#glamorousacademia

[belleboncheri]

Traveling Fashion & Entertainment lawyer✨🌸

My new career goal is to be a traveling fashion, entertainment, intellectual property, and sports lawyer. I think people sign so many bad contracts and I want to help aid young models, authors, sports players, and musicians all arts.

#black femininity #black glamour #glamorousacademia #blackgirlswhoblog #educated black women #agracefulbelle #soft black women #soft black girls #jetset lifestyle

[yinlotus]

All this time, I’ve been wondering what my blog's theme was since it was academia with black luxury/high-value/level up content and then @imanthehistorian came in like an angel and created glamorous academia. i'm a glamorous academia blog now

#academia #black academia #glamorous academia #romantic academia #glamorousacademia

[belleboncheri]

The feminine urge to fall in love with the color pink.

#agracefulbelle #black femininity #soft black girls #glamorousacademia #soft black women

[belleboncheri]

Stop trying to humble yourself or downgrade yourself to make other people feel better. That isn’t right. You are smart. You are educated. You are full. You are enough. You are worthy. Who told you that you were anything less than amazing, not God. So stop. Stop downgrading yourself as a daughter of God. That is rude to downgrade the masterpiece that is his creation. God said he created us in his image. Why would we knock that firm building down because other outside forces tried to blow our house down. No pick back up or just turn around and see that your house is still standing. You’re still standing. You still are reigning queen. Don’t forget it!!

#agracefulbelle #black femininity #soft black girls #soft black women #a graceful belle word for today🕊🌸 #glamorousacademia #christian femininity #a daughters calling ministry #agracefulbellemotivation

[belleboncheri]

I am reclaiming my desired relationship!! I almost gave up hope but I am too young to be giving up on love. I desire to be a wife and divine partner one day. I am a divine feminine and I will have the love of my dreams. I’m not settling and I have strategy. I will win this battle for a true love. I hope to give inspiration to you about keeping your standards high and not settling but not giving up hope and faith that it takes to get what you want. Which is the best 🥂💜 — A Graceful Belle

#black girls in luxury #black glamorous academia #the glamorousacademia #glamorousacademia #agracefulbelle

[belleboncheri]

This is not a matter of whether not you are capable to do it, it’s whether or not you will do it. It’s up to you darling. The ball is in your court. You can call the shots hunny. God is giving you permission to rewrite the narrative of this next chapter of life. You can change if you want to. You can grow. Give yourself permission to grow beloved. It’s time to make dynamic change hunny.

#agracefulbelle #black femininity #soft black girls #glamorousacademia #soft black women #a graceful belle word for today🕊🌸 #agracefulbellemotivation #christian femininity #a daughters calling ministry

[belleboncheri]

Start prioritizing wellness above all else please.

#black femininity #agracefulbelle #a graceful belle word for today🕊🌸 #agracefulbelle leisure🥂🧘🏽‍♀️ #glamorousacademia

[belleboncheri]

What are you willing to compromise?

In love relationships there is always a need for compromise. We live in a society that says zero compromise, but I think we are forgetting the importance of true “language”

Zero compromise is not me saying no to your high standards. No, have high standards. That’s where we do not settle for the bare minimum and our high standards are ones that align with our values and morals. But compromising is when preferences are different than standards. Standards are the line and preferences are the design. You may not get the design but you do get that perfect line. If you want what’s perfect for you, you get someone who is aligned with you, your values, and morals. I think the last persons I dated never aligned with my true values well they acted as if they were in alignment with my values and morals. However, ideally they did not match my standards when they were put through the vetting process. So I did not compromise my values or morals when it came to these suitors but I did compromise the design/preferences I have.

When I aimed for a relationship that was the preferences and the values and morals I messed it up because I compromised our shared values and morals. This is the issue. The issue isn’t that he didn’t “fit” the part. The issue lied in the fact that I did not uphold my standards for myself. This is a part of truth that I feel like is the hardest to face. I can only speak for myself but I know a lot of people could relate if they have the soul to change rather than a mind stuck on one thing and ears stuck to their own detachment from reality.

This is a hard pill to swallow, the pill that we all make mistakes so when we talk about compromise we have to bring up that—

Look at yourself in the mirror: Ask—

what areas do you need grace in? What areas do you need an understanding heart, mind, and soul to empathize or at least sympathize what you’re going through?

So back to my first question, what are you willing to compromise? When it comes to relationships, our dream relationships we typically despise the idea of letting go a piece of that master piece. But we want a collaborative piece from both artists when it comes to making a relationship. This is not a one size fits all kind of thing darlings. We want real vibrant, authentically beautiful, joy-filled love. That is healed and sealed. Signed, sealed and delivered to be yours…

For example, I’ll show you a couple of things I’m willing to compromise.

Now mind you, no one likes compromising. Like Eartha Kitt literally laughed at the idea of compromising for a man.

But if we really want a healthy love, we won’t have restrictive love environments. We will have to cultivate a space that allows the ability to breathe.

So boom here we go…

What is a Graceful Belle willing to compromise…

Time. If my man is a hard working man, I understand that time is something I will have to sacrifice. I may not be able to have him to myself all the time. But he is doing what a man is supposed to do, work hard. This isn’t isolating because as a powerful woman, I’m working hard too. So it’s a partnership in conquering the world ya know? Lol. This is a joint effort to empower the next generation. So that one-on-one time is something I will sacrifice for his goals to be met and for my own goals to be met. Of course in the beginning of the relationships you will need that time to build. But I think it’s better when you are letting both parties build an amazing empire because they are both kings and queens. Now not every relationship is a king and queen relationship. Now I’m getting into my Glamorous Academia type of content because I’m really teaching right now. Lol!

