#her thoughts

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‘‘Why are women so much more interesting to men than men are to women?’’

-Virginia Woolf

#quotes #feelings #emotions #virgina woolf #wise words #thoughtful #her thoughts #facts #interesting facts #men women #dumblr

[travelersrest]

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#her thoughts #kind hearted #vigorously humane #whole heartedly #soul on fire #fight for him #lion hearts #a gentle reminder #genuinely #a gentleman

[lilmcttens]

"I should not be awake. You should not be awake go to sleep dumb-dumb."

"Sleep or Suffer Pick one."

#(ic) #amity #mittens #her thoughts #*crack! #night owl #nightmares #pleague

[dinojynx]

I can't with my stupid fucking girlfriend. She just tells me her stupid fucking thoughts and sends me her stupid fucking face. She also likes all my reblogs in a minute like the fucking freak she is.

#i love her #stupid is used affectionately #shes everything to me #i love her tho #her thoughts #her face #shes pretty #i cannot emphasize how much i adore her #aggressive affection

[literaturelara]

It’s strange, isn’t it? How your heart burns and burns and suddenly turns into ice.

—The trauma of heart 

#trauma #her thoughts #poetry #poems and poetry #Dark Quotes #dark poetry #life quotes #Sad Quotes #deep quotes #love #i hate you i love you #it burns #burned #tears for fears #the trauma #of #the heart #broken #unbroken #Writers and Poets

[bxdbxdboy]

“Everything seems cool, but in case I get swooped up by a crazy ass. Here’s the first name. Here’s the last name. Here’s the Instagram, tiktok, tumblr, club penguin, animal crossing. All of it!” 

“If anything happens to me. SEND EVRY’BODY!” 

#ic #🎳B-Boy #her thoughts #announcement from b-boy

[veiledpoet]

May be I'm still here, but slowly taking paces away from what I endured for a long time. May be I no longer hope for things to change, nor wish that things would change, but may be, I just got used to waiting, and enduring that I can't walk away faster even when my steps aren't heavy at all.

It's surprising how I am trying to grasp for the pain, and each chance I could shed a tear for what has gone by is grabbed, wishing I could cry longer just like before, but I just can't. May be I got used to hurting, and may be, feeling the pain had become part of the flipped pages, but perhaps it's true. I'm still unlearning to love what yesterday had made me become. I can't get used to the numbness in the heart, for the decreasing throbs of pain that used to kill me thousands of tears and misery ago.

With the passing of every night, in each setting of the sun, I feel how passing moments are. What made you alive on some pages may make you miserable on the following flips, and then you'd come here, at the unclear part where things are no longer predictable, you'd slowly lose everything—living like nothing happened—or may be unlearning to live a life that has gotten used to. Here at the part where you try to hold on to what's left; memories which frustratingly no longer hurts.

May be this is how healing looks like;

a rollercoaster of emotions of once upon a time you thought was a fairytale, but was never actually a nightmare—it was real. You fell in love to unreachable dreams, but dreaming about it was already a dream come true.

Till the empty pages get filled with what the heart still whispers.

Veiled Poet // numb from memories

#numb #love #memories #astro #her thoughts #hurtful #gone too soon

[her-wanderingthoughts]

"I want to be a mystery, yet be known" I want to be together, yet alone Is it too much to ask to be famous, yet unknown? To be a wanderer, yet have a home?

Kara Douglas

#her thoughts #feelings #aesthetics #quotes #english literature #literature #book quotes #poems and quotes #dead poets society #darkaccademiastuff #darkaccademia #Kara Douglas #soul #love letters #birds #books #books and coffee #birdcage #poetrycommunity

[mellowsmuses]

“Oh that little show of display twernt me Ma’am, bu-I’ll take credit for planting one on the rich girl.”

#ic #test muse; toh viney #toh canon divergent #[dash comm] #owliish #skara #viney #her thoughts

[moncuries]

guess what i watched on new years (a redraw kind of)

#hee hee #it was cute #(disclaimer i do not subscribe to d+ so my dollar was not going there iykyk) #pjo #percy jackson #grover underwood #annabeth chase #my art #fanart #hoo #i had to take silly pics of myself 2 get percys arm hand thing right #and then just cropped it bc yea #i almost gave annabeth the hair i did in the last one but i thought #why do i feel compelled to change her hair to fit the old image i had from the books and not the others #and i drew her actual hair from the show #and it looks sm better

[travelersrest]

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#his touch #you are safe here #her tears were my light #her thoughts #soul lessons #home of love

[lilmcttens]

"Okay, Amity if you leave and take a shower... Can You trust your two twin siblings not to kill each other whilst I am not supervising? That is the Big Question."

#(ic) #amity #mittens #*crack! #the twins #emira and edric #her thoughts #*fresh and cleeaan* #amity vc: those two are Always fighting!

[qiinamii]

we'll do fine.

