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#gotta respect them CC’s boundaries
snowydragon10 · 5 months
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Right. So.
We need to Talk
I don't want any fights; I'm not here with the intention to start up fandom drama; From personal experience with a different fandom I won't elaborate on, that's the Last Thing I want to do
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We need to address the Hall Monitoring for this Season
I understand from a vantage point that it's sometimes hard to understand the implications of a task and that CC's may interpret them in a slightly different way than intended. It's important to know when they succeed or fail a task, HOWEVER...!
We have to remember that they are also adults, that they're the ones making the entertainment here. We have to remember that the reason they're even doing this is because they want us viewers to have a good time and a good laugh. They're doing this for US
We gotta step back and remember that they are capable and can handle these kinds of situations themselves. It's not just the public stuff that we see uploaded that paints the whole picture here. They also have off camera interactions with each other during these sessions that don't come to light, and we, as the audience, have to TRUST them that they can keep themselves and each other accountable on these things.
They don't need 1K+ people daily on each life video to nitpick and/or clarify what they did differently than intended. They don't need 100+ people to say that they failed the task over and over, drowning the other 100+ comments talking about what their favorite part of the video was or how said video probably made their day. They Don't Need all of this Stress
They Don't Need Us Scrutinizing Every Move They Make In The Series
This series is amazing. The CC's are amazing. Please let's not stress them out with all of the constant nit-picking. They're people too. They have feelings as well. Let's try and remember the boundaries and respect them.
Thank you. If you read through this whole thing, at the least consider it. Also, don't yell or start fights with others doing the same thing, I'd like to keep "Start a Fandom War" uncrossed from my Life Accomplishments List/JK
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bitcell · 5 months
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something about boundaries that was culturally accepted and solidified on dsmpblr is the fact that we always must ask and follow the boundaries of a cc like a guideline, and if they don’t have them, you’re free to do whatever you want, as if in real life we need a guide on how to be respectful to the people around us, when things are not like that at all. same thing happened with people whose sexuality is left ambiguous, i wholeheartedly support not asking and accepting how much they want to share with us, but i gotta say it’s a little worrying how a cc can talk about not being straight a few times, and yet, during every single occurrence, people will take the stand to say that they’re joking and we shouldn't make assumptions, almost invalidating them to a certain degree. i mean, from my latino pov and how homophobia is so prevalent and dangerous here, i don’t think a straight person who’s latino would be making jokes about that, specifically because that can put them at risk of losing sponsors/fans. 
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angeloncewas · 2 years
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sorry if you're done talking about this but i haaate ccs who act like all parasocial relationships are bad because as a creator your fans have gotta like you as a person at least a LITTLE bit or else they wouldn't watch your content over someone who makes similar stuff like your fans have a parasocial relationship with you and your channel relies on it
Yup. Invasiveness is bad. False familiarity can be creepy. A lack of common sense combined with a lack of respect can lead to much overstepped limits and boundaries. But parasocial relationships exist all the way from white moms at the grocery store picking up People magazine to find out who Angelina Jolie's new mystery man is to the guy who watches every movie with Keanu Reeves in it no matter what because he just really fuckin' respects him to the kid who likes red because it's the color of their favorite streamer's character's bandana and that association brings them joy. It's just a thing and I frankly don't have any patience for those who built their entire livelihood off of its existence to be nitpicking evidence of its existence on the internet at every turn
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awilddaydreamer · 2 years
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lbr made me think and I want to put this in words; I’m honestly a bit uncomfortable with how.. weird this fandom has been treating the concept of boundaries. I don’t know really how to phrase it but there’s something off about it. Boundaries are a Good Thing, and I’m really glad this new fandom culture is prioritizing CCs and realizing that they’re humans and not emotionless content machines, but the way the fandom handles boundaries are just Not It.
It almost feels like an invasion of space? Like, you’re asking people about things they probably never thought about before, and making them think about something probably a bit uncomfortable to suddenly be put on the spot about.
Boundaries aren’t like.. little pokemon cards you collect. People will set boundaries as they need them and it’s not really appropriate to bring up something uncomfortable or weird just to see someone’s thoughts on it. Like just let people set boundaries as they feel the need to, respect the boundaries they do set, and don’t ask about their boundaries on things they’ve never talked about or even see. That’s weird. It feels like there’s this... pressure to share so much about what bothers you , even if you’re not really comfortable sharing that sort of stuff.
