#hate begone

[catgirltoes]

"Butch women being treated poorly is evidence of anti masculinity" that is literally misogyny. It's just misogyny. Women being hated for being masculine is part and parcel of the misogynistic systems of domination that keep women oppressed.

This Post Was Made By A Transsexual Woman. Any Feminism That Excludes Trans People Is Fundamentally Useless.

#one of these mra-ass motherfuckers also had the sheer teremnity to claim that the hatred of nonbinary people who were amab was antimasculism #THAT IS LITERALLY TRANSMISOGYNY YOU PIECE OF SHIT #i hate men #catgirltxt #edit to add the flag and the giant text #terfs begone and so on and so forth #has alt text

[bylertruther]

i feel like a lot of ppl forget tht max is not a mean person. she was a bit standoffish at first, but that's because a group of boys were "stalking" her (lol) and she was struggling with her new situation. once she realized they were cool, she warmed up to them, wanted to be in their party, and got upset when she felt like they were playing hot and cold with her. and yes, this includes mike, too.

she wanted and tried very hard to be mike's friend. she repeatedly tried to find common ground with him, impress him, talk to him, and extended, like, 9384030 olive branches even though he refused them, lashed out at her, and pushed her away every time.

the same is true in season three. when lucas and will are poking fun at mike, max takes mike's side and defends him. it's only when she becomes friends with el and learns more about their relationship that she changes towards him a little, but that's not even entirely true. her behavior towards him is entirely reactive. once again, he's the one lashing out at her because he's jealous of their friendship, and max is swift to "give him the medicine" every time he tries her. still, that doesn't mean she doesn't like him lmao. she's just not gonna take his attitude without giving some back. that doesn't make her bitchy or mean, though.

like... the jokes are funny, yeah. but with every fandom joke it seems, this joke ends up turning into fanon character interpretation that eventually becomes what people think canon!max actually is. and it's, like... whoa. max? you think max mayfield of all people would be mean for no reason?

max, who didn't give up on mike even when he was mean to her? max, who told lucas that she's angry and sorry but doesn't ever want to be like her brother? max, who stood up to her brother for being a racist, abusive piece of shit because no one else would or could? max, who accepted the risk and showed up to help people she'd only just met even though it was dangerous? max, who never held el snubbing her against her? max, who defended her and mike despite everything? max, who took el in, listened to her, helped her, and immediately became her bestie and heart? max, who defended el all the time and always believed in her? max, who goes to help a stranger crying in the bathroom stall despite having a supremely shitty time herself? max, who refuses to let anyone else take her place in their battle plans? max, who accepted the risk, knowing that failure meant a painful and sadistic death, and sacrificed herself anyway to save the world?

that max?

yes, she's sarcastic. yes, she can be hotheaded. yes, she can be snarky. yes, she absolutely will serve you some attitude right back. but for fucks sake, dude... that doesn't mean she's mean and definitely not unprompted. :/

#sorry i hate when people make max out to be some girl that's a bitch for no reason like shut up. shut up shut up shut UP #STOP talking about max and go sit in the corner and think abt what you've done. revoking ur madmax privileges. begone #she is literally Blorbie of All Time ... i see a bad take abt her? or an awful interpretation? electric chair. sorry #BDJHFBDKJH #everyone is entitled to their opinion but some things are just incorrect. #sarcasm (at least in her case) and not letting mike be a bitch to u =/= meanness #and she doesn't hate mike lmao. she jus doesn't take his shit! #max is not mean. she is sarcastic but tht does not make her mean. just shhhhhhhhhhhhh #mine #max

[ohshinytrinketsmine]

You evil jellyfish. Are you sure? This jellyfish's sting is very painful. It will go directly to your heart.

