#he is your father but he is out daddy

[lotus-pear]

what did he mean by this

he's gonna eat salad with a spoon

#anyway this was like the scene where he got kouyou to send a msg back to the pm requesting a meeting between mori n fukuzawa #i think. or it was abt kyouka joining the ada and he told the pm not to interfere w that #if i see anybody comment “yes daddy” or anything of that sort under this post i will tear out your spine with my bare hands #that is a twenty two year old man. not your father. #he needs to earn the title first #lotus’s asks

[conanssummerchild]

me and my dad are like abed and jeff in the way that jeff always gets abeds references, theyre two characters that mirror eachother, they understand and relate to eachother in a way thats different from other characters relationships, but also in the way jeff fantasises about strangling abed, "you try to get him to do something normal without abusing him!", "youre a robot, abed". and still jeff goes in for two hugs before abed leaves.

#been trying to work through my feelings about my relationship with my father lately in a healthy way #(through my favourite media) #its sad because if my dad wasnt such a self centred thinks hes smarter than everyone else rude passive agressive dick #maybe we could have the best relationship #because we are so painfully similar #we are literally just like jeff and abed #but i mean jeff said it in the third episode “i dont want to be your father” #my dad wants to help me about as much as jeff wants to help #and yet in the first episode jeff is the one to tell abed “you have aspergers” #and in e3 “abed is not normal” #like hes the first to acknowledge abeds autism he just doesnt care enough to help #and all the sarcastic robot jokes god #those are practically taken out of my fathers mouth #alex says shit #alex is an idiot #community #abed nadir #jeff winger #tagging in case i actually said smth that makes sense but if not take this with a grain of salt its fully me projecting #nbc community #also sorry for familial relationship-ising ur jabed not tryna turn this into jeffannie #just tryna get thru my daddy issues

[moonpaw]

The uranium protagonist did not win the healthy good relationship with parents lottery

THEY DID NOT😭

#mp answers #i have a few more comics under my belt planned out on just this cause. yeah its kinda fucked up LMAO #dad is a dead beat (but hey he's trying now? but its been 10 years man) #and your mom um #well she #uh #how do you get over her threatening to kill you while getting real close to killing your father and your friend and his dad #its obvious the protag loves their dad (given the side quest post story) but also. he was a dead beat for 10 years #and he officially quit his job to be with his family after lucille was revealed #with lucille being the reason why and never you (you are a part of it but never the main reason) #lucille needs all the care she can get if she wakes up but MAN. #theres no way the protag doesnt have some kind of mommy and daddy issues #pokemon uranium

[bumblingbabooshka]

On the topic of Harry and Kes being proteges to Janeway and Tuvok respectively - both of them developing mommy/daddy issues despite having perfectly normal and healthy relationships with their parents.

#Janeway mommy issues (spontaneous development) vs Tuvok daddy issues (deepening problem) #Janeway will give you mommy issues regardless of your relationship with your actual mother #Tuvok will not GIVE you daddy issues but if you already have them? Brother. They're about to get worse. #<- Why Harry is immune but Tom is not #Tom and B'Elanna are double K.O'd by Tuvok & Janeway #I think Kes still has unresolved stuff with her father since he died so soon and she obviously still misses him #would be enough. #Tuvok just gives the vibe of someone who is not trying at all to be fatherly to others and yet somehow keeps attracting people who have #bad relationships with their own father. #Like 'And you can be my dad' (I don't want to be your father) 'Great! You already know your lines!' #Important: Tuvok will never IMPROVE your daddy issues unless you're a very specific type of person #Like for Kes I think she'd make it out fine but Tom would kill himself trying to gain Tuvok's approval #He wouldn't even know why #voy

[mitchievousness]

KazuRei Week Day 1 - Growing Old

when miri is fully grown and moves away from the family home, the papas move to the countryside and become the unofficial elder gays in the little village

