#hated doing them tattoos

[uncanny-tranny]

Okay, are belly button piercings "trashy," or do you just associate them with femininity, or women, or sex work and strike it down as inherently less worthy? Are 'tramp stamps' "trashy", or do you just associate them with femininity, or women, or sex work and strike it down as inherently less worthy? Is pole dance "trashy", or do you associate it with women, or sex work and strike it down as inherently less worthy?

These are examples, but I find it interesting when people link things with womanhood or femininity or - gasp! - sex work and then immediately condemn, scrutinize, and dehumanize those who even dapple a little in these things, even if it isn't for sex work or to "look trashy." It's funny how the feminine or woman is seen as trashy until proven otherwise, and it's shameful that people still hold the bias that women must prove their humanity by not "being trashy" or "acting like a hooker."

#feminism #look i'm not arguing sex work with people but it's funny that SWers are seen as less than human unless they have a sad story or they hate.. #...themselves for 'stooping so low.' and it's funny that women bear both brunts of misogyny (sarcasm) #i'm saying this as a man who is also 'trashy' because i exercise my bodily autonomy every chance i get #just got my belly button done and i think it's a lovely body mod that can be so versatile #same with lower back tattoos!!! some of them are SO pretty in design and artistry #misogyny #misogyny tw #as i get older i realize just how deep the misogyny and policing of ESPECIALLY femininity and those who are/are forced to be/ect women #frankly a woman should be able to 'be trashy' or 'act like a hooker' and not fear for their safety or wellness #again i say all this as a man but i also want women* to feel safe and able to exercise the same bodily autonomy i do as a man

[foreverppl]

Moodboard for Jinnah Beatty (they/she), lead singer of ethereal goth band Mayday Malady.

@infamous-if

Playlist

#romancing august I think but we’ll see what oriana is saying when the updated demo comes out hehe #some quick facts: #they usually go by their last name #her goal with her style is to be constantly mistaken for a beautiful ghost #lots of long skirts/dresses + layers. gossamer looking fabric etc. only ever wears black or white #on stage she’s also usually wearing a mourning veil bc of course she is #half of her love of music comes from the spectacle of it. like being able to construct a persona and exist in it for a little while #like playing make believe #they make a lot of their own clothes. if they weren’t doing music they’d definitely be doing something in fashion. #she deeply deeply hates being misunderstood or having her words/actions be twisted so she’s like pulling her hair out rn lmao #the band’s songs are pretty high usually so she always secretly finds it funny when fans try to sing along and are off key or something lol #the only tattoo they have is seven’s initials and she doesn’t really plan on getting any others #they’re hesitant abt being a positioned as the leader bc sometimes she has issues with reeling in her emotions #and responding reasonably in the moment. #anyway she can’t relate to the loser mc allegations she’s the coolest mf on the scene tbh #but I am sorta… scared for them. #on account of the horrors that are yet to come #bc truthfully they don’t know any coping mechanisms that aren’t just ‘ignore it until it goes away’ lmao #one of the things she is currently ignoring to the best of their ability is seven #if: infamous #mb #mc: jinnah beatty (infamous)

[lornasaurusrex]

I miss you Lorna… this is such a mess

This is an old message and I had several other similar messages, but I miss you guys and hope you’re all doing well!! I’m sorry to see nothing has improved.

I saw I was kindly mentioned by @awesomefringey and some other commenters the other day, so just wanted to log in and say hello and log back out for a few more months. 💕

Sending so so much love to all of you. Take care of yourselves and each other, please.

The video is still on YT.

#Anywayyyyy #The fandom added a whole lot more C to my C-PTSD #So a nice random message every few months instead of a freshly posted death wish is LOVELY. #Don’t fret. On meds and therapied but fresh tf out of money from it so @ L and H… lornasaurusrexx at g*ail is the PayPal if ur bored 🙃 #I hate to be like this but protect your hearts. They’ll never be able to look out for you guys and they feed these trolls ammo for snacks #and it seems to have only gotten worse. Gotta keep them hets hetbaited for their money whilst actively encouraging them to bully yall? Why? #STILL!? At this point it feels like they’ve both chosen that path deliberately now and I find it quite gross. but I’m also very far removed #So don’t worry about my opinions. Keep trusting your own intuition!!! You all see it. I love you guys and your beautiful hearts and empathy #But I hope they can sleep at night knowing the absolute fucking genuine WRECKAGE they left across the Big Gay War generation/era of Larries #Don’t worry guys I’m just as dramatic as ever. None of this has anything to do with them coming out or anything. Just how we were treated. #But trust I fuckin mean that shit from the deepest darkest pit of my Demon Larrie™️ heart. They encouraged this. 🤷🏼‍♀️ #Anyone who cares about my actual life updates: I’m a school nurse now and will be working at a bougie summer camp over break #Had a surgery I needed. Got new tattoos and piercings. In a happy and healthy relationship with the best dude for almost a year now. #OH and I went to New Zealand last year with Prettytruthsandlies!!!! We made a pact back in our Big Gay War/college days to go. And we DID!! #I got overstimulated and overfed and puked in Hobbiton. 🤣 (It was the best time of my LIFE GENUINELY🥰🥰🥰🥰🥹🥹🥹) #Okay BYE LOVE YOU GUYS #There are better and more humane ways to maintain a closet ..like literally STFU entirely. Ignoring it and not exploiting a kid is FREE #🇵🇸

