Oh I’m sorry to hear that! I’m also autistic, so I’m going to write through personal experience if that’s ok? If not just tell how you’d like it done, since the experience is unique for each person.
She’s confused as to why you don’t want to go to her concerts or whenever she wants to go out to the mall or something you change your mind
When you tell her…she’s not the best. “Just don’t think about it!” “You trust me right? Then let’s go!” Or “Just put on a fake smile and you’ll be having fun soon!” Are what she usually will say, you have to remind her that’s not how it works
She’ll apologize and get you a gift to show she’s sorry. She really struggles with this, she CRAVES attention and to think it would actually bother someone is so odd to her
She’s not the best at it, but if someone else makes you uncomfortable or disrespects you? She’ll beat them within an inch of their undead lives
He doesn’t think anything of it until you noticed how much you struggle with talking to people you don’t know. Where you always like this? Was he that oblivious??
He feels bad for not noticing sooner. He does most of the talking in public to help you, but if you ever want to lead he’ll let you, he just gently reminds you don’t have to push yourself and that he’s there to help
He privately ask you about it to get to understand what bothers you, he’d hate to upset you without knowing
She ask what bothers you right away. She apologizes for anything she may have done in the past to upset you, she wishes she knew sooner
She’s cautious around you. She keeps people who bother you a good distance away, fuck em, you deserve to feel comfortable
If some insults you? They’ll have a hard time repeating what they said when she rips their tongue out. She doesn’t tolerate that shit.
She’s never dealt with it before and is shocked when you tell her what it is. It’s not like being shy? Loud sounds bother you??
She lowers her voice and tells you to just say if she’s being too loud. She doesn’t mean to yell a lot she just gets excited. She tries to stay more calm around you, but you assure her since you’re used to her it doesn’t bother you
She doesn’t go out partying to the usually spots with you anymore. You notice it’s more calm, there’s still a lot to do but you don’t feel pressured as much.
Their indifferent. It’s not that they doesn’t care but them expects you to tell them whenever you’re uncomfortable or something is wrong. They loves you just be honest with them and they’ll help you
You’re safe with them, just know that. Can’t handle the crowd of people? Then we’ll do something else. Don’t like the blaring music? We can sit in the far back, we’ll still hear it but there won’t be a pounding headache afterwards.
They do most of the shopping for you two, they’ll go with you whoever you want. They always say how proud they are of you for handling situations so well
She has no patience for anyone who tries to intentionally harass you. They are dead. End of story.
She does everything she can to make sure you’re comfortable in any given situation. Don’t feel comfortable saying it? Tug on her arm and she knows it’s fine to leave.
She is very protective of you. No one messes with you.
She loves listening to you’re special interest, even if it’s not something she’s interested in. But just how happy you get is adorable.
So…you aren’t crazy about crowds? She gets that, they can be annoying, not to mention ig sucks if you got to go somewhere and no one wants to move
She puts an effort in to try and understand you but fails often. She wants to make you happy and knows the best way to do that is to understand you better.
She’ll watch whatever shows/movies you watch, she struggles to fallow along but she ask you whenever she’s confused. It’s kinda funny, you look surprised and she turns to you and then the t. v. And ask “Should I know that character?” Directly to the main character often.
He ask about it a lot. No one has ever bothered explaining it to him. He’s confused when you say it’s different person to person, if that’s the case, how is it the same thing?
He tries to find things you’ll like that don’t bother him so you two can watch it together when you’re upset. He also tries to have comfort food ready after really stressful days, he feels bad that there’s not much he can do
Just ask him for something and he’ll gladly help! You help him all the tine do it’s the least he can do, he tells you all the time not to worry about telling him if you don’t want to go somewhere, it’s ok to just chill from time to time