Just use your best judgement, you don’t need an exact list of every slight tiny thing that might bother someone. You don’t need a guideline on how to respect someone. You don’t gotta obsess over knowing boundaries this much
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sapnapnotfound · 3 years
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I feel like where you are as a sibling says more about you than any personality quiz
Like Tommy being an only child? He’s more chaotic and rambunctious and extremely extroverted and tactile.
Dream being a middle child? Hates losing, likes being the one in charge, more apt to lash out if left alone. Stronger bond with the younger siblings (Drista)
Jack and Josh. Enough said there.
And then there’s Tubbo. Eldest sibling Tubbo. Literally what the hell. What the absolute hell. There is no way. Either Lani and Teagan are figments of our imagination or he’s hiding an older sister because there is no way that boy is the oldest. The ONLY time I’ve ever seen him exude older sibling energy is when he holds that air of entitlement we all have where it’s like “you literally have to listen to me or Like I’ll actually just hit you”
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mcyt-peach · 2 years
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hi peach! i was wondering if i can request a fluff cc!awesamdude x f!reader drabble or headcanon (whatever you prefer / are more comfortable with) with reader having a bad day or being sad and sam taking care of her?
thank you so much :D
hands that heal
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·˚ * summary: after an awful day, there's nothing you want more than to have Sam take care of you
·˚ * pairing: cc!awesamdude x fem!reader
·˚ * warnings: negative thoughts, reader uses she/her pronouns, crying, self doubt
·˚ * word count: 634
·˚ * genre: hurt/comfort, fluff
·˚ * note: I can't express how much I loved writing this, Sam just seems like the perfect boyfriend and I hope you like it :)
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Bad days were inevitable. There would always be a day where things didn’t go the way they were supposed to and you struggled with your usual tasks. But today wasn’t just a bad day, it was a downright terrible one.
Nothing was going your way and it took everything in you to not break down. All you wanted to do was lie down on your bed and try not to think about just how awful you were feeling.
You try not to make too much noise when you enter the house, slipping off your shoes by the door and tiptoeing around the living room.
Sam’s voice sounds muffled from your place on the couch. He’s probably streaming, having fun with chat and his friends.
Maybe you should tell him. Knock on the door, interrupt, take up space. You weren’t selfish enough to stop him from enjoying his day. To make him take care of you when you should be able to do it yourself.
Your body curls up into itself before you can stop. Turning your face into the pillow, you can only hope to keep the meltdown away.
“Baby.” You bury your face further into the pillow, too embarrassed to face him.
“Baby, look at me.” His voice is steady, gentle, hoping not to scare you away.
You hardly realize you’ve been crying until you turn to face him and find your vision blurred. When the tears do fall, his fingers sweep at the corners of your eyes, stopping them before they cascade down.
His face finally becomes clear and suddenly you want to cry all over again. You can’t find a speck of anger in his stare. Only a warm smile and a little bit of concern.
Your body dips as he sits down next to you and before you know it, he’s dragging you across the couch and onto his lap.
He cradles your face in his wide hands, fingertips skimming your skin. His hold is firm, but when you move to lie against him, he lets you.
“Do you wanna talk about what happened?” His chest vibrates against your cheek when he speaks.
You shake your head and he hums in understanding.
This time, his hands move up and down your back. His movements are light but still fill you with a sense of contentment.
“Why didn’t you tell me, baby?” Your eyes open, not that you realize they’d ever closed, too caught up in relaxing for the first time today.
You push further into the hoodie he’s wearing, mumbling out an answer.
“You gotta speak up, pretty thing.” You know if you stayed quiet, he’d let you. Sam never pushed you to talk, always one to be respectful of your boundaries.
But that was the thing about Sam. You never wanted to keep things from him anyway.
“I just didn’t wanna bother you, Sammy.” It feels childish to admit. Makes you feel small and too needy.
Once again, his hands are lifting your face to his. You right yourself on his lap, busying yourself with evening out the strings of his hoodie, instead of meeting his gaze.
“Hey.” He doesn’t continue until you look at him, “You’re my girl. Ok? That means I love all of you, not just the happy parts.”
“Sammyyyy, stop being so cute, you’re gonna make me cry again.” You whine, feeling tears well up in response to his little speech.