The Sign, ep 2

#the sign #the sign the series #the sign bl #phayatharn #phaya x tharn #tharn x phaya #but the way phaya looks so breathless? relatable tbh if tharn kissed my cheek and grabbed me like that i'd staright up pass away #it's that naga enchanctment magic yeyeye #anyway here goes that #begone you gifset! never making so many gifs together my hand hurts -_- #we don't talk about how the colors look diff #i do hate the tumblr size limit so much i couldn't post 3 gifs cause of it >:( #thai bl #thai bl drama #thai drama #thai series #bl drama #bl series #bl shows #bl edits #bl gifs #usershinygifs

[thatcakelovingwitch]

Ty doodles ^^ something something outlaw is allowed to exist outside of the other tys something something (im ignoring 141 so this works)

#i love and hate ty so much #he makes me have so many feelings #ty betteridge #outlaw ty #woe.begone #woe begone #w.bg #wbg fanart #little cake drawings

[socially-awkward-skeleton]

So I generally don't like to overshare on the internet, but sometimes a bitch has got to vent. There have been some things going on and I need to get this off my chest:

I never expected Kit to be a character anyone would like tbh, and as with most creative types a lot of her character is based around parts of me (even if she is a deranged monster of a person) she's not entirely made up out of nowhere.

Her backstory with her father, that desperate all-consuming need to hear him say he's proud of her is this writer's free therapy, it's my most cathartic part of Kit's story. My father died when i was 10, he was never there for the major moments in my life: he didn't see me graduate, didn't meet the man I'm married to, didn't get to hold his grandchild when he was born. These are all moments that I wish he had been there for. I will never get to hear him say he's proud of me for the things I've done in my life.

When i say Kit would literally crawl through glass to hear her father say that he's proud, that's ME!

So in saying this, to have that part of my character taken and repurposed by someone else who can't come up with their own original ideas, please know that I have moved past being hurt and sad, and I am now beyond pissed off

#skelly speaks #tbd #i just really hate that this is happening to me and my friends #i've blocked the individual(s) but i know if someone really wants to take they can just make sock accounts and that fucking sucks #really wish a block went right to a person's ip #BEGONE!!

[sokkastyles]

"Ursa is a horrible mom for choosing to forget her children!"

Except that this comic makes it clear that she didn't want to forget her children. She wanted to forget the pain of her life with Ozai. In Ursa's own words, "the pain of a life I did not choose myself."

Of course, her children are a part of that life, but Ursa being forced to make that choice, though it happens in a fantasy context, is all too common the story of women's lives. Ursa didn't get a choice about having children with Ozai in the first place, and Ozai specifically uses the children as a weapon against her because he knows she loves them.

Of course, Ozai doesn't and has no intention of keeping his part of the deal, but blaming Ursa for that is just a colossal failure of reading comprehension and a startling lack of understanding of how patriarchal institutions are set up to favor abusive men and keep women oppressed.

There's a lot in this comic I dislike, but the portrayal of the pain of a woman trapped in an impossible situation and forced into making a horrible choice is actually pretty spot on. The pain over having to choose to leave her children behind, children she never chose to have and cannot protect, and wouldn't have been able to protect from their father's abuse even if she had stayed, even if she hadn't chosen to forget. Every choice she makes compounds her pain, and every choice she makes impacts her children, but will not lesson the trauma they will be put through, either. In that kind of situation, there are no safe choices, for her or the children, and the system is set up that way on purpose. If you want to criticize someone, criticize the abuser, and the one who has the most power, and I assure you it isn't Ursa.

#ursa #the search #ozai #zuko #azula #atla meta #atla comics #just finished reading kindred and not going to tolerate ursa hate today #begone satan #abuse cw

[fivewholeminutes]

it was supposed to be only in pencil, like the previous eepies, but that paper is terrible for pencils, so i gave up

#sleep token #sleep token fanart #god i hate this one but hey #it's still sth i've had fun making 🖤 #still. BEGONE FROM MY DRAFTS so i can forget about you #(my old self would throw this drawing away but i am working so hard on myself rn) #(i still cringe while posting it though) #alex vs the mortifying ordeal of having her art perceived

