Aromanticism can encompass so many wide ranges of experiences, like, so many.
There's loveless and heartless aros and loving aros, aplatonic aros and aros who really value platonic love. Alloaros, aroaces, non-sam aros.
I'm a non-sam aro as in I don't consider the split-attraction model to be very important in my identity. I don't feel the need to put boundaries on romantic, sexual, and platonic love and attraction.
Someone else might also be a non-sam aro and have completely different experiences and definitions then me and that's like, totally fine!
There's no one way to define aromantic experiences and there's no one way to define aromantic love or lack-there-of. All of us reserve the right to have our own spaces and be left-the-fuck-alone tbh.
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Felix, Summer and Lola (from left to right)
Felix: cis dude, he/him, asexual and heteroromantic
Summer: trans and n-b, he/him, androsexual and greyaromantic
Lola: cis gal, she/they, asexual and biromantic
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Do not use my art without my permission!
🔃Reblogs are appreciated!🔃
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Happy Aromantic Day of Visibility to all my fellow aros!!!
Put together some art with a few aromantic characters of mine to celebrate. (I’m also making some art of my sona, but I might post her later.)
Their flags are (starting with the dragon in the bottom right): aromantic, aromantic + asexual, (sunset) aroace, oriented aroace, and greyromantic (:
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sandu • 20yrs • they/them • finnish • digital artist
hi there! i'm SanduTiTa or Sandu for short. i make digital art and post it on my art blog @sandu7174 :)
on this blog i mostly just reblog whatever appears on my dash from funny and stupid memes to serious political stuff. i hardly ever tag with content warnings when i reblog on this blog, but with original posts (#my post) and on my art blog, i always do (at least i try to).
more info under the cut:
so what type of person am i? well, art is a big part of my life. i mostly make digital art but i do have a musical side to me as well, it's just not blossoming as well as my visually artistic side is. i'm also an aspiring writer. i wish to make a dramatic comic book someday.
when it comes to social interactions, i am quite shy but i've been trying to work on my social anxiety (and i've been making progress lately). i've always struggled with loneliness but since last year i've been managing to fight that off a little as well. being autistic interacting with people has always been problematic for me, since i tend to overthink things and get things wrong.
i also tend to ask a lot of questions, which annoys some people. being an overthinker and a question-asker and trying to find the middle ground between asking too many questions and not knowing enough, it's... distressing :,D. like i don't wanna be annoying, but i also want to know if i'm being annoying, y'know? but recently i've been asking fewer questions since i've slowly been learning that the voice inside my head which tells me i'm being annoying is lying to me most of the time. but i'm also asking more questions since i'm not as worried about people thinking i'm annoying as before. that's confusing...
i'm transmasculine and nonbinary and i wish to go on HRT someday. since summer 2023 i've known it's something i want to do at some point. unfortunately, i have to get my life together first before i can actually pursue this opportunity, which has turned out to be challenging... (yes, i have depression, how did you know?)
i'm also asexual, greyaromantic, panromantic, and agender.
i'm a very enthusiastic supporter of topfreedom and the Free the Nipple -campaign, and it shows in the posts and the art i make. we as a society need to work towards eliminating this misogynistic double standard that sexualises female-presenting nipples if we value gender equality and wish to move towards a fairer world. anything men can do topless (i.e. go to the beach or a public swimming pool, appear on tv and social media etc.), women should be allowed to do as well. there is no gender equality without nipple equality. if you claim to be a feminist but don't support topfreedom, you're a hypocrite.
tags i use the most:
#finnish
#swedish
#my post
#my art
#important
#topfreedom
#abso fucking lutely (i use this tag on posts with hot takes)
#character inspiration (i use this tag on posts that give me ideas for the stories i'm working on, so if you see me reblogging your post and using this tag, that means i might implement whatever was in your post into my own characters and stories)
#a magical place (i use this tag on posts that include imagery of environments that have magical vibes. it's inspiration for my story involving magic.)
#incredible future (i use this tag on posts that have futuristic vibes. it's inspiration for my story involving a futuristic setting.)
if you wanna talk to me about something, don't be afraid to send a message! i'm always up for making new friends :)
more info can be found on my carrd: sandutita.carrd.co
(seriously, check out my carrd, there's a lot of info there)
last updated: 27.1.2024
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hello!!!!! can you please combine the Quoisexual flag, Greysexual flag, and Cupiosexual flag? also have a hug ^^
Quoiromantic + Greyaromantic + Cupioromantic & Quoisexual + Greasexual + Cupiosexual!!
Here you go :D also made a romantic version
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i love heartstopper but as a grey-aro person it makes me feel as if the type of love i feel ,my little special version of it, is unworthy,
so much of love and feelings and crushes is communicated through kisses, darcy and tara, charlie and nick, they all get together after communicating their feelings through a kiss - something i’ll never wish to do.
it makes me feel alienated because so much as i love the love story in heartstopper, it portrays the ‘normal’ kind of love like everything does and so many people that watch the show focus on how cute the kisses are and how the kissed and more physical touched in particular embodies their love for one another,instead of the quiet smiles and emissions of truths they speak to one another - that hold more value to me,
it all just reminds me that my kind of love isn’t viewed as as important or as worthy - even in a story of queer identity, something i can relate to, i feel alienated by its portrayal of love and my own place as someone on the aroace spectrum
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