That’s just one example.

I pray that this blog post can really set someone free from their past ideologies so they can truly get what they want 😂

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[belleboncheri]

Eunoia— Greek word meaning A pure & well-balanced mind, a good spirit. “Beautiful Thing”

#black femininity #black glamour #glamorousacademia #agracefulbelle

[belleboncheri]

Welcome to a Graceful Belle blog—

This is a blog and platform for all ladies who aspire to be the best version of their unique divine femininity. This femininity is not something that is one size fits all. Femininity has many variations because women are not monolithic. This blog is catered to Christian black women being that I am writing from a Christian black woman perspective. However, this is a platform for all women because we can all learn from one another.

I am taking my time with developing this blog because I am letting God lead me with what I post. But this is the message I felt lead to give today.

It is Abba, Father’s good pleasure to give us the kingdom of Heaven. He wants to coronate all of his daughters but we must first let go of our past and take the next step to our future. I just made a very big decision for the life I am choosing for myself. I am living my life one second at a time. I believe that God gives us time to grow.

I’m taking this time to grow and I pray we all may learn with one another as I grow into this young lady that I have been working to become for five years before now. I’m soon to be entering my 20s and I’m glad that I’ve been making the strategic decisions to invest in my womanhood and choices for the past five years. Truthfully my story is a long one and it will have to be taken note of and learned from. But now I am rewriting the narrative for my benefit. I implore you to pick up the pen and paper to rewrite your story as well.

#black femininity #black women in femininity #femininity #Christian femininity #soft black women #soft black girls #glamorousacademia

[belleboncheri]

Runaway

Sometimes I just want to run away. Runaway from all the promises God has for me because I know for much is given, much is required. The weight that comes with being a chosen daughter of God and understanding the responsibility that comes with it.

Matthew 11:28-30 New International Version

28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

Amen ament and aments

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[belleboncheri]

Daily Bread by ya local black girl podcaster lol just kidding! This is A Daughter’s Calling Ministry podcast episode 1. Please check it out! Good for everyday tuning in because we do a prayer, devotional, and reading of scripture everyday. Developing that spiritual habit is so necessary to our growth in faith then in life overall.

What is God trying to change in your life and why are you resisting the change?

#black girls in luxury #black luxury #glamorousacademia #luxury #luxury lifestyle #agracefulbelle #black femininity #black girl magic #soft black girls #divine feminine #divine timing #christian femininity #Christian influencer #a daughters calling #a daughters calling ministry #glamourous academia #a graceful belle #a graceful belle prayers #agracefulbelleselfcare #a graceful belle word for today 🥂💜 #a graceful belle affirmations #Spotify

[belleboncheri]

333--Biblical Numerology

First thing that came to my mind is, God the Father, The Son, and The Holy Spirit also how JESUS came into his ministry predictably at the age of 33. THIS IS SO PROFOUND AND IT GETS EVEN MORE RICH.

My Research shows the following:

"Multiple threes (333) are used in Biblical discussions of the Promised Land. Although the phrase "land flowing with milk and honey" is referenced three times previously (Exodus 3:8, 17, 13:5), Exodus 33:3 is the first time God commands the Israelites to begin their journey to their inheritance. The phrase "milk and honey," used twenty times in the Old Testament, describes the exceptional fertility and beauty of the land God promised."

When you run away from your assignment But God still makes you stay on the right path. Remember this, remember that even Jesus went through affliction and asked God to take this cup of affliction away from him but God the son, Jesus knew that the will of the Lord must be done. So Jesus said let your will be done. Then it was done. It only took three days for God to perform this most powerful miracle of history, raising up Jesus from death with all power in his hands.

THIS IS THE POINT--

"Jonah was in the belly of the whale THREE days and THREE nights, in like manner the Son of man shall be in the heart of the earth THREE days and THREE nights (Matthew 12:40)."

33rd verse of Ezekiel 33 (3333) is God's declaration that a day of reckoning will come to all those who pretend to love the Lord but deny him in their hearts and in their works.

It does not matter whether or not you are perfect.

Jesus loves you. God the Father loves you so much. The Holy Spirit loves the chosen ones. Many are called but few are chosen remember? This is the point. The point is that no matter what beloved, you are declared sought after by God. God leaves the 99 in search for the one that was lost. God celebrates when a daughter of God comes back after being afflicted and tried through the fire. (I said daughters because this blog is for the ladies period)

"They will be called the Holy People, the Redeemed of the LORD; and you will be called Sought After, the City No Longer Deserted." Isaiah 62:12 NIV

Cross Reference-- Zion will be restored by justice; those who repent will be revived by righteousness." Isaiah 1:27 NLT

#agracefulbelle #black femininity #soft black girls #glamorousacademia #soft black women #christian femininity #biblical numerology #a daughters calling ministry

[belleboncheri]

Noir & Blanc

My Aesthetic off of the first several pictures on my Pinterest when I opened it up lol.

#black femininity #black glamour #glamorousacademia #black and white #black girls in luxury #agracefulbelle

[belleboncheri]

God is doing a new thing yall!! I am so excited!!

#agracefulbelle #agracefulbelleluxury #agracefulbellemotivation #soft black girls #girly academia #glamorousacademia #black femininity