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#having been in that positiom it was complicated
aro-culture-is
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Aro culture is not understanding why someone won’t break up with their so when they lose feelings
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#aro culture is
#aro
#aromantic
#actually aro
#actually aromantic
#ask
#mod kee
#having been in that positiom it was complicated
#there's always something more behind the scenes imo and usually you're looking at someome who is
#... hmm how to phrase it... potentially hyperempathetic / hypersensitive to other's emotions for a variety of reasons including trauma
#and / or just concerned about how the other will handle it
#and those are all v common
#like... personally i had a bg of emotional abuse and my partner was very into me... and i was worried how she'd respond
#and she responded very poorly!! i was afraid of her responding with emotional abuse tactics and... she did.
#and i know you might be thinking 'well yeah obviously if there's abuse... but im not talking about that' and the thing is:
#how do you know? do you know intimately both people to not have a history of abuse? do you know that abusers groom their social circles?
#they don't beleive their in the wrong - and they dont associate with people who do or would likely believe that
#in all genuine and awful honesty: most people escaping from abuse find that ppl don't want to believe they know an abuser and excuse it
#oh and clarification: by having been in that position i mean that i was aro all along but realized i was more repulsed than enjoying it
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