[rithmeres]

yes, the plans that i could not share with you (because the haters would sabotage me) were that i was taking on LACC in my vash getup :)

i have so few pictures of myself but i got so many compliments (especially on my arm) and plenty of other people took pictures of me. and normally i don't like attention but i will be honest with u. under these circumstances i loved it. my arm held up really well through 8 hours on the convention floor and i have never been prouder of anything i've made. it's articulated incredibly well, no part of it gave out or required repair, it's never uncomfortable or a nuisance to wear, and i have enough range of motion to do relatively complex things like tying my shoes.

originally i was not planning to try to meet anyone famous because 1) it's expensive and 2) the lines are long and 3) i feel weird and annoying approaching literally anyone for any reason BUT. the spot where i met up with my sister just happened to be right next to johnny yong bosch's table. right when he started signing things. so i said LOL ok i'll do it.

it was super chill, i asked him how it felt to get the call that they wanted him to come back 20 years later for a trigun reboot and he said it almost didn't happen -- that since they recast everyone else for stampede they considered recasting vash as well (and i said WOW i'm so glad they didn't) and he said he really enjoyed getting to come back and explore a darker take (i forget if what he said was a darker take on vash's character, or just a darker trigun in general) but it was briefly surprising 2 me that he considered stampede to be a darker version but i get it, especially when u consider that there is not a lot of comedy in those 12 episodes to balance out the grief.

ANYWAY he was impressed with my arm and i asked him if he would sign my coat :) so he signed the lining but he was also like u know what, i'm gonna give you a second autograph just because. so he signed a print for me as well (free of charge!!) and the print with the blue signature matches my famous paintings that i always film in front of (that's providence baybee)

other stuff from the con under the cut

cosplay notes:

i saw 3 other vash cosplayers (a 98 vash, a stampede vash, and a purple coat vash) and no shade but i definitely had the best arm build. peace and love to all of them though

i saw 1 1/2 wolfwoods. 1 was the aforementioned mullet wolfwood from yesterday's post (ww if you’re out there ww) and the 1/2 was the 98 vash cosplayer’s gf in some kind of goth-ish dress and she was carrying a punisher

mullet wolfwood if you're out there i regret not getting a picture with you so much. i am deeply ashamed and i have no excuse because i ran into you twice and both times i was too embarrassed to ask for a picture. i just want you to know that your punisher was swag and your earrings were yolo and we would look very good together

i expected to see a lot more trigun tbh. los angeles where u at. 4 vashies at a convention of 120,000+ people is nothing. one guy even walked up to me like wow i love ur vash, i haven't seen a lot of trigun at this con and i was like I KNOW i thought i'd see a lot more

theeeee costume of all time award goes to the cad bane cosplayer i saw on the balcony. spare hand in marriage dude (gn) you looked so good

second place for costume of all time goes to the other mother cosplayer who had button eyes and these crazy finger appendages and never once broke character even while waiting in lines

i took 100 points of psychic damage from this one guy who (and im not kidding) was at least 6’4’’ and wearing platform boots and was dressed as the mfing onceler. with the stupid top hat he was fr 7+ feet tall (i saw him duck to get through a doorway).

someone was there as the brawny paper towel guy?? just walking around in a beard and flannel carrying a pack of paper towel rolls?? go off king

i saw 5 nightwing cosplayers but only 2 were biblically accurate (had ass)

the nanami sweep at this convention was so real u all SHOWED UP. and everybody ate. i saw at least 12 nanamis and not one of them was a flop.

