#growth mode

[wordsofwisdomandsoul]

#lazy #unmotivated #im stuck #i’m stuck #stuck #survival mode #quotes #words #life lessons #wisdom #inspirational words #growth #healing #emotional trauma #trauma #trauma survivor #nakeia homer

[canarybell]

It might be an unpopular opinion...

...But I think we might not see Aziraphale and Crowley actively interacting in present in the first few episodes of S3 (i.e first two or even three episodes). There might be some flashbacks, some ways for them to check on each other (probably without the other knowing), and them both visibly reflecting on what was done and said in the Final Fifteen, so it won't be a complete absence of aziracrow content - but there won't be an actual interaction.

Iirc, Neil Gaiman said that the third season wouldn't be that aziracrow-focused as the second season was. So it wouldn't be just a story about their little divorce.

And I don't think they were separated just for the sake of the drama of the Final Fifteen. They both have plot-related things to do on their own - Aziraphale in Heaven and probably in America (as we know from a little information we have about the sequel), and Crowley...probably in London (because the bookshop is still there and we still have Whickber Street decorations intact) and in Devil's Dyke (I just have a feeling that South Downs thing won't be just a last-episode "oh, let's move in a cottage" and will actually have some plot significance)?

It was like that in the original book too - we had them mostly separated and acting on their own from the moment of Aziraphale finding Agnes' book and until the airbase reunion. TV show changed it, including a 30-minute flashback, all the bandstand/"I forgive you-1" drama, and the pub talk - this was necessary to flesh out TV versions of the characters and their conflict. But would it be necessary in S3, with us knowing these characters and what their problem is? Especially if aziracrow would be in a very different places due to the plot (unlike book/S1, where, prior to Aziraphale's discorporation, they both still were in London)? I'm not sure.

#good omens #good omens season 2 #good omens s2 #aziraphale #crowley #ineffable husbands #good omens theory #good omens meta #they also both need some reflecting and character growth to do on their own #and i don't think it will happen off-screen #I also don't think they will have as much fighting upon their meeting as people think #but that's another talk #yes I've been in my anxiety mode since yesterday #so I'm coping by making three post in a day and focusing on my comfort characters #It's also last days before my job starting at Monday #so I'm trying to say everything that is on my mind while I still have time and mental capacity for it #aziracrow #ineffable divorce

[darthginger-5]

Korra spent the first three seasons being told she wasn’t a good enough Avatar. No matter what she did. And you can definitely see the effects of it. Especially after Zaheer. He broke her in every way imaginable and just reinforced that feeling in her. And the fourth season you truly see the effects it had. But because of everything she went through she was able to finally realize her full potential.

#korra was in god mode S4 #the legend of korra #avatar korra #korrasami #legend of korra #zaheer #character growth #avatar the last airbender

[the-healing-mindset]

Source: Facebook

#reminder #gentle reminder #survival mode #healing #recovery #growth #encouragement #words of encouragement #positivity #positive thinking #positive mindset #higher self #progress #inspiration #self-esteem #self-confidence #self-worth

[noa-nightingale]

Spotting hummingbirds demonic markings

Ryan and Shane Exorcise Demons in The Mortuary Assistant • Survival Mode // Shane & Ryan Go Birdwatching • Weird Wonderful World

#watcher #shane madej #ryan bergara #survival mode #weird wonderful world #shane also called ryan stupid both times #but he apologized in survival mode :3 #✨growth✨

[dearjewels22]

real shit. meditate on this word.

#life #quotes #feelings #potential #live now #live well #change is inevitable #growth #healing journey #healing #heal your life #keep moving forward #don't stop #savage time #beast mode #go hard #go getter #stuck #comfort zone #get out of your comfort zone #get out of your head #believe in yourself #confidence #confident woman #fight on #stay strong #be strong #inspiration #faith over fear #save yourself

[akkivee]

Poor Jakurai tbh having to wash his hair must take so long and it would be so heavy afterwards. do you think ehe has that long hair purely for character design or he likes it

he’s gotta like it if he has tips for haircare and let it grow from that short bob to the point he practically sits on it when seated lol

#vee got an ask #that’s one of my favourite panels from the fpmtr manga lol that hifujaku one #hifumi gently getting down on one knee to get this barely lukewarm man to open up to him enough to accept his invitation #i feel like his host mode was bleeding in a bit trying to get sensei to be receptive to his friendship it’s so cute 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹 #sensei’s hair growth is very fascinating btw lol #it’s always as long as however it needs to be to make jakurai looks as ethereal as possible #but his hair growth from the tdd era to present is insane actually lol #it was at his lower back in the tdd era but it reaches his shins in many official arts lol