With a chuckle he smooths the furrow in your brow with his thumb and kisses the pout from your lips. When he pulls back he’s beaming and the stretch of your own smile is hard to ignore.
It’s hard to feel worthy of someone like Sam, but every time you doubt yourself, he’s there to remind you why you deserve all the love he has to offer.
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salted-caramel-tea · 2 years
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irt the post about mcyt twt & mcyt tumblr having different cultures and attitudes towards ccs maybe you need to also acknowledge that if you're doing something that makes a cc uncomfortable it doesnt suddenly make it Fine And Okay if it's behind their back??? different fandom cultures & likelihood of a cc seeing it isnt an excuse to just throw their personal boundaries away jfc
who do you think we are ????? do we not constantly talk about cc boundaries and how they should be respected ???? we’re not hiding because we’re secretly crossing every boundary and going out of our way to do things that would make them uncomfortable.
i don’t want sapnap following me while i liveblog his stream. i don’t want any creator to see any criticism i would post of them. i don’t want any creator seeing the lore analyses i used to post. i don’t see any reason why a creator would want to follow me just to see pictures of sapnap every day. there’s a whole blog on this site dedicated to creator boundaries.
the point isn’t ‘oh my god if a cc joins i need to stop breaking their boundaries’ because most of us aren’t breaking their boundaries in the first place. or if we are we aren’t aware of it until someone tells us. the point is that this is a space that is different from twitter in every sense. the post literallt says that we are happy to have creators here because we appreciate them and we know they’d appreciate our work but i still don’t want them interacting with me. just for my own comfort.
and when i say ‘we do things differently here’ i’m talking about responses to crit and inter subblr interactions and the way we post about content creators we don’t like. different cultures doesn’t mean tumblr gets to break every boundary. it’s how we interact with EACH OTHER it’s about trying to reduce the hostility between parts of the fandom or people outside of the fandom.
are you aware there’s a section of mcyttwt under nsfwmcyttwt where the main point of the community is that they cross cc’s boundaries in their content. and that it’s actively criticised and condemned by mcytblr. are you aware that poppytwt is not welcome here. do you think that anyone who crosses creator boundaries just flees to tumblr just to do so. the vast majority of us are fucking normal people who respect the creators we talk about. if you’re seeing people from these sections of the fanbase you’ve gotta check your following a little better.
NOBODY here wants to sit all day and cross creator boundaries and do things that would make them uncomfortable. we’ve all tried to stay up to date with what they are and aren’t okay with and tried ti make sure as many people knew that as possible. literally NOBODY here is saying it’s fine and okay.
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krabmeat · 3 years
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𝟷𝟶𝟶 𝚏𝚘𝚕𝚕𝚘𝚠𝚎𝚛𝚜? 𝚝𝚘𝚍𝚊𝚢? 𝚊𝚝 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚝𝚒𝚖𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚠𝚎𝚎𝚔? 𝚒𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚍 𝚘𝚏 𝚢𝚎𝚊𝚛?
HELL YEAH FELLAS YOU HEARD THAT RIGHT!! FIRST MAJOR MILESTONE BAYBEEEE LETS GOOOOOO!!
guys, i really dont think you see how insanely mental this is. like what?!?! i joined here cause a friend of mine was gushing about a writer here and eventually convinced me to get tumblr. they called me their "noob reading friend /affectionate" and now look at me!! not even a year in and ive gained a crowd? thats so damn cool to think about!! to think that this many people are willing to put aside time in their day to read some fics made by me, im floored man!! all in all though, i have no one to thank but my wonderful mutuals and followers who have helped floor and construct the fantastic beginnings of this blog. which is why im here to bring you all this event that i sincerely hope you guys enjoy!
🦑KRABS KAN MAKE WRITING EVENTS WOW!!🦑
ALRIGHT FELLAS, IM DOING A WRITING EVENT!! HERES THE RULES AND PROMPTS NOW BOSSMEN!
~rules~
only 2 people per prompt
despite me not writing romantic fics yet, all participants are absolutely welcome to!
no smut/nsfw, im not that kind of blog and i do plan on reading entries so please dont submit anything related!!
any and all fics glorifying and supporting bigoted or misogynistic ideals will not be tolerated or respected. this is non-negotioable but if the fic has any of this that results in the putting down of or generally recognizing these ideals as negative then that is completely fine!
you are to use the quote prompts in your fic (im gonna be loose on this though so dw!! :DD)
you can use as many different prompts as youd like!!
please keep submissions in mcyt territory as thats who i write for most. but this doesnt confine to just mcyts in the dsmp! go wild dudes, hermitcraft, third life, pop off!!
keep all fics for minors platonic and platonic ONLY
generally know and respect the boundaries for ccs
when asking for a prompt, please put who you will be writing for!!