[j-esbian]

why are people so weird about silence

#like 5 times in the past week it has come up #every time someone walks into the room where i’m working they’re like ‘haha you should turn the radio on’ i don’t want to #i’m the only one in here #was helping another guy set up a machine and he was like ‘you can put your headphones in. i’ve got mine that’s why i’m not talking’ like #cool bro. i didn’t even know it would have been an issue if you hadn’t said something. i think that’s just on you #and at dnd another person was talking about how weird and quiet their tattoo artist is bc she doesn’t talk and i was like #god that sounds IDEAL #why do people assume silence is inherently awkward and uncomfortable. why can’t we just sit and enjoy it #or at least. if you feel those things why do you need to project it onto others #this is why i hate that ppl online will talk about ‘neurodivergent swag’ to mean like. ‘never shuts up’ #if someone wants to talk i’m not going to actively stop them but like. your experiences are not universal

[justalittlebluetiefling]

I finally made a tattoo appointment so I'll finally have my CR-inspired tattoos next Thursday.

#personal #just in time for them to heal before the london live show #making a tattoo appointment was a birthday present to myself #i hate making appointments but it's also been like 2 years since i got a tattoo so i'm overdue #making the appointment the day before my birthday was another birthday present for myself i wouldn't have wanted to do that tomorrow

[femmeidiot]

Roman numerals are so stupid there's a reason we moved on to regular numbers

#I hate when people have their age in their bio as Roman numerals I don't want to have to do math to figure out your age #I hate them for tattoos also

[insertsickusername13]

I'll be leaving to live in the woods for four days with no internet or phone so you know what I want to happen in the bmc fandom while I'm gone? Detailed headcanons about Rich's tattoos. Fanfics about Rich's tattoos. Drawings of Rich's tattoos. Are they real or does he draw them on? What are they of? Does he get some redone after the fire (I'm assuming most were ruined by the burns)? Does Jake help pick them out? Are they meaningful or is he one of those people that tattoos memes all over his body for no reason? Are they words or designs? Small or extravagant? Colored? I obviously do not care what they looked like in canon. I want the fandom to make a detailed exhibit of what they are because. fandom shit is better than canon. I want an entire subsection of tumblr dedicated to this cause. I need it.

#i feel like this forces people to give depth to Rich you know #like it's impossible to have a headcanon or fanfic about tattoos without depth #no he doesn't have the words 'it's from japan' tattooed across his forehead give me something good #rich goranski #i like to think he drew them on #i like to think the popular kids helped him draw them on #brooke specifically bc i always liked the idea of her being into careful art like tattoos and nails #it's also an excuse not to go home #sitting on jake's living room floor for hours while brooke very carefully draws on a tattoo #maybe it's a tradition of sorts #and it's one of the main reasons he begins to hate his squip #because being forced to sit there #still and quiet #while jake does his homework or works somewhere else in the house #and brooke carefully draws on his arm #he realizes these people really do not care about the persona he puts up at school #they kind of just care about him? #bmc #be more chill musical

[sugashook]

they forgot he has chest tattoos i hate them so much im cryyy

#i genuinely hate them #i was like why can i read his childrens names clearly thats new #they can remember to do their zionist work but not draw a map of his tattoos on a piece of paper #okay ! #can that blond bimbo use his head and not do this

[coldshrugs]

all the proud hours i hold are around you

thank you for this gorgeous commission of io and estinien, @impossible-rat-babies!!! i'm in love with it 🥺💗

#io laithe #estinien varlineau #io/estinien #i am. committing to this ship salkdfjsakl #don't look at me. don't judge me #i'm just obsessed with them #ANYWAY THIS IS SO FUCKIN SOFT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA #their soft lil faces!!!!! so comfortable and happy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #the light??? the light coming off them??? STOP #her hand tattoos I'M BITING THROUGH THE WALL #his hand... in her hair............................. i am a puddle i am no longer human i can't do this #they're so beautiful i can't stand it. sickening tbh #hate this for me. i can't be normal #owen i love how much volume io's hair has too

[anotherpapercut]

