too.