i have never seen so many spider-mans in my life

other things:

fig. 1: this extremely hot captain america on a very large poster was about 2 make me act unwise. hi gorjus................................. nice eyebrows

fig 2: i saw this sign a couple blocks away from the con and i did a triple take. 🔥🔥🔥TRIMAX MENTIONED🔥🔥🔥

fig. 3: i saw all 4 hobbits in panel and can confirm elijah wood’s laugh is ten times more infectious in real life. before they were even done sitting down, dominic monaghan switched around all of their name cards so that none of them were seated behind the right name. as u might imagine much of the panel's content was reminiscing about LOTR, but i heard some stories that i hadn't heard before. they also talked about video games, other projects they are working/have worked on, how their kids feel about their dads' LOTR roles, how much they love ian mckellen, and how they would love to see something happen for the 20th anniversary of ROTK this year. sean astin (the legend) took shots at the stranger things writers (basically said joyce could never be happy with hopper) AND EVERYONE CLAPPED LOL. billy and dom talked about the best food in NZ, their show billy and dom eat the world, and the unfortunate events that led to the friendship onion's hiatus. it was a ton of fun to just watch them be themselves with each other, you can tell that these guys are all so fond of each other and love each other so much.

and finally, fig. 4: i bought these beautiful prints from @/batinyourbelfry and the skeletal washi tape from @/skeletalacademia (both on IG)

#this post is all over the place but i want u all to experience this with me. baby's first convention #i didn't hate it like i thought i might but i am absolutely WIPED and will b perfectly content to not go to another con for several years #lacc #los angeles comic con #it's so funny walking around and just hearing someone go VASH and literally being like. who said that. #like there are 5 million people in this corridor. where are u so i can acknowledge you #my immediate defense mechanism is to toss up a peace sign so it's very convenient that it is something in character for vash #my favorite compliment was this one guy who was just like 'THAT'S FUCKIN SICK' from across the aisle and i was like 'YEAH!!!!' #long post #ackchewally the more i think about it. i do think sometimes people mischaracterize stampede as lighter than the other triguns #simply because the characters look more baby than their other counterparts #even though many elements of stampede are. truly so dark. #like we are not at manga-level-dark yet but HOO BOY i have no doubt we will get there #i'm dying to see what other horrors orange is cooking bc i KNOW they're cooking awful manga things (laudatory) #hot single dads in your area #my cosplay #this post has taken me hours to write. im so sick of it at this point begone from my sight i hate u

[roobylavender]

a random thought but i really am very obsessed with how deeply committed bruce is to his love of people and to the extent that it’s a regular divide between him and talia. not that she is without love, no, hardly so, but love will never come before principle for her in the sense that the principle does stem from love, but from a selfless love, not a selfish one. and i use these two descriptors purely as a means of analyzing perspective, so selfless and selfish not necessarily as moral indicators as they are often used today but merely as expressions of whether you’re acting for the sake of others or for yourself. talia is someone repeatedly acting at expense to herself for the sake of others. she gives her child away, she ends her marriage, she doesn’t say a word about it again for years despite having the chance, she takes on a high level espionage mission without speaking a word to her ex-lover, maybe to protect herself, maybe to protect him. whether those were worthwhile decisions to take is certainly debatable, but she acts near strictly from a perspective of caring about others and the world first. bruce is comparatively a very selfish person. every victim an extension of his own trauma, every grief taken to heart, every desperation for companionship so heavily internalized that he ends up pushing people away bc at some point he can’t bear to take them down under with him in his sorrow. it’s funny that he tries to be the rational voice in a room bc up to a point he is, but he also cares too much about his own personal affairs to be that way consistently

and in light of all of that i am thinking about the conversations he and talia must have in that alternate universe where damian is normal and newly revealed to both of them as a concrete concept in their lives, for bruce as the son he never had and for talia as the son she gave away, come back to them by way of fate. why did you never tell me you didn’t actually miscarry. why did you never tell me you had a son and you gave him away. why did you pretend like it was over when it never was. why did you look me repeatedly in the eyes over the years like there wasn’t something more that was there. when you said you couldn’t talk about it before i boarded a plane back home i held my tongue. when you let yourself be beaten within an inch of your life bc your city was falling to pieces i held my tongue. when my father took the contingency plans you made and used them to turn your friends against you i held my tongue. when i worked for a man who would for all intents and purposes use the knowledge of my relationship with you against you i held my tongue

how can bruce, a person so wrapped up in his love for people, not understand the number of sacrifices that talia has had to make for his own sake. her repeated protection of him, of his sanity, of his sanctity, is simultaneously her greatest crime and her greatest benevolence to him. she carried that grief of loss for years and years bc of how important bruce is to her. and bruce loves her, loves damian, too much to even begin to understand what love means outside of the parameters of his own feelings for them. that is his dilemma writ large wrt people he loves. that he can’t see the extent of what they do for him, bc he loves them too much and doesn’t know how to get out of the sheer grief and possessiveness of it