I truly will never understand people who get mad when strangers compliment their tattoos. this is how public spaces work. sometimes people see you and talk to you

#yeah i paid hundreds of dollars to have an artist permanently etch this design into my skin but if you tell me its cool ill be pissed #do you also get mad when people compliment your hair or clothes???? #i hate talking to strangers but come on. lighten up a little lmao #just feels like a way to assert that youre better because youre like. chiller abt tattoos?? and a reason to make a snarky facebook post #anyway please compliment my tattoos i spent a lot of time in pain so that i could show them off #and i enjoy connecting with other people who like the art that ive chosen to display and i dont know why you'd be mad at a compliment #i even dont mind at all when people ask me if them or my piercings hurt because i understand the concept of curiosity #just get a huge tattoo that says dont fucking ask me about my tattoos if ur gonna wig out about it

[uncanny-tranny]

Bodily autonomy extends to people doing things with their bodies that you, personally, do not like.

One thing I am very tired of seeing is people spreading the idea that certain procedures or bodily adornments should be outlawed simply because they don't think it's "right." For example, I saw a person spreading a person's nose job result around, saying it should be illegal to do this procedure. But we have no idea why this person got it. You can absolutely criticize beauty culture without resorting to spreading peoples' image without consent, or shaming individuals who recieve certain procedures. Additionally, you can encourage individuals to reflect on their choices and why they want certain things, but you cannot expect them to ultimately conform to what you think is best.

We can advance the idea that all bodies are worthy inherently and no matter what, but we ought to continue to do so regardless of if that body has had changes made to it. "Your body, your choice" as an ideology extends to making choices others don't like.

Again: When you don't own your body, you own nothing.

#beauty culture #i am in favour of destroying beauty culture. i HATE it. i want it DEAD #but you can't pretend like everybody will stop altering their body without beauty culture #this isn't about nose jobs by the way it was an example of an instance of what i was talking about #my dad doesn't like my diy tattoos but it didn't stop me from owning my body #this just feels like it can slide real quick into arguments about why transition surgery should be banned #i admit: i am uncomfortable with some procedures or altercations that people do to their bodies... #...BUT my opinion shouldn't override their freedom. i want that person to be safe and happy. i don't want them to be miserable or unhappy #all bodies are worthy no matter what actually #we are mature enough to realize this genuinely #body shaming #body shaming tw #biggest pet peeve is repeating myself but i will do it in the vain hope that maybe my voice will be heard

[goldentangerines]

rereading passages from harrow the ninth to ruin my night. started crying at "love is a revenant, gideon nav, and it accumulates love-stuff to itself, because it is homeless otherwise. i'm not saying she didn't care about you. one does care about one's cavalier, it can't be helped ... but i watched harry rearrange her brain so that she could empty herself of you." i almost threw up at "i never made her look like that ... she can't love me, even if i'd wanted her to. she can't love you. she can't even try" why would anyone want to read that and why am i addicted to it

#gideon the ninth #harrow the ninth #page 435 #fuckinh BULLSHIT i'm so sad!! i hate them so much but i couldn't live without them #they're making me insane they're the most relatable i've ever felt i'm about to throw the book out i want to tattoo it on me #i want everyone to know about these books i never want anyone to read it ever #do you get me. i'm so serious i'm so silly #gremlin speaks #the locked tomb

[chanstopher]

guys my birthday is in a few days i’m soooo pumped 😭

#this weekend can’t come fast enough #i’ve been so damn busy but this weekend i’m gonna just chill #and do stuff that makes me happy 🥹 #sorry i’ve been mia life is insane #i’m trying to book a tattoo that i haven’t even finished designing 💀 #and my brother has been on my ass about hanging out #cause our birthdays are so close and we never see each other #(it’s his birthday today 🖤) #and he’s so fucking excited i’m gonna finally watch one piece he’s been so obnoxious about it for years #anyway i know i have a bunch of asks i will try to come on tomorrow and get through them #i hate being so mia but i love that you guys still care 🥹🖤🩶🤍

[opens-up-4-nobody]

