#grey aroace | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

aroacearchangel · 6 months

Text

hey. do whatever you want btw. it’s your identity. kiss people for fun. enjoy sex. nobody’s stopping you. being aro and/or ace doesn’t mean you have to be repulsed by romantic or sexual activities if you don’t want to.

and also! things only mean what you meant them to mean. you can have platonic sex and platonically make out with your friends. it’s true. just be sure to communicate so that everyone involved understands and you’re good.

13K notes · View notes

iocity · 2 years

Text

It’s time. We have risen.

#grey aroace #lgbtqia #pride month #pride #queer #lgbtq #this image is not my own creation!#5k #10k #15k #AHHH HOLY FUCK??#20k #??#21k

25K notes · View notes

samsayswhatever · 4 months

Text

Shout out to the people who wake up a woman and go to bed a man. The the people who wear lipstick and have a beard. To the people whose gender is complicated. To the people who need a minute to think about it. To the people who don't really care. To the people who never stop thinking about it. To the people whose gender and sexuality are the same thing. To the people who like people in a way they can't explain. To the people who don't like anything. To the people with a thousand crushes. To the people who never had one.

#add shout outs if you want #queer #gender fluid #non binary #bi gender #agender #genderqueer #hypersexual #hyperromantic #questioning #aromantic #asexual #aroace #asexuality #grey ace #grey aroace #grey aromantic

842 notes · View notes

sillysecretwriting · 4 months

Text

Being somewhere on both aro and ace spectrums and having a partner is such an odd type of erasure. Like up until accidentally starting to date my current partner, I'd always just say "I don't really date" if people asked about my romantic life and just left it there. I knew that I was so rarely romantically attracted to people, it wasn't never, but the number of people I've been romantically attracted to in my entire life is maybe three? My partner is one of the three, so I ended up having this cute person that I'm romantically attracted to and now share large portions of my life with, but my identity hasn't changed. Our relationship is the rarity, not the normal for me, but now when people ask, and I tell them I have a partner, that larger portion of me that doesn't always understand why other people are so set on having a partner or why there's so much stigma around being single, is just erased in that person's eyes.

I was happy alone and didn't feel like anything was missing. I'm also happy with my partner. But I just hate that the aro (and ace) spectrum parts of my identity become invisible as soon as I mention my partner.

#grey aromantic #aromantic spectrum #grey aroace #aroace #erasure #demirose #demiromantic #demisexual #asexual #sex-preferable ace #romance-neutral aro #aromantic #aro #ace

378 notes · View notes

sentimentallyannoying · 3 months

Text

(vent) i hate being an aroace(spec) individual who isn’t completely off-put by sex and romance.

i can’t relate to a lot of ace/aro content. i can’t relate to most queer content either even though i also have queer experience. i can’t use dating apps like most people because i’ve never been able to find people attractive through a couple of pictures, a husk of a profile, and/or a couple lines of a bio. not even mentioning how there are hardly any aces on any of them. i can’t be happy alone because i would actually really like to be partnered or find my “person”. it’s like i’m being pulled in and out of topics between communities all the time. (even in-person conversations amongst other queers) “forever alone” seems like bliss to some aroaces, but not to me. i’m trying to fit anywhere so so badly. i’m tired of feeling alone wherever i try to seek solace. i’m tired of feeling othered where i’m supposed to be welcomed.

#trin rambles #aroacespec #aroace #grey aroace #aroace struggles #aspec #aegosexual #asexuality #asexual #aromantic #aromantism

148 notes · View notes

thatnerdyqueer · 1 year

Text

People get so confused when I try to explain the type/s of attraction I feel. But let me put it like this: I "fall in love" with someone's character. I don't want their body - I want their presence. I don't lust after them - I admire them. I don't want a romantic relationship - I find them fascinating. Interesting. Fun. They challenge and compliment me. They're loyal. They're funny. They're not two-dimensional, they're a well rounded character. I fall in love with someone as a character, as an arc, as a person. As a friend. People seem to read this one of two ways - it's romantic, or it's just platonic and I haven't found the right person yet. *sigh* the definition of platonic is 'deeply affectionate but not romantic in nature'. So yeah, it's platonic. It's deep. It's affectionate. It's not romantic. It's just as good though, so can we stop saying 'just'?