TAG ME IN YOUR FICS!! I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH PLEASE ID ADORE IT IF YOU TAGGED ME SO I CAN READ YOUR WONDERFUL WORK!!
you can use and interpret the prompts any way you want! doesnt matter if its in the angst section, you see fluff potential? go for it, vice versa!!
~prompts~
~fluff~
"I swear, if you make us late one more time I'll tape a clock to your wrist." "Isnt that a watch-?" "Shut it!"
"Look! I think it likes me!" (@ohworm-writes with cc!beeduo)
"Man, how did I catch such a good person?"
"Yknow, your parents really did something great when they made you."
"WELL HOW WAS I SUPPOSED TO KNOW THAT WOULD HAPPEN?!" "THERE ARE WARNING LABELS RIGHT THERE!"
"Take a picture, itll last longer~" "Okay!" "Wait you actually did that-?"
"That does NOT fit you." "Yeah it does! Just gotta roll it up a bit!"
"You aren't 'built different', you're just stupid." (@ohworm-writes with cc!tommy @jschllatt with cc!sapnap
"If it ever happens again, tell me. You know i adore you."
"Well..they dont even deserve you anyways! Just look at you- gorgeous!!"
~angst~
"KEEP F*CKING WALKING, THEN! CANT EVEN FACE YOUR OWN DAMN PARTNER! (or friend! :])"
"No, youre amazing!" "Then why arent i treated like it?"
"Do it again, see if i care."
"Guys..? GUYS! THEY ARENT MOVING!"
"Put the damn drink down and talk to me!"
"Its about time you get whats due, you know."
"So not only do you think im stupid, but you also think im still naive?"
"Just take me seriously for once in your damn life!"
"You'd better start running in the next 5 seconds."
"What do you take me for, a joke?!" "Wasnt that obvious?"
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now that thats done, heres the ask game part of the event!!! send me the corresponding emoji in my ask box and ill respond!
👽~ ill tell you a weird or memorable occurance that has happened on tumblr between friends and moots!
😳~ ill kin assign you and try to guess who you kin! (friends and moots only)
🍒~ ill rate your blog aesthetic on a scale of 1-10
🥀~ ill give you a bunch of emojis that remind me of you! (friends and moots only)
😎~ ill tell you obscure things i think are very neat!
🌺~ ill tell you a random interesting fact i know!
🦑~ if you send me a description of yourself, personality etc then ill write you a short ship fic with a mcyt!! specify if you want it to be platonic or romantic and if you want it to be c! or cc!(this is to work on my romantic writing!! friends and moots only)
💃~ ill tell you songs that remind me of you! (friends and moots only)
📕~ ill tell you something small or obscure i secretly think about you! (friends and moots only)
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now...onto the final part- HONOURABLE MENTIONS!!!
@myceliummenace ~ these guys got me into tumblr, some of my closest friends and theyve been supporting me since day one. i couldnt be happier to breathe the same air as these guys, they all deserve a crown and if you disagree i will chomp your hand
@niceimafan ~ an absolute saint!! i came across inks former writing blog and fell in love with both them and their wonderful work /p!!!! theyve helped me through some hellish times and are all around so damn open and accepting
@jschllatt ~ istfg this lady is just-- SOOOO BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT??? nat is incredibly talented and has encouraged me throughout my time here and i couldnt be happier with how weve grown as friends!! and i know, despite how wholesome and soft nat seems to be i promise you she knows how to keep a bit going like no other. an amazing moot, stay funky :]
@im-an-ungodly-mess ~ okay look,, i know i havent interacted with these guys for a lot buttt...CAN YOU REALLY BLAME ME??!!? LIKE CMON THEYRE ALL JUST SO COOL!!! the moment i met them i knew our chaotic energies would merge and boy did they merge alright. also theyre just insanely nice and super willing to endulge with me in my random interest which is always a sexy trait to have. 10 out of 10, these guys are neato
@ohworm-writes ~ ahhh wormmm, delightful all around and just a sweetheart....BUT THEYVE GOT SHENANIGANS- as well as being extremely skilled as well like, dayummm!!! i live for our bond over fandoms outside of the mcyt fandom and i feel blessed to have you be a moot! much love, dear!