[solitairechimney]

And when 7x01 opens with Natalia and Buck not being able to agree on a couch what then

#911 spoilers #911 fox #kidding i dont think this would happen but it would be funny! #I'm very proud of myself that i was able to be normal about this and just fucking laugh hysterically at the couch line #instead of going into buddie freakout mode #growth

[thepeacefulgarden]

#starting over #coping #healing #trauma #grief #recovery #self compassion #mental health #self care #find better coping mechanisms #letting go #detachment #growth #survival mode is not meant to be the mode in which we live #surviving #thriving #you deserve happiness #you deserve better #be good to yourself #trauma response #reparenting #codependency #boundaries #self respect

[kpop-addict25]

Unfortunately, I have officially moved on from Ninjago. Don’t get me wrong, I love this show but ever since Dragon’s Rising I got bored. It’s just not the same anymore because I grew up with the og series and I want to keep it like this. I will continue to watch the new series just to be in touch with it (Guess, I am all grown up now and I am not just saying this because I turn 18 in January).

Another thing I did was delete my Ninjago fanfics account from Wattpad. I am glad if someone in here has read them and I am sorry that I never finished some of my stories but this was something I was contemplating to do for a long time. I even tried to get back to writing the next year but I just couldn’t get back to the show as a whole (I also didn’t have much motivation to write anymore and ran out of ideas for my stories).

Yet, I have rejoined a fandom (which is a bit dead but is still kept alive, which is admirable). I will probably post my headcanons about it in here, so I can use tumblr more than I have done recently. If anyone knows it, it’s the game: Minecraft Story Mode.

Like, I used to be obsessed with this game 4-5 years ago and I just randomly thought of it recently. I replayed the games (because there are two seasons) two times already and I got back so many nice memories and nostalgia from it. It was like falling in love with something for the second time.

Anyway, this thing is too long already so I will leave it here. Thanks again for following me in here and Wattpad as well. I will understand if you start unfollowing me and I am glad that you enjoyed my Ninjago shitposts while they lasted!

#ninjago #minecraft story mode #announcement #thoughts #end of an era #self growth #almost 18

[sieglinde-freud]

hey did you guys know odin’s the best character in conquest?

#fe odin #ann plays fates #‘ohh hes so bad bc of split growths’ ‘he doesnt have the magic to be a mage’ youre bad at the game #early join + high base def/hp + easy and early access to magic boost #dude is a fucking monster in early to midgame #unsure how hes gonna work in the lategame cuz ive never beaten the entirety of conquest on lunatic #he works p well in hard mode tho for what its worth but we’ll see how this goes for lunatic #RIP whatever tf they did to him in rev tho i will fully admit hes garbage over there

[nemophillia]

All I want to be

#🌹 #goth #music #Enjoy The Silence #Depeche Mode #spiritual growth #Spotify

[savagebisand]

I saw it be said a few times that Boeing is mature and whilst that man is a lot of things that have me questioning if I'm like... Mentally okay to have such a carnal desire for them. Mature is not one of the traits I'd assign. This is a man who is literally playing games with not just one now but two of his exes. He's spent what months? years maybe? being Tops go to call when he doesn't want a lonely night, the second he feels threatened of his security in Tops fucked up life, he makes a move on the so called threat aka Mew. He's master manipulating. Everything he says is double edged and eery and unsettling. Just how much does he pull strings on Top? You see it in how he talks to him, how he touches him.

Boeing doesn't care for Tops boundaries, he may have even been the start of Tops issues with fighting for his own boundaries being respected. Boeing does this thing where he keeps Top coming back to him for more, and he lords it over him. How long has it been, are you still sticking to the three month rule? He knows exactly the power he has and by god does he wield it. Sabotaging Tops other relationships so he can keep number one spot. Deceiving Mew so easily into believing it's a revenge that won't bite him in the ass, that he's a friend and not a wolf in sheep's clothing.

And as if that's not enough, he then next episode targets Sand again, purely because he hears about how Sand has moved on. Kinda like how he doubles down on his position in Tops life because he thinks Top can finally move on with Mew. Like he's terrified of someone replacing his legacy as The Best Option. Boeing likes pulling puppet strings, he likes keeping people stagnant in a place he can leave them and come back to peck at what's left later like a vulture. And the worst part is he does it because he needs attention.

There he is simpering to Mew and Sand about how he thinks he can be a better boyfriend than their current partners. Using Mews history against him, spinning this tale where Top is selfish and Boeing is "The Good Guy", then using his own history with Sand to delude Sand into this vision where he's blameless and just wants him back bad enough he's willing to be "The Bad Guy".

