#happeycore

[honeymooncupid]

Its okay if you need a longer time to adjust to new things than other people, its okay if you need a little more time to get used to new things, its alright if you take a bit longer to feel comfortable and familiar with new places, people and things. Dont rush yourself and take all the time you need to process everything. Sometimes the mind needs a little more time to take things in, and to let it sink in.

#advice #happeycore #happy #lovecore #self care #self love #suggestion #healing #mental health #positivity #recovery #gentle reminders

[binxelf]

things you can do despite your sense of guilt

- go for a walk even if you think you don’t deserve it

- have a snack even if you think you don’t deserve it

- take a break from studying even if you think you don’t deserve it

- reach out to someone even if you think you don’t deserve it

- demand, have needs and wants even if you think you don’t deserve it

- make it through the day even if you think you don’t deserve it

- feel mentally exhausted albeit seeming physically fine

- feel the sense of abandonment despite the company of those around you

- go to bed early despite not having done much according to your mental routine

- let out a deep breath even if you think you weren’t holding one back

#writing #lovecore #self healing #self love #wholesome #heartcore #healing #mental health #mental wellbeing #mental health awareness #mental heath support #happeycore #mentalheathawareness #love #advice #mentalstrength #reminder #self care #self care reminder #mental abuse

[crweme]

꒰ ᨦ belle ♪ 𓈒 * bambi ୨୧

︶⊹︶︶ ୨🎀♡🫖୧ ︶︶⊹︶

꒰ ┊͙ disney˓ gf ┊͙ ꒱

˳ ୨୧ 🌷 ୨୧ ˳

𐂯 ୨⸝⸝ ︶︶ ☆゛

(:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅[̲̅: ꔫ :]̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅)

˗ˏˋ ୨ 🫧🐰 ୧ ˎˊ˗

꒰ ᥴ᥆᥆kіᥱ һᥱᥲr𝗍 ꒱ ฅ🍪ฅ

꒰ ୨⸝⸝ ♡ 🦴🌸ฅ⸝⸝ ୧꒱

🎀 kaomoji :

૮⑅◞ ˕ ◟ ა

૮꒰˶ฅ́˘ฅ̀˶꒱ა

૮₍˶• . • ⑅₎ა

૮꒰ ♡◞ ˕ ∩ ꒱ ୧

ᘏ ⑅ ᘏ

꒰ ◞͈ ๑ ◟͈ ꒱ ⠀ ˚ . ⠀

ᜊ꒰ っ🍪⊂꒱ ◝✩

#cute bios #kaomoji #soft bios #kawaii #babycore #sfw agere #puppycore #sfw littlespace #sfw petre #wholesome #softcore #dollcore #dollete bios #happeycore #happycore #disney #disney princesses #princesscore

[blisseysuggestions]

my love, you are going to be okay ♡ healing takes time - i know you want your life back right now already and to just live again, i know. it’s all okay my love. healing doesn’t happen overnight, take your time ♡ you’re not running out of time!!!

#ana recovery #anorexia recovery #anxiety #anxiety recovery #ed recovery #mental health #mental wellbeing #my post #ocd #positivity #recover #recovery #suggestion #suggestions #ocd recovery #recoverycore #happeycore #encouragement #comfort #comfortcore

[frutiger-willow]

welcome to the party~! 🎉🍰

#aesthetic #cake #birthday #uploads #kidcore #dreamcore #happeycore #willow weeps #rainbow cake #rainbowcore #frosting #smiley face #weirdcore #this is from my 22nd birthday #i decorated it myself :o) #clowncore

[1980s-slasher-film]

Please know that it’s okay to focus on your own problems. Even if they’re “small”, you have the right to be upset by them. You don’t have to try and save the world all day every day. It’s okay to ignore the issues that are bigger than you from time to time, especially when you’re struggling on a smaller scale.

It’s pretty hard to help other without helping yourself first.

#positivity #trauma #actually traumatized #disabled #actually disabled #disability #happeycore #actually chronically ill #chronically ill #chronic illness #mental illness #mentally ill #actually mentally ill

[etherealoceanic]

how to be a nice person without giving away your self respect

it can be very difficult to balance kindness and self respect without “losing” one or the other. however, the ability to love others while also loving yourself is something you need to learn. 

P.S. i am not a licensed therapist. i create posts like this to help others based on my own experiences. if you are seriously suffering mentally, i recommend you seek psychological help.

why?

people aren’t mind readers, they can't tell when or when not to do something unless you tell them! boundaries are a way to maintain your safety and comfort in any relationship. 

how?

it can be a bit scary to establish boundaries, esp if its something new for you! here's a step by step checklist you can follow to help. once you get the hang of it, you can change up the steps to fit you!

1. before you start, ask yourself, am i in the right headspace to have this conversation? will this person react in a mature way? make sure you are calm and prepared, as this can go many ways.

2. take the time to ask this person if they’re available to talk. if they aren't, schedule a time to talk. prioritize making this an in person conversation, something like this can be easily misunderstood over text. refrain from depending on other people to send messages back and forth.

