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#gold star is bullshit
ffcrazy15 · 7 months
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"Oh so when James Kirk refuses to believe in no-win scenarios it's 'changing the conditions of the test' and 'commendable original thinking,' but when I, Bradward Boimler, can't accept the possibility of failure and retake the Kobiyashi Maru sixteen times–"
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lesbianfakir · 12 days
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Is there like a thing. For being a lesbian but being attracted to fictional men. Certain fictional men are so lovely in theory and they have all the qualities id be attracted to in a partner but then thinking about dating a real man? Yuck yuck yuck no thank you. Perhaps I need to change my url to repressedbisexualfakir
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just a reminder that star wars: the clone wars 2003 (2D microseries) exists
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filmnoirsbian · 2 years
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so u bisexual? because lesbians do not fuck men
Fun fact! Some lesbians don't say "ah, I'm a dyke!" at 13 or whatever. Some of us spend years ignoring our attraction to women and trying to convince ourselves that it's just normal straight girl bestie things <3 and get black out drunk to have terrible sex with men because we're convinced everyone is lying about how nice sex feels and really we're just supposed to lie there and think of england or whatever until we're in our 20s and fall in love with our best friend to the point where we can no longer ignore it because somehow ignoring it and not being in love with them would be worse than being gay and oh wow actually that obsession with avril lavigne makes a lot more sense now in hindsight
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iwaasfairy · 1 year
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I’m gonna start exposing all the dumb shit people say on my fics, bc if I have to suffer you should at least get some entertainment out of it
exhibit 012:
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Don’t blame the writer for your inability to properly check a blog and it’s content?? if you’re so uncaring about where you consume content from that you can’t even manage a quick scan of their pINNED POST or even BIO?? then I have absolutely no pity for you. that’s incredibly dumb
you probably also believe the onion articles huh
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boglady · 10 months
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As much as I personally prefer being specific in my language and appreciate that terms like “wlw” and “queer” exists as broad, inclusive categories, it sort of bums me out to see that there’s a tendency now to push back against any and all uses of lesbian as an umbrella term. The suggestion that bi women are not subject to lesbian stereotyping, don’t wear lesbian clothing and don’t get lesbian married might just seem like harmless pedantry to some, but it’s reaally hard not to perceive it as an exclusionary tactic.
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deer-knight · 2 years
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Are you a Gold Star lesbian? (Just in case you don't know what it means, a Gold Star lesbian is a lesbian that has never had the sex with a guy and would never have any intentions of ever doing so)
hey, hey, c'mere. listen. listen buddy. i've seen this ask go around a few times. i wanna tell ya somethin. fuck off.
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rainboq · 2 years
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Do you think Chloe was written as a lesbian from the begining?
Considering that there's concept of her in a surplus canvas jacket with a rainbow shirt? I think she was always written as being some form of queer, and given that she's very obviously based on Emma from Blue is the Warmest Colour? I think labeling her as a lesbian is pretty damn easy.
And yes, Chloe had sex with some guys, she's not a gold star, big fucking whoop, that doesn't make her any less of one.
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terfs have RUINED good old-fashioned manhating
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jewishfalin · 1 year
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Tbh I think no matter what, any policing of identity does more harm than anything and is absolutely useless in the long run.
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limeade-l3sbian · 1 year
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I was a gold star tomboy growing up (tomboy with zero male friends).
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I'm not talking about Hetrosexuals. I'm talking about YOU.
If you have a source, A RELIABLE SOURCE LIKE A HISTORICAL DOCUMENT, then I will drop this whole thing and get off your blog. You have a right to call me an idiot if you can give me a source.
Me bitch, I'm the source, I am a gold star lesbian who has lived through the last few decades of lesbophobia directed especially at gold star lesbians. If the testimony of an actual gold star lesbian, and the hundreds of other gold star lesbians on this blog, isn’t good enough for you then I doubt anything else will be. I have the right to call you an idiot if you’re out here being some bisexual male-centric loud mouth acting like they got some sort of holy duty to shout over actual lesbians talking about our actual lesbian experiences. You gonna get off my blog because I'm blocking your lesbophobic ass.
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queer-love-4-women · 2 years
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Lesbians have bodily and sexual autonomy as much as anyone else! They can have sex with whoever they like for whatever their reasons and its not any of your business
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roslina-w-bagnie · 3 months
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i swear to god i want to break the fucking wizards face against a brick wall so much rn. APPARENTLY if you dont actively discourage gale at all points in the game, even if its just once that youre not strictly against it, HE'LL DECIDE TO PERSUE THE CROWN AND BECOME A FUCKING GOD.
