Okay, I dunno if anyone follows me that maybe might be in a similar situation. Or just knowledgeable, and willing to give me advice. If you don’t want to comment here, I understand. If you will be respectful, you can dm me.
Teeny tiny backstory (but not the whole story).
I am a newish “Hotwife” (stag/vixen subcategory). I would *not* say that either o e of us is *vanilla*. We have different kinks. The short of it: I have always been submissive. He knows. He is not interested. I dunno how to properly explain to him (I suck at getting my point across using my mouth, with words anyway 😏). Anywho, I’m feeling a lil riff with us. And having trouble with him being home. All. The. Time.
I can understand now what my grandma meant when she talked about how different life was after Grandpa retired, 😳😅😂😬. But at least at that point, there weren’t small children running around 🤪.
Anywho, my question:
Do you think it would be helpful, even tho he is not a or my Dom, for me to just respond through words and actions like he is? Not necessarily saying, yes Sir. As he wouldn’t care for that. But just putting myself in the mindset to jump to and do what he needs with a smile and do it for him because that’ll make him happy. Even though, the return fore won’t be the se as if it were a D/s relationship. I’m just thinking maybe that’ll help change my thought process and make us both happier. But, just thought I’d throw it out there and ask, cuz I don’t want it to have the reverse effect on me, cuz I’m already having a rough time lately.
And of course, this isn’t the whole story and not even both sides of it. Anywho…if you are willing to just give a little perspective for me, I would greatly appreciate the conversation to ponder on.
Thank you, Sierra