#the papas deserve a good rest from the bustle of the city #rei is wearing a samue ! he likes casual yukatas bc its simple and loose (and very different from the suits that he used to wear) #kazuki just likes to wear a shirt and basketball shorts lmao #he also has a bit of a beer belly ;w; #most of the townsfolk privately refer to them as elder gays even tho they never officially told anyone but cmon. #no one's falling for the ''we've been roommates for almost four decades'' bs #they suck at giving advice tho... (baby gay: how did you guys come out to your parents? #kazuki: never told mine. we already weren't on speaking terms when i met rei so. #rei (trying not to say that his father tried to assassinate both his husband and child when he found out): ... yeah same #((also yes this is all inspired by barakamon lmao. its one of my favourite animes - slice of life comedy and has lots of cute kids in it!)) #anyways first prompt done woo!!! happy kazurei week everybody! #this is the first fan week that im gonna participate in all the days (hopefully lmao i still have to do two other prompts) #also i tried to do a different style than my usual in the first pic and even tho im not entirely happy with it its eh. fine. lol #i just like rotating this half-cooked au in my mind hkfhkjfdgs #buddy daddies #kazurei #kazurei week 2023

[ereborne]

Song of the Day: March 27

"Long Time Gone" by The Chicks

#song of the day #I'm still thinking about the Country Songs About Country Songs #this is actually a cover too though I never hear the original around anywhere #(it's by Darrell Scott who is also the originator for 'You'll Never Leave Harlan Alive' #turns out he's got a bunch of songs that got picked up and made somewhat more popular in the hands of other folks. an interesting legacy) #the best lines of this song to sing are also the bits About Country Music--well the whole song's about chasing the love of it #but this bit is bemoaning the kids these days you know. country music isn't what it used to be. why back in my day etc etc #it's so so so much fun to sing too because you get to exaggerate your 'I think's until they rhyme with 'Hank'. excellent work #'we listen to the radio to hear what's cookin / but the music ain't got no soul #now they sound tired but they don't sound Haggard / they got money but they don't have Cash #they got Junior but they don't have Hank / I think I think I think / the rest is a long time gone' #it's fascinating to me to think about these songs in (saying 'historical' here is giving me psychic damage but) historical context #because the Darrell Scott original for Long Time Gone came out in 2000 and The Chicks released their version in 2002 #so they were talking about the trend towards American jingoism in country music of the time #versus like Waylon Jennings in 1975 'Are You Sure Hank Done It This Way' #(I typed that and /then/ went back and looked up the release date and I'm so proud I got it right) #already bemoaning the state of country music in the 70s versus good old classic country like Hank Williams Senior sang #(Hank Jr covered Waylon's song in 1981. like yes it's a tribute to his father but also Hank Jr was a big push towards outlaw country #and has a few pretty famous songs himself about not singing like his daddy did. it just seems a strange choice to me) #and then Eric Church put out 'Lotta Boot Left to Fill' in 2009 calling out the shallowness of the country music scene of the time #(talking some only-thinly-veiled shit about a few of his peers in the process) #and then he released 'Stick That In Your Country Song' in 2021 and that /definitely/ put some backs up #that one's a less directed but more direct call-out if that makes any sense #no lines that are direct references to other artists' songs but stronger sentiments overall #not just general 'y'all are getting shallow prioritizing good times and high sales over genuine heart and integrity of craft' #but some straight up 'you have forgotten the face of your father' shit towards country artists and fans alike. the whole industry #a very good righteous-anger song

[nonuggetshere]

I need to draw something with PK and Hornet there's not enough of these two together in my art

#thylacines can talk #in my au specifically she used to be SUCH a daddy's girl but then she grew up and grew bitter and resentful over her role in life. the #reason for her birth and the way her pwn sibling has been treated. She actually drifted away from both of her biological parents because #her being bitter about being concieved for a specific purpose and already having all of her life planned out for her is a big part why she #grew distant with her father and step mother so naturally it also applied to her mother. but she grew apart way more from PK and WL because #she had more grievances with them than just that one thing. Plus PK could sometimes be a little too smothering and overprotective. He truly #loves his daughter and maybe showers her with more love than usual because of what he did to his other kids but at times he doesnt know how #to reel it back. he got worse when Hornet pulled away because he was terrified of losing her which ironically made the drift bigger. #eventually they reconcile and grow closer again but they'll never be as close as they were when she was little. Or maybe they're just close #in a different way and that's alright. I don't see Hornet as an overly affectionate person so being smothered with love bugs her. She loves #her father and step mother of course she does. But she has a different way of showing it which took a little while for them to understand #and adjust to. They eventually grow close just not in that very affectionate little kid way #She actually grew closer to Vespa during her teen years as she was her teacher and mother figure and Hornet clung to her when she grew apart #from her two mothers and father. #oh a funfact. Hornet doesn't really call WL step mother. When she was little Herrah was mummy and WL was momma and now that she's older #they're both mum but she comes up with increasingly more ridiculous ways to differentiate them. She only really calls WL 'step mother' when #shes angry with her. or 'your mother' if she's talking yo her siblings. A very cheap shot that would make WL feel really shitty but makes #Hornet feel better for a while. #faaf au