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i am so fucking angry right now. because its my second playthrough and the first i actually gave a shit about him and actually romanced him.
ok, to be fair im someone who really gets into roleplaying and it can affect me deeply on a personal level, but the moment the love of my durge's live just up and walked away and he made this face????
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my heart fucking broke yall. fucking wizards
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svartalfhild · 6 months
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Elf Lore in the Forgotten Realms for BG3 Players who are Unfamiliar
I've been seeing some...uninformed takes lately about certain elf characters from BG3, so let me just throw some stuff out there for y'all to consider.
Elves in FR live to be about 750.
They physically mature at roughly the same rate as humans i.e. 18-20.
Culturally, elves don't consider other elves emotionally mature i.e. adults until the age of 100, at which point they may choose an adult name to go by.
What does this mean, logically? Well, consider their very long lifespan. If you are going to live 750 years, your perspective on wisdom is going to be quite different from a human's. While 60 years might be plenty mature for a human, for an elf, that means you still haven't had enough time to watch all of your shorter lived friends pass, which I imagine is something of an emotional milestone for elves.
Halsin is 350. This means he's just hitting middle-age.
Astarion is 239 (Idle Champions claims he's 350, but I call bullshit because his birth and death dates are literally in BG3 and also IC frequently gives the characters bullshit ages, like they say Jaheira is 36, which couldn't have been true even during BG1). He died at 39, which is quite young, but he had the same emotional maturity as a human 39 year old at the time, so he's not Like That because he's undeveloped. He's Like That because he's a snapshot of a privileged young nobleman who then spent 200 years being used and abused by the worst sort of person imaginable. He wasn't a full adult by elven standards, though, and I'm sure there's lots of elven rites of passage he didn't get to experience because he was dead.
BG3 does not mechanically distinguish between sun elves and moon elves and simply puts them all under the high elf umbrella, but they are very much a thing in the lore and have distinct appearances, cultures, and histories.
Moon elves tend to have black, blue, or silver-white hair and have pale skin, sometimes with a bluish hue. Their eyes are usually blue or green, sometimes with gold flecks.
Sun elves tend to have blond, black, or red hair and brown skin tones. Their eyes are usually green, gold, black, copper, silver, or hazel.
Based on his appearance, Astarion is probably a moon elf, and it's likely his original eye colour was either blue or green.
There are many other types of elves than those that are playable in the BG3, such as sea elves, winged elves, star elves, wild elves, and lythari.
It's possible that Shadowheart's father is lythari, because lythari are lycanthropic elves.
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theveryworstthing · 9 months
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life has been lifein’ haven’t been posting for a while but hopefully i’ll have stuff to post soon. 
without getting into the full rollercoaster of misery, health problems abound in my loved ones and every year for the last 3 years we’ve lost at least one family member. my gramma Rosezina died on July 1st after 83 years of being A Problem. her funeral was on the 8th during a day so hot that we couldn’t be at the graveside for more than a few minutes, fitting weather for a woman nicknamed Hot for her good looks and spicy temper. i loved her very much, i love her very much, and the emotional strain of everything that came after the Big Stroke fucked me up a little bit.
here’s one of my favorite stories about her, stop me if you’ve heard this one:
my gramma was schizophrenic, a fact i didn’t figure out until i was told by a family member at some time during my preteen or early teen years because the way schizophrenia was depicted on tv or movies was so different from what she was. she was an amazing quilter, gardener, cook, baker (i’ll never have a caramel cake that rivals hers), and general gold star deep country grandmother who was always sweet to me, her first born granddaughter, even when she stopped remembering who i was exactly in her later years. 
also, she never liked being told what to do.
also, also, she hung out with the devil for a while.
she said he’d just show up sometimes, the most beautiful, angelic, enchanting man you ever did see. he’d come to her when she was feeling overwhelmed, upset, or lonely, and offered words of comfort and a gentle listening ear. she had a hard life, and that comfort was very valuable to her even if it was coming from the devil, so over time he became her friend and she trusted him right up until the day he told her to kill her kids and free herself from all the problems constantly weighing her down. 
need i remind you, she did. not. like. being told what to do. (especially when the thing she’s being told to do is murdering her own children)
so of course, she told all her kids to walk up the road to my great gramma’s house, and when they were gone Hot dragged the couch the devil was sitting on outside into the front yard and set it on fire with him sitting on it. 
from what i was told he seemed very irritated but didn’t get up as she stared him down and watched him burn. 
afterwards some other family members put the fire out and she returned to her chores like nothing happened. as far as i know the devil never talked to her again.
and that’s why i grew up knowing that the, ‘the devil made me do it’ defense is some bullshit. if the devil is real he can’t make you do shit. he flounces off if told no (and set on fire) once. 
weak bitch. 
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