@marcooze ~ bro....whyd you have to do me like that dude? being so gosh damn kind and accepting like that like sheesh all the stuff you reblog is gold!!! it can be the most cracked out post or the most serious and informational one. idgaf that youre a reblog blog, you mean the world to me and i shall place a supple kiss on your hand as bros do <3
@ramzawrites ~ THE FIRST WRITERS BLOG IVE EVER FOLLOWED!!! ramza dear, if no one has ever told you how iconic you are then PLEASE LET ME BE THE FIRST!!! everything you do leaves me in awe and despite your talent, you still have miles and miles of kindness and generosity? you are one in a million, ramza. you deserve everything and please know how much you mean to me. thank you for supporting me so much for so long, and i hope your days are filled with really cool rocks :]]
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terrible-leviathan · 3 years
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Lowkey worried about when the minor CCs who have skyrocketed to fame during quarantine finally do meetups or go to cons and see their audience numbers in real life. Like, Captainsparklez and other creators got to interact with fans as they were still starting out and grew into their popularity as time went on but,, there's no way to properly process gaining MILLIONS of fans over as little as a year and suddenly seeing a huge chunk of them irl and trying to interact or answer stuff when you've never done anything remotely like it...it just worries me a little
Honestly I get that cuz even with their irl streams and vlogs they get recognized and usually it's like a small group of people but then u gotta realize that's like less than 1% of the fandom aksjfj the conventions esp with them is gonna be so fucking insane and hopefully everyone there will be respectful with boundaries and y'know social distancing
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medea10 · 5 years
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My Review of Zombieland Saga
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minasfangs-archived · 5 years
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Mina with all of them!!
thanks!! time go the fuck OFF!!
1. how long have i known about them:  uhh i started bnha around march or april last year so since then!! but she started being god tier cc around august!!2. whether or not they’ve ever made me cry: ive read some rlly good fanfics that have!! i cant find em rn but if i ever do ill for sure talk abt em.... nothing in canon tho!3. whether or not i have any merchandise/objects with them: no im broke :(4. what about their personality i like: shes just!! so happy and fun!!!! i love how peppy she is and how much she loves her friends!!!5. what about their backstory makes me emotional: she probably put on a hell of a facade keeping up the “unshakable popular girl” act.... esp with that bit from kirishima’s backstory where she saved ppl from that villain but she was so scared.... and we dont know if she had anyone to turn to in moments like that..... :((6. the moment of theirs that made me the saddest: when she failed the final exams.... like. i know its all joak and shes supposed to be dumb but thats gotta hurt!! and you can tell how much she tries and it must really sting for her to constantly be at the bottom of her class even when she puts in a lot of effort....7. the moment of theirs that made me the happiest:  i cant pick man i just love every moment i see her..... every moment i see her makes me happy!8. something about them that made me laugh: i love her alien design but like. its even better bc it has absolutely NOTHING to do with her quirk. she comes out of the womb with pink skin and horns and her parents are like “okay cool her quirk is looking cool as fuck” and then she starts shooting acid??? absolute power move. i love her.9. my favorite canon outfit of theirs: this right here!!!
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fashion queen!!10. my favorite moment with them in canon: the culture festival!!! as a dancer i LOVE minas dancing and i 100% love and relate to her trying to teach her friends to dance skjfnsdjf11. my favorite relationship they have with another character: aa this ones hard!!! all the girls have such good relationships with each other but i also like her friendship w kaminari!! dumbass squad unite!!!12. what i like about the way the fandom portrays them: literally all the fanart of her i see is so filled with love.... like u can see how much love went into drawing her and i LOVE IT!!!13. what i dont like about the way the fandom portrays them: 1) krmn. horrible 2) when ppl depict her as a romance obsessed fujo type whos obsessed with her friends getting together and/or their.... very personal aspects of their relationships14. what i liked about the way canon portrayed them: i love her friendships with the other 1-A girls!! they support each other and lift each other up and its real good....15. what i dont like about the way canon portrayed them: the constant sexualization!!! shes just babey!!! also i dont mind the stuff w her pestering ppl abt her crushes but sometimes it comes across as her not respecting people’s boundaries (see chapter 216 for the worst offender)
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