3. start with an “i feel” statement. starting sentences with “you” can feel accusatory and might turn this into a back and forth blaming session. you don’t want this!

sentence frame: i feel (emotion) when you (verb), can you please (boundary)? 

an example: I feel hurt when you make such mean jokes towards me, could you be nicer towards me?

4. if they have something to say, hear them out. perhaps maybe they also felt uncomfortable by something you’ve done! by listening to them, you’re acknowledging both parties, demonstrating your maturity. this will also make them more likely to listen to your request.

great job! you’ve established a boundary while consistently remaining kind.

but what if they don’t listen?

some people need to be reminded of your boundary. they can be so attached to to this old habit that it can be hard to break out of! however, if they are consistently breaking your boundaries, then it might be time to rethink the bond you have with this person.

is what they're doing lowering my self respect in any way? am i unhappy around this person? am i unable to be my most authentic self around this person?

if you answered yes to any of these questions, it may be time to either:

1. consider counseling/a mediator 

2. or call quits with this bond if nothing else works

if this person is placing you in immediate danger or you suspect abuse, alert someone right away.

a link to international hotlines for abuse: https://www.stophurtingme.org/internation-help-lines

i really hope this helps! remember to drink water, eat, and stay kind + healthy. 

stay safe pearls xx ♡

#self improvement #self love #happycore #happeycore #girl blogger #girl blog #girlblogger #girlblogging #divine feminine

[penniesadmiredboards]

Made a lil pompompurin wallpaper

Gonna start selling moodboards and wallpapers for cheap ^^ dm with any requests

#Penniesadmired #pompompurin #sanrio #yellow #gaming #cute #moodboard #moodboards #game #aesthetic #wallpaper #banana #pastel #kawaii #cutecore #happeycore #agree #fictive #system #did #anime #commisions open #Spotify

[kidwithfeathers]

pick a chocolate sweet to eat with me before bed!

chocolate bar; remember to relax. journal, take a warm shower or bath, light a candle. use some nice lotion and do some mindfulness before sleep, like meditation or something as simple as taking a few deep breaths. it's okay to slow down.

ice cream sandwich; i hope you have good dreams!!! maybe going to a far off fantasy land and befriending a dragon, maybe having a picnic with your friends, maybe laying in a nice field with a loved pet. no matter what, i hope you drift off easily, stay asleep, and wake refreshed.

cookie; cuddle up with your favorite blankie, your stuffie. you're safe, it's okay to do what makes you feel safe and comforted. turn on a night light, soothing sounds, stim if you need. i hope you sleep peacefully with no nightmares. you've got this and you're safe.

#my posts 🌟 #happeycore #happycore #positive thoughts #positivity #recovery #healing #calmcore #self care #mental health #gentle reminder

[myceliumtrees]

i want everyone around me to feel so welcome and loved and seen and appreciated. i want to be the person i so desperately needed all these years

#healing #happeycore #lovecore #peaceful

[honeymooncupid]

Dont forget to always forgive yourself at the end of the day. No matter how many mistakes you made, no matter how strict you were to yourself, no matter how angry you were at yourself or upset you were with yourself, at the end of the day, never forget to make peace with yourself. You can do something wrong, hold yourself acountable, and still be gentle with yourself.

#advice #happeycore #happy #lovecore #self care #self love #suggestion #healing #mental health #positivity #recovery #gentle reminders

[binxelf]

gentle growth is still growth, slow growth is still growth, fast growth is still growth, steady growth is still growth, messy growth is still growth. It’s as simple as that :), growth isn’t linear <3

#writing #lovecore #self healing #self love #wholesome #heartcore #healing #mental health #mental wellbeing #mental health awareness #mental abuse #growth #self care #self care reminder #self improvement #txt post #healingjourney #self worth #reminder #happeycore #love #advice #mental heath support #mentalstrength

[strawberryl0ver]

#healing #inner child #happeycore #happycore #mental health #tw depressing thoughts #wellness #mentalwellness #sanrio #hello kitty #safe and sound

[asterdom]

MY DECEMBER 2022

my december has been wild so far. i have witnessed a lot of changes in my environment. people i used to read so easily has been a great challenge to me now. A LOT of unexpected moments happened and yes i’m in shock coz the amount of unexpected things happened so far this month almost equals to the amount i had last year lol. for the record, this month has been my favorite of the year. i wasn’t very emotional till this month and i think my bestfriends would definitely agree. i’m afraid that i would really say this, i badly need these new, unexpected and memory-worthy events in 2023! i want my whole 2023 to be just like my december 2022!

#december #december 2022 #diary entry #digital diary #diary #2023 #happeycore #positivity

[1980s-slasher-film]

Yeah, yeah, The Horrors, but we mustn’t forget The Joys

#positivity #hopecore #happeycore #idk how to tag this lol I just thought of it and thought it was silly

[benniemews]

GOOD MORNING EVERYONE!!!! I HOPE YOU HAVE A LOVELY WONDERFUL DAY!!!!!!!(⁠｡⁠･⁠ω⁠･⁠｡⁠)⁠ﾉ⁠♡

#happeycore