Like, you know when people have gay panics? I want that, and frequently experience it, but in a platonic way. As in, wow what you did was really impressive/intersting I want to get to know you and spend time with you kind of way. Not in a wow I want to kiss you way. Someday I want to meet someone in a bookshop and 'flirt' with them or whatever allos seem to think it is, and get their phone number. And then, instead of asking them to see a movie as a date, I'll ask them to come and eat pop corn with my friends and watch a movie because I think they'll find it interesting. Make no mistake - I'm aroace, but I still want my meet cute. I want a platonic meet cute where I find someone, who's character is so full and interesting and bursting with life that I get their number and send them memes and geek out with them, and get to know them and admire them until we feel comfortable around each other. I just want to live with someone. To read together, watch tv shows together, listen to music together, go to the theatre together, without them being considered 'dates'. Because I don't want them because I want their body. I want them in my life because I like their character.

And if you think about it, I'm very lucky in this way. Because, while not everyone has a super-model body, the vast majority of individuals are so bursting with life that I am very, very, likely to find people, many people, whose character I love. To be honest, I've already found plenty. But, ever the "optimist", I hope I find more :)

2K notes · View notes

aromantic-rage · 2 months

Text

aroace, aromantic, and asexual flags as rhombus tiles

ace spectrum:

aro spectrum:

grey:

demi:

flux:

cupio:

alloaro:

alloace:

fray:

lith:

112 notes · View notes

memchiix · 2 months

Text

idk which one i am aaaaaaaAAAAA

#chii rambles #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #greyrose #grey aroace #IM SO CONFUSED MAN #AGHDJSKFNMSNF

80 notes · View notes

goblinqat · 2 years

Text

Pride moth! He’s just a little guy!!

(If you have a pride moth request hmu, they make cute wallpapers

#pride #lgbtqia #lgbtq #pan #pansexual #genderfluid #aromantic #asexual #gray aro #gray ace #gray aroace #grey aroace #wooo #aroace #moth #bug #bugblr #mothblr #pride moth

2K notes · View notes

aceoffangirls · 1 year

Text

Y’all being bi/omni/pan while also being aroace is extremely weird and confusing because like I do not feel romantic or sexual attraction but if and when I ever do it would be to more than one gender

273 notes · View notes

aroacearchangel · 6 months

Text

yknow. i’m actually not romance repulsed. i just think i was so uncomfortable with the idea of someone wanting something i can’t give. i want to love someone forever with undying devotion and engrave their likeness into marble. and i will. have. often. is it romantic? probably not. not based on what i’ve heard about what it’s supposed to feel like, physically and emotionally.

i think as long as whoever was into me in that way knew that my feelings were adjacent but not exactly matching, and they were cool with that, that i would be alright with being romantically or sexually desired.

i still have complicated feelings about sex, but that’s less about identity. i do think i’m not sex repulsed, either. it’s weird realizing these things, using other aroace experiences to try to understand my own and understanding that my story of self understanding is my own.

818 notes · View notes

sew-adorkable · 9 months

Text

Ok these are all the flags that had been requested with the exception of a few others

Namely the new polyam, bi-curious, and demigirl

These will be available for purchase once I get all the fabric worked out!!

Still willing to take new flag suggestions as well~

#pridesopod #polyamory #lesbian #grey aroace #unlabeled #genderqueer #demiboy #queer #aroace #asexual #agender #demiromantic #demisexual #genderfluid #aromantic #isopods #pride

174 notes · View notes

radiotelegraph · 20 days

Text

Being grey aroace while entirely aplatonic is so funny, because people never quite can place me. Yes, sex majorly does not matter to me unless it's very specifically kink-focused. No, I don't do QPR. I don't do friends with benefits either. Yes, I'm in a long-term relationship. No, you can't place a label on me.

#🜋 🎙️ 🜋#grey aroace #aspec #aromantic #asexual #aroace #aplatonic #queer

41 notes · View notes

anime-greek · 11 months

Text

It’s pride month

Which means I get to spread the ace agenda once more

-

*this is my genisys AU; where Raph is Casey’s dad. And I realized I basically made her the only one willing/wanting to have a relationship, let alone a kid.