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hypergamiss · 4 months

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I get it, women take a lot more accountability than men (imo) because society is currently set up this way. Women fill up churches, support groups, therapy, they’re purchasing more self-help books and literature than men, and there are a million pages on social media dedicated to women bettering themselves while there are barely any for men. Overall, anything related to self improvement and reflection is dominated by women. Socially and culturally speaking most parents hold their daughter more accountable than their sons. That’s why a 15 year old boy can be out galavanting late with his friends but a 20 year old woman has a strict curfew.

At some point you have to realize (as a woman) that you automatically deserve more from life and the partner that you choose because it is your birth right (imo).

Just because the majority of men are not decent humans, doesn’t mean you have to settle.

And just because you’re constantly being groomed by society to improve as a woman doesn’t mean that something is wrong with you or that you’re not good enough every time a man doesn’t know how to act right.

Lift your head high and accept the power that you hold. Stop questioning yourself every two seconds and accept that men can often do wrong. Be confident.

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haruharuz · 2 years

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Subtle ways to change how people view you:

Lean in slightly to appear more interested in the conversation

Speak slower and softer if you wish to seem like a dream / at peace

Keep your bag organized, when you reach to grab things out of it you’ll seem more put together if there’s little to no struggle to find things

Using a fragrance oil on your wrist and under your ears will seem more Sophisticated than spraying yourself with perfume

Read poetry, keep a select few favorites in your mind. When people ask what you enjoy, say poetry and provide an example. You’ll appear more emotionally intelligent

If you’re going to fake smile, move the muscles under your eyes so that your cheeks raises enough to halfway squint. It seems more genuine that way.

Walk with your head up everywhere. And I mean everywhere.

Stop messing with your little imperfections only you notice. There’s no need to straighten your shirt, rub your hand down your pants etc. Leave it be and you will appear more confident.

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swabian-princess · 1 year

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Why patience is key

Hey girlies,

I think we all know this situation: we write down our goals and how we’re gonna achieve them.

We start working out, do our skincare religiously for a week, eat clean…but after two weeks that feel like years we don’t see much progress.

We don’t have ABs, our skin is not crystal clear and cooking three meals a day annoys us.

We get mad because we did everything we could but can’t really see a difference.

Well, I have bad news for us all. It’s not possible to change your life in a few weeks.

We have to be patient, no matter how hard it is.

We can’t expect our body to completly transform in a few weeks after we neglected it for the last years.

We can’t expect our skin to clear up in a week after we did nothing for the last few months.

It is painful, I know. It’s a bitter pill to swallow, I know. But we have to stay strong and patient.

Results will come with time, remember that.

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brownsugar-dreams · 2 months

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How are you investing 🍬 or extra money? I started trying to learn about stock investments during the panorama. I lost just under $5k playing around with crypto 😭 but I learned (and still learning) a lot about financial management. I recently moved $10k from my HY savings account to a CD. I was dating a finance guy and he told me to open up a CD because it’s a higher interest rate and he matched my initial deposit 🥰 There’s so much to learn but it’s much better than letting money sit & collect dust! I’ve been wanting to hop on live & share my experiences with sugar investments 🤔

#sugar lifestyle #sugar blog #levelup #money mindset #finance #extra money #sugar bowl #sugar baby tips #sugar dating #heaux tips #hypergamy #black women in luxury #dating #levelingup #sugar life #investing

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teauchiha · 3 months

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Idk how to say this nicely, but ladies, do not have a significantly uglier best friend (woman). This will inevitably lead to jealousy and resentment. The ugly(er) friend will certainly use any opportunity possible to compete with you in only the categories they excel over you and take every chance to lower the effect of your grace.

You would think female friendships, especially BEST FRIENDS, would uplift each other any opportunity possible. Nope. Absolutely not in this bff combo. Social class, wealth status, degrees, the car you drive, boyfriends/husbands, purses, makeup skill, etc etc might be considered contention points. Being prettier than said other person is in comprehensively more important and contentious than any of these.

Be wary but better yet REFUSE being best friends with a significantly uglier girl. She will take every chance possible to artificially inflate her worth and put you down, especially in front of others, especially in front of men. Don’t think she isn’t using every opportunity to gossip and spread rumors behind your back to make people believe you’re ugly on the inside because she cannot stand how pretty you are on the outside. Don’t get me started on how she will literally copy/emulate all the uniqueness you have about yourself to make the things that make you you less authentic, use your light and attention from others to benefit herself, try to steal your men and friends, and downplay your intelligence. If she can’t convince others you are not beautiful (because everyone knows you are), she will make it her life mission to make others believe that’s ALL you are- JUST a pretty face.

Please beware.

