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[handypolymath]

Tony was chewing at the leash before IM1, which is why Obie was okay with cashing him in, even though it meant killing the golden goose.

But then Tony not only survives, he comes back harder to control, and not in the way he’d previously been difficult (ditching the award ceremony to play craps, needing regular check-ins and emotional work). Now Obie realizes he can’t read him, Tony’s traumatized restraint isn’t a petulant mood he can literally handle him out of--when Obie tries, it only makes Tony more distant. Instead of having to cajole him into making presentations, Obie now has to distract him from taking too much interest in the business and making decisions without his counsel. Suddenly Tony’s keeping projects and parts of his house secret from him, defending boundaries all over.

This pushback puts Obie on the back foot more than the failed assassination did, and he decompensates and escalates into physical abuse pretty quickly. In the context of Obie being there to pick up the pieces after Maria and Howard died, you really get how insidious that guy’s been since Tony was a (vulnerable grieving) teenager.

It doesn’t work anymore because Tony’s spent weeks of intense quality time with Ho Yinsen, MD.

Yinsen repairs Tony’s heart, and puts a shield around it. Yinsen asks Tony simple questions that have very profound answers. Yinsen demonstrates calm abiding heroism, and the confidence that Tony is also capable of it. Yinsen does all of this while deeply grieving his family. A gifted surgeon, a man of faith, a father and husband, and someone with more love, compassion, true optimism, and mentorship in his little finger than Obie’s ever faked.

And it’s increasingly, painfully, creepily obvious to Tony way before he learns of the real betrayal.

#my meta #ho yinsen #tony stark #gobeahero #parenting

[carterhaughs]

Going to the zoo, but make it fashion

#i had SO MUCH FUN and then slept for like 12 hrs lol it was exhausting #definitely returning in the future #hi tag #posted a bunch of animal pics on twitter @gobeahero if you want to meet all the little friends i made

[marisavalkyrie]

THE MOST LIKED PHOTOS OF @lerowaclothing (IG); benefits mental health awareness; GO BUY!!!! #mentalhealth #anxiety #depression #belgië #gobeahero ❤️❤️🖤🖤👏🏼👏🏼Xx

[nalaliaromanova]

                                                   so you say we are damned.                                                               so what? I ask.                                            so the sun dies in five billion years.                                                            so we die in fifty.                                         what is five billion years to an eternity?                                               what is a lifetime to an eternity? 

                                                      so they are the same.                                                        so we are damned.                               so our stars will die long before the end of forever.                                                     so I love you either way.

#brucenatweek #hulkwidownet #hulkwidowedit #brucenatedit #gobeahero #mine #((lmao im sorry i tagged u kat bc whenever i think of them i remember your metas)) #filed in: alex tried #i think i did my best? #pls be proud of me i made this in 4hrs and i havent eaten lunch yet im a nerd right #i just watched cacw for the 2nd time yesterday and i was really thinking of bruce #seriously where in the world is he #brucenat #hulkwidow #brutasha #lmao here's to the ppl that will also unfollow me after i post this #why so salty #words #long post tw #anw THIS WAS SUPPOSED TO BE HD WTF AGAIN TUMBLR #update: i edited the words bc it's so messy lmao i was trying to look minimal

[morganandcarol]

thanks for the gifset; it's beautiful! can't wait to see them interact again!

You’re welcome! Glad you liked it! :) And yes, hopefully there will be more interaction between them in future episodes. 

#replies #gobeahero

[quicksiluers]

gobeahero replied to your post: firstenchantervivienne replied to your...

I love how the trailer didn’t give away the whole movie. I hate when trailers do that

I love that too!!! star wars doesn’t need to sell the whole movie because disney and lucas film know that we are all gonna go see it anyway and keep the surprises for the theater! :)

#gobeahero #replies #ali talks #that's why we have to investigate and speculate hahahaha #but it's fun!

[audrey-lim]

gobeahero replied to your photoset

best tags

the things that come to me while giffing....bruce has definitely been alarmed at least once in bed when a door bangs and wakes her up and of course she’s prepared for any eventuality and is wide-awake with a gun pointed in the general direction of the threatening noise and he’s just ??? where did that come from? 

#gobeahero #lauren replies #if you prod me about previous tags be expecting that there will be things i /didn't/ say #which i will then say to you in a reply #it's a curse of mine

[carterhaughs]

I keep wanting to type “Wasteland, Baby!” As “Wasteland, Babey!” This website has ruined me lmfao

#hozier would support this though #in other news im among the top candidates for that library position thank god but they dont know when theyre going to host interviews #and i found out it can take up to five weeks for barnes and noble to review job apps #so ill just volunteer while i wait and keep looking #anyway im over on twitter if you need me since most people only pay attention to my meta here #ill have some more book reviews soon and fic #but for the most part no one pays attention to those either... #but when i have something worthwhile sharing ill post it here #within the next few days i should #im @gobeahero on twitter

[nalaliaromanova]

ohmygod i just flooded mark’s ask for answertime this is so embarassing iM SO SORRY MARK RUFFALO

#alex speaks #by 'flooded' i mean 3 questions #here's hoping he answers it #*prays* PLEASE ANSWER i lov e u so much #gobeahero #im sobbign #me @ mark: NOTICE ME SENPAI

[galentines]

I'm genuinely not very worried bc critics and general audiences like brucenat. everyone I know irl enjoyed it, and it's funny seeing all the angry tweets on twitter with people saying their friends and family liked it and how pissed they are bc of it. what are you afraid will happen?

I DONT EVEN KNOW I JUST HAVE TRUST ISSUES

#gobeahero

[gael-garcia]

gobeahero replied to your post: (Their little roleplay banter in the b...

im HONORED

ARE YOU KIDDING OF COURSE I’LL QUOTE YOU

#gobeahero #reply

[morganandcarol]

Have you made a parallel between Morgan saying "Here's not here" and Carol telling Mary "You're not here. Neither am I," in Terminus? :)

Here you go! This is a great parallel, I haven’t seen a gifset like this in tags. Kind of expanded your idea a bit. :) Thank you for suggesting this! 

#replies #gobeahero