hey. do whatever you want btw. it’s your identity. kiss people for fun. enjoy sex. nobody’s stopping you. being aro and/or ace doesn’t mean you have to be repulsed by romantic or sexual activities if you don’t want to.
and also! things only mean what you meant them to mean. you can have platonic sex and platonically make out with your friends. it’s true. just be sure to communicate so that everyone involved understands and you’re good.
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I was today's years old when I realized that people actually think that other people are attractive.
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PEOPLE JUST LOOK AT A BODY AND BE LIKE : 'whoa I wanna date, hot, sexy, kiss kiss' ?!?!?
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Kinda curious as to if people prefer to use the umbrella terms or not. Personally I tend to use umbrella terms (for me just ace) out of total laziness since explaining all the time is beyond tedious for me 🙃
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Hi, hi, hello. This week, we’re honoring a-spec folks—happy Monday to ace, aro, agender, grey, and demi folks, and to all folks who identify with the a-spec umbrella. Happy Monday also to all other the LGBTQIA+ folks reading this.
Your prompts for this week are:
What’s your favorite food, and why is it garlic bread?
You find a magical bow and arrow—what/who do you aim for, and what happens when you hit your mark?
Remember, these prompts are for everyone, whether we’re wearing your colors on Pride+ this week or not! Share with the class by tagging #not just in june, or don’t! We’re not the boss of you <3
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Pride moth! He’s just a little guy!!
(If you have a pride moth request hmu, they make cute wallpapers
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at any point in time i become so overwhelmed with adoration for my friends that I wanna kiss them but if it’s read as romantic i will feel violently ill
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You know, one of the reasons it took me so long to figure out I was aromantic was because the depth and intensity of the platonic feelings I had for the select few people in my life always read, especially to other people, as being on the same level as romantic feelings. But really, I just care deeply about my friends and there are certain people that I just feel a strong pull towards in regards to wanting to be their friend. My past relationships would talk about the types of feelings they had for me and it always felt like "yes, I feel that too, but in a different way". I didn't know how to describe it or why I felt so much repulsion when people would romantically tell me they loved me while I was filled with such joy and comfort when my friends would tell me they loved me.
I'm incredibly introverted, I do not want or need to have loads of friends. But instead of people accepting that having a few, intimate friends was valid, I was told that I just hadn't met "the one", or that I was possibly polyamorous, or, worse yet, I was somehow broken.
I still struggle a lot with that imposter feeling, like I'm "not aro enough" but I am enough. I am not broken. There is nothing wrong with me. This label is as valid for me as it is to anyone else who is aro.
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These acrylic asexual pride heart pins will be available on 1/6/23! Follow my Etsy for shop updates 🖤
www.etsy.com/shop/hedgehology
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Ok these are all the flags that had been requested with the exception of a few others
Namely the new polyam, bi-curious, and demigirl
These will be available for purchase once I get all the fabric worked out!!
Still willing to take new flag suggestions as well~
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