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honeyknome · 28 days

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Odette & Odille

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cochellacoco · 1 year

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After constantly feeling the urge to bark back at negativity, being loud in order to be heard, having a bad attitude to get the attention I was lacking, always having to have the last irrelevant words to feel complete, & people pleasing my way into a hole of despair: I am done. I am done stressing about anything, why should I when I can just let it all go, move on & do the things that make me content & allow me to rest in my soft femininity🧘🏽‍♀️

I want to remind you that having the last words aren’t worth your time, being loud to be seen isn’t worth your softness, having a bad attitude isn’t worth your image, & people pleasing isn’t worth your dignity. 🧚🏽‍♀️

#traditional femininity #soft feminine #soft black women #soft life #soft moodboard #levelling up #pretty privilege #hypergamous #hypergamy #femininity #black femininity #level up #pretty #heaux tips #spoiled heaux #luxury heaux #high value woman

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highclassheaux · 1 year

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Safety & Protection Tips For Heauxs:

Always trust your gut.

Screen hard and heavy.

Do not accept dates, arrangements, etc when you're desperate.

Have a plan in place in the event that something does happen to you (test this plan out - i.e. making sure that the emails, texts, etc get sent and work correctly)

Use A VPN and offshore hosting.

Have a security system with a camera and have some kind of app or device (like alexa) that can be voice activated (i.e. if you scream help it calls the police, blasts and alarm, alerts someone, etc.)

Never use your primary phone (have a heaux phone)

Never post pics that you have already posted on your personal social medias (pro tip: delete your personal social medias or at least lock them, set them to private).

Make sure someone knows where you are or where you're going.

If you choose to have a weapon (be it a gun, mace, taser,etc) get proper training and never stop training. (1-2 classes don't count, you now own a weapon that can be used to seriously hurt [if not kill] someone including you. never stop training).

But most importantly: LEARN SELF DEFENSE. There are specific classes for women that will teach you how to defend yourself against a physical assault from a man. Take these classes and keep taking them. Don't stop at just 3 classes. You want muscle memory. If you ever find yourself in a situation you don't want to have to rely on your brain to remember what you learned in that weekend class. You want your muscles to automatically know what to do without you having to think about it. Take the classes and never stop taking them.

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hypergamiss · 6 months

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Reason #2 why I love men. When you come across a man who was raised really well. They just get it. They open your door, they cover the tab, they send you a car/driver, they send flowers, they are self-aware, they make sure your taken care of, they make you feel safe, etc.

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haruharuz · 2 years

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If you want to be her you need to start acting like her.

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swabian-princess · 1 year

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I refuse to complain.

I have no right to complain, not about my appearance nor about my health.

I have all the tools and knowledge to transform myself into the best possible version and until I tried everything, I simply refuse to complain about anything.

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ms-chameleon · 9 months

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Selfcare is a privilege. Never forget that.

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brownsugar-dreams · 1 year

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This Is Your Sign

A quick note to the ladies who are on their level up, metamorphic hypergamous journey: Please trust yourself. If things aren’t moving as quick as you thought, don’t regress. I promise going back to that broke low vibe little boy is not better than being alone. Please date multiple men and don’t limit yourself.

You cannot convince a man who isn’t capable of providing why you deserve to be provided for. It’s not you, it’s him. Let that frustration go. You’ll feel so much lighter. Walk away from that cycle, and you’ll be amazed at how prosperity gravitates towards you. Wealth, health, and happiness can’t reach you when you’re intertwined with energy that repels the things you want to attract. Friends with benefits is a joke, invest in a vibrator. Every time you go back, you shift the energy away from your break through. Cut off all contact & move forward gracefully. I didn’t find success in sugar dating/hypergamy until I was about 1.5 years free of my ex. And now I’ll be graduating med school almost (if not fully) debt free with contacts I met through networking while dating. I’ve traveled to places I never dreamed of visiting and learned things that people pay money and spend years trying to learn. Date lawyers, finance/tech guys, business moguls. You’ll learn so much about money & how to invest. Don’t block your blessings, you’re so so close ✨

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teauchiha · 3 months

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Confidence is the sexiest thing about a woman. I’m fat as fuck ladies. When I say fat I mean 240lbs fat. 100lbs heavier than I’m been my entire adult and teen life. Yet what about me still has men approaching me in public, randomly, and online? My confidence. My strong smile. My sultry eyes. My posture and my poise. My classy wardrobe. My smooth voice. All things you can practice, perfect, and apply. If you think you’re the ugly duckling then it’s time to prune your feathers. Get it fucking together ladies.

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honeyknome · 23 days

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cochellacoco · 1 year

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#soft feminine #hypergamy #hypergamous #hyper feminine #level up #high maintenance #sugar heaux #high value woman #spoiled heaux #luxury heaux #heaux tips #high society heaux #hypergamous heaux

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