Funny how Boeing only starts caring if he still stands a chance when he thinks his position is threatened as Sands most important ex. He's still got his little revenge plot with Mew in the works but he wants Sand on his belt too. Also, all this man does is talk about his exes. He tells stories of the past where he and Sand played quiz nights at the bar, where Top took him wakeboarding and made him a pro. Constantly trying to undermine what his exes newest partners may see as special time for them because oh hey btw I did that first. The sheer audacity to bring up dates Sand and him used to do whilst at the same time he was prioritising Top over Sand? As if they're like fond memories?

Boeing presents himself as this true friends stab you in the front archetype but he's just a lost, lonely man desperate for even a shred of someone's attention and value. And that's kind of sad actually. Like babes move the fuck on? Get a life outside of these men's business and stop bothering them?

We love Boeing because he steps on the scene and emits this mean girl Regina George energy where you're like oh this vindictive little bitch is truly a supreme conniving pussy slaying cow. But when you peel back his layers it's like you are the most pathetic man to ever breathe sir. How hard is it to just move forward in life?

Boeing is that smart and that pretty and that good at pulling strings to get to high places and he wastes his time circling the flakey little meal that is this group of men. He literally invented gaslight, gatekeep and girlboss specifically for his exes and even Boston would shake in his leather studded cunt serving boots at the sight of Boeing. And yet, he's insignificant. He means nothing to anyone. He's indisposable at any time and he Knows it. He knows one day Top will say he no longer needs Boeing to play ghost of his past still haunting. That Sand will eventually see why Boeing was never the right one. So he claws for control by removing options. Because he'd never be a first choice all on his own.

I'm obsessed with him, I crave him carnally and viciously. I'd do truly wicked things to that maleficent poisonous man. But he better leave Sand tf alone. It's about time someone tells Boeing they want someone whose actually willing to change for them, to see past what is so say "not enough" within them to make Boeing truly loyal or commited, to choose someone who genuinely tries rather than someone who clings to falsified memories of a past with a significance that didn't and doesn't exist.

And yes I do want Sand to be the one to say it because my biggest fear is that Ray will go in all guns blazing when he overhears Boeing making a move on his man, take over the situation and then Sand will lose his chance to get closure and put autonomy back on Boeing for his part in the downfall of their relationship. If ray interferes, it's a loss of a chance for sand to make a point that he chooses ray no matter what in a way Ray can witness and feel the significance of. Because Ray knows but he's still learning that Sand will choose him over everything and he needs to hear Sand of his own volition, let go of such an important part of his past because Ray is the future he picks.

Top got the chance to clearly tell Boeing he picks Mew and now I need to see Sand do the same for Ray without Ray "forcing his hand" to use Rays expression from the ep when it came to making Sand make a big choice the first time around.

#only friends the series #this is such a weird fear for me bc i know sand would pick ray now over boeing #bc it makes no sense for sand atp in his growth to go back to boeing anyway #he just managed to get ray to let him love him whilst being a better version of himself #then hes gonna settle for bare minimum boeing anyway? nah dont make no sense #but im still fearful of how this goes down when boeing has been shown to have such a strong influence and grip on sand #to the point sand removed blame from him for going to top and views him as the one who got away #and also bc i really dont want impulsive mode ray to make the choice for sand in that split second #it takes from a key moment we could see ray heal by standing aside #still hearing sand say fuck that i cared once but it will always be ray

[the-healing-mindset]

This is a very long read, admittedly. However, this article is filled with some great information and also links to official research regarding C-PTSD, various traumas, and other helpful resources. Additionally, the end of the article provides some helpful tips to assist in coping with and healing from some of the things that we may experience in life.

Of course, what helps each of us will vary and it is wise to get the professional help of a therapist if experiencing any of what is discussed in this article, which it also recommends.

#article #long read #childhood trauma #C-PTSD #life #living #adverse childhood experiences #trauma #survival mode #childhood emotional neglect #emotions #feelings #dysfunctional family #PTSD #healing #recovery #growth #burnout #EMDR #therapy #psychotherapy

[wordsofwisdomandsoul]

#not myself #terrified #survival mode #survival #recovery #starting over #who i am #quotes #words #inspirational words #life quotes #growth #healing #emotional trauma #trauma #trauma survivor #dr glenn patrick doyle

[dearjewels22]

#life #quotes #inspiration #love #feelings #peace #faith #know your worth #ego #good vibes #positive vibes #new chapter #new life #future self #goals #rest your soul #dreamer #keep dreaming #growth #life is a journey #surviving #survival mode #energy #gratitude #don't worry be happy #smile #find joy