#bruce wayne #talia al ghul #he’s like an asian mom kind of. but yeah like i think this is the one thing i am willing to cede to anti bruce people #albeit it makes me more obsessed with him rather than makes me hate him lmao #like idk i think it’s fascinating how like. inadvertently self obsessed he is #like i really don’t think he does it on purpose he’s simply. incredibly attached to the people he cares about #and that kind of messes everything else up bc it’s like #he does the mature thing. physically. he lets people leave and he doesn’t retaliate against their anger (ntt abuse begone) #he kinda sorta just sits with it. but that’s exactly the problem 😭 like bro. process. process.. #not everything is about you and how sad and pathetic and miserable you are of your own choice! #sometimes you have to think about what other people are doing for you! bc they love you and that’s love too! #you can’t infantilize the people in your life bc you care about them. you can’t rob them of their capacity to care for you in equal measure #personal essays

[inflammatoryfandomblog]

the fandom’s discourse around dark magic is pretty much just a manifestation of “people know what they’re upset with, but not the root cause/can’t verbalize a solution to what they’re upset about.”

people who are unhappy with how dark magic is treated generally understand how the narrative frames it. they are correct in saying that there is a problem, and that it somehow involves the setting and dark magic, and then say that maybe it could be fixed if the magic system were changed. but their prescribed solution doesn’t work. the deeper problem is how the narrative uses (or doesn’t use) dark magic.

(flashback reel effect here, basically entirely rewritten but the format still doesn’t work for a full-fleged post so i will keep this transition in.)

that’s what really kills dark magic in this series, right? the fantasy question, “was dark magic good to use and when should it be used, if ever?” should be a jumping off point to explore all the other ways in which people value and instrumentalize power (ie sol regem literally saying the humans are inferior because they are less powerful) instead of staying only at the shallow level of “dork magic is bad for you.” just because the elves don’t use dark magic doesn’t mean they are immune to this discussion. indeed, the very first episode of the show shows us the moon elves engaging in a ritual that can be described as blood magic--binding their limbs to the blood of their targets; is this supposed to be magic that is Pure and Good? is the base problem really just dark magic, or what it represents? and more importantly, is what it represents limited to its practioners? the early answer--especially that we see this stuff from the xadians and are informed of their implied failed genocide early on--would be “no.”

but the later answer is “yes.” this early promise of the show is undercut by the show’s babybrained morality re: xadia and the elves. it never really critiques power in general at all except if its dark magic. it’s all fine and dandy and fun and smart to dunk on the humans, but xadians? insensitive. soren is bad and stupid for making a bad tactical decision, but pyrrah is a Good Dragon Friend even when retaliating against a whole village. it’s not tragic when ezran (a dumb child king who just let this happen) napalms his own people, because they have already been de-personed by dark magic. how convenient! 

and the story that dark magic creates--even if it is inherently harmful--is a great tragic story! the xadians, obsessed with power and how power makes you who you are, are stabbed in the back when some of the dredges finally discover a way to speak their language--and this doesn’t cause basically any self-reflection on their part. instead they basically go all out genocidal and no matter how bad dark magic is, this is extremely disproportionate. but the series still goes “but they are no angels!!! but they are no angels!!!” to basically one side only. for the xadians, the show (and even the supplementary material!) basically does backflips and contortions to show how they are nuanced and how humans should respect them, but there’s basically nothing the other direction.

you can say “oh good inflammatoryfandomblog!!! you’re seeing the point!!!” except i don’t really believe that the show has any intentions of making good on this initial promise. it has given me no indication of doing so, and its asymmetric treatment of the conflict basically does the opposite of the above. this problem does not go away if you change the magic system. this problem does not go away by simply noting the thematic potential of the setup of dark magic. ideas are cheap, though this is one that perhaps costs a nickel instead of a penny. the real problem is the execution.