#fionna and cake spoilers #what hits me a little is how similar fionna and simon's stories are in the case of finding nuance in their lives #when both have gone through their separate but still valid pain no matter the extent it had been #and its that they met each other they get to see how it compares and they're no less worth of the peace and fun they dreamed of #even in the form of simplicity and just being normal #“i wouldn't have met THE fionna and cake” “we wouldn't have met THE simon petrikov” #it hits me harder that after the dandelion scene would've been their last time seeing each other physically #and how assuring simon sounded when fionna didn't know what to do with the literal world in her hands #tho im sure prismo isnt that much of a rule jerk lol i still drew out the revelation anyway with this tiniest addition #also the fact fionna's world is influenced by simon's thought processes and conditions so now things are a little better for both of them #fionna the human #fionna campbell #simon petrikov #qiiarts #the lil flashback of #betty grof #fionna and cake #adventure time

[fandomsandfeminism]

Yall wanna hear a kinda funny, kinda sad story about my grandmother and hetero-normativity?

Ok, so... when my grandmother was in her 50s (I was an infant), she met a woman at the Unitarian Church. And, as can happen when you meet your soul mate, this event made it impossible for her to deny parts of herself that she had fiercely hidden her whole life.

All the drama- their affair being found out, the divorce with my grandfather, the court battle over who got the house, happened while I was a baby. Even in my earliest memories, it's just Mama Jo and Oma, and my grandfather lived elsewhere (first his own apartment, then a nursing home, then with us.)

But here's the thing- no one ever explained any of this to me. No one ever sat down and was like "hey, Rosie, so do you know what a lesbian is?" It was the 90s. It was Texas. I think my mom was still kinda processing all this, and just assumed that like... I was gonna figure it out. Don't mention it, let it just be normal. Like I think my mom thought that if she explained the situation, she would be making it weird? I dunno.

But like. In the 90s, in all the movies I had seen and books I had read, do you know how many same sex couples I had seen? Like. 0. Do you know how many "platonic best friend/roommates" I had seen? A lot. I had no context, is what I'm saying.

I literally thought this was a Golden Girls, roommates, besties situation until I was like...I dunno, 11? 12?

It was actually their parrot, an African Grey named Spike, imitating my grandmothers voice saying "Johanna, honey, it's getting late", that triggered the MIND BLOWN moment as I realized that *there's only one master bedroom and it only has 1 waterbed* when all the pieces finally clicked.

Anyway. I think it's a real important thing for kids to know queer people exist, for a lot of reasons, but also because kids can be clueless and it's embarrassing to have your grandmother be outted by a parrot because everyone just thought you'd figure it out on your own.

Anyway, here is my grandma and her wife, my Oma, after they moved to Albuquerque to be artsy gay cowboys and live their best life. They helped run a "Lesbian Dude Ranch" out there (basically just with funding and financial support. As Oma has explained "traditionally, most lesbians don't have a lot of money" so they wrote the checks and let the younger ladies actually run the ranch.)

#this is the grandmother who passed away unexpectedly earlier this month #she was so cool yall #and so weird #they got married twice by the way once when Massachusetts legalized it and once when New Mexico did #they hiked the grand canyon together #they had a european river cruise planned for this fall #she was 89 and she wanted to see the whole world with her wife #and they were working on it #literally i thought they were roommates #and there was only one bed

[bixels]

There's no such thing as overpreparing for love.

Happy (late) Rarijack Valentine's.

#mlp #rarity #applejack #rarijack #my art #fanart #comic #the grand galloping 20s #bonbon #rose #my little pony #aj is 100% the type to overthink/overdo things especially for people she cares about #panics because she starts second guessing her valentines plans for rarity so she buys out the entire flower boutique cuz she can't remember #her favorite flower. “ten boxes of chocolates is better than one right???” meanwhile rarity gives extremely thoughtful handmade gifts

[nymph1e]

On Discomfort and Morality

My father finds gay men uncomfortable.

He's told me before that it's like a knee-jerk for him. Something he doesn't consciously control. He sees two men behaving romantically, and his body reacts with mild discomfort.

In the 1960s, when he was in high school, most of the boys in his form thought he was gay on the simple fact that he wasn't homophobic. He wouldn't participate in insulting queer people, he didn't care if someone was gay, he wouldn't have a problem hanging out with gay people. So people thought he was gay. That's how prevalent homophobia was in his formative years.

When I was 10, my dad told me very seriously that Holmes and Watson were gay. That it was obvious from the literature and the time period that they were meant to be a gay couple. When I was 14 and I came out to my parents as bi, when my mum was upset my dad ripped into her for it. Told her that she was being stupid, that it was my life to live how I wanted to and that she needed to get over herself.

My dad formed my views on censorship: that being that it was completely ridiculous and thoroughly evil. He didn't believe in censorship of any kind. If I asked him a question about sex, he answered it honestly. When I was 12 and I asked him about homosexuality, still young and uncertain, he told me that there was nothing wrong with it. That it was just how some people were. That there was likely an evolutionary reason for it. And that for some people it was uncomfortable on an instinctual level.

He taught me that just because you're uncomfortable with something, doesn't make it wrong. He also taught me that most people don't understand this.

I see a lot of this on the internet as of the last few years. The anti shipping movement, the terf movement, the anti ace movement. It all stems from discomfort that people have crossed wires into believing means wrong. Really every -ism and -phobia out there stems from this same fundamental aspect of humanity.

The next time you see something and you automatically think it's disgusting, or wrong, or immoral, I invite you to ask yourself: is this actually wrong or does this just make me uncomfortable?

#shipping discourse #anti censorship #anti terf #my mum isn't homophobic #she was upset because she thought it meant i couldnt have children or a family #and this is something important to her #she was also not upset around me but to my dad in private