[khanumshahrzad]

I imagine Art posabule being like the worst with dealing with girls, he just doesn't know how to bond with christina, he literally just has no idea, he physically can't do something feminine like simply doing his daughter's hair because he's a grown christian man and shouldn't be doing girl stuff thatll turn him into a sissy even if it was to build a healthy bond with his own daughter, so he just keeps ignoring christina's attempts at making them father-daughter bond and spend quality time together, he's always like "go to your mom i'm pretty sure she knows more about this stuff!"

#this is out of character but im just thinking about christina's silly little miserable family #definitely not inspired by my own life #moral orel #christina posabule #art posabule #daddy issues isn't sexy daddy issues is the pain of your father not wanting you in first place #he's literally just girldad clay and ya'll ignoring it

[asexualdindjarin]

DEADWOOD 1.12 Sold Under Sin // 3.12 Tell Him Something Pretty

DAVID MILCH: When Bullock experiences uncontrolled emotion, he wants to answer it with violence, and that frightens him, because it reminds him of what he ran away from.

#deadwood #seth bullock #hbo deadwood #tvedit #perioddramaedit #tvgifs #* #everyone @ seth: WHATS YOUR DAMAGE #(it's daddy issues) #tim oly voice hes the kind of guy who wakes up every day and imagines beating the shit out of his father #timothy olyphant #timothyolyphantedit

[theshadowrealmitself]

Vulcans unironically making posts like “I am not the step parent, I’m the parent that stepped up”

#Vulcans #Star Trek #based on the very specific interaction in my head #there’s a lot of steps to get to what I was thinking of #but eventually I ended up thinking about some poor human raising her half vulcan kid alone #because the father eventually caved to his own father’s wishes that he ‘bond with a respectful vulcan woman’ #(not because I think all Vulcans are xenophobic but sometimes your day dreams gotta be soap operas) #and the ‘respectful Vulcan woman’ he’s supposed to bond to is like ‘no that’s not logical to abandon them like that’ #so she goes to help the human out and they eventually get together #which is what led to me thinking about this #also in this specific scenario that father to the half vulcan kids isn’t a creep #he genuinely wanted to stay with the human and raise their kid together #but he’s got some serious daddy issues #thinking about it eventually leading to a poly thing and he’s just smug like ‘I bonded to who you wanted’ #‘you never said I couldn’t have multiple bonds’ #I don’t even really care about kids that much but I love vulcan/half vulcan kids #because there’s the cuteness of the kids trying to be serious dialed up because they’re trying to be *extra* serious #and I usually think of the mother as human because of Amanda #(also because of my own father issues that low key make me hate human fathers) #and like with every oc I have they could be enby #depends on the mood I’m in #sorry for the weird long tags #edit just to clarify that the only reason why I’m not saying this oc can be a trans man is just because I have issues with human fathers #cause normally my ocs are genderfluid

[widowshill]

this fb post that my mom sent me ... only the real ones know the secret correct answer (c)

#ROGER REALLY WANTS A WIFE THAT WON'T RUN OFF — #would be NICE. #➤ ooc. ┊ she’s nauseous，she’s hysterical，and she’s exhausted. #same story different versions. and all are true. #which petulant paranoid collins boy is vicki hired to take care of? well‚ yes. #all the comments are about how she's actually roger's daughter. you guys are out of your damn minds. #secret uncle ? well. maybe. secret dad ? no. #roger got betty hanscombe pregnant? roger couldn't even get laura pregnant. #and he's too young to be her daddy anyway ... well. that kind of da– [gunshot] #it's not true. lies and slander. roger was much too busy fucking the yale swim team at this time #to be fathering victoria winters his future wife. and you can take that to the bank.