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#me @ my youngest sister at 6.30 this morning: yooooooo can u draw me a fishy so i can get it tattooed on me? #i drew her some flowers so i want a paralell tattoo with her initials bc she has my initials on her #but i literally have not spoken to her since like may bc i do not talk to my sisters unless we r in the same room. no hate we just dont hav #a lot in common. it makes me a lil sad tho bc im curious abt them. my youngest sister is at least nice to me 😭 #ive been thinking abt asking her for ages and last night i was asked abt my sisters so i was like. the time is now #while im still a bit elevated #which has been to my advantage bc i was able to stay v chatty and energetic while talking to ppl. and i think i made some friends #we bonded over fic reading. so theyre a bit. ya kno. girls gays and theys of science #we make the world go round. but its so interesting to hear them talk abt coming to school here bc they both liked where they were and r #leaving their support systems. and im like bruh if i didn't leave the southwest i was gonna die. im so happy to b here #support system? whats that. i talk to my parents once a month and that's it lol. but im gonna try to establish one here #and try to actually make actual friends. this school is way better abt making grad students interact #my last school was not at all like that. but anyway i had fun #and i mean im only at the start of the semester. and im in a good mood. and i kno things will get stressful #but im just really happy i got accepted here #and the longer im here the more clearly i can see how much i was suffering #the funny thing is tho that i wrote this last night and only hours later i was squirming in frustration bc the fact that im back in therapy #means i feel a greater obligation to not b actively self destructive. evil coping mechanisms my beloved #this is y my mum wanted me back in therapy bc im a goodie 2 shoes and when my counselor is like: did u do X the next time i see her. ill b #honest and itll b annoying >:-[ ugh #its just hard for me to b around ppl a lot bc i get stuck in mental loops bc ocd. which is exhausting. and i want it to stop #and i want to do bad things to make it stop but i wont bc im trying to b better #its just funny to me that ill go from everythings awful to everythings great i shoukd talk to my sisters and make friends and do this and #this and this. to oh god i cant do this anymore in such short time frames with certainty that how im feeling is how ive always felt #ive also noticed that my peaks of high energy do come before stressful events. which does make me worry for future stressful events. like #defending. i mean ive never gone fully off the tracks but its a lil alarming when it feels like the train is going at a million miles an hr #unrelated #meanwhile my other sister is apparently in Colorado but when i saw the pics is was like: YOU BITCH #R U CLOSE TO ME RN??? but no. Colorado is far away

[silouvertongues]

god i genuinely hate celebrities there's nooo way he hasn't seen a single thing about starbucks and mcdonalds both i feel sick

#didnt say anything last time bc ok maybe theres a chance he didnt know but theres absolutely no way now bc people flooded his mentions back #its just so stupid to do this right after he waxes poetic about how important fans are to him #maybe you can even argue that him not drinking coffee or not eating a burger wont stop a genocide but its about solidarity #its about being a decent enough person to come out of your privileged bubble and be considerate of whats happening around the world #man of the people my ass im so mad like fuck you and your stupid fucking anarchy tattoo #like ok maybe someone from his team grabbed it for him but i refuse to believe he doesnt know a single thing about the boycott #he couldve left it and grabbed another coffee its $7 he wouldnt have died #im so annoyed ive been feeling annoyed at him since january and now this #refuses to say a word about it and then publicly shows up in the two biggest boycotted places are you joking #<- i wasnt even that iffy abiut him not saying anything i hate the idea of celebrities speaking out after we have to beg them #bc it just feels insincere at that point #but these two instance After his silence are so annoying god

[britcision]

Alright fuckers I took another stab at it and did the thing, I may/may not finish the actual like, proportionate version one day but he needed to exist and hair hides all my arm related sins.

Please dear gods anyone whose art is even a tertiary focus Lycion NEEEEEDS a Knot All Men shirt I am beset by cursed visions but usually I write them or make cursed little dolls (yes there will be a cursed little Lycion doll with a cursed little shirt but the embroidery thread is fucking fighting me on Mithrun so I dunno when)

Also he has a smoothie

Because one of the many reasons I really do not draw much is I am aphantasmic and do not and cannot visualize so let me tell you every single aspect of this except the shirt just. Happened. What are poses. What are limbs. Bodies exist but WHY.

The shirt had to be a crop top tho for legal reasons that was extremely clear to me

(Hey fun realization tiny Lycion and I feel exactly the same way about all his lil elf limbs they're all wrong and we hate them WAS MY MISTAKE NOT TRYING TO DRAW HIM AS A FURRY. Fuck. I think furries are harder but I might try it.)

#delicious in dungeon #dungeon meshi #lycion #lycion dungeon meshi #knot all men #lycion deserves a knot all men shirt #i am almost the worst person to make this happen gang you have no idea #gonna make the doll one hot pink i'm so excited #but i mean my art is still somehow better than it was a decade ago despite literally never drawing anything #so read art tutorials! and tips! they help even with 0 practice! #(you should probably also practice) #(i'm not gonna i have too many cursed visions to write i have no timeeeee) #(which sucks cuz i am at the stage of 'can see where everything is wrong' but know i'm not gonna practice and then improve) #eh we living that how to draw manga life #didn't cross a million words on ao3 by having a balance of interests #the proportionate version has all his tattoos and everything but Poses Exist and i hate them and he has been redrawn 3 times already #because they are Wrong but How Are They Wrong i can't visualize i literally do not know what right looks like #other aphantasmics can draw and y'all are stronger than the fucking gods #how you pose