#oh we spent four seasons trying to bamboozle you #the REAL twist is coming!!! #and if it's like #then it's too late #extremely frustrating that people just. intentionally decide that the problem is that detractors just don't understand the show uwu #people don't invest so much time hating on something unless it has disappointed them in some way #(or for clicks lol. but let's be real. the dragon prince is not a popular show.) #the dragon prince fundementally fails in its themeing and applying it across all the story and the actors in it #no amount of scrubbing away plot inconsistencies (or fixing them) can fix this #and the show is deciding to focus on the eggplant elf #you thought you could get away from aaravos hating? #you can't. #tied with ezran for being the worst character in the show #tdp #tdp critical #me.txt #begone thought

[custer-mp3]

14 y.o.s conducting yourselves in ways that make it glaringly obvious you're 14 please get off my page & stay off, i'm not gonna tell you again

#i hate hardblocking cuz i don't wanna gatekeep resources/content & Just Passing Through & Keeping Your Head Down is fine #but if i catch you in my follow list & click through like OH NEW FRIEND??? then get to your blog and you are SOOOOO LOUDLY A CHILD. #absolutely not!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #learn2navigate mixed-age spaces unobtrusively!!!!!! #my blog is an adult space. if u can't act in a way that respects the vibe of the adult space. begone!!!

[oflgtfol]

this woman is not tortured

this woman is not a poet

”department” the fuck? lol

obviously riffing on the dead poets society in which case you are creatively bankrupt

bankrupt in that A. you cannot come up with your own unique name? gotta riff on a previous title?

and B. you come up with an INFERIOR version of the previous title?

#brot posts #music #god i try not to even vocalyl hate on her cuz i just hate her so much that i wish to not even acknowledge her existence #but this is just too much for me. i have to be vocal about this #also as i must always stress. i am in a unique position to be the biggest tswift hater by virtue of me working both jobs #and BOTH JOBS have to deal with an insane amount of tswift content and tswift fans #and i have been subject to this mental torture for the past year or so now #I AM AT MY WITS END !!! #i never cared for her period but this past year IM SEETHING #BEGONE DEVIL WHITE WOMAN

[frozenhi-chews]

GO AWAAAAYYYYY

#i hated Harry Potter even before all the horrid stuff that JKR did came out #AND THIS IS A BLIGHT #BEGONE WRETCHED CREATURE. THOU DOST INFECT MINE EYES #the cake doth speak

[tee-eff-tedits]

is this meme dead yet it's dead right

#black clover #tftscribbles #black clover fanart #black clover edit #luck voltia #luck black clover #rufel black clover #lufulu black clover #conis one piece #skypiea #one piece #you can tell that my type is blond side characters who don't get enough screen time can't you #I am genuinely hating this the more I look at it so! take it and begone

[andrewknightley]

There are some fictional characters where i am like. Ok im blocking all fans obssesed with this guy. Also blocking all of his haters. Just accepting neutral people here

#this has happened twice to me #is like oh you guys are so annoying only caring about this guy but even more annoying are the people hating on him #i would say loving is good but. You Know those fans that get obssesed with their own version of the chara that is not the chara anymore #or ignores/pushes the other charas away...begone... #talks and stuff

[seagullcharmer]

waaaughhhhh making designs for potential xc1 stickers and/or keychains and SHARLA!!!!!!!!!!

#libra.txt #rent lowering gunshots #if you hate sharla begone #this is a sharla support blog #i love her!!!!!!!! #looking up ref pictures and i'm just like WHY'S SHE SO COOL #sharla my beloved.............