#grief is so much lighter shared im sending you hugs anon

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Mine's not as long as 2 years, but it's been 10 months since I last talked to her.

How am I supposed to just stop grieving the person who made living easier? I can't. I don't think I ever will.

And there's something my best friend always tells me, healing isn't linear. You're allowed to grieve and hurt you know? Don't be rough on yourself or force yourself to heal, it'll do more harm than good. You're allowed to mourn him, you're allowed to cry over him.

People are like waves you know, they come and go but then, the water leaves you wet. And how you dry is completely on your surroundings. If it's sunny it'll be easy, if it's cold and cloudy it'll be harder. But that doesn't make you any less valid.

And you're not any less of an adult. You're awesome, and you'll fall in love again, whether in a year or ten, and they'll stick around forever. They'll treat you right and they'll love you so much, and you will love them too, and you'll be happy.

i love you i love you i love you i love you

the waves and drying analogy is fucking brilliant and God it's so true- i feel like im seeing people around me heal and dry so easily, and im still stuck here, sopping wet, two years down the line but Maybe you're right, maybe the air's been too cold, the sun too hidden, to warm me up, but it fucken will eventually right. as long as I don't fucken die from hypothermia before that lmao-

im sorry you're grieving too and i hope you receive what you need to be happy and im sending you love ✨

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