[bottomvalerius]

Casually overcome with peepaw and problem child thoughts and how while Damien has always been butt hurt with Sam, Sam has always adored him and then i blacked out and sketched this LMFAO

#not pictured is the tantrum he was probably throwing before knocking the fuck out #‘wow. you really are JUST like your father huh kid’ #rambling #he is Daddy but he is also FATHER. A SINGLE DAD WHO WORKS TWO JOBS!! #WIP

[mcsiggy]

Making morris a legit actual dad honestly has made him so much more interesting for me.

#he's the most villain guy out of all of my ocs and he is also an excellent parent #i guess most of my oc's who are parents are good parents but #morris also will fuck your mother and your father at the same time #get you a guy who dads and daddies i guess idfk

[litt1e-prince]

living in my own home away from my dad but he still waits up for me to get home

#i was panicking cause 'whos up at 2am. who can i call at 2am- no one will pick up the pho-- my dad. his phone is ALWAYS on loud.' #it rings twice and im like 'shit dad im so sorry to call you and wake you' and hes just there like 'oh dont worry. i was waiting for you.' #turns out: my mum was suppose to message me to tell me to call my dad when i got off the coach to walk home! she must've forgot tho #cause i was initially just gonna walk home ez - it wasnt until the guy cat called me and started following me again that i thought #nOPE NOT THE NIGHT NOT THE VICTIM I GOTTA CALL SOMEONE OR SMTH #so i thought i might have woken him but nope he was already waiting on me - kinda had a moment of !!!!!! #my dad miiight have grown to become my hero or smth pfshhh anyway #ALSO U KNOW I DID THAT THING AGAIN. random stranger starts talking loudly and i looked at him - u give them a glance and they take it ALL. #gotta learn to stop doing that for my own fuckin safety jfc. BUT I MADE IT HOME SAFE ANYWAY SO #me and my dad just talked about our days and mid way he was like 'are you okay? you sound like youre shivering? is it cold or-' #'OH YEA im just cold. its freezing.' 'Ha! trust me there is nothing better than being in the freezing cold and then getting into bed. #best feeling... i know you have your own life now but its good to make sure you get home safe.' #ITS LIKE ONE OF THOSE LIKE. ARHGHGH my dad loves me fuck the rest of yall- #this is for all those people who say i have daddy issues cause i make a father figure out of every character i like- #ur correct but- #ANYWAY SOmetimes forget my dad has unmedicated anxiety. my mans out here fighting for him life on a random saturday cause his kid #didnt get home until 2am. then he wakes up at 6am to help my brother - My guy doing It All. #my art #ted talk

[fauvester]

quadrouple checks to make sure i put Daddy Lessons on the iskra playlist

#ic dame up on my run.... remains a Bop Of All Time (BOAT) #garashir adoption au #dee s 9 #HE SAID TAKE CARE OF YOUR FATHER #WATCH OUT FOR YOUR BROTHER #THATS WHEN DADDY LOOKED AT ME WITH HIS GUN AND HIS HEAD HELD HIGH HE TOL ME NOT TO CRY #wooooooooo thats them baby.... #garak taught iskra so many skills and coping mechanisms... not all of them good adaptive or moral...

[zahra-rose]

Kendrick said it better but he is not your savior.

- Kendrick Lamar, Mr. Morale & The Big Steppers (2022)

#song quotes #epic music #mr. morale & the big steppers #savior #mirror #father time #count me out #kendrick lamar #lyrics god #auditive slap #rap morale #life lessons #we cry together #Tupac’s spiritual son #I choose me I’m sorry #grown men with daddy issues #are you happy for me bitch? #he is not your savior #rich nigga broke phone #can’t fuck with you no more I’m fasting #this is what the world sounds like #ancestors watching me fuck was like retaliation #when you was at your lowest tell me where everybody was at? #if i didn’t learn to love myself #forgive myself a hundred times #you got daddy issues that’s on you